If you were a babysitter, what would you think about the 20 points of a babysitter?

If I were a nanny, I would definitely be upset when faced with the twenty points proposed by my employer. Although a high salary is very tempting, behind the high salary is such an extremely strict regulation, it is conceivable that the employer is also a very picky person.

In the face of such an employer, it is not easy to get along. Regardless of the reason why the employer has come up with so many rules and regulations, regardless of the hidden secrets behind them, the employer and his family must also be very xenophobic. How can such a person treat people with sincerity, and how can the nanny be enthusiastic about her work?

The profession of a nanny is not difficult to say, but it is not easy to say that it is simple. For such a high salary, it is generally a live-in nanny, which is equivalent to sending someone under the fence and integrating into an unfamiliar family environment. Therefore, for those who are sensitive and introverted, it is really not suitable to be a live-in nanny.

Thinking about it this way, in fact, this profession is really not as easy as imagined.

It's not easy for me to do it if it were me. Although I also look forward to getting a high salary, anyone who chooses a career is hoping to have a higher income, after all, this society is so stressful. But let me live in a strange environment, there are so many rules waiting for me, maybe including eating, sleeping, talking, walking, all counted, so that I can still work happily?

If I can't work happily, even with a higher salary, I will be sad. It is scary to think about having a good time with the employer's family and arranging life according to their preferences. So I'm not destined to do well in this profession, but I do admire people who do a really good job in this industry.

Labor is glorious, never high and low, but as long as you treat people sincerely, you can find happiness in your work, no matter whether you are high or low, you can live as you want to be

Although I think some of these 20 articles are difficult to do, I think it is better to follow other people's rules in order to make money.

Now there are many places where this rule is, and I don't think it's a good idea to be bound by the rules and try to do the best you can.

If these rules are reasonable, then I try to do everything well so that employers can trust me in my abilities.

I think everyone in this industry should know that there are rules in this regard, and they should be mentally prepared in advance.

I think as long as I can make money, there's nothing wrong with asking for more, and I won't be in trouble.

I guess it's within my professional scope.

I feel that if these regulations are reasonable, I will choose to accept them.

If there is a request for my interests, I will tell the employer to change the rules, and if not, I will change to the next one.

I would approve. After all, people have paid, and you are not forced to accept the job, and you can change jobs if you can't accept it.

Nowadays, the nanny industry can be said to be in short supply, and due to the diversification of market demand, various housekeeping companies have also launched very detailed categories of nanny services, including childcare sisters-in-law, confinement sisters, part-time workers, live-in nannies and so on. Recently, when many people look at the recruitment information of domestic helpers on the Internet, they find a kind of high-end nanny, the salary is very attractive, the monthly salary is as high as 30,000 yuan, will there be anything greasy in this?

In today's society, the pressure on adults is often very great, especially when people are middle-aged, old and young. I don't dare to quit a job that doesn't go well. Therefore, sometimes, it is often forced to be helpless.

The so-called personal nanny, what to say, it depends on the individual. If you don't violate morality, you are also reducing the burden on your life.

Therefore, everyone has their own choice, this is power, of course, if some improper transactions are involved, then, we must crack down on all improper behavior.

The nanny industry is now very profitable, it does not require a high diploma, it does not require looks, but the salary is not low, and even so high that many people envy it. With such a high salary, they must also need to pay something, just like a nanny with a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan who said: willing to do any service for money.

First of all, I don't agree with her. Secondly, I think that there is a big problem with her three views, and we can't sell ourselves for money, for the following reasons:

01. We should use legal means to make money.

We should be a legal citizen, so we should be law-abiding in our lives. In the same way, we should also use legal means to make money. It is not right to abandon your principles and start wandering or testing on the edge of the red line of the law because you have fallen into the eyes of money.

The legal net is magnificent, negligent but not leaky, we can't take a fluke and do illegal things!

As a nanny, I think she should do her part and get her fair salary. If you follow your employer to do something illegal because of greed, then the nanny will definitely be the one who bears the blame in the end. Rich people must have left themselves clean, who cared about the life or death of a nanny at that time!

Therefore, you can't be greedy, otherwise you will be the one who suffers!

02. You can't throw away your self-esteem because of money.

Nowadays, many young people are unable to take care of their elderly parents because of their work, so they often hire nannies for their parents to take care of their daily life, and at the same time, it can also alleviate the loneliness of the elderly! I've heard about the babysitter being "on top" more than once, and every time I hear it, I feel disgusted. What is the "upper position", that is, those nannies took a fancy to the property of the lonely and widowed old man, so they pretended to be good to them, and after the old man relaxed his vigilance, he attacked step by step, until the old man was fascinated and wanted to marry her home!

It's a quick way to get rich, but it's also shameless! With an impure purpose, contact the unsuspecting elderly, seize their lonely hearts, and take the opportunity to plunder their property. In other words, they want to be shameless with money, and for money, they can sell their bodies and souls!

03. You can't ignore your family because you make money.

The babysitter that most people know is a formal industry, and this industry is very hard. Many housekeeping companies pay nannies on an hourly basis, so people in this industry often neglect their families because they earn money to support their families. For example, it is likely that the mother works in someone else's house with other people's children, but her own children rarely see their mother once a month.

This is a very "sad" phenomenon, in order to raise children, mothers are accompanying other people's children! I think that making money is important, it determines our quality of life, but the care of the family can not be ignored, otherwise life will become a simple "making money to support the family", such a life will be a lot less fun!

Companion nannies are not uncommon, and companion nannies are very popular in the housekeeping industry! The reason why companion nannies are very popular is naturally because there are many elderly people who are desolate at night and need not only someone to take care of them in life, but also to be comforted spiritually! Most employers' sons and daughters don't want to find a companion for the elderly, after all, it will involve the division of property, which will be very complicated!

So these children set their sights on companion nannies and will find a companion nanny for the elderly!

A lot of people say that companion babysitting is illegal, and indeed, in my opinion, it is also illegal! But from another point of view, those who can accept being a companion nanny have their own hardships! is like this 57-year-old nanny, she has been with her employer for five years, and others think they are husband and wife, but in fact, only she knows that they are not husband and wife, she is just a nanny with a "special" identity.

Disgusted. This 57-year-old nanny is disgusted with having that layer of relationship with her employer, because she is a rather conservative person, she is not used to this kind of ambiguous relationship, and she does not disdain this kind of ambiguous relationship! But disgust is disgust, but her first friend chose to forbear in order to make more money for her children to get married in the future!

This babysitter finally bowed to life! Although she was reluctant to be a companion nanny, she eventually compromised! In her self-description, the nanny said that she looked down on herself, and she did things that she couldn't forgive herself for the sake of money and the child's laughing future!

It's quite moving!

Netizens are hotly discussed. After the matter spread to the Internet,Netizens said that they could understand the 57-year-old nanny's choice, but they did not support the nanny to do so! Although this kind of thing is not pursued and will not be punished and arrested, but in the end it is illegal and immoral!

Netizens said that this gray area should be paid attention to, and perhaps another way can be chosen to solve the problem of emptiness and loneliness in the elderly in their later years!

A 57-year-old aunt has been a nanny for 5 years and claims to have lost a lot, which makes people have mixed feelings!

The 57-year-old aunt has been a nanny for five years, claiming to have lost a lot, and my opinion on the existence of this kind of companionship nanny is that it is really not easy for a woman to support a family alone with her children.

This Lingcha is a very special existence, because it has been working for a long time, and it has been completely integrated with this family Burning Garden, and it is a family, so this kind of relationship is very precious.

I think this kind of companionship nanny is also very good, and it can accompany us to live a good life, so that we will not be particularly lonely.

Nowadays, people's work rhythm is fast, life is stressful, and it may be easy to make do when they are alone, but if they become a family with a coarse child, for some reasons they can't take care of the child, this crack time has to hire a nanny to take care of the family, and they are busy making money, and now it is popular to hire a nanny for 3 reasons, the first is that they are too busy to take care of the family, so please ask a nanny; second, the quality of life has improved, so there is money to hire a nanny; Third, some people are lazy, so they will want to ask a nanny to take care of the stool, but everyone's strengths are different, as long as everyone works hard to live, whether they are lazy or diligent, they are worthy of respect.

First, it is now popular to hire nannies, first of all, because everyone has better living conditions and has the money to hire nannies.

In the past, everyone's family was relatively poor, and they could only do all the housework diligently, but now that everyone's living conditions are better, some people are more generous and want to hire a nanny to take care of themselves and enjoy their happiness, so now there will be many families who hire nannies.

Second, the second is because some people are too busy to take care of the family, so they can only hire a nanny.

Secondly, some people have children at home, but they and their wives have to earn money to support the family, and the elderly are too tired to take care of the children, so they can only hire nannies to take care of them together, so that they will have less worries and worries to earn money outside, which is the biggest reason why many families hire nannies today.

3. Finally, some people are not good at daily life such as housework, so they have to hire a nanny to take care of them.

Finally, some people are usually busy with work, such as doing self-a** or filming, and they don't want to do their own little things like cooking and housework, so they hire nannies to do this, and they work with peace of mind in the field they are good at, and they also support this practice, everyone in this world has their own way of life, as long as it is not illegal, every choice is respectable, and they all want to be a nanny for others when they are old, so that they can also shine.

The main reason is that with the accelerated pace of life, the competition for jobs is becoming more and more fierce. The fertility peak in the 80s also produced a large number of age-appropriate labor digging momentum, and the overall supply of the human resources market exceeded demand. Overtime, recess, and non-stop work are commonplace for many people.

This result also leads to many families not having the time and energy to do the family's guarantee of early Changjie, and hiring a professional cleaning company to save time and effort, killing multiple birds with one stone.

Because people are very busy at work now, Qiao Chong works hard to improve the quality of life, and has no time to talk about Kuanfan to take care of his family, and the work of hail nannies is better than his own, so he will hire nannies.

Because people's living standards have improved now, and the post-90s hall does not pretend to be a friend whether it is a man or a woman, they need to work and have no time to do housework and take care of children.