Discussion The primary responsibility for the generation gap lies with parents or children

The ancients said: "If you can't do something, you should ask for yourself." "There is a gap between parents and children, whether they are parents or children, they must find reasons from themselves and reflect on whether they are "doing their best"?

Only by finding the cause from oneself and starting from one's own heart can we fundamentally solve the problem and make the relationship harmonious, otherwise we will seek outward and blindly ask the other party to change ourselves, the problem will not be solved, and it is easy to stiffen the relationship.

The relationship between people is not "five Lun", so the "father and son" must achieve "father and son filial piety".

Do parents teach by word and deed? Do you set a good example for your children? Do you know how to love your children? If not, parents are responsible;

As a child, have you achieved "filial piety to your parents"? Has it achieved "living is to pay respect, raising is to be happy, and illness is to be worried"? Have you achieved "the body of adoptive parents, the heart of adoptive parents, and the will of adoptive parents"? If not, the child is responsible.

The ancient Chinese also said, "There are parents in the world." "We can't repay the kindness of our parents for giving birth to us, so when something goes wrong, we can't be ungrateful and blame our parents for being at fault and responsible?

We only admit that we have not fulfilled our filial piety, which leads to a "generation gap" between us and our parents, and our parents are always right! Because, they have a heart that selflessly gives everything for their children? Isn't it ......

Therefore, we can't simply attribute the responsibility to which party, China's ancient education has a high degree of wisdom, it is the expression of the beauty of human nature, so as long as we draw wisdom from the teachings of the sages, "if you can't do it, you can ask for yourself", "sincerity, gold and stone are open." "I believe that any problem can be solved.

Hopefully, the landlord will be satisfied with this answer. Constant thoughts.

It's on both sides. Of course, it depends on the situation. If the parents have not read any books, the children should understand their parents more.

At the same time, if the children are still young, parents should care more about the children. In any case, as long as the parents are loving, the children are filial, and everyone understands and respects each other, there will be no generation gap.

Remember: if you are one of the parties, then you need to think that all the problems are your own problems, so that you can solve the problems, not push them onto the other party.

If you are a child, then you have to think that all the problems are caused by the child.

If you are a parent, then you have to think that all the problems are caused by your parents.

I am the root of everything", I am the root of everything. Remember. This is the only way to solve the problem.

On the face of it, both sides are responsible.

But it seems to me that social and ethical responsibilities are undeniably the different values that have created them in different eras.

In China, the concept of ethics is very important, and if you are elders, you have to be superior, which creates a generation gap between the two sides.

Juniors think that their parents' old ways don't work.

In the West, parents relegate themselves to relationships with friends.

It's going to be relatively easy to get along with, and you don't have to accept each other's ideas from the bottom of your heart.

However, it is necessary to understand that the times are progressing, society is developing, traditions need to be carried forward, and the trend should also be followed.

Everyone thinksGeneration gapThe main responsibility lies with the parents.

During the child's formative years, the main responsibility for the generation gap lies with the parents, because at this time the parents are in the dominant position. In the process of educating their children to grow up, they have a modern gap, which shows that parents do not communicate well with their children, or the way of communication is wrong, and there is an estrangement that leads to tension in the parent-child royal relationship.

Most of the causes of the generation gap are that the parents' cognition cannot keep up with the development of the times and the parents have personality and ability defects.

Most of the reasons for crossing the generation gap are the lack of awareness, skills, and personality and ability defects in children's communication with their parents.

The solution to the family conflicts caused by the generation gap must rely on the children, and we cannot expect parents to heal their defects at such an age. If children will only blindly blame and complain, the generation gap can only get deeper and deeper.

Of course, if the children are not independent adults, and the parents are in the prime of life, then they have to rely on their parents, in short, whoever is the main spiritual pillar of the family depends on whom.

The spiritual pillar of the family refers to the facts, and does not include elderly parents who always treat their children as if they were good about themselves, nor do they include adult children who just want to find reasons to deceive themselves and escape from family conflicts and do not want to support a harmonious family.

The main responsibility for the generation gap lies with parents, and this statement is true.

Parents are mature individuals relative to children, children are immature individuals, and if there is a generation gap between parents and children, the responsibility must lie with the parents. Parents are in the dominant position in the family compared to their children, both financially and spiritually, therefore, parents are also in the dominant position in dealing with the relationship with their children, creating a generation gap for which parents should be primarily responsible.

Compared with their children, parents have rich life experience and rich experience in dealing with the world, and they should choose a good way to communicate with their children and strive to eliminate the generation gap with their children. If they do not make an effort to bridge this generation gap, they have an inescapable responsibility.

Generation gap

Generation gap is a psychological term. In a broad sense, it refers to the psychological distance or psychological gap between the younger generation and the older generation in terms of ideological methods, values, life attitudes, interests and hobbies; In a narrow sense, it refers to the psychological gap or psychological estrangement between parents and children. The term generation gap was coined by the American anthropologist M. in the late 60s of the 20th century

Mead first proposed it in his book The Generation Gap.

The term "generation gap" is a literal translation from English and coined by the famous female anthropologist Margaret Mead, and it has become a common phrase because of its apt, original translation and ease of memorization. From the perspective of translation, compared with the original term "generational gap", "generation gap" is indeed superior. The trend in modern translation seems to be that phrases have prevailed, and the cumbersome translation of crepe seems to be outdated.

The generation gap is the distance between our generation and the previous generation, we say that distance produces beauty, but this is not beautiful, because there is no link together, parents and children have a generation gap, and it is more the responsibility of parents.

Nowadays, many people are reluctant to have children, always feel that children are a burden, this is the shadow left by the previous generation, parents gave birth to us, did not do a good job of education, always use dogma to educate children, when children cry, only use their own language to persuade children, or to scold children.

The child is a very sensitive species, and she sometimes cannot understand what her parents are sayingWhen parents are impatient, communication becomes a problem, and a generation gap is formed. The generation gap is based on their respective living environments, the environment of children may be college campuses, corporate offices, and the living environment of parents may be neighborhood committees, homes, chess and card rooms, etc., and different environments have formed their own mindsetsMethods of doing things, knowledge structure. There is definitely a gap in communication between people of different ages.

Even parents and children will be different in a unit or a department, parents are deeply influenced by traditional concepts and filial piety, and children are deeply affected by modern science and technology and the rapid development of society. I remember when I was a kid, I didn't speak much, but I had a deep desire to express myself, and every time I saw a radio host hosting on the station, I would look in the mirror and learn what I looked like, and I would show my family, but my familyAlways pour cold water on me and say that you don't study hard and do useless things。At that time, I was so frustrated, I felt that I was not recognized by my family, I was not liked by my family, from that time on, I was less and less talkative, and I didn't have many friends, every time I was at school, I was the quietest and most stupid, and I didn't dare to take the initiative to chat with my classmates, I always sat quietly, but in fact, I was very eager to have more communication.

There is a seed that does not dare to speak, which comes from the denial of parents.

I saw a ** before, the mother is teaching a 2-year-old child to read, the mother holds a colorful book, gives the child a sentence and a word for the year, and communicates with the child in childlike languageTo guide and accompany children, it can be seen from a small thing that language accompanies parents can actually reduce the generation gap with their children, and more initiative and problems are in the hands of parents, rather than minor children. Parents give birth to their children, more to accompany them, rather than to use dogmatic ways to manage children, we all think that only children need to growIn fact, parents also need to grow. It is only through constant communication and growth that the generation gap can be reduced.

Both sides have responsibilities, no fight on which era, the generation gap will exist, as parents, communicate more with children, Huai Yinshao understanding and trust is the bridge to solve the generation gap, I wish the pro-lead state a happy life.

There is a generation gap between parents and children, which is not the responsibility of one party, but the responsibility of both parties, and it is also the negative effect brought about by the times.

As parents, communicate more with children, understand that patience and trust are the bridges to solve the generation gap, and wish parents a happy life.

It's mutual, and communication means that both parties understand the truth.

In parents, children are responsible when they are older and sensible.

Because their generation gap is formed by age or differences in ideas.

Summary. We are square, and the main responsibility for the generation gap lies with parents.

Thank you, Chair. Dear judges, The opposing side argues the friend. Classmates.

We believe that the primary responsibility for the generation gap lies with parents.

The generation gap is between parents and children. Because of different ages and experiences. There are differences in education and status in the family and society.

It is inevitable that there will be different views and positions, which can easily lead to contradictions and conflicts. Psychological distance and estrangement are formed. The generation gap, like a ditch, separates people from generation to generation, affects the understanding and communication between the two generations, and becomes the generalization and embodiment of the abnormal development of parent-child relationship in today's society.

The generation gap is the responsibility of parents or children.

We are square, and the main responsibility for the generation gap lies with the parents, thank you, chairman. Dear judges, The opposing side argues the friend.

Because of different ages and experiences. There are differences in education and status in the family and society. It is inevitable that there will be different viewpoints and positions, which will easily lead to contradictions and conflicts.

Psychological distance and estrangement are formed. The generation gap, just like a pure gap, separates people from generation to generation, affects the understanding and communication between the two generations, and becomes a generalization and embodiment of the abnormal development of parent-child relationship in today's society.

What else is the responsibility of the parents?

First argument: Our view is that the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with the parents. Parents who have lived for more than a decade are mature and know a lot.

There is a saying that our parents eat more salt than we eat rice. Obviously, parents know a lot more about the world than we do. However, the times are constantly moving forward, and the life experience they have accumulated is not applicable in today's fast-growing society.

And we are young people in the new era, we are constantly making progress with the times, and the pace of our parents cannot keep up with us, and we cannot stop the pace of progress to wait for our parents to keep up with us. Not only do our parents not understand us, but sometimes they use their old views to resist our development; The generation gap between the two generations also produced Xiaofeng. Therefore, we believe that the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with the parents.

Responsibility is no longer for parents and no longer for children. For parents, they want to educate their children with their rich social experience, so that their children will not make the mistakes they have made, and create the best foundation for their children to face in the future. But their experience and understanding of things are in the cognition of their time.

Now that society is developing so fast, their insights are too conservative for the next generation of new and new human beings. The society that children are exposed to is no longer the age of their elders. But in fact, there is only a difference in understanding and cognition of things.

Elders are not as able to get in touch with new things as younger people as they get older, so they can't understand the mentality of young people. The child's receptivity is like a dry sponge, and when the sponge encounters water, it will absorb a large amount. Therefore, under the influence of new things, children understand the direction and have a certain difference from their parents.

And in this case, I think the best way to do this is to merge with each other. Don't expect your child to listen to your parents or your parents to listen to your child. If it's a child over the age of 15, I would recommend that they sit down with their parents and have a good talk.

Share your preferences and problems with your parents, let them give their opinions, and then express their opinions. In this way, we can complement each other's strengths. Because young people are too impulsive, there are many things that are not mature enough to think, and they still need reminders from their parents.