What does it mean to be unable to let go, not to let go, not to let go?

In this world, no one can live without anyone, and distress is inevitable, but it is temporary, and it will be fine after a long time

It's good that you can't find it.

Unlike some people, they will often encounter each other after a breakup, and that is a kind of torture!

And you have to know that feelings are two-sided, and you can't just rely on your own will!

So whether you want to think about it or not is your own subjective desire!

Don't be obsessed with looking for it, maybe one day you will unexpectedly see her by your side.

All you can do now is wait, a year, two years, three years.

Time has passed, it can prove whether you really love her, or just a moment of unaccustomedness, a moment of reluctance, if the heavens are destined, then you believe once, maybe this time you will meet, no matter what the result is. It's called fate.

The sky pays off, and then looks for it.

What is yours is yours, not what you can't ask for!

I believe that the emperor lives up to his heart, and I believe that she will be found out by you!

Wishing you happiness!

In fact, you are still happy, I broke up with her, and now I can see her **, but I can't talk to her, I can only look at her avatar and be in a daze, in fact, you are much happier, learn to adapt slowly, we have broken up for four months, but what can I do, will you still hope to redeem it? Will you accept her charity romance?

There is a fate to get together, no fate to break up, to break up is to have no fate, fate is forced! Since you can't find her, it means that she doesn't love you at all and doesn't care about you, and if you don't give up, isn't it wishful thinking that you will torture yourself and suffer foreign crimes?!

Where is the beauty Buddha said: Becoming a dwelling is bad and empty. Life is short, and nothing else.

One word: edge.

If you really have fate, no matter how she hides, you will always meet. The twisted melon is not sweet, don't force it too much, there will be pain in sadness, let time fade it.

Love is the only one, but the one who loves is not the only one. If you want to open up, if she doesn't love you, that's her loss, you just have one less person who doesn't love you, and there will never be a shortage of good women in the world.

There is something. Gone is gone.

In fact, "can't let go" means that even if there is someone else around you, even someone who is better and better than your predecessor, you still can't help but think about it.

After letting go of him, my heart will no longer be fluctuating when I come into contact with things about him. I no longer pay attention to his circle of friends, no longer care about who his recently updated personality signature is for, no longer care about how many steps he has taken in WeChat exercise, and no longer care about what articles he likes ...... againThe memories of him no longer hurt when I think about him. When a friend mentioned him, he was already light.

1. Cry happily.

When I used to watch TV dramas, I always looked down on those who cried because of hurt love. Now I understand them very well. It seems that tears can really help people release their sadness, find a quiet place, cry loudly, and believe that the heart will be much better at that moment.

2. Watch sad movies.

Watch a movie of betrayal. In fact, at this time, you go to comedy completely to watch it yourself, and you are also sad in your heart. Watching a betrayal movie will touch your heart, imagine yourself as the protagonist in the story, and see you in the story through the eyes of others.

You will also cry for you in the story, and you will also feel worthless for her.

When people encounter emotions or things that are difficult to let go, they often feel pain and depression. At this time, you can better face and deal with the entanglements and contradictions in your heart by reading some words or words that can bring you confidence and strength. Here are some sentences that can bring positive energy to the mold destroying itself::

1.Someday, you will see someone who is right for you walking into your life.

2.Remember, every pain is a chance to grow.

3.Don't wait for someone else to take care of you. Only you are the most reliable backing.

4.There's nothing you can't get over, and even if you do, remember that it's just a test that life throws at you.

5.Actions speak louder than anything. Today you have worked hard, tomorrow you will be grateful.

Looking at these positive words can alleviate your negative emotions and better face life's problems.

If you can't put it down, do the following five things:

1. Recognize the reality, put the consequences in front of you, and kill all your fantasies.

If you can't let go, then list the realistic situation, let yourself recognize the reality, and know that the final one who is together and not together has no good consequences, when the reality is torn off the veil of fantasy, you will be sober, and you will know how to weigh the pros and cons with reason.

2 Accept in your heart the fact that you want to let go of this person, and let yourself know that separation is the best ending.

When you think about letting go, accept the fact that the other party is separated from him, you will understand more and more that separation is good for him and himself, and it will not only be just pain but can slowly calm down after the pain. Accept the facts and stay away from obsessions.

The more I reminisce about many things, the more I can't let go, put my empty and lost heart into some other things, such as reading books, traveling, meeting with good friends, talking and laughing to let myself forget him unconsciously, don't think about it, be less nostalgic, pay attention elsewhere, have other things to do, don't have to be entangled in pain, and slowly fade the love with that person.

4. Continue to build yourself and use a better life to let yourself see the real direction of life.

For a certain period of time, we may be obsessed, but when we continue to improve our life realm and circumstances, when our life rises to another height with our own efforts, we will find that the feelings and people that plagued us before have disappeared in the history of the years, and it is no longer worth wasting our efforts, because there is a better life waiting for us. When our hearts are rich enough, we will find that the previous obsession is even a little ridiculous.

So there's nothing you can't put down, only whether you want to let go.

In fact, life is very long, and it is inevitable that you will meet another person you like halfway, but don't hesitate to doubt your previous decision at this time, because the right person has always stayed with you.

People who can't be together can't be together in the first place, they don't have to go all the way to love, and those who should let go let go let themselves know how to let go.

Why should you force yourself to be a human being?I can't let go and let go, all I feel is my own thoughts.

Maybe the past is not good, just keep it as the memory you don't want to remember.

Since you can't let it go, let it be natural and let time dilute everything.

If you can redeem it, cherish it.