More and more people are reluctant to get married, what is the reason?

More and more people are reluctant to get married because they don't want to take on too many responsibilities, and now men and women are equal, and they don't need to live together at all, and they lose their freedom when they are together, and it is better to live alone.

Because life is stressful. As the times change, people's minds are improving. It's not easy to find a partner of your own.

I think it's because there's too much pressure after getting married, and there's so much to face.

There is always only the feeling of marriage, and there is no age for marriage. ”

There are many factors to consider when getting married, and you can't rush it.

You need to understand the person's values, hobbies, inner and outer image; family, friends; Attitude towards strangers and behavior in public ......

If you're in your twenties and don't know what you really want, don't rush to marry someone who is okay but you don't really like.

If you know that you're doing what you love most in your best years, but you haven't met the right person yet, do what you want to do first.

Your life is not entirely about "marrying someone", you are you, and you have ideals, goals, and values, not a vine that grows on a tree. We don't get married not because marriage is not important, but because marriage is too important to marry easily.

There are few happy people who marry for the sake of getting married, and there are many examples of this around me. Everyone gets together in order to live together, each with their own little calculations, as long as it is about interests, both sides will not give in.

This is not the most terrible, the most terrible thing is that as soon as there is a little disaster between them, the other side will disappear immediately. This is a husband and wife, this is a bird in the same forest, which really makes people feel a little sad.

Marriage is a very beautiful existence, because everyone can have a happy home through marriage. It's just that in real life, the homes owned by many people don't seem to be so happy.

When it comes to getting married, everyone should be cautious, after all, marriage is not a market, and the sooner the better. You have to meet the right person before you make the decision to meet Kailu.

It is not easy for people to live for a lifetime, don't leave too many regrets for yourself, some people have lived a very miserable life from the beginning, and their suffering will increase day by day after marriage.

1. Economic factors: With the continuous increase in housing prices, prices and other costs, it is difficult for many young people to bear the economic pressure required for marriage. They may need to put in more time and effort to earn enough money to build their financial base, which can lead to delaying the decision to get married.

2. Education and career development: Today's young people pay more attention to education and career development, including their desire to succeed in their careers and get better jobs and incomes, so they are likely to choose to postpone marriage and grandchildren.

3. Changes in the concept and value of marriage: The concept and value of marriage among young people are changing. Today's young people, who are more focused on self-actualization and personal freedom, may perceive marriage as limiting their freedom and personal development.

There are many reasons why modern young people are reluctant to get married, such as work pressure, housing pressure, life pressure, loan pressure, and pressure to support the elderly.

With the development of the economy, although the standard of living is much higher, modern young people are facing unprecedented pressure, they dare not fall in love, and even their own survival is a problem, let alone dare to think about starting a family. If you have money, no one wants to be single, which is caused by many pressures.

In the past, the carriage and horses were very slow, the mail was very slow, and there was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime. However, modern love comes and goes quickly!

The kinder party paid money and time, but in the end ended up with a cracked stove and "no people and money", the risk cost of marriage has increased, and it has been consumed to the fullest. Modern young people really don't dare to get married casually, unless they are really very rich and have always had the ability to support their families, otherwise they just raised their husbands (daughters-in-law) for others, and in the end the gains outweigh the losses, there are too many people who are spare tires!

Even if a person finds a second marriage, it is raising children for others, not biological children, no matter what, people will still find their biological parents when they grow up.

The previous marriage was very simple, a cow, a sheep, or even a dustpan of soybeans or a sack of sweet potatoes. Today's love, the three major pieces (house, car, ticket) are all indispensable. In the past, it was all about feelings, but now it's all about looking at the silver and pretending.

If you have less silver, you don't dare to get married, and if you have more silver, you will have confidence, which can be described as "drought and waterlogging".

Young people, without capital, really dare not step into marriage, just like some girls say: "Your little silver is not as expensive as my box of cosmetics!" ”

Although the young boy has a smile on his face, only he knows the pain and pain in his heart. Others are persuading you to get married, but in fact they can't help.

Take marriage as an example, a house costs millions, a car costs hundreds of thousands, and a gift money costs hundreds of thousands.

Now I'm seeing more and more people, and they don't want to go, get married. Especially when we see that there are a lot of young people now, they also don't fall in love and don't get married.

In fact, for many people, they feel that as young people, they should look forward to love more, because love is so happy and so beautiful. It is precisely because love is so happy and beautiful that for many people, they should feel that they should look forward to love more, especially when they meet someone they like, then many people are more positive and work harder. They want to be able to be with the people they like through their positivity and hard work.

It will also allow them to have a better love.

But we see that there are some young people and even more and more people in Tongran, they don't fall in love, and they don't want to get married, so many people want to know what is the reason? First of all, because there are a lot of girls now, and they are very realistic. Especially in love, they will put too much and too high demands on boys, and they will ask boys to have good jobs and good families.

Only then will girls be willing to socialize with boys. And in the process of dating, they still require the boy to care for and take care of him with his heart. Only boys can better satisfy girls, so that girls are willing to be with boys, me.

So we see that although there are many boys who want to be with girls, because they can't meet or meet the requirements and conditions of girls, they can only choose to be single.

Of course, there are also young people who are reluctant to get married because they know that they are not that good yet. Therefore, they will study more seriously and work hard, because only when they are better themselves, so that they can find a more suitable person for themselves.

So we see that there are a lot of young people now, and they don't fall in love and they don't get married. But in fact, for these young people, they also know that love is happiness, and it is very beautiful.

So if you want these young people to have love, then they still have to be more active, because only when they are more active, so that they can find a more suitable person. Only in this way can they get along better together. In the end, it is on the basis of their good relationship that they will be able to get along more harmoniously, and eventually they will be able to establish a deeper relationship with the person they like, so that they can finally have happiness and beautiful love.

Because the times have changed, young people nowadays are digging, and the deviation of values, outlook on life, and world view is too great, marriage and family are no longer the theme of life, and love is becoming less and less important. After 70, it is better to be in love; After the 80s next to the pants, spiritual resonance is important when falling in love; After the 90s, falling in love emphasizes feelings.

Take the post-90s generation as an example, most of them are only children, they are given the expectations of the whole family from birth, and the money they earn after work is not enough to spend on themselves, after talking about a few boyfriends and girlfriends, they find that love does not bring a sense of security, and they have to pay unlimited time and energy, and a sense of anxiety arises spontaneously.

With the development of the economy, the cost of living is also getting higher. Making money is indeed the first big problem, just open that mobile app, and the overwhelming commercials remind you to spend money all the time. Hard work, can't afford to buy a small toilet in Beijing.

In today's society, more than 75% of high school graduates can accept higher transactions, and cultivating themselves is basically equivalent to being able to get higher work remuneration in the future, and spending on the other half may end up breaking up with nothing.

Therefore, young people nowadays have their own thoughts and have different ways of getting along with love.

First of all, the cost of raising a baby is too high, and secondly, the pressure of life is getting bigger and bigger, first the car loan, and then the type of spike also guesses that there is a mortgage and the normalization of 996 and 007.

There are too few companies and enterprises that really follow the labor law, and there are too few companies and enterprises that are busy with work and vacations.

Nowadays, more and more people, especially young people, are reluctant to get married, combined with my own experience, the analysis is mainly due to the following reasons.

1. I don't have the money to get married.

The economic pressure is too great.

There is no money, it is estimated that it is common to many male compatriots. Because now the requirements for men to get married are getting more and more harsh. Usually in love, I ask the man to pay for the morning meeting, eat, watch the movie, buy bags, give gifts, etc., which is okay.

The key is that now marriage requires a house and a car, which is the source of everyone's anxiety. For a person who has worked for several years, the house price is so high, the pressure to buy a house is huge, without the help of the family, it is very difficult to buy a house on your own, I used to think that it was shameful to gnaw the old, but now you have to gnaw the old, which is also a matter of no way.

Second, the divorce rate is too high, and there is a sense of fear of marriage.

Now there is a strange phenomenon, that is, the divorce rate is particularly high, I don't know if it is caused by the personality of the two people, or other problems, which makes many young people feel that marriage is painful, so they have a psychology of rejection, and they are even more reluctant to get married after a long time.

3. I have become accustomed to living alone.

I don't know if you have found it, those who are single will always be single, because they are used to living alone, and even if you introduce someone to them, it is difficult to help them get out of single. Because after getting used to the single life, it is difficult to get used to others coming into your own life.

If it weren't for their age, if it weren't for the psychological fear caused by the people around them getting married, they wouldn't consider going on a blind date to find a partner to marry, because a person's single life is too comfortable, they can do whatever they want, no one quarrels, they don't eat anything, and they don't ask for anyone's opinion. Once you get used to a person's life, it's hard to change it. So you find that a lot of people who are single, they were single before.

Whether you choose to get married or choose to be single, it is not the final state of life, and there are joys and sorrows in any kind of life. Those who are married envy the freedom of being single, and those who are single envy the warmth of a married family. No matter what kind of life you choose, it's good that you don't regret it, as for what others think, it doesn't matter at all!

There are many older young people in our lives, who are not married to the opposite sex, and there are many girls who have become older young people, because they have successful careers, are too demanding, and cannot find the right person, so they become older young people, for boys in many cases, it is more difficult to find a girlfriend, their own conditions are not very good, it is difficult to find someone they like, and some people do not want to find a partner to date is like to live a free and easy life.

Due to the fact that there are a lot of boys now, the girls are now picky, and they have more and more requirements, because they always think that they don't have to worry about getting married anyway, and there are more boys now, and they can let themselves choose, it is because of the existence of this idea that Brother Daofeng has caused more and more older leftover women, and there are also very good boys who can't find a daughter-in-law.

The divorce rate is getting higher and higher.

I don't know what's going on, now people's emotions are really getting more and more fragile, a little trivial when two people can cause quarrels, in serious cases, two people will choose to divorce, that is, because the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, resulting in many people can't believe in love, so many people are afraid of getting married, so that many people are in their thirties, and they don't plan to find a partner, the more they don't want to get married, the more they feel that living alone is actually quite good, once you have this kind of thought, The number of single people in China will become taller and taller.

In fact, I think that whether it is a man or a woman who meets the right person for himself in love, or choose to get married, after all, the person who has fate cannot wait for you all the time, once you miss it, it is really a lifetime, and it will be too late for you to regret it, so you can choose to fall in love and get married at the right age.