What should you do if you are not confident in the face of other classmates?

I think the only thing that needs to be done when encountering this kind of classmate who tries to suppress himself and make himself lose confidence is to run away from this kind of classmate as soon as possible, so as to gain a happier life. I really hate this kind of classmate who is full of negative energy, so once I meet this kind of classmate, even if I play well with him before, I will never have too much contact with him again. Or it's the kind of classmate who always wants to compare with you, for fear that you will have a better life.

I think this kind of student may have some diseases in his heart, and he can't see that others are better off than him.

I used to think that my girlfriend was one of those people. The two of us have played together since childhood, and when I was a child, she was the child king of our group of children, so I also trusted her, but the more I grew up, I found that her comparison heart was really strong. After I got into high school, because my grades were better, she always pestered me to give her make-up lessons, always spreading some negative emotions to me, and then she would say that I didn't know how to dress up, and I didn't feel very good.

But at that time, I was studying, in fact, my own requirements for appearance were just to be neat and clean, as she said, if I put on makeup and went to class every day, I felt that it was too much time to waste.

At first, I didn't care, but the more she said it, I wondered if I was really ugly. I feel that my self-confidence has really been suppressed by her step by step. But soon she changed schools, so there wasn't much contact between the two of us, and I felt like I was still having a good time.

But after graduating from college, when it was time to talk about marriage, she started showing off her husband to me again. Her husband is a relatively wealthy person, but his education level is not very high. She would show off every day what gifts her husband bought her, and how good she was to her, in fact, I am not a particularly vain person, she always shows off to me like this, it really makes me very uncomfortable.

So I cut off all of her after that.

You should believe in yourself. Only in this way can you have self-confidence. And there will be no fear in the face of such situations.

I think the first thing you should do is to adjust your mentality, and you must face the difficulties, it is because of the classmates' attempts to suppress yourself that you have to live a more exciting life, only in this way can you give yourself enough self-confidence.

If you lose your self-confidence, then you must let yourself discover the strengths in yourself, regardless of their suppression.

First of all, verify whether you, the classmate, really want to suppress yourself. Second, seek help from teachers and parents.

It was a very uncomfortable experience for my classmates to dislike me for not being confident. We can change this with the following:

1. Let go of the shackles.

The real brave diagnosis heart is very strong, they will sum up lessons from practice again and again, and experience you are doing better and better every time, so we are able to reflect and self-summarize through practice, see our own shortcomings, of course, in the process of our growth, we can face our own setbacks correctly, let go of inner obstacles and constraints, often we go further than we imagined.

2. Do more things that you are good at.

This method seems to have a bit of a taste of self-deception, but in psychological research, it has been found that this method is the most direct and effective way to improve self-confidence.

Because the essence of self-confidence is that when you do a lot of successful things, you will have a sense of accomplishment, and you will believe that I can still succeed next time. Past experiences give us anticipation of the future, which is the root of all self-confidence.

3. Learn to affirm yourself positively.

The so-called inferiority complex is often a low evaluation of oneself, feeling incompetent, and often having self-pity, pessimism and disappointment in the heart. This kind of mentality is a manifestation of a lack of correct understanding of oneself.

People with inferiority complex lack self-confidence in the process of interacting with others, have no courage when doing things, are always timid or echo with them, they have no assertiveness, and once they encounter mistakes or some things are not done well, they will feel sorry for themselves, and inferiority is a negative emotional manifestation.

You have to stop always convincing yourself that you are somehow lower and have lower self-esteem than those around you. You are not destined to be more miserable or less successful than others. You deserve the same respect, success, and satisfaction as everyone else.

You have to believe that you deserve the good things in life, that you can achieve them, that this is not a dream, it is completely achievable.

Therefore, it is necessary to correct your shortcomings and make yourself more confident.

It is just that you need your classmates to always encourage you to move on, which will make them feel that they are useless, and encourage you but will not get a response.

You stupid goose. Lies can't be explained. Sometimes the truth can't be told.

Know no. Sometimes it's sweet to talk sweetly. Coax her well.

Take the initiative. Otherwise you will lose the girl you like later. If you like it, take the initiative.

If you don't like it, give it up. I don't see your attitude. So you have to change it first.

Isn't it like? If you really like it. Go for it.

If on a whim. Then don't do that.

It was an experience that made me feel uncomfortable and lost my self-confidence at all.

People are mutual, and you don't have to care about other people's eyes, which can only mean that you can't be friends.

Then make yourself confident.

It's your business if you're not confident, what's your business?

You're afraid of some misunderstanding about your classmates.

Since you can bring up your weaknesses in person, it is still concerned about you, and you feel worried about your lack of confidence.

If you are really not confident, then don't blame your classmates for disliking you, I think his purpose is to hope that you will be confident and to motivate your fighting spirit! So you also have to be positive and be a confident person!

Low self-esteem, being divided into groups, is to feel that you are isolated, in fact, they also hate iron and steel, instead of really isolating you, they are very annoyed with your kind of inferiority, submissive look, really annoying, and then you will not fit in, any of your friends can not help you, because people can't help you, this is a problem of your own character, dislike does not mean that you hate you, it is very unsuitable for your character, you can also not change to be yourself, But there are really times when I am estranged from this society.

Don't care what others think. Only by strengthening one's self-confidence. It's okay to try to be yourself.