Can I tell me how much bride price you got when you got married?

Our family is also more reasonable, and we are very welcome to the arrival of our husband, and the wedding bride price is only 20,000 yuan at the end. He breathed a sigh of relief at that time, and opened his mouth to say: 20,000 is too little, give 30,006! Haha, I'm laughing to death, I know he's slapping his swollen face and being fat again.

For the first time, I took 10,000 yuan, which means to pick a wife for 10,000 miles. The second time I took 20,000 yuan, plus three gold costumes or something, it was about 50,000 yuan. My hometown is rural, and our bride price is generally between 20,000 and 60,000 yuan, and we gave it according to the status quo on our side.

The bride price in my hometown is heavy, once when I set up a marriage, once when I receive a kiss, a total of about 150,000 yuan, and there are many things to accompany and send; But the bride price in my husband's hometown is only about 20,000 yuan, so I thought about it for both parents, and made a compromise of 60,000 yuan, of which 10,000 yuan is my own savings, and my husband's family paid 50,000 yuan.

I didn't give the bride price and gave 20,000 8 women to hold a banquet, and my mother brought me 50,000 back, and that's the end of it, the garage is ready-made, my husband's only son, I am the same.

I got married in 02, and there was no bride price at that time, I bought three gold clothes or something, because my husband had two brothers, I saved to buy it, and the three gold spent 3,400 yuan together, and the clothes were 100 yuan to buy two, and I thought very simply, I could make money in the future, and I spent more than 30,000 yuan in total for marriage!

The bride price is generally 2-30,000 yuan, and then the woman's family will give this money to the daughter, and the woman's family will give the dowry, and the conditions are not good. The customs of other places are how much the bride price is, not returned to the daughter, basically no marriage, and an extra house or something.

When I got married in 1988, her family was in better condition than mine, and my father-in-law was the former director of the unit. I took two hundred, and my father-in-law posted five hundred. The unit was given a house, and they got married.

My husband didn't say anything about the bride price, but I knew that our family had such a saying, so I told him that my mother's family wanted at least 50,000 yuan (lied to him), and my husband said that he could accept it, and my father asked for 20,000 yuan when the parents met.

At that time, I was very simple, I was a real naked marriage, no house, no gift money, no wedding, just a simple banquet, and I was married far away, when I got married, my parents and brothers did not participate, which was the regret of my life.

According to my father-in-law, the bride price is just an attitude, and his daughter is not cheap. I gave a bride price of 50,000 yuan on the same day, and gave it to me privately the next day, and then I married a lot.

When it comes to accepting bride price and dowry, this kind of thing is incomprehensible as a Chengdu person, because Chengdu does not accept dowry and give bride price, and this custom is when it comes to talking about marriage. Both parents will give a certain amount of money to their children. Family start-up money.

More or less depends on the family's financial situation. Even if there isn't. It doesn't have much to do with it, as long as the two young people really love each other.

I can't understand the fact that I accept a bride price and a dowry, and if I am not satisfied with the amount, I will regret the marriage. Shouldn't marriage be based on affection and love? When it comes to talking about marriage and starting to prepare for the bride price and other things, it is easy to collapse because of the bride price, and there are not a few couples who decide to part ways.

For girls, the reason why most girls care about the bride price. Basically, it's because they think it's the best way to test how much their other half and other families value them.

In other words, the girls feel that this is the last hurdle they have to take before getting married, because after this last hurdle, there is no turning back.

For men, boys can also see the girl's feelings for themselves through the bride price, they think that if they really love their girls, they will definitely consider the actual situation in their own family, and will not raise the bride price indiscriminately, and those girls who do not consider the actual situation and blindly ask for a high bride price do not seem to be suitable as marriage partners.

In the final analysis, the bride price is the last temptation that a man and a woman make to each other before they get married. The love of adults is no longer a love that can give everything for love, and it is destined to have some interests to measure. And it is often this kind of calculation between each other that is the last straw that crushes couples.

The right kind of love is for children to ask both parents for a dowry to prepare for the formation of a new family.

I think it is appropriate to give a bride price when you get married according to local customs, for example, the bride price in a rural area like ours is 88,000. It's good to follow the basic trend of the local area, then if there is a local bride price of 200,000, then the 200,000 bride price is suitable, the most important thing is to see if the two people have feelings, if they have feelings, I think as long as the two sides reach an agreement, it is suitable.

With the economic and social development, people are increasingly pursuing a luxurious material life, and for young people, the cost of marriage and love is getting higher and higher, even to the point that they can't afford to get married.

First, employment pressure has increased. Today's young people, after graduating from college, quickly change their status from students to unemployed youth. The phenomenon of losing one's job as soon as one graduates has become a common phenomenon.

In order to go to college, many college students have already spent all their family savings. After graduation, according to the relevant national policies, these college students often transfer their student files back to the talent exchange center of the city (county) district where they are located, leave relevant information, and wait for various recruitment activities organized by the personnel department. The employment pressure during this period can be imagined.

Without a job, the matter of marriage can only be rushed.

Second, the cost of marriage and love is high. Even through various activities, young people find jobs. However, the cost of marriage and love is also prohibitive. Under normal circumstances, there are three things that must be prepared before marriage: bride price, house, and car.

The current bride price is different in each city, but there is a common trend: it is outrageously high. In some places, the average monthly salary per capita is only three or four thousand yuan, but the bride price is more than 100,000 yuan. The bride price must be paid in a lump sum, which is an important condition for marriage.

Not to mention the house, you must buy a house in the county seat or the city where you work. Under normal circumstances, a 100-square-meter house is cheapest to be more than seven or eight hundred thousand, not including furniture, decoration and other matters.

As for the car of the means of transportation, the price of trembling lead is also more than 100,000 yuan. In this way, the cost of marriage and love is not a small amount.

The bride price is a long-standing folk custom. This issue has been a matter of great attention due to the fact that the bride price for the first stool is getting higher and higher in some places and at some times, which makes it unaffordable for many families. ......As for why the custom of bride price has been passed down to this day, and whether young people should ask for bride price when they get married, we can analyze it from three aspects: the bride price itself has a very high sense of ceremony, the bride price is a kind of compensation for the mother's family, and the young people can decide whether to pay a bride price when they get married according to their specific circumstances.

1. The reason why the custom of bride price has been passed down to this day is because it has a very high sense of ceremony.

The reason why the custom of bride price has been passed down for a long time is because of its own very high sense of ceremony. ......Just as a wedding must be held when getting married, the bride price is also a very important ceremony and content in the marriage process. ......Specifically, when the man and the woman confirm the marriage and start to talk about marriage, the man takes the bride price.

The woman takes the dowry, and both parties happily prepare and hold the wedding, so that the marriage can be happy and successful. Because of this, the custom of bride price has survived to this day.

2. The bride price is a kind of compensation for the mother's family, so it will exist for a long time.

The bride price itself is actually a very realistic compensation from the mother-in-law's family to the mother's family. ......When getting married, the man's family marries a daughter-in-law, and the family is happy, while the woman's family marries their daughter, and if they can't get anything in return, they really feel ...... lonelyBecause of this, the custom of bride price appeared. Through the bride price, the woman's family received a certain amount of compensation, and more importantly, received spiritual comfort, so that both families would be satisfied, and the custom of bride price was retained for a long time.

3. Young people should decide whether to pay a bride price according to their own specific situation.

On the question of whether there should be a bride price when getting married, young people should determine according to their own actual situation. ......First of all, it is necessary to make it clear that there is no unified solution to this matter, and only according to the specific situation of the parties. ......Specifically, on the issue of whether to pay a bride price, both men and women need to conduct in-depth communication according to their own actual situation and the other party's demands, and finally reach an agreement, both parties jointly identify a choice, this final decision is the final choice, and both parties can do it in this way in order to achieve the best result that both parties are satisfied with.