If it were you, how would you choose?

If it were for me, I wouldn't want both.

But if I had to choose one of them, I'd rather choose the first one. From the situation you described, it seems that the first man has a simple personality, is generous and decent, takes care of his family, has opinions, respects the old and loves the young, and gets along with your family, which can bring you happiness.

The second man, he is a stylish man, talented, with his own ambitions, but too realistic and only wants to get what he wants. He is a very good businessman. In the shopping mall, he was able to succeed; But in terms of feelings, he lost.

Why? Because, he brought some of his experiences, methods, and feelings in the mall to the emotional aspect. In other words:

He just gives and must be rewarded. But feelings only want to be reciprocated, is that real feelings?

But why did you start by saying that you didn't choose either? That's because, the second man is unreliable. And the first man, it would have been ideal, but you said it all, you have no feelings for him anymore. So, if you don't love him and the two are together, will you be happy?

However, I believe that the relationship between you can be cultivated slowly. So, give yourself a little time and think about whether or not you want to be with your first man.

Heartfelt wishes you find your luck!! ~

If I were you, I would not hesitate to choose the first person, because he is worthy of your love, and he can do whatever it takes for you. He still loves you, cherish it, don't let happiness pass you quietly. Choose someone who knows how to love you more, and you have a certain emotional foundation, and he is still a considerate man.

If you choose the second one, you may not be happy, because from your words, I found that he is a man who only thinks about himself, and his feelings are not as mature as yours, and the happiness between you may be temporary, and it must not stand any tests. Remember: love is a test.

If it's okay, wait, and see if you meet the first one better than these two. If you can't wait for me to do it first, it's better to have the first one, even if there is only family affection now, but it can still be cultivated, and the second one must not be chosen. A person who refuses to spend money for you does not mean that he really loves you, and a person who refuses to spend money for you means that he must not love you, in your heart you are not as important as money, you can imagine what the future will be like.

Think about it, it's related to the happiness of your life, think about it before making a decision.

For two people, I personally think that the first boy will be better for you, and there will be more feelings between you, of course, in the end, you have to decide for yourself, practice will bring out the truth, when you stand in more angles to see the problem will have different findings.

Don't hesitate, choose the first one, it doesn't matter if you don't feel love, because all love will feel faint when it comes to a certain time, the important thing is that he cares about you in his heart, and his family likes it, and you don't hate it for many years, it's good.

If this happened to me, I would choose the first boy, because every couple is love when they get married, and after marriage, they become more affectionate, so your college classmates have been together for six years, and they know each other better, and it will be very good to you today after six years, don't miss it.

Why do people live? A person's life is only a few decades, and when you are very old, do you regret that your life was very unhappy? After death, there is a very vulgar saying:

The next 2 generations of you don't know who you are. "When a person dies, all the things and people around you can no longer accompany you, you have nothing left, you can't do anything. That's a terrible thing.

Hehe, it's not that I'm negative, things like life and death are inevitable. It is important for us to grasp these decades, to find happiness for ourselves every day, and to make our whole life happy, what do you say?

It doesn't matter who you love or who you don't, who really loves you and who doesn't really love you, what matters is your own feelings. With them, who can give you happiness? Which person brings you pain and trouble, you have to know better than me, hehe, think about it, you can't choose both, choose someone who makes you happier, let him love you well, and live happily and happily with him for a lifetime.

More important than anything else, I am also a married woman, I think when you encounter unhappy things in work and life, you can't solve it, there is a person who loves you very much and encourages you silently, nothing matters anymore.

Hehe, in fact, when love reaches the point of love very much, it will really become a feeling of family affection, but is it important? It doesn't mean that he doesn't love you, but that he cares about you too much, which proves that your love is maturing, although family-like love is plain, but it is always the warmest and most lasting. It is incomparable to that kind of vigorous love.

Hehe, I hope you can be happy, give up the unhappy, cherish the person who really loves you well, and live happily with him for a lifetime! Don't let the most precious happiness slip away when you make a long decision.

In fact, no one is perfect. However, when it comes to talking about marriage, there are many things that you can't ignore and pay attention to. However, some small flaws in his personality can be understood through your communication and corrected.

Let's think about it more comprehensively. But after getting married, it's mainly a matter of getting along, so it's more inclined to recommend the kind of man you have your first boyfriend.

Go love the first one!

It can be seen from your mouth that you are inclined to the first.

There may be some things that make you reluctant to give up the second one, and these things are things that you don't want to say, right?

Marriage is for life. Believe me, choosing the second one is tantamount to taking a detour. If you can directly reach the other side of happiness, why do you still have a circle?

Don't think about it, my first reaction is that you should choose the first boy, you and the second boy are now in love, but after that, isn't it like hot boiled water after a long time and turns cold boiled water? But character is not so easy to change because of you. And the first guy is like a thermos to you and your family.

Choose the first one, even if you and the first one have become a family relationship, but the relationship can still be cultivated, judging from your words, you still like your first one! I think it's better for you to choose the first one...

If it were me, I would choose the first one, although love has become family affection after being together for a long time, but in comparison, I will choose the first one.

I'm in the same situation as you. But my two boyfriends are just the opposite of yours, and now I choose the latter to live a very happy life, although sometimes I think of him and know that he loves him the most, but you have to choose the kind of solid one in life, so I think you should also choose the first one.

Whoever you love, you choose.

Love Him, and you will tolerate everything about Him.

What's more, if you think about it from a different angle, you can save a lot of money for your family after being stingy.

When he spends lavishly, and you can't pay for it in order to save money, you may be worried about whether the money will be enough for him to spend after getting married in the future.

So sometimes being stingy is also an advantage.

From every angle, I was moved by six years. 7 months, you have a good feeling, it feels like a very incomprehensible thing, come with the wind and go with the wind, when you have feelings, he is not willing to pay for you, then if you don't feel it one day, what will happen to him, you really have to think clearly, marriage is a lifetime, a lifetime of feeling to maintain is not too fragile, too unreliable, you think about six years, who can pay for you is six years, will you pay for a person for six years. This is true love, and affection is followed by affection.

It is a thing that is many times heavier than a feeling. Do you understand?

The first, of course.

You don't have to think about it to know that if you want to find a good husband, then choose the first one.

The first affection is just your own feelings

He was afraid of hurting you, so he took care of you

How can you see love as affection

It's you who don't understand him

He is your happiness

Think about it. He is something that took you 6 years to understand, and another 7 months. It's only 7 months to make you so disgusted, but after a long time, can you get along well?

I'm in such a situation now, I'm also very confused, the first boyfriend who has been with me for 5 years said that I want to get married next year, but I really don't have any feelings with him, and there is only family affection, and the second one has known each other for a year, and I know that it must be the first good, but I feel that I won't have that feeling with him anymore, there will be no more love, and can you tell me about your QQ, I want to know your final decision.

I don't have any choice right now. The number is big, and the old is old. Just square dance and you're in good health.

Don't bully me just because I'm Zhu Xiaohan's sister! The daily life of a funny family, the battle of wits between a beautiful girl and a temperamental mother.

Draw lots, you know, get married as soon as possible. Don't wait until 36 to get married, like I do.

I think it's the first one.