The man who loves you can t do these three things, you know?

In fact, many people will experience many relationships in their lives, and people say that girls in love have no IQ, and I think there is some truth in this sentence. Because many girls often play this very weak role in love, they love each other without hesitation, as long as the other party has a little positive feedback, they will be very happy, which is what we usually call love very humble.

In fact, it's not that girls don't know that they are working hard like this, but they really can't judge whether the other party loves them or not, so they have to keep going like this. In such a situation, it is easy to waste your youth. So how can you tell if a man loves you or not?

The man who loves you can't do these three things, you know?

1. I care about you all the time

When I was in high school, I heard about the case of a boy who was doing well in his studies, and many people pursued him, and finally he agreed to a girl's confession. The girl is very good to him and can be said to be meticulous.

One day, the girl was sick, very serious, it was so serious that she could walk by holding on to the wall, but the man had been studying, and the woman asked the boy to take her to the hospital to receive **, the boy said that he was studying and refused, and the girl cried aggrievedly, and the boy thought that the girl was very good and wanted to break up with the girl.

2. Know that it is for your sake

In fact, this can be seen from many small details, for example, when you go out to eat, you know that you can't eat something or order this dish for your own taste, if it's hot pot, then how do you eat it?

3. I have a lot of respect for you

I think in a healthy relationship, both parties must respect each other, respect each other's work, respect each other's friends, respect each other's choices, and respect each other's privacy.

Of course, the man who loves you will not do anything to betray you, and he will not mess with flowers.

Firstly, it will not betray the marriage, and secondly, it will not hurt you.

The man who loves you will never beat you, will not make you sad, and will not betray you.

I won't let you walk alone at night, I won't let you carry heavy objects alone, I won't let you go to the hospital alone.

Of course I do. I won't forget my birthday, I won't have an affair with others, I will buy something for myself directly in life, I won't ask myself, and I won't compare and contrast myself with other people.

It will never let you shed tears, will never deny you, and will never pour cold water on you, because these three things are particularly hurtful, so a man who truly loves you will not do it.

It will not hurt you, including verbal harm or hands, and will respect your opinions when doing things, will respect your feelings, will not appear machismo, will not ignore your opinions, and will not ignore your existence.

Someone who truly loves you won't do these three things!

I won't make myself sad, I won't maintain an ambiguous relationship with others, I won't draw a big pie, if I really like myself, I can take practical actions, and I will take the initiative to deal with my own affairs.

They will always care about you, be by your side when you need company, never leave, be willing to spend money on gifts for you so that you can be better, and want to give you the best in the world, know how to manage your life.

When you are sick, you will take the initiative to spend money for you, will pick you up from work on time, and cook for you with your own hands.

A man who really loves you can give you enough security in the relationship, will take the initiative to spend money to buy you a gift, will take care of you when you are sick, knows how to empathize, and will take care of your feelings.

Sometimes, in fact, men are very realistic, and most of them take into account their own ideas and interests. Only the person he loves the most will not care about it, and he will be willing to give. I think that the most direct manifestation of a boy's love for a woman is that he is willing to suffer losses and does not care about gains and losses.

Generally speaking, no one wants to lose themselves, but it's a different story for the person you love the most. The person who really loves you, he is more tolerant, not easy to care too much, because of love, he is willing to make compromises, and he will not be heavy, afraid of his own losses.

Sometimes, from a man's attitude and key points in some things, to see whether he is willing to give, this can feel a person's heart. So when a man wants to actively let you, he would rather suffer his own losses and grievances than make you sad, such a man can be regarded as really liking you. Someone who truly loves you would rather lose something than lose you.

When two people are together, they both need to live together after that, and it is very likely that they will have some different living habits with each other. But for a man who really loves you, it will try to run in with you as much as possible, be consistent with you, take care of your habits and tastes, and listen to your heart. To truly love someone, you should want the other person to be happy and deeply in love.

In this world, two people who have never been born suitable are mutually tolerant and mutually intolerant of each other. Remember, everyone has their own habits and hobbies, and only those who love you want to accommodate you and listen to you. Sometimes, from some habits of life and some attitudes of the other party, it is enough to see a person's mind.

Therefore, when a man can take good care of your habits, take into account your feelings, and try to be tolerant and habitual, then such a person loves you from the bottom of his heart and should cherish it.

In fact, sometimes a man's attitude depends on the level of love he has for you. Compared with the two of them, no matter how good the relationship is, there will be some disputes and contradictions, and this is the time when a person's mind can be tested the most. I think that the taste of watching a man's moon is never how good it is to you when it is in a fancy way, but how bad it is to you when it is bad.

A man can not worry too much about you when he quarrels, let you, and don't care about the victory or defeat, this is because he loves you. Everyone has their own temper, and only those who love you want to make compromises and concessions, and would rather wronged themselves than lose you. In the world of feelings, if you really love someone, you won't care about who wins because of the quarrel.

Therefore, the person who really loves you must be the one who showed weakness at the beginning and wanted to actively apologize to you, in fact, not because she really felt that she was wrong, but more afraid of losing, compared to losing you, the victory or defeat is not so important.

No matter what you do, you will take the initiative to discuss with each other, and you will also listen to each other's opinions and suggestions, never become selfish, and you will think twice about what you do, and you will put the other party's ideas and status first.

will take the initiative to take you to meet his parents, will take the initiative to transfer money to you, this is something that only a man who really loves you can do.

When you need his help with something, he will appear in front of you as soon as possible, will often give you money to spend, be very patient with you, and tell you all about his past.

They will always care about you meticulously, take care of all your little emotions, unconditionally support all your decisions, and give you enough security These things can be done by men who love you, but men who like you can't, they only have these actions to take care of you for a short time.

For example, giving your life for you, or being able to take you to meet his parents, or warming your hands in the winter, people who love you can do it.

It must be that you give up your life or your family to come to your city or give up this job.

will deliberately quarrel with you, will deliberately be unreasonable, will deliberately lie, will deliberately hit you, will deliberately deny your decision, will deliberately oppose you, I know it.

Deliberately having contact with the opposite sex, quarreling with you, being cold and violent with you, having a cold war with you, often not returning home at night, will do these things.

Pick on your little faults and don't want to stay with you for a long time. Deliberately not seeing your text messages, deliberately not answering**. Deliberately keep your distance from you.

won't reply to your messages in seconds.,It's very perfunctory when you reply to messages.,Don't give you face in front of outsiders.,Behave very intimately with other girls.,Often lose your temper at you.。