Tell us about the deeds of your strange relatives?

Two days ago, a relative came to my house and took away two of the picture books I had bought for my son, and I was not at home at the time, and I found out after work when my sister told me. Later, the relative complained to me: "I will take your two books, and your son has chased me to my house at that time, why don't you take your two books, you see your son's posture."

I was thinking that my son was like that, so I didn't want you to take it, so why are you embarrassed to take it? You want to show your child why don't you buy it yourself (her child is older than mine). I smiled and said

Remember to give it back to us when you finish reading. "I didn't look good at her face at the time. I want to take it away and don't pay it back!

When I was a child, I went to my aunt's house, they had a puppy, and they bit me, and my aunt said to me, give you 20 yuan, don't tell your family, let's play, and when I got home, I told my mother, and my mother took me to get an injection without saying anything, and now I think about this kind of relative is really a wonder.

My sister-in-law, who is in her thirties, puts it in front of her as long as she likes to eat when she eats, and doesn't care if others eat or not. There are two sons, who are particularly partial to the younger ones, and the younger sons are used to being particularly selfish. As long as the younger son wants to eat what he wants, her eldest son and the others must obey unconditionally.

Once my mother-in-law steamed sweet rice, her youngest son shouted to eat the dates above, she put all the dates in the bowl of the younger son, the eldest also likes to eat dates on the clip one, the second child is unwilling to say that he wants to eat it all, she immediately stretched out the chopsticks to the boss to ask, the boss did not give, and then he was scolded, to the effect that you yourself have eaten well, do not give it to others. I felt pitiful when I looked at the boss, and my husband said that she was still angry with her, and she didn't listen at all.

There is a group of strange relatives, my grandfather is sick, I Zhang Luo here to help him find a Chinese medicine medicine to take medicine, they Zhang Luo gave him a funeral, asked him how much money he had left, and forced the old man to say where the money was hidden. I have seen those who are preparing for a wedding, but I have not seen a person preparing for a funeral. A pack of white-eyed wolves.

My dad died two months ago, before my family was open a commissary, after my dad left, he closed the commissary, because my mother is not in good health, it is too hard to open a store alone, there will inevitably be a lot of inventory in the store, my mother can return all the return, can not be returned is also able to send to relatives, but the expensive or low price to deal with and sell, this is the premise, there are seven or eight boxes of salt left at home, my mother sold it at 10 yuan cheaper than the purchase price, one of my aunts said that she and her friend one box, my mother sent her home, I thought she would transfer WeChat or Alipay to my mother, but there has been no news, and then came to my house to play, my mother just happened to be settling accounts, because it is the village, it is inevitable that there will be debts, my mother took this opportunity to say, your friend I am embarrassed to go to her to ask for money, or you can help me ask it, but my aunt came to a sentence, she gave me the money, no need to ask her, I go, people have given you money, you don't know to give money to my mother, I also comforted my mother that may not have paid the salary, but my mother said, She told me the day before yesterday that there were tens of thousands of yuan in WeChat, and she could afford to pay these two boxes of salt money without paying her salary! Since then, I have been particularly disgusted with this aunt, and later I heard that her mouth is also very broken, always saying bad things about others behind her back, working in the factory with my mother, my mother is a veteran, and their skills are taught by my mother, so I am jealous of my mother's fast work, and behind my back said that my mother wants money and does not want to die, she is lazy, and she blames others for being more diligent than her.

A cousin's daughter, my name is Auntie. I studied French at a science and technology university in the province, and after graduating and went to South Africa, it is said that I signed for five years! All kinds of things say to me how good it is, let me learn from others, so good and make so much money!

Later, my grandfather told me that it was less than 100,000 yuan a year, and he came back once every two years, and the flu was still prevalent there, so I don't know what he had to blow with me. ‍

My cousin, who is famous for iron cocks, is her mother's sister. Every time I celebrate the New Year, I buy a small bag of fruit and food or something to buy a copy of my aunt (my cousin's mother), which is a respect for the elderly, my cousin only brings a mouth to my house, and eats from morning to night. My mom said she never had a fruit from your cousin.

As soon as the Chinese New Year arrived, she went to the field without showing up under various excuses, leaving her own son to follow my aunt to pay New Year's greetings to receive the New Year's money, my child was seven years old and never got a penny from my cousin to receive the New Year's money, and her son received the New Year's money from us every year. These are nothing, the problem is that my cousin knocks on the door, but the mouth claims that she is a person who pays attention to family affection and boundless love, she believes in Buddhism, and when it comes to reasoning, she says that we are an only child generation, and there are not many relatives, and the old cousins must love each other like brothers and sisters......Once I happened to meet the Mid-Autumn Festival in the field, I arranged moon cakes and fruits to send to my aunt on WeChat, in the family group I told my aunt to remember to take gifts, my aunt expressed gratitude in the group, I deliberately said, no thanks, filial piety to the elderly is what our younger generations should do. My cousin didn't say a word during the whole process, and after a while, another relative in the group posted a chicken soup text, and my cousin bubbled up and made a quack expression.

Grandma's, I send something, your mother, you don't even fart, thank you, you don't even fart, this kind of nihilistic chicken soup is not good, and you are kind enough to believe in Buddhism, it is really hypocritical.

It's very early, at the end of the nineties. My third uncle is doing decoration in Shanghai, and it is very good to bring a group of people. When you go out, others are also the boss, and the boss is screaming.

The third uncle took one of his wife's relatives with him as if he were a cousin or a cousin. Because the third uncle went to school less, he let that relative do the accounting and salary, and at the end of the year, the relative suddenly took leave and went home. A few days later, the worker asked my third uncle for wages, and the third uncle learned that the relative had not paid him and ran home with the money.

The third uncle tried his best to pay the workers' wages, but the work was not done. No money! In the end, the third uncle basically wanted to go home with dinner.

That relative went into hiding. Don't meet. The third uncle wanted to save face again, and in the end, it was over.

Later, when I met that relative, it was as if nothing happened. I felt very angry when I heard about it, if it were me, I would not be able to take care of him!

The only annoying thing I've ever encountered is that I have a relative who is very stingy. She wanted to take another relative's tens of thousands of dollars for herself, so he played some tricks, but it was quickly recognized by everyone, and then she is embarrassed now. The only thing that is particularly strange is that I have a relative who is very stingy.

She wanted to take another relative's tens of thousands of dollars for herself, so he played some tricks, but it was quickly recognized by everyone, and then she is embarrassed now.

The mother-in-law's cousin and nephew are really strange among wonders. My mother-in-law is their cousin, I don't know where to count the cousin, it seems that she is not a few years younger than my mother-in-law, we call him big brother, but I always feel awkward to call my big brother based on age. It's an old thing when we got married, and when I saw this Q&A invitation today, I immediately remembered their wonderful couple.

Here's the thing:

When we got married, the eldest brother and his sister-in-law were always at home to help us. I didn't know them very well at the time, but I asked my husband later and said that it was his cousin's eldest brother and sister-in-law, but they were in a city, so there were quite a lot of contacts. I remember that in the new house, my sister-in-law also brought me dumplings (the custom when we got married) and when the family went to the hotel, the eldest brother and sister-in-law took the initiative to stay and clean up the house and watch the door, and my mother-in-law was very grateful to them at the time.

When we returned home after the wedding, the eldest brother and sister-in-law's series of operations were dumbfounded: while we went to the hotel, the sister-in-law packed up all the remaining candy at home and prepared to take it home to eat for her. The most powerful thing is that my mother-in-law sealed the red envelope with her sister-in-law at that time, and she also packed all the remaining money.

As soon as we returned, they happily told us that they were going home. He also calmly said to my mother-in-law: "Auntie, the two of us took away the rest of the candy and melon seeds, and I won't give you a little change for the red envelope."

Actually, there aren't many things, but these two people don't think of themselves as outsiders either.

There is a particularly strange relative, he likes to go to other people's houses to eat and drink, and he has to stay for a few days, saying that he is not at home, he has to wait until the day you are at home. Don't let him come, he goes around saying bad things about others, saying that you don't recognize relatives, and is very speechless about such people.

Usually there is no contact, and it will only appear when there is a happy event in the family, but I make a sad and sympathetic look, I feel that we are here to give us face, and I don't know where their sense of superiority comes from.

My cousin, it's just that my mother and my aunt married in different provinces, in fact, I haven't seen this cousin at all, but I just listen to my mother keep talking. My family is a small county, and my cousin traveled to my house to borrow it during the summer vacation of high school, and then my cousin called ** to ask my mother to install the air conditioner first. I have air conditioning in my grandparents' room at home, and when it's hot, I go to their room to make a floor, thanks to my cousin's blessing, my room also has air conditioning, I don't know what the mood is.

My cousin lived in my room by herself, and I went to my grandfather's house to make a bunk.

If you want to say what kind of strange relatives you have met.

I don't think that's a generalization.

There are still a few such relatives who are somewhat strange.

But it is true that there are some very strange relatives.

It's borrowing money, and I don't think the family itself is poor.

But he likes to borrow money.

And when they borrowed, they borrowed, but they did not pay it back.

If you can't move it at all, you can use it.

Moreover, if you want to ask him for money, he will be annoyed.

This 7877 is indeed quite a lot.

Especially in the old days of poverty.

Therefore, it still makes sense to help the urgent and not the poor.

Let's talk about the truths summed up by these sages.

For life, there are still some reasons for this opinion.

Somewhat philosophical.

What strange relatives have you all met? The only thing that is particularly strange and annoying is a relative of mine, and she is very. Is that.

She wanted to put tens of thousands of dollars from other relatives. He was a little cautious about his own, but it was quickly recognized by everyone and then he is now. I'm embarrassed too.

For such relatives and friends, when they ask how much money you can earn in the first month outside, if you earn 5,000 a month, they say that you only earn one; If you make 10,000 a month, just say . Just give them an approximate number and let them guess.

In front of such relatives and friends, remember not to say it in the truth, let alone say more.

Because, in their hearts, they don't want you to earn a high salary, and they don't want you to surpass their family. If you earn more than him, you will feel uncomfortable, you will be psychologically unbalanced, and you will gossip about you everywhere. In this way, it will not do you any good at all.

The only thing I have is the most bizarre relative, the money that I borrowed was obviously lent to me, but I didn't borrow it, which also means that no matter how good the relationship between relatives is, no matter how good the family relationship is, it also needs to benefit myself. It may not be respected by others. Therefore, the current personality or moral bottom line is particularly poor, and it is not as faithful and honest as we imagined.

The strange relatives I have met are those who do not go to the Three Treasures Hall for nothing. As long as he comes to your house, he will definitely either borrow or find it. I don't have a good life, and when I have difficulties, I think of my relatives.

The strangest relatives I have ever met are that you have to be right for everything you do. If you get cheap, you have to sell well. All the credit is said to be their own, and then the good things have to be eaten by themselves.

Our relatives, including those who are more distant, are all people with more positive views. Therefore, I did not meet particularly strange relatives. I've heard of other families with more bizarre relatives.

That is. I always want to eat at his house. Because their relatives live relatively close.

And then. The family conditions are not as good as his family, so he often sends his children to her house to live for nothing.

I can't judge whether a person is a "strange relative" or not, but I can describe the behavior or thoughts that might be perceived as a "strange relative" by some common characteristics.

1.They always carry strange things, such as some weird accessories or very special clothes, etc., which make people feel a little out of place with the people around them.

2.Always talking about strange or unpopular topics, probably not caring if the topic you want is interested, just talking about it for your own liking.

3.Always exhibit strange behaviors or habits, such as always shouting at inappropriate times and places or joking when no one is nodding.

4.Always firm in certain ideas or beliefs, but very different from the values of the general society, it is easy to cause others to question or understand.

No matter what kind of person they are, they all deserve our respect and understanding. As relatives in our own family, we can try to understand their thoughts and behaviors from their point of view, try to communicate with them and build a loving and understanding relationship.

Understanding and respecting everyone's thoughts and actions, as well as building relationships of love and understanding, is a very important aspect of interpersonal communication. Here are some ways to help build good relationships:

1.Listening: Take the time to listen to the other person, understand their views and emotions, and support their thoughts and feelings with your own words. Look for opportunities to communicate and strengthen interactions.

2.Critical thinking: Constantly evaluate the views and ideas of others, and start with a positive perspective to see their potential meaning and strengths. Learning to look at each individual openly and improve oneself critically is not a good way to be critical.

3.Respect: Everyone wants to be respected, and we can show respect for each other by listening carefully, asking supportive questions, acknowledging each other's efforts, etc.

4.Avoid excessive judgment and accusations: Try not to overly criticize or criticize the actions or words and actions of others, and actively seek and establish opportunities for dialogue and problem-solving.

5.Consider the other person's preferences and needs: Provide them with support and advice that may be beneficial to them, put yourself in the other person's shoes and care about the other person's feelings, and encourage the other person to try and absorb new things with your actions and words.

Each of us is not perfect, but we can grow and be inspired by our interactions with others. By respecting and understanding each other, and building intimate and natural connections, we are able to move towards a better future through the continuous nurturing and expansion of our relationships.