Why like someone but don t get his like

I also encountered such a problem, in fact, we all know it in our hearts.

The main thing is that he doesn't like you anymore, so why bother asking knowingly.

Emotional things are like this, you don't like you if you like you, and you don't like you but you like people.

Let it go, there's nothing you can't get by.

He doesn't like me, I'm not going to live well, no matter how painful you are, he can't see it.

I won't feel sorry for you.

Acquaintance, "Acquaintance", "Mutual Understanding", "True Understanding", "True Acquaintance" to "True Love".

But in fact, liking is only a superficial layer, and we haven't really known each other! It's the same mood as looking at the mountains, the water, and the scenery! It's just a love that doesn't go into your heart, will you want him for the rest of your life?

If a girl really wants to find an eternal companion, as the saying goes: It's better to be from your hometown! In fact, this is a township of water and soil to raise a person, at least there is no suspicion of disobedience to water and soil?

Of course, I don't mean to communicate with close relatives! I don't know if it's -

Because people don't like you.

If you like him, he has to like you, then there is no such thing as unrequited love in this world.

Either let him know, or keep it in your heart for the rest of your life.

If you like someone, it doesn't mean that the other party also likes you, only if both parties like each other can you get the heart.

If you can't get his heart, you have to learn to give up, otherwise you will be hurt in the end. It's not a song, it can be like this, there's a kind of love called letting go. If you can get his heart if you continue to persevere, you will persevere.

Probably, he loves and likes someone without expectation, remembers a person without hope, and swallows all his care silently again and again for fear of disturbing him. Hide in the corner, like a thief, desperately hold on to your liking, and watch from afar, quietly, and with a blank eye, at that person's life without you.

Every time you want to take a step forward, you want to try again, or just ask a question, just ...... a sentenceAt this time, that poor self-esteem.

It will drag your legs and make it difficult for you to take a step, even so, if you look back, you are actually far from your original starting point - you understand the truth, but it is still difficult to persuade yourself to give up.

For me, love is not enough, just like this: I want to reach out and grab my favorite ornament in the window, but I can't touch it because of the glass window that seems to be there, so I have to watch silently. I wanted to buy this accessory and take it home, but I couldn't afford it due to limited funds at the moment.

I always thought that if I work harder, I can buy it with a little more deposit. However, on second thought, maybe people with sufficient funds will buy it the next second when they see it, and in the end they will even lose their qualification to wait and see. So I could only stand there secretly sadly, watching reluctantly, but I couldn't do anything.

"Every time I can't help but want to say something to him from the bottom of my heart, I will post it to Moments, which is only visible to him. "Netizen: I think that if you love someone and can't get it, the biggest feeling is that you feel very unwilling.

Obviously, his heart is full of him, but he can't find his shadow in his eyes at all, no matter how much he pays, he can't leave any trace in his heart.

There is a faint unwillingness in my heart and a feeling of the injustice of fate. But this is also a helpless thing. No matter how bitter I feel in my heart, take a step back, I still hope that person can be happy. Although, in this happiness.

There is no existence of its own. But to be able to watch him happy, no matter how unwilling he is, he will feel relieved. Because, this is the true meaning of love.

The guy I liked, he didn't like me. But I didn't want him to know that I liked him. I don't think it's okay if he knows, and I don't want to be with him anyway.

I don't think he likes me either, because I'm a very selfish person. I'm not going to give up what I have now for him, like my job, my friends, my family. So, even though I know I like him a lot, I won't let him know because I know I can't.

I don't think it's okay if he knows, and I don't want to be with him anyway.

Like a person but can't get it, it's an endless struggle and pain, it's a kind of inner burning that wants to cry without tears, my mind is full of each other's shadows, and I want to know and contact each other together, but the reality is that I am alone, an inexplicable sense of loneliness and loneliness strikes instantly, so that I lose the motivation and energy of work and life, I am not in the mood to eat, I feel very difficult to speak, it is difficult to speak to others, I can't restrain myself every day and don't want her, her good appearance is still dangling in front of her eyes, This kind of loss that you can't get makes you look like a corpse, and you don't have a mind to do anything, which is an experience that is worse than death.

It's raining in the city you live in and would love to ask if you have an umbrella with you. But I held back, because I was afraid that you wouldn't bring it, and I couldn't do anything about it, like I loved you but couldn't give you the company you wanted.

I don't know....There's never something you can't get.

Sad, love and hate, want to cry without tears.

If you know you can't get it and don't get any results, give up as soon as possible!

Some are painful, some are lonely, some are longing, some are resentment, and the feeling, in your own heart, is not a certain pattern. Perhaps the most accurate, is bitterness.

There are eight hardships in life, 1 can't be asked, 2 love and parting, 3 bitter resentment, bitter back, 4 life suffering, 5 old suffering, 6 sickness, 7 death suffering, 8 bitter suffering.

If you like a person, then you are alone, what do you want to feel.

It is to watch the person you like fall in love with others and show affection.

You are not the only one who loves you.

You have to know what you want

Think about it.

In the meantime, have a good talk with him. Determine your position.

Think about it and don't let yourself regret it.

If that's the case, you can love him in another way.

Like silently blessing him.

You know that there is still a long way to go, and you should find a more suitable one.

And in fact, almost everyone goes through this.

Most of them will have a breakup experience.

Remember that there is a saying that the number of times you fall in love is the number of breakups minus one.

Look at the creation of the handle. If you are lucky, you may experience a very romantic love with a happy ending, and then you may be friends with this first person, or continue, so that you will know how to love and learn to be loved in the future.

If you meet someone you shouldn't love, or if both or both parties don't know how to love. The ending is very bad, but after this you must not be slumped, you must know that the road is still very long, and you will meet the right one.

At the same time, I want to tell you that you must cherish what you have and never give up on yourself and the world no matter what.

Know what you want.

And you have to understand! Any setbacks or obstacles may give you a chance to rediscover yourself!!

A good experience ...

Don't be impulsive!! Don't let yourself regret it, oh!!

In other words, if you are rejected, you must be unhappy, unwilling or lost.

For the person we like, we should strive to live every day happily with him. ......But some people finally choose to give up on people who have liked them for many years. The reason why these people make such a choice is because they have exhausted their enthusiasm after years of pursuit, they have no choice but to give up after years of fruitless pursuit, and they finally choose to give up rationally after long-term thinking.

1. Years of pursuit exhausted his enthusiasm and finally chose to give up.

I like someone for many years and pursue him all the time, and this process consumes a lot of my energy and makes me feel exhausted ......When years of pursuit have been fruitless, you will feel exhausted and your enthusiasm will be exhausted, which will make you finally choose to give up on pursuing him.

2. Pursued the other party for many years without results, and finally had no choice but to give up.

There are people who like someone for many years and are always pursuing each other. ......However, the other party reacted coldly to this, and his pursuit was always fruitless, which made him feel very helpless. ......When you pursue the other person for many years without results, you will eventually give up because you feel helpless, and then choose to quit.

3. After thinking for a long time, I finally chose to give up sensibly.

Some people like and pursue someone for many years, but it never comes to fruition. ......During this time, you will think deeply about the relationship and make a final choice ...... whether it is worth continuing to pursueWhen you determine through rational analysis that your pursuit is destined to be fruitless, you will eventually rationally choose to give up and choose to quit. ......The above factors are the reasons why many people like and pursue each other for many years but finally choose to give up.

On the road of life, we will always meet countless people we like, but in the end, only a few can really come together. The question of why we like someone but can't get it is a question that many people can't understand and accept. Let's take a look at the root of this problem.

First of all, people prefer different standards. Sometimes we feel that we are rich and colorful, and we have a lot of different qualities and strengths in our hearts. However, for each person, the standard of excellence and excellence is very different.

Some particular advantages become disadvantages in the eyes of others. What's more, each person's unique personality and the influence of factors such as personality, background and position have created a unique quality of kindness and disgust for each person. This means that the person you like is likely not to like the traits and strengths you have.

Secondly, there is the question of timing and fate. Many people are not the first in each other's lives when they first meet, and their minds have to be scattered to career, study or family. Factors in the external environment, such as geography, family background, social conditions, etc., will also have a certain impact on the acquaintance and understanding between two people.

Timing and fate are the result of a variety of complex factors, and sometimes fate is far from the time to wait in the heart, and this is one of the reasons why many people like but can't get their loved ones.

Finally, the uniqueness of the heart and the emotional patience. Everyone has a unique level of optimal emotional state and patience. The readiness and courage of the mind, as well as the courage to decide the next move, are the keys to determining whether a person's fate is successful or not.

So it's not that we can't get someone we like, but often after a certain amount of time and mental strength, we may choose not to love that person anymore.

Of course, the above content is only a ** on why you can't get it if you like someone, everyone's situation is different, and there are various other reasons. In any case, if you feel doubts, frustration or disappointment, give yourself more time to soothe the uneasiness or loss that flows through your heart, and give yourself more opportunities and courage to explore life. Time will tell you everything, and no matter what, you will meet the one who belongs to you.

Many things are always understood after experiencing them. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted.

Learn to give up, and life will be easier. Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the best memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable. This journey is deep and shallow, and it is not easy to get to this day, gently pull out your hand and say goodbye, thank you very much, there are you along the way.

I once said I loved you, and I still love you today. It's just that I love you, but I can't be with you. It is like loving the flame of the wilderness, loving it, but not returning with it.

Whoever says that if you like someone, you must be with him. Sometimes, some people, in order to be with the person they like, they do not hesitate to use the most primitive method of "crying, making trouble and hanging themselves", in order to keep their lovers. Maybe this keeps the lover, but it can't keep his heart.

What's more, he lost his young and brilliant life for this, maybe this will evoke a response from his lover, but it also brings him more guilt and self-blame, as well as uneasiness, and from then on happiness will wave goodbye to him.

In fact, if you like someone, you don't have to be with him, so some people often say "I don't care about eternity, I only care about what I once had", and people who are together may not necessarily be happy. Like one, the most important thing is to make him happy, because his joys, sorrows, and sorrows will affect your heart. So there is also such a saying, "You are happy, so I am happy."

Therefore, when you like someone, a crush is also a good idea. If you like someone, you have to make him happy, make him happy, and make that feeling more sincere. If you can't do it, then you better let it go, so sometimes, some people, too, have to learn to give up, because giving up is also a kind of beauty.