Long distance relationship, he told me what he was doing, if it was you, what would you think?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then it's up to you, you believe his words, these words mean to tell you that even if you know in the future, don't misunderstand, if you don't believe his words, to put it bluntly, it's to cover your ears and steal the bell. If you really care, just tell him, you mind, his husband is in Shanghai, what is he busy with, he cares about you and you won't help anymore. Of course, if your husband is a warm-hearted person, he may secretly help!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think it's better to get involved, even if it's not your friend, you have no obligation to help him. Let the other person do it themselves.

    The relationship is too complicated, so let's live a simple and easy life. Now there are more thankless things, and if the two of them have any good feelings or something, the development is even more uncertain.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He didn't want you to misunderstand, so he told you first. If you give him enough trust at this time, he will remember your trust.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't think too much, it's yourself who is uncomfortable, he told you everything, I personally thought it was nothing, and the woman still has a boyfriend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Tell you in advance, I don't want you to be angry by mistake.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's normal. If he doesn't think it's necessary, he won't tell you at all.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's good to tell you in advance and don't think too much about it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Trust you and don't want you to be misunderstood.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is the rhythm of confessing leniency and resisting strictness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, there are no three hundred taels of silver here.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm afraid that you won't be able to explain it in the future, so I'll tell you in advance.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Looks like a stolen bell!! There is no silver here!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You should refuse directly, if you go to the other party's city by yourself at this time, you will definitely make yourself suffer, and the last two people may not be able to get married, so don't do it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think you should think about it, if you go to work in the other city, there is a good chance that you will be separated from your parents, so you should think about it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You should consider your actual situation and the stability of the relationship before making a decision.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I want to say something, but I suddenly want to say something. Well, I can understand your sadness, unhappiness, I know that children are very insecure, for this is indeed my problem, I should not lie to children and me in a long-distance relationship, I am really sorry, maybe we can accept it to a different degree, so I will not be as uncomfortable as you. Maybe I'm older than you, and I can understand the thing of being in a different place better, for me, being in a different place is not a problem, not loving is it.

    Maybe my words will be a little disorganized, I just say whatever comes to mind, okay.

    You say, you can't give me anything, but I don't need you to give me anything, you are the best gift God has given me, it is a child that I have always loved all the time, and I will also want to see you all the time, but many times, many things, are not something we can control, we have to go with the flow and take it slowly. In fact, in the days when we can't see me, we all have more time to do what we have to do, such as studying, such as training, enriching ourselves, and becoming better people.

    It's actually funny, I mean I'm a little funny, I'm so old and so naïve, I want to go on forever together, forgive me for being so selfish and don't want to miss you. Actually, I'm not gentle at all, I'm grumpy, I don't talk when I'm sad and angry, I'm impatient with people, but I've never lost my temper with you once, I leave all my gentleness and patience to you.

    I've seen too many long-distance relationships, and I also know that long-distance relationships are very hard and sad, I don't say too far, there is an example around me, high school together, now college, one in Chongzuo, one in Guilin, four or five hundred kilometers, they are more difficult to meet than us, they are together this year, if I remember correctly, it should be the fifth year, they will be like us, really sad. When I thought about it, I couldn't see it, I couldn't hold it, I was aggrieved and broke my teeth and swallowed it in my stomach, patted my stomach and fell asleep, and the next day I was fine, because I knew that the other party was someone who wanted to go further into the future.

    Many times I will envy the couples on campus who are tired of being together all day long, and the sentence goes like this: "They are happy, they are rarely lonely, but they rarely miss long".

    You like anime, maybe, because we rarely talk about it, isn't it, Jiraiya used to say to Naruto, "The one who misses you is your home" Of course, I brushed this sentence, and what I want to express is that I want you to be my home.

    I have received a notice of postponement of the start of school, baby, the epidemic closure is not something we can control, time flies quickly, it doesn't matter if you don't see the day, save enough thoughts, will sweetly fill my way back, according to the wind blowing me, until the moment I see you. When we meet, I will bring a sweet wind and give you the warmest hug. So, my little friend, don't give up on me, I'm willing to wait for you to grow up, and I'm willing to spend time with you growing up, don't think cranky, love you or not, you can confirm to me over and over again.

    My dear baby, a long-distance relationship is a test, and only after experiencing it can we understand the value of love, we just.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I feel that if two people work in two cities after graduation, it is very hard to fall in love, and most long-distance relationships are broken up, so you have to think clearly about whether you want to continue? Can you give up your job for the other person and go to work in his city?

    This is actually not a problem, whether to continue to go on, it is related to your attitude towards this relationship, if you really give your feelings, how can you be willing to let go easily, the relationship between two people is deep enough, and the distance is really not a problem.

    How to keep the relationship fresh in a long-distance relationship.

    Everyone's fear of long-distance relationships is nothing more than that they can't see each other often because of distance, and they are afraid that the relationship will become weaker and weaker. I think that as long as both parties keep their relationship fresh enough, the two of them will definitely go on until they get married and have children.

    So how do you do that? Two people can plan for the future, such as setting a goal, both parties promise to meet every once in a while, no matter how busy they are, they will get married in a few years after their jobs are stable, and they often look forward to their married life when chatting, and the two of them work together for this goal.

    Trust each other and don't be suspicious.

    When there is a long-distance relationship, I often think crankily because the other party did not pick up my ** in time and reply to my own messages. Especially girls, who are more delicate and think more. Simple type should give enough trust to the other party, trust is also the basis of feelings, and always believe that the hearts of both parties are together.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You can have a good talk with him, and see if you two are willing to go to each other's cities. Or the person who greets the land is to a place where both parties are willing to go, and if the discussion fails, they can only break up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I wouldn't accept a long-distance relationship because there is a lot of uncertainty in long-distance relationships. Even if they trust each other, who can be sure that the relationship between the two parties can withstand the test of time and distance? I believe that feelings come from getting along, being in a different place, you can't see when you want to meet, you can only convey your feelings by sending a message for thousands of miles, after a long time, can you still firmly believe in this feeling?

    Every time you miss each other, that concerned heart can't be comforted, then the feeling of missing next time will fade. Gradually, the feeling for each other faded. Also, when you see that others are in and out of pairs, flowers before and under the moon, and when you are sad, that person immediately appears by your side to comfort you, and then think about yourself, your heart will ache faintly.

    Ask yourself: Can you stand the pain of a long-distance relationship? Can you trust that person as always?

    When he doesn't reply to your text messages or answer ** in a bad tone, don't you think and guess? This kind of love, without the sweetness of ordinary love, aren't you just torturing yourself? Therefore, in a long-distance relationship, it is better not to try it easily.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    See what's going on.

    First, blind date, two people are two places at the beginning, and they will not go to the same city to accommodate, so forget it. Even if it is a flash marriage, it is rare to have a good result.

    Second, it was originally a couple, but due to job transfers, it became a long-distance relationship, yes! How long you can last depends on how much you love. It's better to get married and get together.

    Getting married, or becoming a boyfriend and girlfriend, the purpose is companionship, and a long-distance relationship is just a workout, not the desired result.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I accept,Boyfriend and girlfriend don't have to get tired of being together every day.,It's easy to have contradictions.,Long-distance relationship is also a test.,If you can stand it, you can get married.,And a little don't win a newlywed.,Personal reasoning summary,I'm currently single.,It's just reasoning in practice, I don't know.。。。

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, long-distance relationships are normal, but each other must trust each other, love can last for a long time, I wish you happiness.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Summary. Good afternoon, if two people are in a long-distance relationship, then to end the long-distance relationship, one party must make concessions to accommodate the other party and go to the other party's city to work and live.

    Long-distance relationship, how do you live with him.

    Good afternoon, if two people are in a long-distance relationship, then to end the long-distance relationship, one party must make concessions to accommodate the other party and go to the other party's city to work and live.

    If you are a career probationary unit or a civil servant, then it is very difficult to step in, transfer across provinces and cities, basically you have to resign in order to accommodate the other party, and you have to consider whether he is worth it when you do it.

    If it's just an ordinary job, then you can find a job in **, and you don't have to be too entangled.

    She deserves it.

    Then I wish you happiness, anywhere, as long as you are with the person you love, what problems can not be overcome, you are still so young, and you don't have to worry about the problem of work<>

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Please take a closer look: although two people in a long-distance relationship can't see each other often, they still can't save when they need to meet, and if your long-distance boyfriend doesn't let you go to him, this kind of man's relationship with you is likely to have problems. Because only a long-distance man has changed his mind, he will not let you go to him.

    Let's take a look at the manifestations of a long-distance relationship man's change of heart.

    If a long-distance man doesn't love you and changes his mind, the woman should be able to detect it. Even if he is not by your side, you can still feel the change in his emotions towards you through daily contact with him.

    The change of heart of a long-distance man is actually obvious, first of all, you can feel that he is not as active and enthusiastic about you as before. This kind of inactive and unenthusiastic, including that he no longer calls you **, no longer takes the initiative to send you WeChat, of course, he is naturally no longer willing to take the initiative to go to your city to find you.

    If a long-distance relationship man falls in love with another female loser and repents of his life, he will put more energy and thought into other women. And empathy can distract him from his feelings for you, and even if you don't see each other, he won't think about you anymore.

    Moreover, when a long-distance man changes his mind, he will hide himself very well. Before he made up his mind to break up, he would try his best to hide the fact that he was empathetic to his girlfriend. The most obvious manifestation of this is that he is hungry and does not want you to go to his city to find him again.

    If your long-distance boyfriend is always looking for excuses to stop you from seeing him, there are thousands of reasons why he will refuse to meet you even though the two of you have the opportunity to meet. The average man does this because he has changed his mind, and he is worried that your sudden visit will break the fact that he has already split his legs. He would never allow this to happen until he had decided to tell you what had happened.

    Therefore, women should understand when their long-distance boyfriend changes his mind and falls in love with someone else, if you have noticed that something is wrong with him, then Cha Ji should explain to him as soon as possible, the breakup that should be broken up, if you think that your love still has the possibility of coming back to life, just hold on a little longer, see if he can change his mind, if not, don't wronged yourself.

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