The father in law is partial to his daughter, and he is not even as good as an outsider to his son,

Parents are partial, as children, you must be filial to the elderly, treat you badly, and the parents who gave birth to you and raised you, and the sons should be more responsible for their parents.

Parental partiality is a kind of doting, in their eyes is to pity another child, but at the same time it touches the hearts of other children, but parents do not do it right, their greatest credit is to give us precious life, so all good filial piety first, all say that raising children to prevent old age, in the lifetime of parents, we must do so that he, they are free of pain and suffering, peaceful for ten thousand years. This is the responsibility that every child should step into.

It's normal for the public to favor daughters. If you are sick, you should go to your son, and your son should go to nursing. Because raising children is for the sake of providing for the elderly. This is what the son should say and do.

There are too many eccentric old people, my family is the opposite, everything is a daughter, reluctant to use a son, no way, we can't choose our own parents, we can only do our filial piety, of course, if they do too much, then you can also ignore it.

It is impossible for parents to be fair in the process of children's growth, and it is true that there is a preference for a certain one or the other, but one thing is certain, and the credit of the father is that the credit of the father can never be compared with that of the child, and when he is sick, the son must do his best to take care of his father.

Eccentric daughter, did you give all the money to your daughter, you are a son, it is natural to find a son when you are sick, don't climb anyone, raising a child is to prevent old age.

I think it's a natural thing for parents to find their sons when they are sick, and we can do our filial piety Do you raise children to prevent old age (I don't think this has much to do with eccentricity).

Children have an obligation to support their parents.

The father is sick, and it is the duty of the son to take care of it.

It has nothing to do with whether the father is biased or not!

There are many eccentrics for the elderly, but it is our responsibility to provide for the elderly.

It is to adjust oneself, in this case, children can never tear their faces to blame their parents. In fact, life is like that, if you don't care about it, if you don't care about it, you won't have anything. You, do what you have to do, otherwise the more you care, the more it will backfire...

In the end, people have a reason to say that you have a lot of trouble.

It's the same in my family, and I'm also indifferent to them, so I don't let them stink.

I especially understand you, some people may say that you have to be generous and broad-minded, no one is a saint in the world, how can you be generous when you bully people to your home, and you have no tricks to spread such in-laws, how can you love it, they will stink to death and rot to death, your sister-in-law will not leave them alone, your in-laws have a pension, how can she ignore them?! They don't care about you, you don't care about them, they just have it! I'm just a layman, not so great, I can't be bullied by others, I still greet me with a smile, if you treat me well, I'll be good to you, if you're not good to me, then I'm sorry to delete it from afar!

Just live your own life. When she comes, you can take care of the food, and if she doesn't come, you don't have to invite. You can't care what he wants, right, and you add a blockage to your heart. In fact, everyone has a number in their hearts. Let him go.

Don't think about it so much, just be yourself. You can't change anyone.

Can you add a friend, it's really the same mother-in-law, I especially want to complain.

Indeed, as you said, it is quite annoying, and there will be more conflicts in the family if the parents are eccentric, maybe the old couple thinks that the living conditions of your husband and wife are the best and do not need additional subsidies. It is the obligation of children to support the elderly, and it will not be exempted because they have opinions in their hearts. The daughter-in-law should intervene less in this matter and listen to her husband's opinion more.

There's nothing you can do if you're angry. This is something that cannot be solved by Chinese law. Yes, everyone has to share the hospitalization fee equally.

But which child is willing to give your money to that child, this is an eccentricity that all families will commit. What else can you do but be angry and ignore your parents-in-law? That is only the law to judge, and whoever is sentenced to pay as much as he wants, but the law is not always absolutely fair.

As children, they all have the obligation and responsibility to support the elderly! Since the old man is now sick and hospitalized, the children will have to pay for the medical expenses and so on.

This kind of family problem is not easy to solve, a bowl of water is uneven, what do you say, you can only say your personal truth, understand it, and say what you are eccentric.

A bowl of water is difficult to level, ten fingers stretched out are not on one side, not to mention people's hearts, it is normal for in-laws to treat their daughter-in-law with bias. Although there will be complaints as a daughter-in-law, it is generally acceptable, after all, the in-laws are not their parents, and it is okay to have a normal heart.

1. As an old man, it is normal to have bias and direction

Don't say it's your in-laws, even in your own home, your parents are biased towards their children. If we have two children, the eldest and the second, we may also care and love the younger one. This is because of the influence of traditional beliefs, and we may feel that younger children may be more in need of care.

As an elderly person, everyone has a scale in their hearts, and it is normal to treat their children with bias. There are three brothers in my in-law's family, and my in-laws are also biased towards these three people, and I think I am the most unflattering person, but this is the real situation in the family, what can you do with the elderly? So accept this reality, they don't look at me, I won't lose anything, just have such a normal heart.

2. Don't compare your in-laws with your parents

Many times the contradictions in the family arise because of an unsatisfied mentality, and they often compare their in-laws with their parents. The result of doing this often makes us feel very sad, because there are always many things in reality that make us feel dissatisfied, in fact, the starting point of this is wrong, parents and in-laws are always two different people in different relationships. Don't expect to treat our in-laws as our own parents, just think that we do our daughter-in-law's duties, and they do their in-laws' duties, and that's fine.

In real life, I always feel that my parents-in-law are our elders, and I don't think much about the rest, as long as I respect them and get by on face, that's fine.

The in-laws are partial, that's their problem, what we have to do is our own problem. As long as we can be worthy of our conscience and do our part well, we should be filial to the elderly, and this is fine. Don't worry too much, and life will be happier.

If my parents-in-law are very partial, I think it's because I'm doing something wrong and making them dislike me, but if my parents-in-law are like that no matter what, then maybe I won't care about them anymore.

Our family is this kind of du, my husband has two brothers, and my husband is Lao Zhi

Two, but dao is the boss has not yet married the version, we got married first, my mother-in-law must go to the boss every week to help him wash clothes and clean, and then wrap a lot of dumplings frozen in the refrigerator, he cooks them directly when he eats, and he will buy some meat and vegetables every week to put in the refrigerator, all day long saying that no one cooks for him or something, my mother-in-law lives in our house, and never takes the initiative to buy vegetables and meat, let alone make dumplings for us, every time I cook, but I don't care, because it's useless to care about these, just open it yourself, Otherwise, you still sulk yourself.

The husband is the eldest and has a younger brother, the mother-in-law favors the younger son, the eldest got married and didn't pay for it, and the boss wants to make money to buy a house for her younger son and marry a wife.

I never have too much hope for my parents-in-law, and I still have to rely on my own efforts to be hard and confident. I am fortunate to have gained, but I have lost my life. If you look a little more open, you may be able to get more unexpected surprises.

My husband and I are working hard to build a house and a car.

My mother-in-law is also eccentric, we quarreled and she thought about her son, the strongest said what is there to tell me that I taught him a lesson, gave birth to a child and threw a quarrel and divorced, my in-laws didn't say a word as a nobody, they wouldn't talk to them, they would only protect the calves, too lazy to say.

Parents who have two children at home, will be partial to me, for those who are biased, since you don't like me, then I don't go back, it's far away from the answer, and I don't even fight, my mother-in-law and father-in-law are eccentric, and I never give them a call**, his son**, I never ask, his son goes to see them, I don't stop him, after all, it's his parents, but don't ask me to go.

When I got married, my in-laws paid 10,000 yuan, and when I was in confinement, my mother-in-law didn't bring my brother-in-law's son, and my daughter didn't bring dao

After a while, my family bought a house and lacked money and couldn't answer the question, and after bringing the son and granddaughter to the little uncle, he also took 100,000 yuan to help the second son build a house.

After being sad and angry, and angry for a while.

Du looked away. Mother-in-law is indeed not a mother, and she used to be sad and sad when she walked too close. Now I'm looking at it.

If you like it, you can answer it. Let's just be plain and bland! Don't ask anything.

I don't go to them if it's okay, and I don't contact them. Eat and drink well and dry them. Just be a familiar stranger.

Since there is no me in the eyes. Then I don't have to pretend to be her.

My husband is the eldest, his sister and younger brother are in other provinces, and our parents-in-law are taking care of us, but I feel that the old couple still likes the brother-in-law's family more. I don't think it matters, a bowl of water is always uneven, as a daughter-in-law, do my duty and do what I should do.

Why are they all biased, my mother-in-law's family is partial, I also obeyed, people are not good to them, gnaw the old, they are willing, that is also good, we think about the elderly everywhere, take money to serve, and it is not easy to ......

My in-laws are biased towards their eldest son, and the younger son is my husband, so I don't feel distressed at all, and the old family's conditions are better than ours. Their daughter, who is also the granddaughter of her in-laws, is in pain, and their grandson doesn't care about my baby. Hehe.

My mother-in-law is biased to the sky, and a bowl of water is poured aside, and now the four of them are all raised by the mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law will ask my family to give him money during the New Year, so I don't take it, and I dream that he will be able to KO quickly

My husband is also the eldest, and my in-laws are seriously partial to the younger son, but they don't admit it, and they think of the eldest son when they work, and they think of the younger son if they have a good one, which is really annoying, and the in-laws also say bad things about my husband everywhere, and I feel that my husband is not what she was born like, and the in-laws only have the younger son in their eyes.

For an old man like bai, they are more distressed about the weak children, and they see that the conditions of the children are not.

I replied that I don't think there is any need to take it too seriously, after all, I want to live with my husband, even if my mother-in-law favors other children, that's her business, as long as he has money and is willing to be partial, we don't want to object, and living your own life with your husband is the most important thing.

My husband is also the boss, the brother copy two together to build a house every month to ask us for money, the small money back he doesn't use, I have to wait for my husband to say no money back to use the little brother-in-law's money, once my husband said angrily, the old child didn't give you money yesterday why don't you don't use, the teacher asked us, my father-in-law actually said he didn't know, you lied to you, I called the money back in less than three minutes** to call the money to the account.

My in-laws are a family of eccentric uncles, but my damn foolish husband told me not to care, and to honor my in-laws and uncles who are better off than us on loans, and I decided to divorce when the children are older.

I didn't have her for a long time, I went home to raise the baby after 7 months of pregnancy, and I was at home for more than two months, not to mention taking care of not even a **. I was admitted to the hospital today, and I was dissected tomorrow, and her shadow did not appear, and my husband was stunned, and I had nothing to do with her in the future anyway.

Don't hold out hope, it's none of my business for them to subsidize her eldest son to sell his blood and body, as long as they don't steal my son's New Year's money, and don't want us to subsidize the other one.

Regardless of whether the old man is eccentric or not? Since the father-in-law is dead, if the mother-in-law is dead, if she wants to live with the child, then live with my child, he doesn't care about his second aunt's house, you just take care of your own family, and there is no need to properly honor the old man and honor the old man. To pick and choose, there is no time when someone can help and who can take care of it, but that one can't help, because he puts two.

It's not easy for my son to pull up.

You are all married, you have your own family and children, you don't have to worry about your parents, you can live well by yourself, and you can be independent, it's better, be independent, rely on your own ability and others will praise you, and you live happily without your parents. Come on.