Five steps to chatting, tips on how to chat

1) Start with the accent and find the topic of the fellow.

Chinese will have a hometown complex no matter walking in **, so you have to learn to hear the accent of the guest, whether it is your hometown, if it is a hometown, then your distance will be closer, then the following communication will be very smooth.

Even if you are not a fellow countryman, the guest is **, we ** have relatives, friends, or people you like the guest's hometown the most, and we are the most happy to deal with people there!

2) Give God full face.

If the guest brings a friend with him, we must give the guest enough face in front of his friend, and at the same time, we must not snub his friend, if his friend is an important customer he invited today, we should cooperate with the guest to give his customer full face, our guest is God; The customer's customer is also God in his eyes!

3) The bits and pieces of life.

If the guest brings a child, the parents' focus is on the child, we should praise and praise the customer's child, the child is the best in the eyes of the parents, and it is more effective to praise the child than to praise the guest himself. Find more topics around your child, talk to them about what they are most interested in, and make your child happy, and his parents will be happy!

Then care about the guest's body, such as finding that the guest's shoulders are more sore, and he reacts more when you press it, then it is necessary to introduce it into life, whether it is busy, too tired at work, etc., we will talk about some health professional knowledge, so as to find the topic, and the guest will also think that you are professional.

4) Find the latest trending and trendy topics.

Recent hot events on the Internet, the latest news and some social events, etc., can be regarded as your common topic, and talk about it, agree with the guest's opinion, and don't carry it with him (taboo). Many technicians don't talk about their own feelings to customers, which leads to unpleasantness!

5) Find topics in recent hit TV series (movies).

Which TV series the guest likes the most, we follow the TV series, and which protagonist or character in the show he likes, then we are the same.

If you really can't find a topic, you can ask the guest to watch TV, then see which programs he is interested in, and then come back to find a common topic, so that the conversation is easier.

6) Create a pleasant atmosphere for chatting.

To be a listener, when the guest is in high spirits to talk endlessly, we have to listen attentively, if the guest is in a bad mood today, for example, he has a conflict with a colleague in the unit today, or he quarrels with his wife (husband) at home today, he must be full of bitter water to pour out, you just need to cooperate with his statement, appropriate recognition and nod, so that the guest will be more willing to communicate with you, so that the guest feels that only with you can talk, your heart can talk about a piece!

A person who is good at quietly listening to the conversations of others must be a person who is full of thoughts, has careful insight and conduct, and has a modest and gentle character. The best communication is to be a listener who listens with relish.

7) Chat with humor.

People with a sense of humor are not only happy to do things, but also have fun.

1. Look into other people's eyes when chatting. When talking to others, be sure to look them in the eye when appropriate, not only with respect for them, but also to make them feel that they are listening.

2. Pay attention to the other person's tone. In the same sentence, if the tone is different, the meaning of the expression will be different, so when communicating with others, you must pay attention to the tone of others, be clear about what the other party wants to express, and don't always misunderstand the meaning of others, so that it is very important for communication to serve filial piety.

3. Pay attention to the other person's expression. As the saying goes, to observe words and colors, that is, to learn to look at other people's faces, different expressions, and different moods expressed, you must speak according to the mood of the other party, knowing that some words are suitable to say, and some words may not be suitable to say.

4. Learn to empathize. Empathy, that is, how you are currently treating others, you should empathize with yourself, if others treat you like this, what kind of auspicious sense of old manuscript do you, so that you will not have a bad performance towards others.

5. Pay attention to the occasion. Speaking occasions are very important, this needs to be practiced more often, to know what kind of words to say on what occasion, if there is, it may be said in private very casual and ordinary, but it is likely to be misunderstood on another occasion, so pay attention to the occasion you are in.

Don't talk too much, don't go along with other people's self-deprecation, don't laugh at what others like, and change "I can't" to "I can learn". 1. Don't talk too much. Don't talk too much at any time, and be sure to give yourself some leeway.

You know, the world is changing rapidly, you never know what will happen in the next moment, maybe some accident will change the things you have always believed in, and make the people you have always looked down on succeed. <

1. Don't talk too much. We can't talk too much at any time, and we must leave some room for ourselves. You know, the world is changing rapidly, you never know what will happen in the next moment, maybe some accident will change the things you have always believed in, and make the people you have always looked down on succeed.

Therefore, don't talk too much, it is a way to protect yourself, and people who have room to speak will make people feel easy-going, so close, and can also help you gain a lot of popularity.

2. Don't go along with other people's self-deprecation. Many people like to laugh at themselves, which is a sign of modesty, but when others laugh at themselves, you must not go along with it. For example, when others say "I'm so fat", you must not say "yes, you're too fat, and you still eat so much", which will make others very embarrassed and uncomfortable, and people will feel that you are a prickly person and don't want to communicate with you more, maybe a cooperation opportunity will be said by a sentence like you.

3. Don't laugh at what others like. Everyone's tastes and hobbies are different, which makes it possible for us to enjoy things that vary greatly. You can dislike other people's preferences, but you must also respect them.

Don't say "how do you like this star, he has plastic surgery", "why did you buy this dress, you look fat when you wear it", people think that you have no quality and are vitriol.

4. Change "I can't" to "I can learn". Human knowledge has boundaries, and in our work, we are likely to encounter things that we have not been exposed to. Quietly believe that you must not feel that you can't raise your eyes and give up without contact, which will make your colleagues and bosses feel that you are an overwhelmed person.

If you want to start the chakra and tell others and yourself that "although I can't, I can learn", and show full sincerity, it will make people feel that although your ability is limited, you are a person who dares to fight, dare to do, and love to learn.