broke up with the person you loved, but you can t let go of each other in your heart, and you still

Updated on psychology 2024-03-13
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's okay, this world is originally a good man can't meet a good woman, a good woman can't meet a good man, as the saying goes, it's very incisive: a good head wears a bad hat, and a good hat wears a leprosy head.

    It's really strange to be a human being, and now even I don't know what is right, or there is no right or wrong, good or evil, right and wrong in the world, but I have paid a lot of ...... because of this.

    Not all efforts will be rewarded, everyone must accept this reality in order to live, be strong, and good luck.

    Don't negate all women because of one woman, don't deny the whole forest because of one crooked grass. Like men, women are of all kinds, and you must identify people before investing in feelings, otherwise no matter how hard you try, it will be in vain, just like choosing the wrong direction, no matter how hard you try, you can't get to the destination.

    There is no need to regret paying for her, because in the process of giving, you are happy because of love, and the effort will not be in vain, and God will often repay you in a way that you don't expect. As long as you are benevolent to people and things, you will not get what you want, and you will get better. A girl better than her is waiting for you.

    We should not be stingy with love and giving, but we should cherish our feelings and love those who deserve love. This time, your fault is not to give too much, but to love the wrong person, learn a lesson!

    I advise you to get rid of all the things about her, and leave one or two things as a memento, as a memorial, to prove that you have known each other, and have lived together for a while, but to press these two things to the bottom of the box, seal them in the dust, and never let them occupy your heart again.

    The last sentence concludes: We should not be stingy with love and dedication, but we must cherish our feelings, love people worthy of love, this time, your fault is not to pay too much, but to love the wrong person, to learn a lesson!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The problem lies in communication, distance produces beauty, but distance can also alienate people. Usually you should communicate more face-to-face, and don't use text messages and QQ frequently, because then you will find that after a while you will become speechless. But just face-to-face communication can feel her heart, remember not to be out of touch for a long time, so that the freshness of each other will become very strange, I just failed in this place

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    So why give up, feelings are completely in your own hands, if you don't put a good life in love, do you waste your life dealing with Marx or something?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    So why break up! When breaking up is trendy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    broke up twice, but he couldn't let go of the other party, but Liang Juneng didn't want to break up with the other party because he liked each other very much in his heart and had a very deep affection for the other party.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think this is a kind of attachment to the other party, because you are not willing to end this relationship like this, it is not love at all, you have to learn to think about the problem in a different way, let go of the past and start again.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's a bit of both. I love my boyfriend very much, and although he is very bad to me, I am still very reluctant to let him lose, and I am very unwilling, why should he treat me so ruthlessly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I've loved someone for two years, of course I'll be very sad after breaking up, after all, the two years of youth and emotional dedication are very sincere, who has nothing to do with these two years? So when it comes to breaking up, I will inevitably be sad in my heart, and I will feel that I can't do without him, in fact, I have some attachment to him, or a very deep attachment, but this is a very terrible thing, once the relationship is deep, it is very difficult to extricate myself.

    But even if it's sad, it's actually very short-lived, and as time goes by, you'll get used to it and you won't feel bad.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    People have feelings, since they have been in love for two years, they must be very sad after breaking up, if they are not sad, it means that you love her at all. Since we have broken up, there is nothing to regret, I can only say that the fate of the two of you is too shallow, in fact, there is no one in this world who can't live without anyone, I believe that after a long time, it will be fine.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because you like each other, why do you feel sad to break up, because you have given a lot of money, energy, love, etc., and now you have to disappear, and you will definitely be sad.

    If you propose to break up, you will regret it because you are unwilling, or you have not met a better one, or she still impresses you in some aspects.

    There is no emotion to leave, when you are strong, inner and financial, the contact circle is bigger, and you meet a better one, you will feel that it was right to leave at the beginning.

    Why do I say that, because I also broke up for three years and it was good.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you have been in love with this person for two years, and now after breaking up, you feel very sad, it is because you love him very deeply, so you will have this feeling of being reluctant to him, and once you leave him, you are very sad.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because two years of relationship is enough for a person to live in his heart, he will be very sad after breaking up, and he will feel like he can't leave each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When you are used to having each other, you will naturally miss it after a breakup, which is normal and most of you can't control it, and it is recommended to find a better one or work hard to divert your attention.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then I think you said that the breakup was just a moment of anger with him, so you will be very sad after the breakup, if you regret it, I think you have to find him, apologize to him, don't want to break up with him, tell him that you have never forgotten him in your heart, and have been thinking about him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The question of feelings is like that. The deeper the relationship between two people, the more sad they will feel when they break up. Since the relationship is already so deep, why do you want to break up?

    Isn't this torturing yourself? Don't forget. You're not alone in being sad.

    The other side will do the same. Sad.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After a long time together, of course, feelings will arise, and after breaking up, there is a very lost feeling in my heart.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you have been in love with someone for two years, you will definitely be very sad after the breakup, and there will be a heart-crushing pain, this is because you have loved someone at two o'clock, and put it in your heart.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I have been in love with someone for two years, and I have developed a deep relationship, and I will be very sad after breaking up. If you become dependent on someone who has feelings, you will feel inseparable from him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Since that's the case, don't break up, it's been two years, which means that you already know each other well. If a breakup can make you very sad, it already shows that you love him very much, so it's better to reconcile.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because you have been together for two years, it is natural that the relationship will be deeper. Now that the two of them have broken up, it is inevitable that there will be something in my heart that I can't stand it. It takes a certain amount of time for you to slowly put it down.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Now that I've been alone for two years, why am I so sad after breaking up? If you regret it after you break up, you feel like you can't do without him, I think you do have a certain relationship for two years in love with someone, of course you will be sad when you break up, but since you love deeply, don't break up, get along well.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I've been in love with someone for two years, why am I so sad after breaking up? If you regret it after mentioning the breakup, you feel like you can't do without him. Because you love him so much. Your love has entered your heart.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This is already emotionally dependent, accustomed to having him in life, and then returning to the single state is very uncomfortable, but if it is really not suitable, then you have to take it and put it down, and time will let you slowly get used to the single state.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Life is such an interaction, and between people is a kind of fate; Heart-to-heart is a kind of communication; Between love and love, it is a feeling; Between love and affection, it is a true heart; Between the wrong and the wrong, there is a forgiveness. There is no need to change others, everyone has self-esteem, everyone has hardships, everyone has their own ideas, practices, and ways of living; Different ideas, different practices, different ways of living.

    Life is such an interaction, and between people is a kind of fate; Heart-to-heart.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Love is a thing that we often can't figure out, and the love for a person is deep in the bone marrow, so when you leave him, it hurts when you leave him!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Feelings can only be honed and embodied in the face of time, and only two years of love will create a lifetime of follow-up in the future, or make a decision.

    If you have decided to break up, you have to rely on the next chance, don't expect to forget immediately, everyone should have feelings.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    With all due respect, it's not that it's inseparable, it may just be because of habit and unwillingness to lose, and it may not be about love.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Now that I have been alone for two years, I will be very sad after breaking up, and if I regret it when I mention the breakup, I feel like I can't do without him, which means that I love her in my heart.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's been two years, why are you so sad after breaking up? What if you regret it after you break up, and you feel very sad? Then you have to save this relationship, you have to apologize, and find out your own faults, so that two people can love each other for a long time.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you have been alone for two or three years, you will be very sad after breaking up, of course, this is also a way for you to like him very much and love him very much.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I still love him, it's been so long, the relationship should have faded a long time ago, and you're still like this, or you should go for it again.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    How to let go of someone who has loved deeply before after a breakup? There is absolutely no norm for this. But there are still some ways worth learning.

    For example, keep yourself busy and gradually start a new life and work. Another example is picking a new relationship at the right time. Another example is being able to leave the city and give yourself a fresh start.

    All in all, there are many ways to do it, as long as you are willing to put it into practice. However, these are all superficial and practical things. In fact, it doesn't have much effect on us if we want to learn to let go of this feeling.

    If you want to learn to let go, the most important thing is to say to yourself in terms of thinking, to learn to accept reality. You have been separated, and after that you will only cherish each other. And I still have a long way to go in my future life, so I can't be depressed like this.

    In terms of ideas, there must be such a concept.

    If you're sure of this thing in terms of thoughts, then I'm going to gradually learn to let go. Yes, as long as you are willing to do it, there is nothing you can't do. Sometimes, it's just that you don't want to do that. That's why I can't forget it.

    In life, there will be many setbacks. But for the objects of the past, we should all learn to let go.

    Why can't you forget the person you once loved? It's not that I can't forget, but I don't want to learn to let go. Yes, that's the main reason for that.

    As the saying goes, "There is nothing difficult in the world, and there is nothing difficult in the world." "As long as you are willing to learn to let go, you can naturally learn to let go.

    And if you insist on not wanting to learn to let go, you are very persistent, and your attachment is too strong. That way, you can't forget it. It can be seen that you have to rely on yourself to learn to let go.

    If you figure it out, you won't be so persistent, and you will naturally let go. It's not that hard.

    There are only times when we are reluctant to give up, and we may feel like we will admit defeat when we put it down.

    But in the world of feelings, there is no victory or defeat. Now that we have come to this point, we can only choose to face it. And even if you don't want to, you can't help it.

    In fact, it will actually force you to face all of this. If that's the case, you can live a more desolate life. No matter what, no matter how much I loved it before.

    Now that we are all separated, we need to spend our separate lives. In a way, everyone in life is actually a guest in their life. Later, no one could accompany anyone.

    Yes, you have to take responsibility for your own life. For the emotions that have passed, learn to let go.

    Emotional class: To really learn to let go of the love you once had, you must know how to be "ruthless" to yourself. As long as you are willing to learn to let go, you will definitely be able to learn to let go.

    Learning to let go is not to forget that you once loved each other. Instead, I want to keep it hidden, and I don't want to let myself be too entangled in crossing the bridge. But with the objects of the past, we should learn to live in harmony with them.

    There are many things that everyone will never forget for the rest of their lives. But many things, now that they have passed, we have to learn to let go. No matter how much they fell in love at the beginning, they are no longer together.

    Therefore, it is the wisest choice to learn to give up, learn to wish each other well, and spend your days well.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Because I have paid more in this relationship, I love him more deeply. If you are separated, you will feel unwilling and unable to let go.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Because of the beauty of the past, it will always come to mind in Ma Qing's hand, Bi Gao thinks of those memories, he will constantly think of that person's advantages, and want to continue to be with her.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    may be because the person he loves deeply has left a very deep impression on him, and he is also very unwilling in his heart.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Two people are happy when they love each other, in fact, it is a good feeling to have a person who loves each other deeply, maybe that person did not leave anything, but you just can't forget each other, because of deep love, so worry, even if the person you love has left you, you are not better than forgetting each other, let the other party be a concern in your heart.

    If you love someone deeply, even if the other party's departure is not necessarily a bad thing, because of the other party's departure, you may be unhappy for a while, but after this period of time, you may not care so much, and then you can't fall in love with others, during this time you will work harder to study, work, and experience life, so that person's departure, maybe to make you a better version of yourself, you don't have to forget that person in your heart, because the appearance of that person must also teach you something, so, Put each other in your heart, don't touch each other, and accept the new life.

    If you love someone deeply, then you must have a very beautiful past, everything in the past is related to each other, every bit of life has traces of each other's life, when you want to forget each other's life, these things are constantly reminding you, so, you don't have to forget each other, if a person is gone, you have to accept everything new, so that you will find that even if you can't hold that hand in the end, but your past and past with that person are worth remembering, Those things can't be forgotten for a lifetime, the memories are beautiful, the reality is cruel, and sometimes it's a happy thing to reminisce about the memories.

    If you love someone deeply, you will definitely learn something, there is a good saying, everyone you meet is not accidental, their appearance will definitely give you something, and the person you love will definitely give you to grow, maybe that person makes you mature from a young teenager, maybe the other party will only stay in your life for a period of time, that person can not always accompany you, so after the other party leaves, you will still love that person, you can't forget the other party, of course, You don't have to force yourself to forget that person, there's nothing wrong with remembering that.

    If you love someone deeply, you will also learn to make trade-offs, because in the process of being with that person, there must be something that you need to let go, because you can't take care of it, so you will become more and more able to let go, and people who know how to let go generally won't have so much sadness, sometimes many people can't let go and let themselves get hurt, so it's really good to learn to make trade-offs.

    If you love someone deeply, you will feel that life is very happy, when that person leaves, you will enjoy life more, more and more can experience the happiness in life, you will find that life is so beautiful, life is so colorful, and you will still not be able to let go of a person in your heart, but you will be light.

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