What if my parents don t approve of him dating me?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-28
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Parents always have a reason for their thoughts. After all, they see more than we do! Communicate with them why you don't agree, think about it calmly, don't be unhappy with your parents because of impulse, after all, they know yourself better than you, and in the final analysis, it is also for your good.

    Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe there's something wrong with him. Parents want their children to be happy. Hehe. It's up to you to find out if there's something really wrong with him. Or your parents have a problem, stop yourself and take good holds. Don't go wrong.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think it mainly depends on what your own opinion is, if you really think that he can really let you entrust you for life, then you can slowly do your parents' work, don't worry, let your parents accept him little by little, and see his advantages. During this time, you play a big role in bridging the gap between your boyfriend and your parents.

    If you find out that your boyfriend is not as good as you thought he would be, then you should consider your parents' opinions. After all, they are from the past. And they're the only ones in the world who are the best for you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe it's because you're too young, and your elders don't want you to have an accident, so you get along slowly, and if he is really a good boy, your parents will agree to it one day.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My girlfriend's parents don't agree with you being together, it's really a serious issue that needs to be faced correctly, and my advice is as follows:

    Clause. 1. Find the cause. If your girlfriend's parents don't agree with you being together, there must be a reason, and all the first steps are to know the root of the problem, so that you can have a target.

    Clause. 2. If it is because of your appearance, it is given by your parents, and it cannot be changed much or at all. It can only be made up for by dressing and grooming. I don't think there are excessive physical defects, and the other parents don't dwell on it.

    Clause. Third, what is important may be the condition of your family and your own economic strength. If your family is not wealthy, or your family is surrounded by walls, no parent wants to let their children suffer with you.

    You can't completely change the environment at home, but you can change yourself through your efforts. Therefore, it is possible to agree on a deadline with the woman's parents and give a goal that can be achieved. If it can be achieved, they will naturally agree.

    Even if you don't quite reach your goal, they see your hard work and self-motivation.

    You may also be accepted.

    Clause. Fourth, if it is not in the same city, it is difficult to solve the problem of separation between the two places; Or you need to buy a house and a car, etc., these can't be said to be too much, after all, parents want their children to be happy. For these hard conditions, you can only do your best to solve them.

    Some things can be done, some things can't. Not all love will have a result, do the worst, prepare for the worst and do your best.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Engagement is not protected by law.

    The point is, does she still love you now?

    If she agrees with the family's decision, you have to give up!

    If she has you in her heart all the time. There is still hope for you!

    Don't worry about looks: that's relative. (There are very few perfect people in the world!) The important thing is that you have a good heart and that she can like you. It's better than anything else! )

    Falling in love is all about feelings. Money is actually not everything. (An emotionless marriage is a tragedy from the start!) Ask your girlfriend to tell her parents this hard truth over and over again. (What era is it now?) Marriage should be decided by the children themselves! )

    At the same time, your girlfriend should patiently tell her parents about your care, your talents, your excellence and highlights! (Let them like you!) )

    Then they'll change their minds! Because they found out: only if they let their daughter marry their sweetheart, she will be happy! Twisted melons are not sweet!

    I wish you all the best!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It can only be resolved through communication.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Since his parents don't agree, there must be a reason why you're together. You should remember this early because you need to know. She doesn't agree that if you have to be together in the future, your life won't be happy. Better a finger off than always aching.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Start by asking your girlfriend what her parents think of you, and then you can work hard to get their approval.

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