The man on the blind date asks for the AA system, how will you respond?

I think it's normal for the man on a blind date to ask for AA, on the contrary, if he asks for full payment, I will also ask for AA. Because after all, this is the first time two people have met, no matter how much you have a good impression of each other, it is not a reason for you to take advantage of others, although ladies are preferred, and it is still a gentleman's law among boys, but equality is also a common goal pursued by people in the world. <>

When choosing a blind date location, I think it's best to choose a place to drink tea or coffee if you can. Because after all, the two people at this time are not very familiar, and it may be the first time they meet, so it is very embarrassing for two strangers to have a meal together, if one person is talkative, or two people have common interests and hobbies, then it is okay, if the interests of both parties do not match, or both people are very shy people, then it is very embarrassing to only eat and not talk at a meal, so it is very convenient to choose to drink tea or coffee, after all, the time is short, if you are embarrassed, you can leave after drinking teaIf you feel okay, you can also have the next activity, so I think it's more convenient to drink tea. <>

Moreover, blind dates are originally a utilitarian thing. The original purpose of blind date is to find like-minded future partners for unmarried men and women, usually built in the case of matching between parents and elders, the purpose is to find a future partner, so interest and belief, as well as a series of psychological and physiological aspects need to be understood, after all, the future life object must choose a person who can be seen by himself, so at the checkout, the man chooses AA or he pays in full This is a matter of attitude, you like it, If you don't like it, look for the next one, there's no need to worry about that. <>

At the end of the blind date, the man chooses to pay in full, that is his love, if he chooses AA, that is his duty, and there is nothing wrong with it, if you choose to be careful, then you still find the next one.

The above is my opinion, I hope it helps you.

Now there are a lot of people and platforms for blind dates. Not to mention more, go on a blind date once a week, and the cost of a meal is as little as three or four hundred, and as much as thousands. If your salary is a few thousand dollars a month, you really can't afford it.

It's okay to succeed, but if you don't succeed, I believe it will hurt a little, whether it's eating or giving gifts. The blind date AA system is still necessary. But machismo, if you can't let go, you don't have to be so gentlemanly.

It is also okay for a reasonable woman to mention the AA system sometimes. After all, as the saying goes: take other people's hands short, eat other people's soft mouths.

Many times, for the sake of face, men will not ask women and themselves AA. In such a situation, it is best for the woman to give him the opportunity to perform. If this is not the case, the man has to ask for AA.

Well, it should also be accepted. In the process of blind date, there is no need to take this too seriously. It's better that everything goes naturally.

In fact, many women can also accept the AA system now. It's just that many times for the sake of face, the man will not be willing to ask the woman and himself AA. Therefore, in most cases, it is the man who gives.

However, as far as I'm concerned, it's all acceptable. If the man asks for it, I will do it. If he doesn't ask for it, he has to save face, then I have to fulfill him.

Blind dates, in themselves, will bring us some embarrassment. Therefore, in this process, when dealing with some sensitive things, you must have your own principles. For this topic, in fact, many people have talked about it.

It's just that everyone has their own opinion. So how you do it in the end depends on what you think. Whatever you do, remember:

Don't let yourself be overwhelmed. Don't try to take advantage. Keep a steady mindset and approach everything.

In this way, the blind date can be carried out harmoniously. I hope that the women who go on a blind date can understand this. Although the choice is yours, how to do it depends on the actual situation.

You still have the AA system on a blind date, and you didn't say it at the time, and you asked for it afterwards, which is a bit too small, although the AA system is a way to reflect the principle of fairness in modern society. But the blind date is still AA system, to be honest, I really can't accept it, after all, I didn't let you buy any valuables, and there was someone to accompany you for a meal, and it wasn't exactly the two of you, and you still asked for the AA system It's a bit too much.

Everyone knows that girls are used to hold and hurt, so let's see if we can create a beautiful relationship together. Now at the beginning of the fight, the man also has to use the AA system to go on a blind date, that is not to hit the girl's eyelids, think about it, when a man just flirted with his sister, he felt that he was macho and self-righteous, and he ate and paid for his own meal, which would leave a little impact in the eyes of the girl. A man who doesn't know how to give, what qualifications does he have to have a good relationship.

The first blind date, I personally think that the AA system is the best, and the man has no obligation to pay for it, unless the man voluntarily settles the bill; However, the woman made such a request, mainly due to the following possibilities:

The woman is testing the man's financial resources.

Sometimes when Sen Songyu was chatting with people, some girls made this kind of remark, which roughly means that if they go on a blind date, they will take the man to a high-end restaurant for dinner, on the one hand, for the atmosphere; On the other hand, it is to test whether the man is generous or not, and whether he has money.

The unspoken rules of blind date" - the default is that the man should bear it.

Traditional blind dates generally default to the man's payment, which has become an "unspoken rule of blind date", and it makes sense for the woman to ask for this.

The woman thinks that the man has acquiesced in the payment.

Although it was proposed by the woman to go to a high-end restaurant to eat, the man did not object to the cherry chop, and in the woman's opinion, the man agreed, and also acquiesced that he should pay for it.

This reminds me of a post I saw some time ago:

This girl has a friend who is quite rich working abroad, and she just came back to plan a blind date, because this friend is not very tall, so she wants to find a tall beauty to improve the genes of the next generation.

It just so happened that there was a thirty-year-old tall, white and thin beauty colleague in this girl's unit, with average family conditions, basically belonging to the moonlight clan, and there was no house. She introduced the beauty to the man.

As soon as they met, the beauty took the man to a high-end restaurant, and the man said that you are welcome, just order it, and you don't need to save me money. The beauty turned out to be really polite, ordered a lot of expensive seafood, the man saw that he was wronged and left on the spot, and the beauty later swiped her credit card to settle the account, a total of more than 7,000.

I didn't finish all the seafood I ordered, and the beauty packed it all home, and asked the girl to let the man settle the account no matter what. The girl had no choice but to find the man, and the man transferred 2,000 yuan to the girl, his original intention was to invite the beautiful woman to eat 2,000 yuan, but the other party was wronged, and the man was unwilling.

Later, this beauty kept annoying the girl, saying that she would sell all the seafood packed in the refrigerator to her, at least 2000. The girl naturally refuses to ask for it, and the beauty has been annoying her.

From the woman's point of view, the appearance conditions are good but she is still single, and a large part of the problem lies in herself:

Thirty-year-old single, moonlight family, indicating that he is usually a big spender and has no concept of financial management;

The man said casually, and the woman went to death, and she didn't think of herself as an outsider.

It stands to reason that a thirty-year-old woman should not be so careless, she has worked for at least five years, and she has participated in many dinners, so it is impossible not to know even a little etiquette; This has nothing to do with whether the other party has money or not, no matter what kind of etiquette it is, it should not be so unrestrained, it can only be said that this woman is very immature.

It is also a manifestation of selfishness to ask the introducer to buy back the leftovers without reflecting on his own problems at all.

It's not too good for the man to leave on the spot, realizing that he has been wronged, and he can refuse on the spot when the girl orders; But it's easy to say, many people will go straight when they encounter this kind of thing.

Let him roll the calf, the farther the better.

My personal suggestion is that if you don't have any feelings for the other person during the blind date process, then you can take the initiative to pay.

If the other party asks for AA, then you can accept half of the money he transferred, but if the other party does not say that he wants AA, then you don't have to take the initiative to mention it. But since you invited this meal, you don't have to feel any guilt towards the other person in your heart.

After the blind date, if you don't have any feelings for him, then you don't have to feel embarrassed in the future because he invited you to a meal. But if you have a feeling for the other person during the blind date process and want to continue to communicate, then you can take the initiative to pay. If you're a girl, you can ask the guy to pay, which creates an opportunity for the next meeting.

Now when going on a blind date, one of the questions that many people are more entangled in is who should treat them when they eat for the first time? In the process of blind date, many people will take the initiative to pay in order to show that they are very generous. But sometimes the blind date may choose a more high-end place, which is difficult for you to bear, but if you don't pay, it will seem stingy.

This makes a lot of people very confused, and you can actually judge how you should pay according to different situations.

If you don't feel anything about the other person, then you can take the initiative to pay for it, because if you pay for the meal, you don't actually owe anything to the other person. Then you don't have a crush on the other party, and you don't want to have any dealings with the other party anymore, and you don't have to be afraid to reject others. If you have feelings for the other person, then the boy must take the initiative to pay as much as possible.

Because if a person is stingy, no girl is willing to associate with him. In fact, the girl can also wait for the boy to pay and then say that he will invite him out for dinner next time, which can be regarded as creating a chance for the second time to meet with the man.

Then give him AA system, at least you also understand what kind of consumption concept the other party has, if you can't accept it, you will know how to choose.

First of all, to be able to start a blind date, whether it is introduced by relatives or friends, in the final analysis, it is also through the consent of both parties to reach a meeting, that is to say, blind date is completely voluntary. Therefore, two hungry people with wishful thinking sit together, there is no difference between the sexes, and the two people are completely equal in their relationship, so they should regard each other as friends for the first time, and there should be no problem of one party taking advantage of the other. In other words, since two strangers who are willing to make an appointment for a dinner, they should not owe each other, and the AA system is the best choice.

Secondly, if you don't have feelings for this blind date, it means that there is no possibility of continued development between you, as a woman, you should calculate the money with the other party clearly, and don't let others feel that since you don't have the idea of continuing to talk, you still have to take advantage of the other party. It can be said that if you let your blind date pay for this meal, you become a person who rubs the meal, and the relationship between you will be unequal from this time on, and it is very likely that the other party will imagine you as a frivolous person, and you should show your attitude through this meal, and tell the other party that you are not a person who likes to take advantage of others.

Again, if you have feelings for each other because of this first meeting, you should also AA at the final checkout, even if the man pays first, you should ask for a transfer to transfer the other half of the money to him. Maybe the other party won't want it, but you should behave like this, and don't let the other person think that you are a greedy person. If you want to meet more times in the future and get to know each other slowly, you should leave a good impression on each other for the first time.

Finally, if the woman has feelings for the man when they meet for the first time, and feels that it is possible to get along again, they need the AA system even more, and maybe they can take the initiative to pay the bill. Originally, this meeting, the woman's feelings for the man were more obvious, and she needed to take the initiative to "seize the opportunity", Qi Shan wanted to leave a better influence on himself in the hearts of the boys, and also in order to invite the boys out for dinner next time, he was not good at shirking.

Men and women eat on a blind date, is it AA system or does the man pay in full? In order to better protect the rights and interests of both men and women and avoid one party being trapped, I post and share an operational practice. Let's see if it's possible.

As the general planner of single young and middle-aged people activities and a successful marriage mentor, Mr. Yan Ruyuyan first proposed that the "Three Principles of Blind Date Consumption and Payment" that both parties should know before meeting is:

The first principle is to meet for dinner, only pay for meals, and do not give any gifts.

The second is that the restaurant must be chosen by the man (if the woman clearly states that she pays in full, the woman can also choose her favorite restaurant for dinner, otherwise it will be difficult for the man to avoid the wine and rice tray).

The third is that if the total cost of the meal consumption is within the yuan, the man pays the full amount, and the AA system is not required. If, if the woman orders too violently, and the total amount of consumption exceeds 250 yuan, both men and women need to be averaged under the AA system.

I was also single at the time, and I didn't want to spend the man's money, I think everyone is equal, why does the man spend so much money on a blind date, how good is AA.

At that time, we talked for a week, in line with the idea of early death and early superbirth, early meeting and early refusal, I took the initiative to ask him to watch a movie, I thought about it and it didn't seem good for me to give money, so I said AA, but he said how to let the girl give money, so he bought a movie ticket, which is a big plus, but I think that if everyone meets and thinks it is not good, they will go back to their respective homes, find their own mothers, and I can't owe you either, so before we met, I went to buy milk tea, snacks, and ate together when watching movies.

Even if it doesn't work out, just spend some money between friends to watch movies together.

As a result, we met and watched a movie together, and I thought he was good, so then he invited me to dinner, and I didn't have to say AA, I thought that I would just be able to meet the next time I invited him back.

After eating, we walked along the river, and then he took me home, and when I got back, he immediately messaged me and said thank you for accompanying him to eat and watch a movie, I think he should be interesting to me.

Then I said that you invited you this time, and I will invite you to dinner the day after tomorrow. He said yes right away.

After that, we often meet every week, you invite me, I invite you, dinner.

Together after a month.

We've been together for more than eight months now.