My boyfriend s friends all say he s a scumbag! Do I want to be with him or not?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-21
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Others say he's a scumbag, but this is living with the two of you, it's up to you.

    If he is really good to you, the scumbag meets the scumbag, and he can also make a pair.

    Therefore, no matter what kind of man he is, he can have love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The men around your boyfriend all say that he is a scumbag, that is based on what others know about him, if a person says that he can question it, if he says it all, you really have to think about it, don't be carried away by love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then you have to observe and understand him more to judge whether he has some scumbag characteristics, if he is really like what his friends around him say, then you should decisively choose to leave him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The key is what he is in your eyes! How about his daily behavior! How he does to you, his daily behavior!

    How about dealing with people! The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time! You mingle and see!

    Outsiders can't believe it or believe it all!! Open your eyes for yourself! See the world!

    He will disguise himself in front of you again! The fox's tail will eventually be revealed!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think that no matter if you are a scumbag or not, as long as you love you wholeheartedly, it will become the end to you. If he cuts off contact with other people, he will change from a scumbag to a warm man.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello friend. Trust your eyes and don't listen to others.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In this case, I feel like you should learn to let go, because her friends know him, and if each of them says that, that's the truth.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't don't don't! If many people say that he is a scumbag, then he really is, don't be impulsive, don't listen to his nonsense, people have told you from experience.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It depends on whether your boyfriend is sincere to you, if he is really like his friends around him say that he is a scumbag, and he is not very good to you, then call it. Break up with him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My boyfriend's friend said that he was a scumbag just joking, as long as your boyfriend is good to you, you don't take what others say seriously.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He found out that his boyfriend was a scumbag, of course he should break up immediately, if such a man doesn't break up, do he still want to keep it for the New Year?In the process of falling in love, we may meet unladylike people, such as meeting one or two scumbags, which is indeed a very bad thing. The scumbag does things half-heartedly, always likes to step on two boats, fall in love with you here, and hook up with three or four over there.

    There are also some girls who always feel that scumbags can change, for example, I once knew such a girl, she already knew that her boyfriend was more scum during the relationship, but it happened that she was pregnant at that time, so she hoped that the child could be exchanged for her boyfriend's conscience, and the two did get married at the request of both parents, but after marriage, there were always quarrels, even during the girl's pregnancy, the boy was still messing around. It turns out that she really lost the bet. The country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change, and the scumbag will still be very scumbag after having a child.

    In the end, the girl divorced the man with the child and became a single mother. In fact, in this matter, the most pitiful person should be the child. So when you meet a scumbag, you must be decisive, don't expect him to change, this kind of character has been with him for half a lifetime, and we are not Bodhi, it is impossible to expect him to "become a Buddha" by our side, so never gamble on yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If I find out that my boyfriend is a scumbag at this time, I will definitely break up with him immediately. Because such a person is very unworthy of nostalgia.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If I find out that my boyfriend is a scumbag, I will immediately propose to break up with the other person, because such a man is very unreliable.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When you now find out that your boyfriend is a scumbag. I advise you to break up as soon as possible. Because if this relationship continues, it will definitely make itself very painful in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I will break up decisively, because I feel that there is really no need to keep such a boyfriend, and it will only make me sad and cry.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, because I will never take my happiness as a child's play, since I found out that the other party is a scumbag, I will not be with him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No. Because I hate scumbags very much, and there will be no happiness with scumbags, I won't be with him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    He found out that his boyfriend was a scumbag, of course he should break up immediately, such a man is kept to torture myself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you are a scumbag, you have to choose to leave decisively, and the sooner you decide, the less harm will be done, and there is no need to entangle with him anymore.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When you find out that your boyfriend is a scumbag, then it is best to advise you to do it early. End the relationship. If you continue, you will definitely live a very miserable life in the days to come. Since it will make you miserable, why not end him sooner?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If I found out that the other party was a scumbag, I should have broken up with him immediately. Because I take my relationship more seriously, I can't stand that when he is with me, he still plays ambiguous with others. It can make me feel very bored and hurt my self-esteem.

    A more rigid and conservative person like me, even if he wants to play with a scumbag, will end up hurting himself.

    If you find out that the other party is a scumbag and still don't break up, I personally think you are wasting your youth, don't you feel sorry to be with a scumbag? Of course, if you're also a scumbag, I don't have anything to say。You'd better not break up, or you'll be harming others.

    If you're not a scumbag, then I advise you to stay away from scumbags. Otherwise, you will be greatly hurt physically and mentally. Scumbags generally know how to please girls, you know that he is a scumbag, and you let him hurt you, you will only fall deeper and deeper.

    Don't think about revenge on the other party, because your level is not enough, he can see through your thoughts, see the tricks, and make you doubt your life.

    If you want to break up, but you are reluctant to be gentle and considerate of a scumbag, or reluctant to be good looking at the other party, then my suggestion is that if you are not more than twenty-five years old, you can have a play, and if you are over twenty-five years old, you should take care of it. You must know that falling in love and getting married are not the same thing, youth can be squandered, but marriage cannot. Marriage is a responsibility, a commitment, and two people who share ups and downs, honor and disgrace.

    So even if you love this scumbag again, you have to understand that he is definitely not the best person to enter into marriage with you. You have to be calm when facing marriage, and you are looking for a good person you can rely on.

    A failed relationship is just an experience, and you don't have to take it personally. Who hasn't met a few scumbags in this life, and after meeting a scumbag, he has loved and hurt, so let it go. You must always believe that there are many beautiful boys waiting for you, and do not lose faith in love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When I found out that my boyfriend was a scumbag, I thought it would be more appropriate to break up with him immediately. Especially in the relationship, the other party touches our bottom line, we should make a decision immediately, which not only makes us more self-loving, but also better protects ourselves, especially psychological protection, and more importantly, does not let our feelings have more mistakes, for non-dedicated boys, even if you pay more, it is not worth it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, if I find out that my boyfriend is a scumbag, I will break him up immediately, and I will not allow my boyfriend to be such a person.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    For me personally, I will definitely break up with him immediately, because such a man will definitely do something that makes me very sad.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If I find out that my boyfriend is a scumbag, then I will definitely break up with him immediately, after all, such a boyfriend is a danger to me by my side, and he may cheat himself at any time. Keeping him by your side is a ticking time bomb, so get rid of him as soon as possible.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    My boyfriend is a scumbag, I will definitely break up with him immediately, this scumbag will definitely hurt you when he has a boyfriend and girlfriend with you, the longer the two people get along, the more feelings they give, and the more sad they will be when they are hurt.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Well, when you find out that your boyfriend is Nanzha, you can choose to break up, because you know that she is not suitable for you, then you don't need to waste your youth and time and energy for him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    will definitely break up immediately, because the scumbag will not change because of you, and he will not give you the happiness you want, because he doesn't care about you at all, so he has to leave this kind of person immediately.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    When you find out that your boyfriend is a scumbag, will you break up with him immediately, he is a scumbag, I will definitely break up with him, because there is no good result with him.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If I find out that my boyfriend is a scumbag, I will definitely break up with him immediately, a scumbag will always be a scumbag, a scumbag will never be trusted, or I will break up as soon as possible if I don't want to be hurt.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    But when I find out that my boyfriend is a scumbag, I will definitely break up with him immediately, because I don't think this kind of scumbag has any trust to talk about.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If your boyfriend is a scumbag, then you must break up with him, and in this case, will you have to wait until the Chinese New Year if you don't break up?

    So you should not hesitate to break up with him, after all, what he did is unacceptable.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The reason why girls fall in love is that I believe that most girls initially want to get a happiness, but if a girl finds a scumbag, not only will she not reap happiness, but on the contrary, she will be hurt a lot. Therefore, girls must learn to like themselves more before liking a boy, and if they find something uncomfortable in this relationship, they should eliminate these places, if there is no way to eliminate it, it is better to choose to break it off, and then start their new life again.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Now that you've found out that your boyfriend is a scumbag, the best way to do that is to separate him as soon as possible. At this time, even if you are by his side, you will not get his kindness and love for you. This only increases your own damage.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you have found out that your boyfriend is a scumbag, I think you should break up with him for a long time rather than a short time, otherwise you will only be hurt.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    At this time, you must break up with your boyfriend immediately, because he is a scumbag and will hurt you one day.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    should choose to break up, they are already a scumbag, and being together is just to consume feelings, and there is no way to come together.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Now that you have discovered his scumbag nature, let's leave him completely, stop the loss in time, and let yourself get out of the way.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    The true colors of boys. I can't tell if it's true. Don't think too much about it, try to get along. Some people have a color heart and no color guts, and some people have a color heart and a color guts, and your boyfriend is. People are like that.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I suggest that you break up and cut off all contact with your boyfriend right away, because since he's a scumbag, then I don't think it's worth being with you, so break up right away.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I believe that many people have the same question as me, why many women don't look stupid, but they still can't get happiness in love, especially when they meet a scumbag, they have to plunge into it and make themselves unable to extricate themselves. And those honest men, those who pursue girls in a down-to-earth manner, just don't have a high success rate. There is no harm without comparison.

    When something like this happens, can we argue in **? If the conditions are not good, you can work hard, but this completely unreasonable situation makes people not change their direction. I have also talked to several female friends about this issue.

    Why do women still feel reluctant to go to scumbags? These women speak from the heart.

    Wang, he's very good, I just like him.

    Truth be told, the best man around me is him. I can't find anything wrong with him other than being honest with me. I know a lot of men, but in general, there are very few men who can match him.

    Good economic conditions, good looks, gentleness to people, and understanding of a woman's heart, add up to these advantages, I have no reason to refuse him, even if I am a spare tire, I have a feeling of happiness. Maybe it's just me being stupid. I'm willing to be with him like this.

    For me, it was worth simply enjoying such a short time.

    Tong Tong, I don't want to get married either. Just for fun. Never mind.

    It's about getting what you need. He is the kind of man I want to fall in love, although I haven't thought about it with him, so do I, everyone wants to fall in love for the sake of love, just get along simply, you don't need so many ideas, and you won't get tired of getting along. Isn't that what people are?

    It's good to be content, sometimes you really don't have to think about it so much. When you really want to marry in love, you will find that you are really tired. It's about letting yourself talk about love when you're young.

    Zhang Lili, it feels so good to be spoiled, whether he is sincere or not.

    He's really the kind of guy with a sweet mouth. Sometimes he just disappears, but as soon as he appears in front of me, he can't refuse. Basically, within five minutes, you're messing him up.

    Qin Yu, I'm already in love with him. What else can I do?

    When you fall in love with someone, you can't extricate yourself. Perhaps this is the hardest thing for me to overcome. I love him.

    Since I fell in love with him with all my heart, I have given so much for him. My parents and I almost broke up because of him. How can you let go of paying so much?

    That feeling of unwillingness has kept me from giving up completely. I feel like I'm letting go. I feel sorry for myself.

    Ma didn't react at all, he was deceived.

    I was silly at first. I always thought he really loved me. Even though so many friends around me reminded me, I didn't realize that I was being taken advantage of by a scumbag.

    It wasn't until we broke up that I felt like he had cheated on me. Or after we broke up, I was in pain for a few months, and slowly I realized that I had been cheated all along. He did a lot of things to show that he didn't mean it to me, it's just that I didn't understand it at first, alas!

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