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Success isn't as hard as you think

Connecting your value with the value of society is that you grow your own value by solving problems for this society, by cooperating with others, by caring for others, and then I am very valuable in this society, and I have a lot of people in this world who will like me, and I contribute to this society, so as to reduce your inferiority complex.

Low self-esteem is a negative self-evaluation or self-awareness, and inferiority complex is a negative emotion in which individuals have a low evaluation of their own abilities and qualities. The inferiority complex is often not a difference in understanding, but a difference in feeling.

Low self-esteem is a complex emotion of not being able to help yourself. People with an inferiority complex despise themselves and think that they cannot catch up with others. a.Adler has a special explanation for inferiority complex, calling it an inferiority complex.

You're just going to be yourself!

To overcome the inferiority complex, we must first analyze our own inferiority complex. If your low self-esteem is due to a weakness in your personality, then you should build your own strong personality. Whether a person has an inferiority complex has a lot to do with his personality traits, people with inferiority complex often have a depressed temperament, introverted personality, cowardice, and weak will, they think too low of themselves, are sensitive to external evaluation, and lack confidence.

Once a person is troubled by an inferiority complex, he will lose his enterprising spirit. Therefore, for people with inferiority complex, when encountering setbacks, they must first calmly analyze the causes, bravely face up to their weaknesses, admit the facts in front of them, and neither gloss nor blame others. At the same time, we should also see our strengths, so as to enhance our confidence, turn setbacks into motivation, and turn bad things into good things.

Misfortune is a stepping stone to genius and an abyss for the weak". The most significant difference between the greatest and the least achievers is not in the level of intelligence, but in whether they have self-confidence, perseverance, perseverance, inferiority and other good will and qualities. Therefore, people with low self-esteem should cultivate their strong character through exercise, self-education and other methods.

Introduce several ideas for adjusting low self-esteem.

In fact, your low self-esteem is caused by your own lack of self-confidence. First of all, put yourself in perspective. Find your strengths.

Then, let your strengths play to your strengths. This is the most basic condition for gaining self-confidence. To gain self-confidence, you must first gain a sense of satisfaction and make yourself feel that you are very good.

This is the most basic. Therefore, you need to make good use of your strengths and try to play to your strengths. Do more, only in this way can you taste the satisfaction of success as much as possible, then you can build self-confidence.

If you think you can't do anything, and you don't do anything, you don't dare to do anything. The less confident you become, it's a vicious circle. As long as you get the satisfaction of success, you can further gain self-confidence.

Of course, maybe take your time. You can start with small things and gradually increase them. Self-confidence, in fact, is just a state of mind.

All you need is to discover it yourself, and you don't need too many complicated processes. As long as you have faith in yourself, then you will definitely be full of strength. Don't be overly considerate of others, pay too much attention to what others think of you.

Deal with any setbacks with a nonchalant and normal mindset. Self-confidence, in fact, is very simple, just believe in yourself. When you have self-confidence, you will be able to do everything.

The key lies in yourself, as long as you have confidence in yourself, you can solve anything. In addition, the biggest factor of self-confidence is probably the influence of the outside world on you. To know that what others say about us is always what they think, and we don't have to live in someone else's world.

Just do your own thing. Why don't you care so much about him? It is necessary to have the momentum that the world exists only for itself.

Have the courage to go your own way and let others do what they say. No one can change themselves, no one can control themselves. When you succeed, it's your own business, but if you are influenced by others and retreat, it's your own business, so why bother to control yourself for irrelevant people.

The last sentence: Believe in yourself, and you will be full of self-confidence. It's all about the mindset.

Generally speaking, it is the inferiority complex of teenagers and adolescents! That's a sign of immaturity! It will be fine in a while! Reach out to some more optimistic friends!

Have confidence in yourself, believe in yourself, what others can do, you can do it yourself, and you will definitely do better than them, don't often think that you are inferior to others in everything, good luck and get out of the psychological shadow of inferiority as soon as possible.

This is for yourself, the method of happiness I said may be something you don't like, you think back to when you used to be very happy, you usually do more things to make you happy, I think your life should be very good.

Maybe you really have to stop and relax and decompress yourself, understand your true inner thoughts, what do I do to be happy, what do I want, whether my current fatigue is meaningful, decompress your soul, if this is a must, and you can't change the current status quo, then change your opinion of it, it's not easy for everyone, give yourself some small happiness as a supplement!

Remove the unhappy factors, correctly establish your goals and ideals, and feel the fulfillment and happiness in the process of achieving it! Bland, happy and fulfilling!

Smile more, as long as you smile, you will be happy.

Listen to it when you're unhappy**.

Let others be happy, and you will be happy.

Life is actually about coaxing yourself, coaxing yourself to understand, and everything is solved.

See your inner world and listen to what you really want. Unhappy is the reason why something stirs the mind, and it makes you feel unhappy. If you find the past that you are afraid of and resist, you must know how to let go, and let the past pass.

I worry too much, but I will grow old quickly! Don't let the past overshadow the future. True happiness is accepting the pain of the past and learning to grow.

To be happy is not to be too hungry for life.

To be happy is to not pay too much attention to what you have done, and not to pay too much attention to what the result will be, and to be happy is to learn to be content.

Happiness is contagious, your happiness will be contagious to me, I will be contagious to him, please remember to tell me when you are happy.

Then you will feel happier.

Because your happiness has wings and will fly.

I'm telling you all this in the hope that you'll feel what happiness is.

Unhappiness should be due to having too many things on your mind, feeling depressed, finding a few close friends, and having someone to talk to, it will feel good.

The definition of happiness is very broad, and there is nothing to define it. Only when you experience it for yourself will you know what happiness is. You feel happy when you do good deeds, you feel happy when you are loved, you feel happy when you get good grades in exams, and you feel happy when you do something that others don't do.

There are a lot of things like this, and they are very common things in your daily life. If you want to pay attention to yourself, happiness is everywhere. Happiness is just a feeling that is fleeting, whereas happiness is a state that is relatively long-lasting.

Hope you can find it soon, grab it, and enjoy it. I wish you happiness and happiness forever

It can be said very responsibly that at present, China's education itself has no purpose, Premier Wen said that the education reform has failed, which is why many students choose to study in foreign universities,,, hehe, I have no economic conditions, otherwise I want to go out, first of all, you are a person who thinks seriously about life, and then you will be confused, I am the same (sophomore in high school), but unfortunately I have not been able to see through the world, and the first step to ** is not clear.

We have a teacher who told us that life itself has no meaning, that is, in the end, we may leave a DNA sequence and go away, and it is also our right to choose how to live, not to be too bound by the outside world, and to have our own life principles.

Now that you have seen the road of psychology and are interested, start reading these books now, listen to the seniors, the knowledge in the textbooks in Chinese universities is very old (at least I know the computer major is like this), and you still have to rely on yourself to read the latest literature and master the latest technology when you work, maybe we are one step behind others in many aspects, but don't give in to the field you like, knowledge is useful, but now the society is a society with a detailed division of labor, and you don't need to master all the knowledge

anyway good luck

Do you not have a good relationship and communication with your parents?

In addition, I would like to say that studying psychology does not solve all problems, but depends on the way each person sees the problem.

In other words, if you look at the problem and deal with it from a more negative perspective, you will not see the positive things.

The same thing, different people look at it is completely different feelings, I don't know if you know, and then do you know why? Because everyone doesn't have a different perspective. Just like those blind people who touch elephants, everyone has their own position and their own opinions, so the results are different, are they right?

Yes, and at the same time, it is not. It's just that what they say is right about the parts of their object, but not about the elephant as a whole.

In fact, learning is not only the learning of school, but also the learning of the human feelings of the society, and it is also the EQ of our understanding. This ability requires you to communicate more with your parents, trust them more, and give them more opportunities to learn to get to know you.

This is important. I hope you can work hard more on this.

Of course, it's best to get your parents to cooperate with you and tell them that you need them to help you, they need what you need!! o(∩_o~

The problem is that you want to study psychology, but you are tired of the current test-taking education because you think it is not what you want, but the problem is that if you don't deal with the college entrance examination, you can't study psychology as you want!

I'm going to tell you that it's almost impossible to skip the process of exam-taking education and get your dream university major!!

If you, with courage, also have a way that you can try.

If you want to study psychology, you can teach yourself! You can spend all your spare time studying psychology on your own, and if you're crazy, you can give up your studies and focus on psychology, but at the cost of losing the opportunity to study orthodox psychology at university, or even lose the chance to go to college!!

I am such a vivid example, I didn't pay attention to my studies for three years in high school, I was bent on perfecting the knowledge system I wanted, I was distracted and thinking about philosophy in math class, I secretly watched Sun Tzu's Art of War in English class, I was teaching myself economics in Chinese class, I didn't do homework when I went home, and I read world classics to think about human nature and society... The results were to be expected. But I don't regret that a person has to be clear about what he wants, what is the goal and what is the means.

What I wanted was wisdom, not a diploma, so I fooled the exam-oriented education and learned what I wanted to learn.

What about you! What do you want, what is the motivation for studying psychology, is it a psychology diploma, is it a psychologist, or is it to see through people's hearts by studying psychology? Only when you know what you really want is you can choose the means!

Psychology is a promising major, and although it is a bit unpopular now, it will heat up in the future.

At that time, I also wanted to choose psychology after completing the college entrance examination, but because the score was not enough, and there were not many schools with majors in our area, this wish was disappointed and I chose another major.

I've lived for more than 20 years, and now I don't know what the meaning of life is. But I know that there will be many good memories along the way, and it will take some hardships to have these memories in advance. As long as you don't regret the path you've taken, it's very meaningful.

I remember that the main reason why I wanted to study psychology at that time was to understand my own psychological condition first, and I thought it was very mysterious, and there would be prospects for this industry in the future. Then I wanted to learn this wholeheartedly, but then I didn't achieve it, and I couldn't get a lower score.

Maybe I was a little regretful at the time, but I didn't regret choosing another major, because everything in life may not be as I want, and don't be too attached to some things, which can make my life easier.

I don't know what your worries are, but if you want to study psychology, you can start with yourself and see if you can solve your psychological problems.

The problem of not wanting to study is very common, as long as a person is not born a nerd, there will be times when you don't want to study, you can let yourself go for a while if conditions allow, but you must grasp a degree, don't let this laissez-faire ruin yourself.

Young man, let me tell you the meaning of life: "The meaning of life is to die after death, die wonderful, die brilliantly, die for a hundred years, die with **, die without regrets" work hard!

Life has to go through the learning stage, but after all, the learning period is short, and the journey to the society is long-lasting, and it is understandable that I don't want to learn now, thinking that everyone has experienced that period of boredom, but since I want to take this road in my heart in the future, we must lay a good foundation now and walk slowly in this direction! I'm a few years older than you, I also didn't drop out of school after my sophomore year of high school, I was the same as you, I wanted to learn computers, I didn't want to go to school, now I'm out, I took the path of my industry, I don't regret my student days, after all, I chose it myself!

Therefore, it is understandable that you don't want to learn, because people are different, some people are suitable for learning, and some people are suitable for taking the road of society, but one thing you must be clear about, what you want, what you want, you must make a choice, you also have to remember that society is not simple, and it is hard to survive in society