If you were faced with such a problem, how would you choose?

I think if it's not a province, it's a long distance, you can first consider whether you can work in a city, although the distance produces beauty, but the distance is really far away, sometimes it's difficult for a girl, and the feeling of insecurity when your boyfriend isn't around when you need it the most is really bad.

There is always one of the two people who has to give up some so-called things for the other party to achieve the perfect love of two people, so you can consider going to her city to work, if it is convenient.

If the long-distance problem cannot be solved, and we are still together, in addition to economic problems, there is also worry, speculation and even doubt, and in the end it will still fail.

First of all, I would like to ask you how old are you and are you independent?

Parents think about this problem from the perspective of "self-reliance", if you don't have a job and no ambition, you will wait for death

And you have to think about whether you're really just a momentary thrill. After all, you can't just talk about one aspect of a problem, and some things do need to be thought about a lot.

You can weigh which one is more important. Do you really want to be with him for the rest of your life or do you feel like it's just an impulse now? And you have to think about work and things like that.

This kind of thing is something that no one can help you decide, you can only think about the trade-offs and believe that you can make a choice that you will not regret.

Once you've chosen, don't regret it

eloped directly, and came back when she gave birth to a child, not afraid that her father would refuse.

I would give up my career for the sake of my family.

I believe that many women, after getting married, will encounter a problem, marriage and career are difficult to achieve, and sometimes they really have to give up.

Career is very important, and money is the most reliable in your own hands".

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and in different families, there will be different problems. In most families nowadays, whoever makes money will have more confidence.

If you don't make money to take care of your children at home, new conflicts will arise. And the family's economic situation will also drop a lot. Whether it's a man or a woman, money is what makes decent people more down-to-earth.

Women are not financially independent and have no say in the family. Don't pin your hopes on a man, it's better to rely on yourself than on heaven and earth, no matter how much he loves you, you must work hard to make money.

A woman's career is also her capital in her relationship.

Family and work should be taken care of".

In fact, women are required to be independent from the economy and take care of their families. Breastfeeding is encouraged, and a second child is promoted. It's really hard for a woman to keep her figure and look like at the same time. But who is not difficult in life?

Neither men nor women should give up on their careers. The best way to do this is to balance family and career together. Of course, men also have to take care of the family together.

Family responsibilities are not just the responsibility of women, men need to be involved. When two people take care of the responsibilities of the family, the family will be more happy.

Actually, I think this kind of thing varies from person to person.

I don't have any pressure in front of my girlfriend, I don't have any secrets, I can tell him anything, I maintain absolute trust in my girlfriend, I believe that she treats herself sincerely, so when he encounters something, tell him, he will definitely treat it as his own business, and he will be more empathetic to me. I don't think there's a secret with my girlfriend, and he'll help me analyze the reasons for this. Help me make the right choice.

In fact, there are many people who may also talk to their parents when they encounter somethingBut personally, I don't tell my parents about these things, because when my parents know about the problems they are experiencing, they may worry about their daughter or son. They may not be able to do anything, but they will be very concerned about the hurt in their hearts, so I don't tell them these things, so I will tell my other half in addition to my girlfriends. I think that your significant other is the person who loves you the most in this world, except for your parents, then you should treat her.

Keep trusting, I trust my other half very much, he really loves himself and will give me the most correct choice, and she will comfort herself through his way, so that she will not be particularly anxious or sad.

I think at the time of the problem. In fact, when working, I will choose people who are close to meor go with someone you trustTell.

In life, when you have a problem, I will talk to the people I believe in the closest to you.

I would choose not to say anything to anyone, because I knew that no one could understand me and no one could help me.

I would choose to tell my friends because only my friends knew me best, and everyone else just wanted to see me laugh.

I will keep the problem in my heart and will not tell my parents, so as not to worry them, it is not a big problem to solve it by myself, there is no need to tell others.

This situation varies from person to person, or what kind of problems are encountered, for example, boys and girls will choose different people to talk to if they encounter different problems, some problems will be told to their parents, and some will find friends to talk about.

In life, if you encounter a problem, you will definitely choose to talk to your family, colleagues, friends, and work with me to solve the problem, after all, there are many people and many ideas.

When you encounter difficulties and problems in life, you must talk to your family. Both parents and wife are good choices.

I would choose to tell my friends that I would drink too much and then talk about it, and no one would remember it when I woke up.

I'm definitely going to talk to my wife, because I think she's the closest person in my life at this stage.