Tell me about some things you don t dare your parents know.

Let's talk about my privacy, I was adopted, in fact, I myself have known it for a long time, my parents have been hiding it from me, maybe they are afraid that I will feel uncomfortable if I know, or some other reason, I have never told them that I already know, so I still pretend not to know.

When I was in junior high school, my living expenses on every big weekend were actually not enough, and sometimes my stomach was hungry and I was very weak every day. But at that time, the family conditions were not good, and my father was the only one who worked, so I never mentioned it to the family. Fortunately, they have all survived now, and they will never be hungry again.

I am a basketball enthusiast, I love to play basketball very much, I won many championships in high school, and my parents are also very supportive of me, and they come to the court every time to encourage me, but once my parents did not come to the court because of temporary things, and we did not win the championship at that time, I felt ashamed of my parents, so I never let my parents know, and my parents thought that I had won the championship, and I didn't want to disappoint them, so I told a white lie.

When I was in elementary school, I went out and played football with everyone, at that time there were not many venues, so we just found an old building to play, when everyone was having fun, I rushed up and accidentally kicked the football to the window of someone else's house, and directly broke the glass, and when I went back, I was very scared, and I didn't dare to let my parents know that people came to the door later! My parents gave them the money and educated me!

I'm a sophomore now, I talked about a boyfriend in my freshman year, he was my high school classmate, I have never dared to tell my parents, I went home during the winter and summer vacations to play with him **, and my phone was locked several times. I don't know what I'm afraid of, I just don't dare to tell my parents, unlike my boyfriend who told my family the day after we were together.

Sometimes when I am outside, the pressure is also very high, and the recent financial pressure is also very strong, and I don't dare to let my parents know, for fear that they will worry.

Many times, I greet them with **, and I don't talk about my pressure and unhappiness, and sometimes I call my parents after crying, and I still smile.

I don't want my parents to worry about us anymore.

I work hard alone, chatting with my parents, and always "reporting good news but not bad news". I was afraid that they would worry about me. Sometimes when I get sick outside, I don't tell them that they are old and not in good health, and I don't want them to worry about themselves anymore.

Last year, my husband's factory closed down and he owed a lot of debts, and my parents were old, so we didn't dare to tell my parents about it.

Although, everyone is saying: "No matter what happens, your parents are your strong backing." But when it really happened to me, every time I saw my elderly parents, the words that were about to be spoken could only be swallowed back into my stomach.

Parents have worked hard all their lives, so why should they worry about it.

I don't dare to tell my parents, I had a precocious love behind their backs in high school, and I still like a boy in our town, and they can see him from time to time, and my parents were very strict with me at that time, if I let my parents know now that I was in early love behind their backs, and then failed in the exam, I am really afraid that they will faint in anger.

There is a big age difference between children and their parents, there will be a lot of generation gaps, and there is no way to agree on many things, which is an unavoidable phenomenon. Especially as children grow older, parents will have a feeling that their children are getting farther and farther away from them, they begin to have their own little secrets, they begin to be reluctant to share and communicate with their parents, and they are more and more accustomed to staying alone in the bedroom, and the time with their parents will become less and less. <>

Parents will feel sad more or less in their hearts after seeing such a change in their children, but this is a day that will come sooner or later. After all, children also have their own lives, and even if they tell their parents about many things, their parents can't understand them, and they may oppose some of their own practices. In order to avoid arguing with their parents, children may choose not to communicate with their parents and keep their own thoughts from them.

When children work, they will have less time to communicate with their parents, and the main reasons for not wanting to talk to their parents are as follows. <>

1. I don't want my parents to worry about me. Many children are reluctant to tell their parents about things because they don't want their parents to worry about them. Especially after work, when you encounter some difficulties and troubles, even if you are already sad in your heart, you don't know how to solve it, but in front of your parents, you have to pretend that there is nothing to do, that is, you are afraid that they will worry, and you want to make their lives happy, don't feel upset because of your own affairs.

Second, they don't have a way to solve the problem for themselves. In fact, it is useless to tell your parents a lot of things, but it is just that some people feel sad. After all, parents' abilities are limited, not all parents can solve all problems for their children, and some parents are more than willing to help their children even if they want to.

Therefore, there is no need to let parents know about such a situation. <>

Third, it is impossible to agree with their opinions. Of course, there are also some reasons why I don't want to tell my parents because of the generation gap, and everyone disagrees. Parents will think from their point of view, and not all parents will think about things for their children.

And some parents will be very disrespectful of their children's opinions, which is one of the reasons why they push their children further and further away. Therefore, parents should try to think from the child's point of view and reduce the generation gap as much as possible, so that the child may be willing to communicate with the parents.

I am afraid that they will be worried, and I am afraid that they will be sad, because parents are always used to worrying about their children, and thinking about their children's situation outside is more difficult, which is the reason for not confiding in their parents.

On the one hand, they are afraid that their parents will be worried, and on the other hand, their parents cannot understand themselves. Many things that are serious in the eyes of children are completely small things that parents do not need to care about, and parents think that children are always entangled in these small things will delay learning, and children will no longer confide in their parents because they cannot get the understanding of their parents.

Yes, secondly, the way parents deal with things and the way of thinking are different from those of young people, which is also a big reason.

Why don't you dare tell your parents.

First: because of the relationship between parents.

My relationship with my family is like a friend, that is, I am willing to share many things with my parents, and my parents are the kind of people who respect me very much and are very supportive. I think there is a great need for mutual respect and support between parents and children, so that parents know that you have grown up and that you have to face some things on your own, and that parents can only give you advice, but cannot help you make decisions.

Second: Parents think that love affects school and life.

For example, early love in high school, and junior high school too, so I think we need to let our parents see that falling in love will not affect our lives, let alone our studies. It is to prove this to them, sometimes they are overly worried, just because they can't see or touch, and taking the initiative to share your life and the people around you is really a very effective solution.

Third: Parents worry about whether they will protect themselves.

In particular, college students will be more free, and they have just been freed from the shackles of high school, if they can't see clearly and can't hold it. I will start to let go of myself, but I want to say that whether it is a boy or a girl, we should be responsible for ourselves, each other, and our families, and we can also spread out this matter and tell our parents about it, so that parents can rest assured. I don't think there's anything to be ashamed of, and we take our parents along and maybe give them more courage to express themselves and their love for you.

If it is said. You can say that you are willing to share the joy of your love with your parents, or if you feel that your parents' knowledge will affect your relationship too much, you can choose not to say it. But only if you know that your parents know what you're worried about when you're in a relationship, and you're going to take care of everything they worry about.

Hello, if you are an adult and this is your choice, you can tell them first, because you have your own choice.