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The combination of the two of you doesn't seem to be very suitable, an important reason why the marriage can last for a long time is that the two people can communicate effectively, reduce conflicts and misunderstandings, and avoid unnecessary friction, the two of you are in such an embarrassing situation when you are not married, I suspect that the woman does not love you at all, and does not cherish you at all, so I advise you to think seriously and make the right decision, if you love her very much, then you think that if through your efforts, you can change her and win her heart, Your relationship can continue. Otherwise, when the interruption continues, it will be chaotic. Turn back as soon as possible, the other half who truly belongs to you is waiting for you, don't miss out on your true feelings.
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Oh, and this happens a lot of things in love.
The problem is in the way you get along.
Women don't care that way.
You should cool her for a while, and then be nice to her, and then be nice to her for a while, and be good to her, which is the US policy towards Russia. This is in line with the trend of psychological development.
You've always been nice to her, and when she's used to it, she'll naturally disagree.
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Such a girl is not suitable to be a wife, she doesn't love you! You have to distinguish what kind of girl is suitable for falling in love, what kind of girl is suitable for marriage, such a girl is not even suitable to be friends! Don't get married too hastily so you don't regret it! Find out if she loves you first!
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The most solid experience I've ever seen chasing girls is a long-distance relationship.
I think this kind of persistence is very positive, but we must learn to communicate with couples amicably, so that we can work together to make the future better, and we must do the following to communicate and get along:
1. Maintain self-confidence.
No matter who the other party is, we must first maintain self-confidence, not unconfident, whether it is messy words or behavior that looks submissive, so that we are not hungry and conducive to communication, so we must behave generously and decently, and be confident between the lines when talking, so that we are half the success of the communication.
2. The tone is tactful.
When communicating, we can be straightforward about our intentions, but try to be tactful. Remember to go around and down, no one will like this, be sure to say your opinion in one sentence, straight to the point will help us improve the efficiency of doing things, and the other party will also save a lot of time.
3. Be patient.
Be patient in communication and don't show boredom. If you really don't like to hear it, you must know how to avoid it skillfully and politely. In this way, you can also take into account the feelings of others.
4. There is a degree of advance and retreat.
If the other party is a person with a strong personality, it is likely that the communication will not be smooth enough in the process of communication.
5. Know yourself and your opponent.
No matter who we communicate with, we must have an in-depth understanding of each other in advance, so that it is easier and easier to talk, if we don't even know who the person we are communicating with, then how can we communicate more smoothly and happily, and sincerely.
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Full respect and love for girlfriends can make girlfriends feel more secure, which is something that boys only know after they have girlfriends, and it is also where they need to continue to improve and improve in the process of getting along with each other.
Therefore, the correct form of communication between couples is very important, and friendly communication methods will make each other get along well, and they can also work together to create a better life.
1. Smiling and mild-mannered.
Everybody likes to talk to someone who is smiling and soft-spoken, because they can hear a sense of intimacy in that person's speech, and do you feel comfortable when the person you're talking to is smiling all the time? When his tone of voice makes you comfortable, communication with each other will be smoother and more pleasant.
2. Be polite in your speech and behavior.
When talking to people, be sure to be mindful of what you say and do. If you want to talk effectively with others, you must learn to get along with others politely and make others have a good impression of you.
3. Be brave enough to admit your mistakes when communicating.
In the process of communication, if you have a problem or put forward an unreasonable opinion, you should take the initiative to apologize to the other party and bravely admit your mistake, such as "I was wrong, I didn't think it through." "Wait, it's all good.
4. Modestly express your opinions.
Everyone has a certain purpose in talking, and when the other party is talking, in order to improve the efficiency of the conversation between the two parties, we must first clearly express our thoughts and opinions, so that the other party can understand.
5. Don't communicate emotionally.
When communicating with people, don't bring emotions, especially negative emotions. If you want to communicate effectively with others, you must first control your emotions and do not have any emotional actions.
6. Be straightforward and straight to the point.
Although it is necessary to have a pre-paving stall rental mat to communicate with people, it is also not necessary to pave the mat for too long, otherwise it will deviate from the topic, and it is best to go straight to the topic after a little foreshadowing to improve efficiency.
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1.Honest communication: Be honest and transparent in your conversations, expressing your true feelings and needs to love.
2.Understanding and supportive: Valuing your girlfriend's feelings and thoughts, willing to listen and support her decisions and choices.
3.Positive Expression: Actively express emotions in conversations, showing your concern and love for your girlfriend.
4.Listen patiently: Listen patiently to your girlfriend's thoughts and emotions during the communication process and give her enough space and support.
5.Exchange of views: In communication, try to exchange opinions, listen to each other and respect each other's points of view to achieve a deeper understanding and consensus.
6.Calm and rational: Stay calm and rational in communication, and avoid emotional words and actions and aggressive language.
Long-distance relationship is a test of feelings, two people are not together for a long time, there is no common experience and topic, or it will not be long before the relationship will fade, and no matter what troubles she or you encounter, the other half can no longer be around to give care and love, there will be a very lost feeling, and the third party is easy to take advantage of the void. And you have too many practical problems, the opinions of the parents on both sides, work and anything have not been solved. She has actually chosen to give up on you now, the most intolerable thing for men and women to get along with is deception, she has clearly told you that she has no feelings for you, and she has already played friends with the game, it is a man who has a little backbone and decisively forgets her, to believe that a good man naturally does not worry about not finding a good wife, your fate is over, don't indulge in the past anymore.
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