Is it acceptable for you to be friends with your ex and keep in close contact?

I still have the object of my ex in my heart, who can guarantee that TA is not stepping on two boats. Nowadays, young people always have one or two things to find a partner"Spare tire, your object still has an ex in his heart, maybe that ex or the current you are the spare tire of TA. Be yourself and make yourself an attractive lover, and you will not be afraid that the other party will despise you and snub you.

Only when you can't let the other person feel love and warmth, the other party will turn over old accounts, think about old people, and miss old feelings. Therefore, making yourself better and better is the key to keeping your marriage good.

You can love her very much before, and you can still love her after you break up, but when you fall in love with me, you must have let go of her in your heart, I don't understand what people who say they love you and hide others in their hearts think. Everyone has one heart, how can you love two people at the same time? I think as a normal person, don't say that your other half has an ex in his heart, just say that they are just ordinary friends now, when they contact, will you feel better?

Wouldn't you be foolish? I don't think so, there will be more or less thoughts, jealousy, suspicion, and this will definitely affect the relationship between you.

During this time, due to the absence of your company, if he (she) really cares about you, he will realize who the most important and most important relationship object is now, but let the other party understand your status and importance in his (her) mind, and at this time the other party's perception is his (her) own realization, if it is just her past, why bother, whether you have a clear conscience, have forgotten your past. Since you have chosen her, you will let yourself occupy all her heart, instead of minding.

People must learn to love others, and they must also learn to love themselves. Learn to respect. With the person you love now, it is good to manage your love and marriage well.

Don't be sad about the past, remember the past. I'm all busy, how can I have so much time and energy to think about so many people?

It's unacceptable, because it's unfaithful to the relationship, and there's a possibility that they'll both reconcile at any time.

Of course, this kind of thing is unacceptable. It's already broken up, why keep in touch, this kind of behavior can't be understood. In the face of such a situation, you should communicate directly with the other party to see what his mind is, and if he is half-hearted, then choose to break up as soon as possible.

I can't accept such a relational behavior, since they are separated, they should not be in such close contact.

Of course it's not acceptable, I don't think it's a normal relationship, if there is such a phenomenon, I will choose to break up.

Acceptably, I have a lot of trust in my subjects, I feel that they are in the past tense and there can be no more.

It's not acceptable, so you will feel very uncomfortable, and there may be ambiguity between them.

can't accept it, in fact, their relationship is more ambiguous, don't say it's an ordinary friend, because no one will believe it.

It's definitely unacceptable, although the two of them are no longer in a relationship, but I also mind very much, and I should wholeheartedly love me.

No, after all, they had a relationship between them, and there was a possibility of a resurgence.

If your partner is friends with his ex and keeps in close contact, I think it is very inappropriate to do this, at this time you should say to your boyfriend in time, you can't do it, if he still insists on doing it, then you can break up with him, because scum with green tea is very suitable.

Square peg. Since you have broken up, you should completely delete all contacts, otherwise you will be disloyal to the current one.

I don't think it's appropriate, because it's weird to be friends after a breakup, especially if the other party already has a new girlfriend, and the ex-girlfriend wants to avoid suspicion if she is sensible.

I don't think it's appropriate to do this, because you've already broken up with your ex, why are you still so close, it's really hard for your current one to accept it.

It is not appropriate, since two people are separated, they should decisively break off all contact, this is a respect for themselves, and they should not maintain a very close relationship and contact with each other.

Of course, it's inappropriate to do this, and it proves that there is a broken connection between them, such a boyfriend should break up quickly, because he disrespects you very much, is with you, and is still in contact with his ex, he doesn't put you in the first place in his heart at all.

It's not appropriate, it will hurt the feelings of the two people very much, and you should be happy when you break up, and don't have any connection.

Inappropriate. The two people no longer have any relationship, so don't contact each other anymore, so as not to affect their normal life.

Of course not. Since you are already an ex, you should cut off contact, and if you keep in touch, it is easy to rekindle the old relationship.

It's not suitable, such a triangular relationship is very difficult to accept, and doing so will affect the feelings of two people, and will cause a lot of conflicts between two people.

Strictly speaking, it is not appropriate, because you have to be responsible for the current one, a good ex is a stranger, and you can't find anything if you have nothing to do, so it's naturally useless to keep your predecessor.

I don't think it's appropriate, because it's a very excessive one, and there's a good chance that the two of them will rekindle their old relationship.

Of course, it's not appropriate to do this, and you should talk to your partner about who he really wants, and then think about your relationship.

My point is that this is not appropriate, because it is very awkward for you to be in the middle, and you can talk to your partner about your feelings.

My ex is a knife in my heart now, how many people are carved in my heart and sharpened in my heart by this knife every day! The two people who used to be lovers are most familiar with each other, familiar with each other's temperament and preferences, familiar with each other's family and friends, and even know that each other has Jusha's mole on his body. After a breakup, it is easier to become a confidant because of familiarity and without the shackles of love.

It is precisely these things that are unacceptable to lovers now. Because of love, they are very demanding. Who can accept that a lover has a friend of the opposite sex in addition to himself, and this friend has had **contact with the lover before?

In fact, many incumbents start with an attitude of understanding. After all, to love him is to believe in him.

Some of us are always naïve, and among these people, men are in the majority. They feel that they are friends with their predecessors, so they have a clear conscience. Therefore, contact and care are obvious.

They also won't pick up all the traces of their past lives, including the names of the mailboxes, the photos of the two of them, and the diaries they wrote, letting these slowly gnaw away at the patience and love of their current lovers. Can we really be simple friends with the seniors in our hearts? This is a lie.

Sitting with my ex-lover, is my heart really so calm and calm? Even if you are calm, the other person is not calm. Those sweet memories between the two of them will surely come back to my mind, including kissing honey in the bed room.

The ex still has feelings for you, and you can still find some nostalgia in the eyes of the other party, full of vanity.

Is it? You are still unconsciously comparing the present with the past in your mind, adding some words of care and encouragement as a way to know your past. Do you think the ex who knows you knows you too?

When you're with your ex, never talk about the present, because you know, it ruins that hazy atmosphere. These are our subconscious.

Inside, don't deny it. As former people, we really don't need to be friends with people who have hurt us in the past. Don't you feel that every time the other person appears, they will touch your scars?

Don't think the other person will come back. The other party is good to you now, and he only wants to make up for the guilt of leaving you. Even if he returns, will you still be able to accept the man who once abandoned you?

Don't think that your presence will ruin the existing happiness of the ungrateful.

Instead of taking solace in revenge, it hurts us even more. It's not that you can't be friends with your ex, there are people like this in your life, but it's still quite difficult to grasp this level. The only way to solve this dilemma is not to associate with your ex.

If there really is nowhere to run, open your heart to your current lover. There will come a time when you will go into hiding, and you will not be able to explain it. Understand your lover's sad complaints, and those who love you will care about you.

Put away the traces of your ex's life and don't make your lover feel like you're living in the shadow of your ex. Love your current lover well. If you love him or her, don't hurt him or her.

Maybe it's because they can't let go of their ex, generally speaking, your ex shouldn't join any of your relationships, it's better to disappear from it.

Hello, according to your description, this kind of person, the main thing is that he can't put hail on both sides. He wanted to have Yuan Chai Hui on both sides, and if he was too greedy, he would have everything he wanted, and he couldn't let go of anything.

I think this kind of person actually has a problem with his character, because since he has a current one, he should have a clean closed chain with his predecessor, and if he is still connected with his predecessor, it is an irresponsible attitude to treat the current one?

Some people have the potential to meet people and maintain a close friend relationship, I think he must be in the previous relationship, I think this boy is still Zen stupid is more worthy of his liking, he still has him in his heart, so he will keep a close friend with him.

Generally, people who keep in touch with their ex, it means that they have an ex in their hearts, even if they have a current one now, their hearts have not settled down, and they may still be looking forward to one day being able to get back together with their ex.

This kind of person is typical irresponsible, this kind of behavior does not support the personal thinking that you now have a partner, don't be entangled with your ex, the result of envy will not be very good, it will only be injured on both sides, and even the three of you are injured.

Some people have a current and still maintain a close relationship with their ex, so such a person is a scumbag. They often eat from the bowl and think about the pot. It is not only irresponsible for the predecessor, but also irresponsible for the current one.

If some people have blindly returned to the current position, and then use to maintain a good relationship with their lover after Bi Kuan, then this kind of person may probably not be very good, so in general you can try to tell him, so don't explain these problems to him, and then let him feel that you are serious, let him know your attitude.

The handling of this relationship is not very appropriate, guessing that the hole has the current one, and the predecessor should be broken as much as possible, otherwise the undefeated relationship will make the predecessor and the current one very embarrassed.

I think that after all, the ex also gave his own feelings, so although they broke up, they could be friends, but there was no need for Tachibana to be that kind of close friend. Ordinary friends are fine. Limb Suspicion Pie.

Personally, I think that some people have a current and still maintain a close friend relationship with their ex, which is not very good, which shows that there is no respect for the current one.

Because these people's emotional intelligence is very high, the relationship between the two people was not particularly deep, so they can be good friends.

With the incumbent, or rather after the separation. The best way to deal with this is to block each other and not contact each other again. It's respect for yourself and for others.

Some people have current relatives and maintain close friends with the former hermit, I don't agree with this approach, I think that when it is broken, it will be broken, and if it continues now, there will be future troubles.

Because these people are particularly inattentive to their feelings, and they haven't completely forgotten about their ex, that's why they behave like this.

Under normal circumstances, after having a boyfriend and girlfriend, you will reduce your contact with friends of the opposite sex. In a measured situation, it is possible to have friends of the opposite sex.

Because the ex taught him how to love, and the current taught him how to be loved.

With the current one, it is not possible to still maintain a close friend relationship with the ex. How do you spend it?

The word ex is a necessary topic, but it is also a couple, and if you should avoid it, I think that since you have found a new partner, you should exclude people and things in the past tense.

If the subject is always in contact with their ex, then I think you should express your thoughts.

Tell the other party clearly that I will care if you contact your ex, I will be jealous to see what the other party is like, if the other party laughs and says that it is just an ordinary friend, then you tell him, but you will care about seeing how the other party does it.

And I think since you broke up, don't contact your ex frequently, if there is really no emotional entanglement, then it's not good for the ex and the current one, no one likes a person who is always in contact with the ex, and if you care, it's really fake, how can you not care?

Also, I think you should look at what kind of topics your partner and ex are talking about. If it's just some simple holiday greetings, I don't think it's really anything, but if you often chat like a friend, then I think you should correct your attitude and let your partner know that you are his current position.

It is the most taboo to break the thread, and some things should be broken.

Anyway, I don't think I usually have too much contact with my ex, unless the situation is very special, two people have known each other for many years, and then maybe the other party encounters something. Your subject goes to greet or enlighten, then I think this kind of thing you can ask your subject to tell himself, the two of you go together to enlighten his ex, at least indicate your place.

I think you should make it clear to him that if the other party still insists on keeping in touch with your ex like this, then I think you should snub him for at least a few days to let him know that you are really angry, and if the other party cares about you, it should also be restrained.