My mother in law and father in law don t like my daughter, and scold my daughter for being a fat man

They are sick, isn't it also scolding themselves to scold your daughter, cut, don't get angry, it's better to stay away from such grandparents, and save a certain shadow in the child's heart. Don't keep telling your grandparents in front of your child, it's a secondary injury to her.

How can you scold the child, this is not right, you tell them well, children also have self-esteem, don't keep talking about the child's shortcomings, praise the child's advantages, or the child will grow up with an inferiority complex, feel that he is not good at anything, and his personality will become bad, is your daughter fat, then you take her to exercise more, eat less snacks,

In ancient times, I said that when a child is born, the child born back is a boy (black), that is, when the stars fall, there will be disasters! The girl (black) is the birth of a dragon, which is a good omen!

But this is superstition, and you can't believe it all!

However, it can still be used to coax the elderly!

Just treat your in-laws as air, and try not to let your children come into contact with them so as not to have a bad impact.

Is it a mother-in-law who is patriarchal.

Tell your husband that girls can't always scold, and as for not buying things, it's like this, if I buy it, I don't want it.

Use your affection zone to influence her.

I love her a lot, I care about others, let's buy it ourselves, anyway, it's our own child.

If it's a joke, it's okay, I also said that my son is squinting and so on, but if it's patriarchal, the problem is serious.

I think that as long as you are in good health, as long as it is beneficial to your children, as long as your husband cares about you, everything else is not important. So you don't have to care about their boring words and deeds, if you do, then they will be happy.

Ignore them, as the child grows up, you will slowly lose weight, don't be bad to the baby.

I have asked the relevant personnel your question, this is the genetic relationship between genes and chromosomes, and the probability of your situation in terms of genetics is still very high!

It's really hard to say.

Your child inherits 50% of your and your husband's genes, and your husband inherits 50% of your parents-in-law's genes, so I think the probability that your child will inherit your mother-in-law's hair color is about 10-20%, but this is not a decisive match.

None of this is absolute, and no one dares to say that it will or will not.

I feel that the health of children is the most important thing, no matter what hair color or eye color, some children are born with black hair, but with the process of growth, it will change, lz, don't deliberately pursue blonde hair, this is all acquired things, I wish lz can give birth to a healthy and beautiful baby!!

It's still good to be Chinese, all with black hair and black eyes, there is no suspense, hehe.

I just belong to the feeling of being strong; Walking down the street and turning back high; The main brother is also handsome'

It's not fat, is it? It's a relatively strong person, right?

Why haven't I heard, can you give some examples?

The old man thinks that he is only healthy when he is fat.

The fat mother-in-law likes it, but what about the husband, will he like it. Would you like it yourself?

Because they think that the thin daughter-in-law can't see the life and can't give birth to what they think is a good baby.

Because a fat daughter-in-law can give birth to a son, this is an old feudal, don't pay attention to it.

It's best to make up for your body more, not to please your mother-in-law, but for the next generation, hehe! If you are too thin, you will be prone to dystocia and even infertility. Plump up the baby so that you can drink enough breast milk. I'm also very skinny and trying to gain weight!

The fat daughter-in-law will bring good luck to the family, and the fat person has a peaceful mind, not to say that he is fat or plump, and the thin woman looks unlucky. Can you take care of your family if you fall down when you are blown by the wind?

It's not that it's fatter or plumper.

And fat people have a peaceful mentality, and fat daughters-in-law will be prosperous.

Bring good luck to the family.

The skinny woman looked unlucky.

You are really a good cultivator in your previous life, and you have such a good mother-in-law, be content! In fact, the feeling of your home is too strong and too good, so good, so good that you can't accept it.

Every day, you tell her to eat like this and that, and say to her every day, "Mom! Damn! You let me eat every day!

You're going to eat me like a big fat pig! Isn't that it? Why take her kindness as a donkey's liver and lungs?

And why discourage her kindness?

Without breaking her heart, you tell her this: eating too much like this will make her stomach sick, and I feel sick right now (occasionally eat less when eating). If she really hurts you, she should think about what she does.

This one...

I was happy to see my mother-in-law that day.

Find another good opportunity to sit down and talk to her very seriously.

There's nothing that can't be solved, and it's good for everyone to say it.

First of all, I have to say: you are blessed to have met a good mother-in-law. Don't be bitter and don't know the sweetness.

Second, let me point out your dilemma: Right now, you need a white lie that you husband and wife have worked together. This can avoid face-to-face conflicts, and it will not affect the relationship between husband and wife, even if one day the panic is exposed, it is easy to get forgiveness from the mother-in-law, and the elderly are like children to be patient.

Let children go out to exercise more, not only can be **, but also can grow, the so-called killing two birds with one stone.

Eat less things that make you gain weight and exercise more.