What are the benefits of being indifferent? Is it good to be an indifferent person?

It's hard to get emotional and hurt yourself. But it is better to suggest that people are still full of warmth in the world, otherwise it is easy to hurt the people who love you. Best wishes.

You can keep a sense of mystery for others, you don't have to worry about a lot of social things, and you can focus on studying or working. Hopefully so, thank you.

You misunderstand the meaning of apathy, which means that you don't care about people or things around you.

The problem of independent thinking is that "calm" is to make you calm down and think well. If you say that you are indifferent, you don't care about things at all, how can you still bother to think independently.

Stick to a belief in your heart and fight for it, regardless of whether it is a good thing around you, this is not certain, you can only say that it depends on how you judge this matter. If you feel good objectively, you won't regret it. If you just act on your own feelings and don't stop other people's opinions, some problems may arise.

Gratitude is the ability that each of us should have, in real life, a person who knows how to be grateful is kind, because there is a saying that others help you are love, not to help is duty. When a person is willing to stand up for you in a crisis, you must also learn to be grateful, only when a person knows how to be grateful, there will be more and more nobles in his life. A person who does not know how to be grateful must be selfish, even if you help the other party, he will not keep your kindness in his heart, sometimes it will bring you more trouble, and live with such a person, your quality of life will continue to decline.

A person who doesn't know how to be grateful will not have a particularly good popularity, and communicating with such a person will make life a mess.

Living with such a person, you will be hurt more and more, and in real life, if a person's interests always come first, then he will not take the friendship between you seriously. In today's complex society, interests are indeed very important, and if a person always puts his own interests first, then such a person is also ruthless and unrighteous. Everyone cares about their own gains and losses, but living with someone who is impersonal, you will also become more and more anxious.

People who care too much about interests must be ruthless, and they will naturally be more indifferent.

When a person is too arrogant, he will naturally not take others seriously, and a person who does not know how to keep a low profile will eventually have a narrower and narrower path in life. When a person is too self-righteous, he naturally will not look at others in his eyes, and he does not know how to respect others. In real life, no one is perfect, so almost everyone is constantly growing in mistakes, and if a person is not able to accept the opinions of others with an open mind, he will definitely make himself extremely embarrassed in the end.

In real life, each of us will have their own attitude and way of life, the real friend lies in the quality rather than the quantity, only when you learn to constantly screen the people around you, you can meet more noble people in life. Self-righteous people do not know how to respect others, and in the process of communicating with others, they are too arrogant. A person's interpersonal relationships can also highlight a person's ability, and a truly capable person can live in peace with others.

If a person is cold to his relatives and has few friends around him, then such a person's character is also flawed, and associating with such a person will inevitably be hurt in the end.

There's a downside. Apathy is also an emotion. Let's put it this way. If you approach life with a negative attitude every day. Naturally, your life is also unpleasant. And after getting used to indifference. Not interested in everything. It doesn't matter anymore.

Big! A sense of distance will gradually arise, from intimate to strange!

It's a little hurtful, it'll be fine after a while, it's not very big.

If it's someone who cares, it's really big.

After living alone for a long time, I found that I didn't like to contact people very much, and I didn't even want to speak.

I don't know if it's because I've been isolated for too long lately, or if I'm not so dependent on and like my friends anymore, so whenever they get close to me again, I feel unusually awkward and uncomfortable. Then the body and mouth will also show rejection and indifference appropriately, I don't know if it is the reason for the isolation, or if I have changed.

In fact, as a child with low self-esteem, he always felt flattered to be close to others when he was a child, and he would try his best to fit into a certain person and his circle, and later even if he felt unhappy in this circle, he would still show a relaxed and happy appearance and not cause trouble to anyone, which may be what everyone calls a social mask. When you go home and be alone, you will completely take off your mask and return to your relaxed appearance.

But I seem to have changed a lot lately, even if I'm in the same environment as another person, I don't try to break the silence, even if I'm in an awkward situation, I'm not willing to talk about some topics. I've become more willing to walk alone and don't like to chat with people online. So I often talk to my friends for a few words and almost end the topic, but the other party can also sense that I don't want to talk anymore, so the chat often ends quickly.

However, sometimes I am not very happy to do such an act. Sometimes I blame myself for being too indifferent, and sometimes I feel that this kind of social method is not conducive to my future work and life. So I often wonder if it's my problem or if it's because of quarantine for a short time.

But fortunately, I soon discovered another problem, which is that there are some people who give me different feelings. I would be more conversational when I met them, and then I would talk a lot, and even be a little more relaxed with them. So it's still human, right?

But those friends, they are also very serious about communicating with me, why can't I be more friendly? Why is it always apathetic? Is it because of the wounds from them? Or have you accumulated enough disappointment? Maybe I'm a little stingy.

So, as an adult who wants to maintain emotional stability, I may have to tell myself in the end that some masks still need to be worn, and some undesirable behaviors still need to be done. Living in such a world, I may not have the courage to be alone.

The benefits of coldness to oneself can be seen in several ways. First of all, holding the skin, coldness can keep people rational and calm, not swayed by emotions. This can help us make informed decisions and avoid emotional misjudgments.

Second, ruthlessness allows us to protect our own interests and boundaries and not be easily influenced and manipulated by others. This cold attitude can improve one's self-esteem and self-confidence, and make oneself more assertive and assertive in interpersonal interactions. Finally, callousness can make us more independent and autonomous, not overly dependent on the opinions and help of others.

By maintaining a certain level of indifference, we can better protect our privacy and personal space. Therefore, the benefits of coldness are to improve rational decision-making, protect personal interests and boundaries, and enhance self-confidence and independence.

Let's talk about the benefits first: when you are indifferent, others will keep a distance from you, not close, in this way, you can hide yourself well, others can't understand you, and you don't know your heart, you can protect yourself.

Let's talk about the cheats: you get along with others indifferently, although others can't understand you, but in the same way, you can't get close to others, you won't make real friends, a person who has no friends in society is very lonely, and you won't achieve anything in your career, so in the long run, you will make your heart depressed, depressed, and even suffer from mental illness.

Sometimes it's much easier to be an indifferent person than to be a social person. Most of us are changing our true thoughts and principles for the sake of life, and in the end result you will find that such unprincipled practices often lead to nothing. Just like now, many people send moments without purpose, just to show off how beautiful their lives are, but they don't know that there is a sky outside the sky, there are people outside the world, when you are immersed in your own world, others have surpassed you, and watched everything about you coldly.

Two days ago, I watched the reality show "Longing for Life", and found that Huang Lei said that he would be a little out of place in the crowd, and someone asked him why he didn't like to chat, and it would disappear naturally when there were many people, and he said a sentence: "People must start subtracting after forty", and if you want to live an easy life, you must know how to give up what you don't really need. Sometimes be an indifferent person, and you will find that life will bring you more surprises.

Learning to be lonely itself is the best way to keep yourself awake, reading, writing, arranging flowers, doing what you like, it's really a great pleasure in the world, travel, fitness, these things have become the norm of life in your life, people who have done this must persevere to the end, and people who are still wandering in confusion must learn to return to the original intention, which is the best interpretation of returning to the present and finding oneself.

I used to be a lively and cheerful person, with the passage of time, the changes I experienced, I became a cold rock talk about the desert person, at the beginning I felt that I was very lonely, when I really transformed into the original state, I found that I was so simple and beautiful, more love myself, more cherish the current life.