How can parents correct introverted children?

In life, we will find that many children around us are very introverted, if parents find that their children are introverted, they must follow the correct method to guide their children, otherwise it will be counterproductive.

First of all, accompany the child.

If the child is introverted, parents must pay more attention to such children. The first thing to do is to spend more time with such children, play with children, and talk to children, so that you will have a good communication with your child and establish a good parent-child relationship with your child. Only by establishing good communication and a good parent-child relationship with your child can you open your child's heart and make your child cheerful.

Second, encourage your child.

Introverted children, he is sometimes more timid and timid, when doing anything, they will have some resistance in their hearts, at this time parents should encourage their children. For example, when you go to an amusement park, other children are playing together, and your own child wants to play with other children, but you can't open this mouth yourself. Parents should then encourage their children to be brave enough to open their mouths and become one with the rest of the children.

Again, trust the child.

An introverted child is also more sensitive in his heart. For such children, parents must trust them unconditionally, if the child shows introversion and is unwilling to speak, at this time if the parents hit them, the child will be more introverted, becoming more and more afraid to speak, or do not want to speak. Therefore, we must have faith in such children, we must believe that they can become lively and cheerful children, and continue to encourage them in real life.

Being an introvert does not mean that this child is sentenced to life imprisonment. As long as parents accompany their children, encourage and trust them in the process of accompanying them, talk to them more, and encourage them more. One day, your child will be the same lively and cheerful child.

Parents should communicate more with their children, and then go out on outings with their children, or go to amusement parks together, which can correct children's introverted personality.

Introverted children, as parents, must communicate with their children often and encourage them constantly, which will give them more self-confidence and make their personalities more cheerful.

Parents of introverted children do not need to be corrected, each child has their own natural personality, introversion is not a defect, if the child is autistic, it is really a problem.

For these children, parents must first guide them to grow up correctly, learn to communicate with them more, and let them open their hearts.

Preface: Some children are very introverted, so when they interact with others, they will not take the initiative and talk less, so they will not be able to gain deep friendships. However, it is recommended that parents must have a correct understanding of personality, personality is very stable, and we cannot ask introverted children to become extroverted.

Your child may say a few words, but the nature of introversion will never change. We must guide our children and encourage them more, so that they can meet more friends. At the same time, teach children some social skills, only in this way, can children grow up healthy and happy.

Parental encouragement is crucial for children who are growing and developing. There are many parents who feel that their children are very introverted and have no way to communicate with their children, so the relationship between parents and children is very close, and if children do not want to communicate with their parents, parents also need to reflect on their own education methods. I feel that parents should not be stingy with their encouragement, especially for children who are more introverted, because in the current social environment, they tend to become very unconfident.

Therefore, parents must let their children establish a certain degree of self-confidence, so that children can know their own value.

Some children are more introverted, so they will encounter great difficulties when interacting with others, these children are very sensitive and delicate in their hearts. If parents blindly attack their children, then children may become alienated from their parents. Therefore, when the children are resting, we can take the children to play in the community.

When meeting strangers or peers, parents can encourage their children to take the initiative to communicate with them, and at the same time teach them some social skills, which children can use to meet more friends at the same time. Parents must learn to guide their children so that they will get to know more people.

Acceptance: Introversion isn't entirely a bad thing, introversion has the advantages and benefits of being introverted:

1 Introverts tend to be more observant and think more deeply.

2 Introverts have a stable temperament, generally do not take the initiative to cause trouble, and are not easy to offend others.

3 Easier to focus. It is easier to take root in certain fields and make achievements and contributions.

4 Inner emotions and feelings are richer and more delicate. It is easier to experience and feel the inner thoughts of others, and to develop empathy and understanding.

Analysis: Introversion is neither scary nor shameful. A lot of good people are also introverts.

Introversion is just one of many personality traits, not all of you, and can't hide the rest of your aura. Everyone has so many shortcomings (and introversion is not a disadvantage), but to achieve success, it is enough to bring out the best in the world.

Social skills can be learned and cultivated, and they are not necessarily related to introversion and extroversion.

Attitude: Grow and gain in solitude, and enjoy yourself.

Allow yourself to be introverted.

While accepting yourself as an introvert, you gradually adapt to your interactions with others and increase the topics of communication.

Don't be afraid to owe favors. Don't be afraid to trouble others and feel that you can't get away. People are built up because of each other's troubles.

If you can't find a topic to talk to, then you can also be silent and smile. Even if you don't speak, it's enough to listen. Sometimes being a quiet listener can be reassuring and comfortable for the person who is talking.

Method: Learn more and learn about some knowledge, hot topics, and jokes to prepare for communicating with people.

Participate in group-type sports hobbies. In extroverted interest interactions, a person's social skills will slowly improve.

Participate in social activities, learn about social networking (see Getting along with others for details), and take the initiative to meet new people.

Try to cultivate a warm and sincere attitude and take the initiative to greet people, which will forget and ease your introversion in interpersonal interactions.

Pay attention to other people's world and focus less on yourself.

Get in touch with people with cheerful personalities.

Do sales, participate in debates, etc., and speak actively.

Children's education: 1. Actively encourage children to take the initiative to speak, communicate with children more often, and encourage and guide children to communicate with other children.

2 Encourage your child to try and not be afraid to fail.

3. Nurture your child's interests and hobbies, and encourage your child to take the initiative to participate in social activities.

4. Create a harmonious family atmosphere so that introverted children are more willing to express themselves.

5. Exercise your child's independence. Communicate more with the outside world, and parents create more conditions for children to accomplish something independently. Like buying something.

6 After the epidemic is over, take your children to visit relatives and friends, and socialize with children in the community.

Parents need to take their children to play with others more, and they also need to encourage their children more often, and they can also talk about some happy things, which can be changed.

Parents must communicate with their children, let them know the importance of interpersonal communication, take their children out to play more, and encourage children to communicate with other children.

<> introverted children tend not to express their thoughts and desires directly, nor do they attract attention. This requires us to carefully observe the child's behavior, figure out the child's true psychology, and then guide the situation: first of all, we must find the child's behavior.

advantages, affirm his little progress, often praise him in the group, and help him build self-confidence; Secondly, give him more love and care in life, so that he can feel the warmth of the group and like the group.

Introverted children are more open to familiar places, and I think it's not just emotional, but also experienced. With rich experience and knowing how to deal with various problems, children's initiative and self-confidence will be enhanced, and their enthusiasm for communication will also be improved. Therefore, the most important thing is to let children participate in group activities more, provide children with various opportunities to express themselves, and let them get exercise.

Of course, the focus is on participation and a lower demand for results.

1.Parents should spend as much time as possible with their children.

When the child comes home from school, parents should take the initiative to contact the child and let them talk about the life of the kindergarten. Communicate with your child to understand his or her inner thoughts. When you are with your child, hug, caress and kiss your child so that the intimate contact of the body can convey a message of love and make your child feel more secure.

2.Encourage your child to interact with their peers.

When socializing with peers of his own age, the whole body and mind of the child will become relaxed and uninhibited, and it is easy to form and maintain a good mood. Therefore, for introverted children, it is recommended that parents take advantage of the holidays to take their children to visit relatives and friends, or go to parks and children's playgrounds to play, so that children can contact children of the same age, guide and help children play with them in a friendly way, so that children can experience and play with them. The joy of interacting with others.

1.Insist on sending your child to kindergarten, let your child enter the world of a child, let him learn to be with his peers in group life, learn new knowledge that he didn't know before, and enjoy the fun of getting along with his peers.

2. Choose one or two friends who are cheerful, healthy, and a little younger than him to play with, cultivate children's self-confidence, and help each other.

3.Let go and let the child play freely. Some parents are more concerned about their children's cleanliness and safety, so early encounters always restrict children from doing this and not doing that, which will hinder their children's personality development.

Children should be encouraged to play in the sand, play with mud, step on stagnant water after rain, climb rocks, yellow sand, etc. In fact, as long as you wear appropriate clothes and pay attention to safety, you can play to your heart's content. This kind of uninhibited free play will make the child have a cheerful personality.

4. Have fun with your children. For example, telling jokes and humorous stories to children, joking with each other, participating in children's games, taking children out to play, etc.

Parents can take their children to participate in more outdoor activities, chat with other friends, and enhance their children's self-confidence.

Children are introverted and do not like to talk, so they should be guided to communicate with their peers, and parents should also be listeners and patiently share interesting stories of daily life with their children.

It is necessary to take the child to participate in more activities, so that the child becomes more lively and more confident.

1. Create a harmonious family atmosphere: Parents should adjust the relationship between family members at ordinary times, and a harmonious atmosphere will help improve the child's introverted personality;

2. Adjustment of their own personality and behavior: Parents should encourage their children to overcome bad emotional interference, adjust their usual abnormal behaviors, etc., to help their children alleviate their introverted personality;

3. Correct guidance of parents: Parents should guide their children correctly, adjust their mentality, talk to parents if they have something on their minds, and parents should give correct guidance from the child's standpoint;

4. Medication**: If the above symptoms belong to a more serious mental disorder, while being conditioned by the above measures, take sedatives according to the doctor's instructions, such as lorazepam or zopiclone tablets, to help improve symptoms and promote sleep. However, it should be noted that there are certain *** such drugs as drug dependence, and it is recommended to strictly follow the doctor's instructions to ensure the safety of medication.

I myself have been a particularly introverted girl since I was a child, and my son has inherited my genes, and he has been very timid since he was a child, rarely daring to raise his hand to speak, and never daring to talk to others. I used to be very anxious about this, and I thought of a lot of ways, but with little success. Later, I thought, this can't all be blamed on children, I'm introverted myself.

Later, I tried the following.

The first is inclusion. I often say to him: "You are timid and introverted, I don't blame you for this, because my mother is like this, so you have my genes in your personality, you don't have to feel inferior to this." ”

The second is respect. Sometimes the more an introvert encourages him, the more scared he may become, so it's better to go with the flow. I said to him:

In class, if you like to raise your hand, you can raise your hand, if you don't like to raise your hand, you won't raise your hand, we will do it. Of course, if we meet other children, we must raise our hands, and then we can make a splash. ”

Then there's trial and error. There may be two reasons why a child cries when he makes a mistake, one is that he has poor ability to resist frustration, and the other is that parents and teachers have high requirements for him. Treat such a child, we must allow him to make mistakes, not only tell him verbally that it is okay to make mistakes, but also in action must really not criticize the mistakes he makes, if you make a mistake, you will make a mistake, who doesn't make a mistake?

As parents, we don't want to be too perfect everywhere, everything is good, which will put a lot of psychological pressure on our children. Parents can even deliberately make some mistakes and then tell their children: "You see that mom always makes mistakes, and if she is wrong, she will change it."

Everyone can make mistakes, and the more mistakes you make, the faster you grow. ”

Finally, waiting. Children's personality is innate, and it takes a lot of energy and a long time to improve or change the day after tomorrow. If you are anxious and anxious, your child will also be anxious unconsciously.

Introverted children are emotionally influenced by the environment and others, have strong self-esteem, and have slightly worse interpersonal interactions. And because society and most people like outgoing and cheerful children, most introverted children have low self-esteem, and their ability to resist frustration is not strong enough, and they need more help and guidance from parents and teachers.

Each child is the most precious gift from the Creator, they are unique, and they naturally have a variety of personalities. Introverted children are sensitive, thoughtful, attentive, and often more thoughtful and creative. Understand their weaknesses, give full play to their strengths, let them feel their success and efforts in their daily study and life, and believe that they will be more confident in the future.