After the blind date, I started as a friend, but let me refuse to go on three dates, do you still wa

I don't think there's any need to continue, if he (she) intends to know more about you, he will meet with you, because meeting is the most direct way to understand each other, three times rejected means that he has no intention of dating you, anyway, every time I go on a blind date, if I have a little good feeling, I will agree to meet again to further determine my first judgment. Since he doesn't even want to meet, it means that you don't care. Give up, there is no grass at the end of the world.

I feel that you are very funny, and you should know that she doesn't hate you when you see her constantly replying to your messages. As long as you keep in touch, listen to her thoughts, chat more, and care about her, you will definitely be able to catch up with her. Hehe, girls are very shy, and she will accept you slowly.

In love, it's nothing more than that she loves you more or you love her more, judging from your description, you like her very much, her QQ message replies quickly and proves that she cares more about you, it is recommended that you chase more, don't be afraid of being rejected or something, as long as you are not rejected and blacked out, there is a drama

I have already said that I start as a friend, that is, I plan to be friends with you all the time. Don't bother with that, it's boring to stalk.

You're too anxious.,In this case, no one can chase it.,Isn't chasing a girl to the death?,Take your time.。

If you feel good about her, you should keep trying.

Don't go any further! What's the point?

Just tell the other person!

First, high emotional intelligence refuses to go on a blind date.

1.Tell the introducer directly.

Generally speaking, our blind dates have introducers, who may be our colleagues or our relatives and friends. If we are shy and inconvenient to talk directly, then we can talk through an introducer. Of course, this will also make the introducer a little embarrassed, but there is no way but to make appropriate compensation afterwards.

You can buy some gifts to apologize to the introducer, and you can also be in touch with your own feelings often. Such a family would be willing to do such a thing.

2.Make an appointment to meet and tell the blind date directly.

Of course, this kind of straightforwardness should not be blunt, otherwise it may embarrass our introducer. We can say what we really think in our hearts, say it from the other person's point of view, and politely refuse. However, this requires the art or flair of language.

Of course, the most important thing is to be sincere, so that the other person feels that you are really thinking about the other person and feel that you are not worthy of others. I think a smarter girl, if she can hear the meaning of your words, she will gladly accept it.

3. Indicate on the communication tool.

WeChat is arguably the most commonly used chat tool. If we are really shy and introverted, inconvenient or unwilling to talk to girls face-to-face, and unwilling to bother to introduce people, then we can tell girls directly through WeChat. We can explain it to the child in voice, or it can be really embarrassing and embarrassing, or we can send a large text to the girl.

Reading between the lines, you must tell the girls what you really think in your heart. Of course, we also need to polish them. We shouldn't be too blunt.

Don't make girls feel embarrassed or angry when they see this. If you really can't write anymore, you can find more friends who are good at writing or in love, and ask them to help write a paragraph, so that we can refuse the blind date very appropriately.

Second, the way that high emotional intelligence rejects each other on a blind date.

1.High EQ outright refusal.

Rejection ("We are better suited to be ordinary friends than lovers", etc.) + not the man, the woman's reason + praise the man, the woman's (appearance, personality direction) + blessing (wish the other party to find the right woman boyfriend) + thank you (thank the other party for their help and care, please tell me if you need help in the future).

2.Reject the wording.

I'm sorry, but I have someone I like. ta is a colleague and a classmate. I'm sorry, it's on the rise at the moment, I don't want to think about it yet. You're a good person, but I'm not in a good state for a relationship. Good luck finding the right partner.

1.Explain why.

Don't rashly deny the other person, it will give the impression of being very impolite. It is recommended that you think about the inappropriate areas for both parties in advance, and clearly express these inappropriate aspects, so that the other party has a basic grasp in their hearts, which is good for both parties.

2.Avoid dragging your feet.

If you feel that the other person is not suitable, it is best to refuse directly. Don't put it off until the end to make the other person think you're interested in him. This kind of behavior not only delays oneself, but also delays the other party. After all, marriage is a major life event, and it is important to meet the most suitable person.

First of all, it depends on whether you like him or not, you can tell him that the progress is too fast, you can't accept it a little, take your time or whatever, but if you are in love, then you don't need to waste time.

If the blind date wants to hold hands on a second date, you should clearly refuse. After all, the two of you have only met twice, so you don't need to do such intimate movements.

I think you can tell him that you can't develop it a little bit before that time.

I think I should make it clear to him that I'm not such a casual person, and we can't hold hands when we have known each other.

On this issue, first of all, I think that boys must like you so often. As for why not hold your hand thinksBoys are generally in a state of stupidity when they meet the girl they like, they don't know what to do, they won't take the initiative, and there is one of the biggest reasons is shyness.

In my opinion, girls should give boys some hints and give boys some opportunities at this time. If you don't hold hands. That can only be said that this boy is not your cup of teaGirl, he may have asked you out just because of the urgency of the family or the material requirements, but he is not the caller.

I have a friend, the family is urging marriage, once five blind dates a day, I remember that he had a blind date, the two of them got along well, and they went out very often. But boys never take the initiative to hold hands and kiss, these are all taken by this girl, and even the two of them go out for the night and do not have sex. Later, when I asked my friend why, he said:

I really can't get any interest in her at all! But at that time, my parents were in a hurry, and I couldn't find anything wrong at once. "Everyone is pitiful in this failed relationship, sometimes you just won't meet the right person, and that kind of love that goes with the flow is also what everyone desires.

People think that the relationship is not in place, you can take the initiative if you are in such a hurry.

Maybe it's just that the time hasn't come yet, and I'm looking for a very romantic time.

Hahaha, I think he may be embarrassed, I'm afraid you don't like him like this, since he has asked you so many times, you should have a good impression of him.

may be more respectful of you, so they won't dare to hold your hand, and they are still very polite.

Maybe he thinks he's embarrassed when he just met, after all, he doesn't know what you think, and he hasn't decided on the relationship yet.

She agrees to meet you for the second time, which means that she is interested in you, and the refusal may be unprepared, and the landlord should not give up. I did the same thing, but he gave up.

It's only the second time you want to hold hands, won't it be too casual, take your time.

As long as you insist, there is hope, and there is no hope for giving up, adjust your mentality, summarize the reasons for the failure of the blind date, whether your conditions are too high or you have shortcomings, find a way to make up for your shortcomings and improve yourself, maybe you will succeed next time! In addition, I will send you a sentence: the mountains and rivers are full of doubts, and the willows and flowers are bright and another village.

Fate is very wonderful, you try your best to chase it, it is invisible. When you give up, you begin to learn to be at peace with the encounter, it will come to you quietly, the encounter of fate is unpredictable, it has its own arrangement, and will not change its own arrangement because of your preparation or non-preparation! And all we can do is keep ourselves in top shape at all times!

Because you don't know which destined person will meet you at what time, where, and in what way under the arrangement of fate! So we want to keep ourselves in the best shape at all times! Just to give that person a perfect start and ending when she meets that person again.

It is normal for people to meet countless people in this life, some pass by, some walk together for a while, and some become friends. Fate is hard to find, and the blind date has not met the right one many times, which means that the right person is on the way to come, wait, it will always wait.

Don't resist blind dates too much, try to get to know others more. You may find that there are a lot of flashes of filial piety in others that you haven't noticed before. In addition, you also have to learn to express yourself, if you don't express it, others will not be able to really understand you, let alone enter your heart.

Another prerequisite for a successful blind date is yourself. Think about it empathically, when you go on a blind date with someone you don't know for the first time, you pay attention to his appearance and quality from the ** point of view, it is naturally his (her) taste and conversation, because the first meeting is a blank sheet of paper for the other party, it depends on how you paint on it, whether it is random graffiti or deliberate tracing, it depends on your attitude and details. A person with a high level of life cultivation and skillful taste does not need to be hidden, and your gestures can let the other party see whether you will make the other party excited.

Therefore, if you want to have a successful blind date, your actions determine everything.

I think I should continue to participate. Because the right person will always search for the last time to bring the book, so don't give up every blind date opportunity, maybe the next blind date will meet the right person.

Continue to participate, but at the same time, you should also expand your social circle and travel more, so that you will have a higher probability of meeting someone who is destined for you.

Should. Because only by continuing to participate, it is possible to meet the right person, and blind date is the most effective method.