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1.A white lie is beautiful, and this lie is not deception, it is not ill-intentioned. When we tell a small lie in moderation for the sake of the happiness of others, the lie immediately becomes understanding, respect, and tolerance, and has magical powers, without any impurity.
2.A white lie is motivated by good intentions and with the aim of defending the interests of others. Due to the nature of its white lie, it is not malicious, but is based on the sincerity and goodness of the heart, and the malicious lie is the act of seeking for the liar, with a strong desire for profit and weak reason, and using others as a means at the expense of harming others.
The lies that a person who is good in itself is "forced" to tell in a certain state are benevolent, and this lie is a kind of kindness, a kind of concern for the subject. And the unscrupulous people, no matter how disguised, how flattering, how racked their brains to put a good hat on their malicious lies, the lies they tell are all malicious. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder integrity.
3.When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, lovers, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved", "How long can he live?"
Although these are all truths, who would be as cruel as a judge to sentence a prisoner to death, and tell the truth to his relatives who are already sick? At this time, everyone will form a united front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make the patient full of hope for **, so that the patient can spend the rest of the year in a peaceful state. Is this an undermining of integrity?
4.A white lie is a way of dealing with the world, a manifestation of the quality of thinking for others, is it also a lie?
5.A white lie will make people's feelings more harmonious, and a white lie is not an obstacle to honesty at all, as long as our intentions are good, as long as we think about others, then a white lie is precious. Sometimes, white lies have magical power.
6.The opponent's defense friend just said that a white lie is not seeking the truth, telling lies, falsehoods, exaggerating, covering up, and distorting the truth, but I think that a lie has the nature of what the other party's defense friend just said, and when the lie is modified by good intentions, the lie immediately becomes goodwill, not to deceive others, there is no nature of a lie, it does not hinder integrity, and if the white lie is exposed, the harm will become understanding.
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During my six years in primary school, I experienced countless activities. There are exciting outings, interesting knowledge quizzes, sports meetings where you catch up, and school anniversaries ......that are in full swingAmong the countless activities, there are activities that I will remember, activities that move me, and ......There is one event that I will never forget, and that was a debate that benefited me a lot.
As soon as the bell of the fourth class on Wednesday was thought, the students took out pieces of paper and put them on their desks, waiting for Teacher Wen to arrive. Do you know what we're doing again? Let me tell you, we are here for a debate called "Do You Need White Lies in Your Life?" and that piece of paper is the material for our debate.
The debate was divided into two main groups, the pros and cons, the boys and the girls.
The debate began, and Mr. Wen wrote on the blackboard the words "Do you need white lies in life?" on the blackboard. Then let's start with the square, the one who supports "life doesn't need white lies".
On behalf of the positive side, to tell a lie is to lie, and if everyone justifies a white lie, there will be no truth in the world. Zhengfang Xiaoyi said.
But a lie doesn't have to be a deception. There are two kinds of lies: malicious and benign. Lying is an instinct of human beings, and as for whether it is honest or not, the key lies in what kind of lie it is.
A malicious lie is deception, and a malicious lie is the act of seeking benefits for the liar, with a strong desire for profit, at the expense of harming others. A white lie is a well-intentioned lie, with the aim and starting point of safeguarding the interests of others. White lies do not hinder integrity.
So there should be white lies in lifeThe students on the opposite side discerned.
The classroom immediately became lively, and several of our players immediately raised their hands.
Gesmail said, "It's fairly common to think you're better than you really are." Most people don't live in reality, they live in fantasies, especially about themselves.
However, most excuses are destructive. Shouldn't we be honest and have fewer excuses? At the same time, I would like to ask the other side, if everyone has this view, how can we make our country more prosperous in terms of integrity?
Just when we were fighting over this, Mr. Wen stopped us and concluded: "The two sides are tied, this time everyone is well prepared, we need to be honest in life, be an honest person, don't tell lies casually, but on some special occasions, white lies can still be told." ”
It was truly an unforgettable debate!
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I think it's well-intentioned.
Because for example, if our mother gives us all the delicious food, but she watches us eat happily, it also expresses her mother's love and love for us.
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When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, lovers, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved", "At most, how long can I live in this world?" and so on. Although these are all truths, who would be so cruel as a judge to sentence a prisoner to death, and tell the truth to his relatives who are already sick.
At this time, everyone will form a united front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make the patient full of hope for **, so that the patient can spend the rest of the years in a peaceful state. Is this an undermine to integrity?
When a child who does not rhyme with the world suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his relatives, how to explain to him that his relatives have gone. We think the best thing to do is not to tell him the real situation for the time being, just to say that he is far away for business, or studying and working abroad.
When the child is sensible and has a certain ability to bear, and then tell the truth, the child will also understand the behavior of his relatives and will not be angry because he did not know the truth earlier. Is it also an obstacle to integrity?
When the mother of a soldier who is on a mission in the field is terminally ill and breathes from the heat, how much he hopes to see his son for the last time, but the son can't come back, can't do a little filial piety for the old mother, take care of the mother who once broke her heart for her son, he is very sorry, and he is also very worried. And the old mother understood her son very well, and told her relatives around her that she should not tell her distant son after she left, and she could not distract him, but to say that his condition was stable, so that he could be loyal to the country with peace of mind. Is such a white lie an obstacle to integrity?
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