How do you teach your children to protect themselves and deal with the unexpected?

Who knows what kind of accident you said.

1. Don't eat strangers' things, don't go with strangers, don't eat small snacks, and refuse directly if you don't know.

2. Your body should not be touched by others, especially the private parts of your body.

3. Memorize the names of yourself and your family, the way of the Liantan system, and the address, but do not disclose them to strangers.

4. Go out by yourself and let your family know when you go.

5. If you get lost, calm down and call out to your father and mother, and seek help from the police.

6. Tell your parents if you have something, don't hide it in your heart.

7. Be brave to express your feelings, be brave to say no, and not be afraid.

8. Even if you are familiar with someone who has strange behavior towards you, leave quickly.

9. When you encounter a suspicious adult who asks for help, don't believe that this person has a problem that makes the source lose.

10. Don't open the door to strangers.

When a child is alone, there will inevitably be times when he encounters danger and bad people. How should our children cope at this time?

So, what should a child do if they encounter a bad person? As parents, we might as well teach the following 5 methods to our children in advance!

Situation 1: What should I do if I am blackmailed by bad guys?

Method: If you are blackmailed, try to say some kind things to the other person, tell him that he did not bring money, or find an excuse to withdraw the money, and then the relatives take the opportunity to run away to inform the teacher or family. If you really can't do it, give them the money, then make a note of their appearance and characteristics, and call the police for help in time.

Situation 2: What should I do if my parents are not at home and a stranger knocks on the door?

Method: When Mom and Dad are not at home, you can turn on the TV or stereo to make the bad guys think that there are other people in the house. If a stranger knocks on the door, whether he says he is a repairman or a colleague of his parents, don't open it for him, just like his parents did when they are at home, call his parents to open the door and scare the bad guys away.

If the stranger doesn't leave, call the police or ask a neighbor for help.

Situation 3: What should I do if I am stalked by bad guys?

Method: If you are followed by bad guys, it is best to go to a crowded place, find a passerby to borrow**, and notify your parents to pick you up. Or ask for help from the traffic police uncle or police uncle next to you. Try not to walk around the alley alone, and it is best to walk with classmates and friends.

Situation 4: What should I do if I am coaxed by a stranger when I am alone?

Method: Don't take the words of strangers easily and keep going your way. If he is in hot pursuit, he will call for help or call the police while shouting for help. When you get home, check with your family about what the stranger said.

Situation 5: What should I do if a stranger gives you something to eat?

Method: If a stranger gives you something to eat, be sure to smile and decline. Many bad guys take advantage of children's greedy mouths and deliberately put drugs in delicious food to take advantage of the opportunity to kidnap you. If the other party is always pestering you, you must shout for help in time.

1. Teach children to learn to distinguish between right and wrong.

Tell children what is right and what is wrong, what can be done and what cannot be done in the silver chain segment, so that they can understand the right and wrong.

2. Be sure to tell teachers and parents about anything.

Many children encounter things, such as being bullied, or making mistakes and calling for training, they dare not tell adults, resulting in parents and teachers not knowing, which will have a great impact on children's growth.

3. Don't trust strangers.

Remember to teach children not to trust strangers, whether they are near or outside the home, and must learn to be vigilant, so as not to fall into the hands of others and be abducted by criminals.

Fourth, you must learn to refuse.

When strangers give things to children to eat, don't pick them up, when strangers and acquaintances make unreasonable requests, you must learn to refuse, don't do what others say.

One, don't just eat strangers' things.

Second, don't trust strangers casually.

Third, don't be greedy for cheapness.

Fourth, don't meddle in things.

Fifth, don't speak ill of others behind Qiaowu's back.

Sixth, don't engage in "stocking-trapped small groups".

7. Don't smoke.

Neither humble nor arrogant, do not care about the wicked, unite with other children as one, and scare off the villains who come to attack!

Tell your child that if they are being followed by an unfamiliar car, they should immediately run in the opposite direction of the car. Because it's not as easy to turn around, at least you can buy yourself more time.

You don't see it, the water of the Yellow River comes up from the sky, rushes to the sea and never returns.

You don't see it, Gao Tang Mingjing is sad and white-haired, and he is hungry and snowy in the twilight of his life.

Life must be happy, don't make the gold bottle empty to the moon.

I am born to be useful, and my daughter will come back when I am gone.

Cooking sheep and slaughtering cattle for pleasure will require 300 cups of drink.

Master Cen, Dan Qiusheng, Hu Xin will return to the wine, and the cup will not stop.

A song with Jun Song, please listen to it for me.

The bells and drums are not expensive enough, but I hope that I will not wake up after being drunk for a long time.

First, educate children about safety awareness.

The child is still young, does not have rich life experience and life experience, has no boundaries about what can and cannot be done, and even has no common sense to challenge some extremely dangerous things because of ignorance, and may even endanger life and loss.

As parents with rich life and life experience, we should often educate our children on safety awareness, so as to enrich their children's social experience and increase their knowledge. For example, when they watch TV in their daily life, they should show their children some cases of harm because they don't know how to protect themselves or new news of social luck, so that children can clearly understand that there are many risks in this society, and then popularize corresponding countermeasures to children.

Second, let the child refuse to learn and sell, and establish a sense of boundaries.

Parents need to help their children understand their own bodies, give them physiology knowledge at the appropriate time, and teach them how to respect and protect their bodies. Children need to know that the body is an important part and that no one else can touch it without their consent. Any physical contact that makes them feel uncomfortable can be refused, even if the other person is a friend, neighbor, relative, etc.

You're particularly familiar with it. Let your child know that being polite to others and maintaining your own boundaries are not in conflict.

When children play together, there will inevitably be small quarrels and even fights. Whether these children are biological siblings or just ordinary playmates, they are likely to quarrel and fight over trivial matters, and often there are people crying and complaining. So what should parents do at this time?

This is a very challenging and artistic question. To put it simply, it is necessary to analyze the situation on a case-by-case basis.

1. No matter what the situation, first of all, please keep your calm, if there is a child injured, first deal with the child's injury, give the injured child comfort, don't humiliate him, such as "Look, I told you not to play with anyone, if you don't listen to me, you will be beaten like this, you really deserve it!" ”。Humiliating a child in this way can seriously hurt the child's self-esteem, especially when other children are present, which can lead to the formation of psychological shadows and even fear of socializing with others, leading to the child's isolation, and in severe cases, even social phobia or other psychological disorders.

2. Secondly, we should focus on the child's emotional feelings first, rather than the event itself. Maybe the real thing is small, but your child is crying and running to you. At this time, you should first pay attention to the child's grievances and painful emotional feelings of being bullied, instead of scolding the child to make the child stop crying immediately and ask what happened to the child, who bullied or was beaten ** or robbed of something, etc., not to mention that the child cried and ran to beat and scold another child without saying a word.

Because of this, it is easy for children to form the impression that "my feelings are not important", which will let the door of communication between the child and you gradually close, and easily teach another child before you figure out what is really happening, which will not only hurt the child you are teaching, but also is likely to make the child crying for help form a dependent psychology and develop a timid and fearful character.

3. Pay attention not only to the emotional feelings of the children who come to you for help, but also to the emotional feelings of the children who do not take the initiative to find you. Remember that a slap does not make a sound, most of the conflicts between children are caused by both sides, do not take sides of the conflict, even if your own children have conflicts with other people's children, do not indiscriminately think that it is someone else's child's problem. As long as they are not hurt, as parents do not need to be overly involved, as long as they pay attention to their emotional feelings, and guide them to learn to express their thoughts and feelings in words to communicate.

If it is a special situation, such as a child who is indeed bullying another child's materialism, then you need to talk to the child's parents, and at the same time teach your child to protect himself and try to avoid the child who always hits others.