You have a vulgar and rude elder, what should you do

If it were your own mother and father, you would have been able to stand it for so many years, and you would have lived the same in the future.

If it's another relative, you just need to move around less.

If you are a father-in-law, mother-in-law, and mother-in-law, either you are wronged, pretend to be deaf and dumb, swallow your anger, and keep one party safe, or plot against your other half of the family!

Try to get along with him, and if that doesn't work, try to stay away from him.

Basic desires produce behaviors, and actions follow feelings. No matter what the performance is, it has a cause. There is clearly a reason for the appearance of symptoms.

In the exploration situation, the various hail closure factors should be calmly distinguished. Rational thinking should be based on objective facts. Analyze carefully, handle it seriously, and be objective and logical.

"The behavior of the elders is rude" is indeed a difficult problem - after all, the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation determine that we must "respect the elders and honor the elders", and we must not conflict with the elders, and we must not "commit crimes below", which will make everyone unhappy and lose our sense of proportion as juniors.

There are also ways, I believe that everyone has a close relationship, you can find a person who is close to this "rude elder" and good at communicating, tell him (her) your troubles, and ask him (her) to come forward to communicate and communicate with the elder, and see if you can change the current embarrassing situation.

Hope my advice can help you.

Don't talk less, don't intervene if it's not your own business, and adults can just say yes.

Buy a book and read it for yourself, it means that your level of education is not high.

Turn around and take a deep breath when you want to curse and adjust your mindset.

Hurry up and be independent and stay away, out of sight is clean!

After all, the older generation, the society they lived in at that time was far less civilized than it is now, so the habit of speaking should be corrected slowly.

He has a big temper, low culture, and no cultivation. (Don't be angry).

It is to respect the elders, but it also depends on whether he is worthy of respect

Since you are an elder, forgive if you can.

If it's a friend of your parents, then bear with it.

He's bullied you, why do you give him face.

What kind of bullying depends on the size of the matter.

This sentence is too short, judging from the combination, it is still three lines, which is a bit broken.

Maybe the elder is that personality, some things are not formed in a day or two, maybe all the people have been used to him like this, if this elder is really important to you, then, if it's okay, when you chat with him, it's like a little joke, you can mention it by the way, I think it's better, after all, the elders don't like juniors to blame themselves now. It is better to solve problems in a relaxed atmosphere, which is not only the problem of the elders, but also the problems of the juniors.

Elders should be respected. No matter how disdainful the psychology is, just stay in the psychology and say it!

In the eyes of our elders, we are all children.