Giving up is also a new beginning? Give up to start a new essay

I don't have the right to make you give up, but I think the most difficult thing for people is how to learn to give up, giving up is not a simple abandonment and escape, let alone an excuse for a negative life, giving up is a rational choice, a kind of cherishing, a kind of beauty, a deeper love. There is a saying that has not been said: sometimes the fate must be there, and the hit is not always forced.

Every choice is always accompanied by pain, because the choice will lose some people and things that we do not want to lose. In life, we are always making choices, giving up, only by giving up, we can have the opportunity to find our own life, so that we will not miss the person waiting for us at the next intersection, in order to get out of the past and no longer indulge, in order to be painful and happy, in order to live happily. If one day, we can't have or give him (her) happiness, if love for each other becomes a source of pain, then why can't we choose to give up rationally?

Even though every choice is accompanied by pain and regret, after experiencing these, we know how to cherish, know how to bear, learn to make trade-offs, understand the true meaning of life, and make our life more fulfilling, which is also a kind of possession. Only those who know how to give up can truly heal the pain of the past, feel the pain, and have real happiness, which is by no means indulgent and avoidance, let alone forced to make joy and forced to forget. If you and I are destined to have no chance in this life, if he is destined to be a hurried passerby, then please let us learn to let go and know how to cherish it.

Yes, give up on him, find someone who loves you more and is more worthy of your love, love again, and you will find that maybe he is not irreplaceable, the person who is really worthy of your heartache, and I can't bear your heartache, go and start a new journey

Giving up may be the turning point in your life, young man, why not be measured for yourself.

There is a kind of love called letting go, giving up and starting all over again.

In a person's life, there are many moods, many helplessness, many possession, and many abandonment.

I want to have everything, bear paws and fish at the same time, however, how unattainable it is, someone once said to me: "Once upon a time there was a man who went to climb the mountain, of course he believed that he would be able to climb to the top of the mountain, so he firmly believed that he would not listen, and when he was about to climb to the top of the mountain, he fell down, kept falling, and suddenly he remembered the rope on his waist, so he desperately grabbed the rope, and finally he stopped falling, but Qi Song was bored at this time It was almost dark, and he hung in the air waiting for someone to save him, But to his disappointment, there was no one around. Finally he prayed to the heavens, and the heavens said to him:

Do you really believe I can save you? He 'believes'. So God told him to let go, but he refused, and when it was dark, he still hung there helplessly, until the next day, when someone finally found him, but he could no longer see the beautiful world, he was frozen to death, and when he was found, he was less than ten feet above the ground.

In the years when we live and grow up, there are times when we should give up, and often give up and start a new beginning.

I used to love a girl deeply, but it was this love that hurt me deeply, I don't ask for her forgiveness, I just hope that she can be happy, since she is wrong, she should bear it, I used to want to see her, I want to say to my face: I'm sorry. But when we met again, it was so strange, there was no impulse to look forward to it for a long time, I changed, I became so strange, I didn't even know myself, she also changed, she became more mature and beautiful.

Maybe I did give up? No, not yet, so I should learn to give up. Giving up is also a beauty!

I will silently bless every one of my relatives and friends in my heart, including her, of course.

1) With perseverance and abundant knowledge, the mystery will eventually be discovered. - Yang Zhenning.

2) One should think only one thing at a time and persevere in order to have hope of getting it. But I thought about everything, and I couldn't grasp anything. Every time I find that when something is at my fingertips, I am pursuing something else.

Too late. – Andrew Gard.

3) Sow your seed in the morning, and don't rest your hands in the evening. —The Old Testament, the Book of the Prophet

4) Perseverance, rotten wood does not break; Perseverance, gold and stone can be carved. - Xun situation.

5) Thousands of miles from the beginning, the mountains rise from the dust, and so is my way, which is precious and new. - Bai Juyi.

6) Qi Ji jumps, not ten steps; Ten horses, the merit is relentless. - Pre-Qin "Xunzi Persuasion".

7) Climbing to the top, this struggle in itself is enough to fill the heart. People must believe that there is more to Yama than happiness. — Camus.

8) Patience is the foundation of all ingenuity. —Plato.

9) It takes effort to do learning, perseverance, and accumulation. - Wu Yuzhang.

10) The hardest thing to do is to stick to what is easy to do.

This sentence is not said by a specific person, but it is just an expression of a mood, and generally few people can insist on this kind of thing, very naïve, and sometimes this kind of chicken soup is not necessarily positive energy.

Wang Guozhen: Since you have chosen a distant place, you only care about the wind and rain.

Now that you have chosen to start anew, you have to know whether you can accept the shortcomings of the other party. Don't expect the other person to change just because you start over, it's impossible. Because the nature of the country is easy to change, the character is basically fixed, and it is difficult to change it.

So now you can only continue to have a relationship if you accept him, otherwise don't start over easily. <>

I have also seen many couples go from breaking up to getting back together, then to breaking up and then getting back together, and finally breaking up. In fact, the reason why they are so divided and united, one is because they can't completely break off their feelings, and the other is that they don't think clearly about whether they can accept each other's shortcomings. It's best to cut through the mess quickly for emotional matters, even if there is a lot of reluctance, but since you know that you can't accept his shortcomings, don't continue, otherwise you will fall deeper and deeper.

But if you're determined to start over, accept his shortcomings. It would be better if he could find his shortcomings and correct them, but I think don't expect others to change, but adjust from his own mentality.

For example, he usually has the habit of playing games, so can you accept that he loves to play games after starting over, so that he ignores you and the whole family. If you just like him as a person, even if he ignores you and doesn't care, then of course it doesn't matter. <>

But if you have too high ideals, want him to value you, care about you, and give up playing games, I think it's more difficult to achieve. Even if the Seven Fairies descend to earth, they can only make this kind of person change for a while, and it is impossible to change completely. So if you want to accept, you have to accept all of Him.

If you don't give up easily, you can only accept him in its entirety. The difficulty in the relationship lies in the fact that two people must coordinate with each other and work together. In fact, sometimes we either don't understand, or it's hard to give up, it's hard to do.

People are emotional, and if they get along for a long time, they will naturally become dependent and habitual, which is also human nature.

When we choose to start over, we should keep a firm belief that no matter how painful the process is, we should not say that we want to give up.

Then you should tell yourself that you must achieve your goal in life, and then this time you must make up your mind to do it with all your might, so that you will not give up easily.

Stick to the original choice, persevere, work hard, and never give up when encountering difficulties.

First of all, we must be firm in our original intention, as long as we make a decision, we must be good to each other, and do not give up easily.

Learn to give up to make a new start.

In life, sometimes you can only get it by giving up, but many people who sell mountains do not understand the dialectical relationship between the two, and blindly want to get it, but do not want to give up, but in the end they get nothing. Women must learn to give up, give up those things that should not belong to them, and release the bound heart. said"Goodbye", not to say"Farewell", will let the ardent longing slowly fade in the residual warmth of hope, until it is dull, or even vanished.

Such a renunciation will not make you burn. You can still deceive yourself and enjoy the beauty of abandonment in a vague way. So, you will still walk with your head held high and smile with a lot of laughter.

Even when you're alone, your eyes are still foggy.

Giving up is the best option. Can I pick up what I have given up?

Some can, while others can only be a permanent goodbye.

What is beneficial to others and yourself, and what makes your soul peaceful or happy, you can focus on the big and the new, even if the road of chasing is full of thorns; And there are things that you pick up easily, even inadvertently, which will make you feel guilty, helpless, and even damage to your self-esteem. Once you are immersed in the invisible cover, sometimes rejoicing, sometimes melancholy, your mind will be bound by it, and your eyes will be swayed by it. As a result, you will lose a sunny self.

What are the criteria for gains and losses? Only your sentimental heart knows best.

You can easily hug each other if you can pick up the reeds; If you can't enjoy it, please wave your hand affectionately, even if the passing light makes you teary-eyed, you still have to do it and give up decisively. Only in this way is the wisest choice.

If you face it in another way, maybe you will have a bright state of mind: you will hold on to your self-esteem, show off your personality, let go of your ideals, and will not care, suspect, or even complain--- because you know the value of contentment and the beauty of distance. In the world, beautiful things abound.

How many can you capture? When you can't get it, just gaze silently from afar, maybe the ethereal fragrance of flowers will really intoxicate you; If so, I believe that the sun will shine on you forever.

Say goodbye, giving up is really easy and beautiful sometimes.

Say goodbye, giving up is not a measure and wisdom.

Especially when the heart is tired.

Maybe in the sage master, persistence is a kind of spirit, a kind of conquering power, but in ordinary beings like me, too much persistence can only bring more trouble, and letting go, there is a wonderful place.

Like the things that can't be obtained, the gains and losses in the workplace, the grievances and grievances, if you really have to fight hard, distinguish clearly, immerse yourself in it for a long time, increase the damage, jump out and see, you will find that there is a new world.

Like some parents who let their children take skills classes that they are not interested in, like waiting for people who don't love them, like facing a bleak job with no future, like painstaking exploration and research of things that have no value. It's better to give up.

Sometimes if you don't give up, if you don't despair, there will be no new beginning, letting go is more important than persisting at some point, learn to give up in order to get the true meaning of life, life is full of flavors, why bother to keep it?

The same can be said in a certain matter.

Some people will always be engraved in their memories, even if they forget his voice, forget his smile, forget his face, but the feeling when they think of him will never change.

A person always has to take a strange road, see the scenery of Mozhou Qingyunsheng, listen to unfamiliar songs, and then in a casual moment, you will find that the things that you originally tried so hard to forget are really forgotten like this.

Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget, and forgetting is not something that can be forgotten by talking about it, but also to see what type of person you belong to, If you are emotional, it is best to find something or activity that can attract your attention to distract your emotional fluctuations; Or go crazy with your best friends and forget about your play. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. I don't know about the other types, you have to face everything by yourself, no one can help you in it, go your own way.

If you want to forget someone, maybe he hurt you, maybe there are other reasons, you have to try to find out if you are sad, or other aspects and the reason why you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to let go of some things, let your heart go, instead of thinking about it often, you will definitely think about it occasionally, this is also inevitable, right.

Time will make you slowly forget, if you really love him, you have to spend your life to forget, if you don't want to forget, please hide love deep in your heart.

Hope you are happy and happy!