I m so lonely, who can help me find the crux of the problem?

Updated on society 2024-03-15
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can ask other people what your high school classmates think of you, and with your current state, they will also rate you well, which should help you build confidence in yourself.

    For example, if you know that your classmate or friend needs help and you happen to be able to help him, then the friend who gets your help will be very grateful to you, and you will know "Ah, I am still useful".

    Most people are friendly, try to connect with a few best friends, take the initiative to create a virtuous circle, and I believe that you can get rid of this loneliness in no time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It turns out that there are also people with the same fate?

    But I'm a little better than you, because I don't disdain anyone or anything like that, and many times when you look down on people, they look down on you, so what? You don't care if you gnaw at the old or not, as long as people think you are a good person, you must feel that people should not be bad people, so that you can have your own circle.

    I've tried and felt really lonely and helpless.

    The family is not alone in the field, and there are no friends, even if there are a few colleagues.

    I wanted to mingle with me, I was really lonely at that time, and I wandered the streets alone for a few hours after work before I went back, but at that time I thought that the main thing was that I paid the price for my arrogance at that time, because I had just come out of work at that time, I graduated from a prestigious university, and I felt that my heart was higher than others. So it made it difficult for me to be a person, but then I figured out that since I work in the same company, I should get along well.

    After that, I let go of my arrogant personality and slowly mixed with them.

    That's all I want to say, I hope you understand.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Agree with the statement of the 1st floor.

    Try to make friends.

    Learn from Ah Q, you must have his spirit...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Try to socialize with people more, go karaoke with others, try to get in touch with boys who pursue you, travel more, chat with classmates, and surf the Internet less.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hehe, can you bear this loneliness? Your life is full of low self-esteem, loneliness, a sad heart, and you don't want to have any more fetters...You are sentimental and hold your heart tightly closed. Maybe it's an innate personality, you want to change, it's hard, if you want to have friends, become confident, then do the opposite, think seriously, let the smile always hang on your lips, anytime, anywhere...You're confident, you're strong...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why do you have to go online? If you want to fit in with them, you have to get close to their lives. Interest, more on Q, I'm invisible on Q, but people who understand me will still talk to me.

    The key is your own ideas, you have to show your own charm, let them make friends with you, don't feel that the initiative is to keep your voice down, you are still young, you will know later, this society is still suitable for extroverts. So, try to change yourself. Be confident!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Actually, you are not alone, but you don't want to open your heart.

    You say that a friend close to you will be very crazy, you can let this "friend" slowly bring you into her life circle, and at the same time, you also have to open the window in your heart a little bit, try to integrate yourself, over time you will be exposed to a lot of things, you will not think like now. Come on.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Study with peace of mind, and you will have time to communicate with them in the future. At this time, everyone is busy with their own business. Everyone is lonely, it's just that some people like to pass the time with people they don't know.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Personality problems, you are more content with the status quo, go and see Le Jia's personality color, you are a person with a green personality, normal, I am like this.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Would love to help you really.

    We can talk if we can.

    Allows you to start contact with strangers.

    It's been a long time since you've been like this.

    Make friends and chat about chores.

    This should be fine.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This one is a bit serious. It is recommended that you carry out more outdoor activities and see a psychologist

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is recommended that you see a psychiatrist!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Will you use to know, will they not?

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