A boy who says he likes me is really like it, should I believe it?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-01
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think there is love in this world, at least not in this space, because I haven't seen it, and no one around me has tasted the taste of love and happiness, and it's a vain question if you ask like this, what is love and what kind of shape is it, only you know it in this world because it's your own love, you don't fight your own love and taste it with others and then ask her, "Oh, what do you think this love is, okay?"

    There are so many boys and girls in this world, who will be yours, and who will you be, just think about this, and when you understand this, you will not be so easy and so fond of asking questions and always thinking so incomprehensibly.

    In fact, I don't think girls should always think about this, because it's better to love others than to treat themselves well, women should also be greater, and it's not as simple as loving male animals, love is not just a simple game like 1+1, you should be young now, right, spend a little more time on yourself, if you really fall in love with someone, you feel so unfree and so simple, cherish the days of being single, you know that there are not many single people on this earth, and most boys are not as good as girls, isn't it.

    Don't say that I have a lot of things, maybe I am the worst and least favorite of you so much, but you have to think about it, it is not possible to have no love in the world, but it is not necessarily not possible, isn't it, maybe what I said and your question is a bit off-topic, but what I say is everything I want to say in my heart.

    I've been in love 5 times, say no more, say less a lot, my experience is that it was a boy who said to me personally, he said that when a boy loves you is wholeheartedly, but once he has no feelings for you, he also sends himself sincerely to break up with you, boys and girls are together, the result is only two, can not be happy and only heartache, that is everyone has a must go and must taste life, your question shows that you care about the boy in your heart, isn't it, he said he likes you, if it's true, So what are you going to do, if not, you have a feeling in your own heart, and what good reason is there to say "no" to yourself or to him. Think about what you really want, or whether you want it or not, what the outcome will be, and think about whether the question you ask is really not that important anymore, isn't it?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Although I am a man, I want to say a word for that boy: I hope that if you like a boy in the future, you will treat your liking as a laughing stock and let you get out, hopefully.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love needs fate, and that's because you haven't met someone you like.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Observe more, you know.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't, don't

    That's fake. He just finished the college entrance examination, he just wanted to find someone to play with

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Vary. There are some people you should believe, and there are some people you shouldn't.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He said liking, not love, liking is not the same as love. As for what true love is, you will only know if you experience it, and no one can explain what true love is. If you don't have feelings for boys, it means that you haven't been moved yet, and if you are moved, you will naturally feel it.

    Since you're only a freshman, let's focus on studying. Good luck!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Do you think he's serious? I think oh. Not very credible. Sometimes it's a matter of feeling. So. Feel it yourself

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It depends on whether he is sincere... It also depends on how you feel about him...

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First-year students generally feel quite free.

    Do whatever you want.

    Won't seriously think about it.

    Or because it's just lonely.

    Messing around looking for a boyfriend and girlfriend!

    So I don't think it's credible!

    But exclude some of the little boys who had a crush on them in high school.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Not necessarily. Love does not have to be said, the key is to see if he loves you wholeheartedly and sincerely, and whether he loves you everything, including tolerating your shortcomings. But this is difficult to see on the surface, and it depends on your own delicate observation ability.

    Also, don't just pay attention to your appearance when you love someone, the most important thing is your character.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hehe, how can I tell you this, a boy said this, just a conscious approval.

    If you really know each other, ask yourself if you like him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It depends on whether you like him or not, and if you don't feel for him, it's useless for him to say that he likes you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Sister. I like you too. It's true.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's always easier to say than to do!!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Keep your eyes open and polished.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    True love is only known if you try it for yourself.

    You haven't met the person you love yet, and you'll know it when you do.

    Everyone is hungry and thirsty! The reason why you don't have feelings for guys is because you haven't met someone you really like

    Vary. There are some people you should believe, and there are some people you shouldn't. It is important to know more about being loved is a kind of luck, if falling in love is a kind of happiness, at that time it will not be far from true love, I wish you to find your love as soon as possible.

    Being loved is a kind of luck, if you love each other is a kind of happiness, at that time it will not be far from true love, I wish you to find your love as soon as possible.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Now this society is very realistic!? Especially men? ~!Nowadays, the psychology of men is very difficult to master! I like to play around with emotional problems! So it's really hard to see a guy clearly! ~

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The love of college can be used as a spice, and I personally think so.

    You can only believe, you can't be obsessed, and you can't be obsessed with it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you meet someone you love, you know what love is.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The most important thing is to see the other party's character clearly, before Mei likes him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The most important thing is your own choice

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Love is a strong will, which is difficult to get rid of and difficult to dispel.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Everyone is hungry and thirsty! The reason why you don't have feelings for guys is because you haven't met someone you really like

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Vary. There are some people you should believe, and there are some people you shouldn't. It's important to know more.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Not necessarily.

    The boy who chats with you every day, but doesn't say that he likes you, is probably for these reasons:

    1. I'm worried that I don't even have to be a friend

    Many times, before confessing, you can stay by the side of the person you like like like like like a friend, but once you say it, if you are rejected, then you will lose the opportunity to wait silently, and you don't even have to be a friend.

    For many boys, they fear that such a situation will arise, and such a boy is not ready to be rejected. If you want to be together as soon as possible, then give him some hints to give him the courage to confess to you.

    2. I want to spend more time observing you

    Many boys are more cautious about love, they hope that the person they meet can accompany them through a lifetime, and they don't want to make hasty decisions, so they will give themselves more time to observe you and want to know more about you.

    For such a man, the girl can be patient, and wait for the boy's test period for himself to pass, and he will naturally confess. Of course, it is also possible that after a long time, he will find out that you have many shortcomings, and then give up on you directly.

    3. He doesn't like you very much

    If a boy just has a crush on you and doesn't like you very much, then he will do the same to you. He doesn't want to have no chances, but he's not sure if he really wants to be with you, so he will "hang" you like this.

    Because the boy knows that the word "like" is equivalent to a promise, he is embarrassed to say that he likes you today, and tomorrow he finds out that he only has a little affection for you, not really interesting to you, and makes things worse.

    4. You look too cold

    We often say that whoever looks very cold and feels very difficult to chase, in fact, sometimes it is just the appearance, some people just look cold on the outside, but the outside is cold and the heart is hot, but others don't know this. If your friends often say that you are very cold, then the boy treats you like this, which means that his heart is full of uncertainty about you, he doesn't know whether you like him, and he is afraid of being cruelly rejected by you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The truth and falsehood in this world are competitions that cannot be measured in words. The love you hear is felt by your ears, and you need to see the sincerity of the boys. If he really loves you and is willing to give for you, you can naturally feel it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Summary. Hello, the guy said that there is someone he likes may be true or false, and you need to verify it through his usual daily life. When a guy says he has someone he likes, there are two things:

    1.He really has someone he likes, and that person is not you. 2.

    He doesn't like you, so he lies that he has someone he likes to prevaricate you. Obviously, no matter what the situation is, it means that the other party does not like you, and even if you are sad, no matter how much you give up your self-esteem to show favor to the other party, it is often useless.

    Is it true that the boy said that there is someone he likes?

    Hello, the guy said that there is someone he likes may be true or false, and you need to verify it through his usual daily life. When a guy says he has someone he likes, there are two situations:1

    He really has someone he likes, and that person is not you. 2.He doesn't like you, so he lies that he has someone he likes to prevaricate you.

    Obviously, no matter what the situation is, it means that the other party does not like you, and even if you are sad, no matter how much you give up your self-esteem to show favor to the other party, it is often useless.

    But there is a special situation in this, that is, when you ask a guy if he has someone he likes, he has a crush, maybe he has always had a crush on that person, or it is possible that the person he has a crush on is you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Summary. Whether this is true or not, you can go and verify it. It's through his usual routine.

    Whether this is true or not, you can go and verify it. It's through his usual routine.

    He told me exactly who it was.

    I also asked him what would happen if someone confessed to you now.

    He said he would refuse.

    Because there are already people who like it.

    Because, when a guy tells you that he has someone he likes, there are only two kinds of results - one is: he really has someone he likes, and that person is not you; The second is: he doesn't like you, so he lies that he has someone he likes to prevaricate you.

    Obviously, no matter what it is, it means that you can't get into the eyes of the other party, and even if you are sad, no matter how much you give up your self-esteem to show favor to the other party, it is often useless. Girls, when a guy tells you that he has someone he likes, hurry up and die! There is no grass anywhere in the world!

    Time is the best medicine!

    But I really like him.

    How can you forget him?

    But people already have people who like it, and we like it now. It's a burden for him. It's also a disservice to you.

    The only way you want to forget about him at the moment is to distract yourself from doing something you like, listening, exercising, or going shopping. Distract yourself in other ways.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Not necessarily, this can be remembered for a long time, that is to say, to play or make a good Zen joke and the socks are blind People who really like your filial piety will use their actions to prove their love for you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    There is nothing wrong with the fake.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Not necessarily, it may just be a joke and amusement, and those who really like it will use actions to prove that they really love you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If a guy says "I like you a little bit", it usually means that he is right for youThere are some good feelings, but he did not express very deep feelings. It could be because he doesn't fully understand you yet, orHe is not ready to develop the relationship further。This usually indicates a boyInterested in you

    For this, girls should be slag grindedStay calm and sane, don't rush to pursue the love of a guy or give up on yourself. Girls should try to continue to maintain friendly relationships with boys, so that boys can understand themselves better, and at the same time, they should also maintain their independence and self-confidence, and not lose themselves in pursuit of boys' likes.

    If a girl needs to express her feelings, she can tell the boy directlyThoughts and feelings, butDon'tTo the boysApply pressureorForced him to change his feelings。Most importantly, girls should respect boys' feelings and decisions and let the relationship develop naturally.

    If you are this girl, you can take the following actions:

    Continue to maintain friendly relationships with boys, but it is not as good as putting pressure on him or expecting too much from him. Let the relationship develop naturally.

    In the process of interacting with a guy, learn as much as you can about him, including his preferences, interests, personality, etc. At the same time, show your strengths and characteristics so that he can get to know you better.

    Don't lose yourself in pursuit of a guy's liking, stay confident and independent. Do what you love, develop your hobbies, and make yourself more fulfilled and confident.

    If you need to express your feelings and thoughts, you can tell the guy directly, but don't force him to change his feelings and decisions. Respect his feelings and decisions, and maintain good communication and understanding.

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