How to forget a woman who betrayed you?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-26
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Smoke. Then I thought about how to quit smoking. In the future, you will think that since you can't quit thinking about her, why stop smoking.

    It's so simple, why do you have to deliberately forget? Experience, you should be a little happy, or how would you know that you are looking for a super good woman in the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Time dilutes everything, and when you don't deliberately try to forget, you will quickly forget. Give it a try!

    Don't put yourself in pain all the time!

    There are some things that you just can't think about yourself.

    If you're sure she's betrayed you and decide to forget, time will take care of the rest!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The woman who has betrayed you, is it still worth remembering your previous experiences?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Remembering her good, everything is viewed with a tolerant attitude, which has become an unchangeable fact, just try to think from her point of view, in fact, when a woman betrays a person, there are many reasons, but the decision is made after a thousand considerations.

    Be happy, let hatred and sadness hide behind beautiful things, and tolerate all the people and things that can be tolerated, and you will feel a lot more relaxed.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Think about her bad, deliberately laugh at her, and your relationship will be bad over the years.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    See if you really love him, but judging from your question, you love him, but he betrayed you, I want to forget it for the rest of my life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Go with the flow, time is the best medicine.

    There will come a time when she will be just a passerby.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Tell yourself to forget tomorrow.

    Then take a trip to far-flung places today.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If it's true love, I don't think I'll ever forget it, so don't forget, it's best to go with the flow!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What you want to forget will always be forgotten, and what you really can't forget is unforgettable...

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Do you buy a defective item when you buy something.

    The answer is definitely no. Then this problem is the same, a person who has betrayed you, no matter what the reason, he has also betrayed you, even if you forgive, he will suddenly remember how he betrayed you at a certain point in the night. It's better to let go of yourself and let go of each other.

    People live in the present, if something makes you unhappy, you can give it up, and if someone makes you unhappy, you can also distance yourself. But the unhappiness here is the unhappiness he brings to you, far greater than the happiness and beauty he brings you. As an adult, we need to keep our basic sanity and keep our lives in order, rather than becoming a mess because of someone or something.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Find him and get revenge on him so that he receives the punishment he deserves.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    As long as we have experienced something, we can't forget it completely, but if you can turn it into motivation, it will make the people who betrayed you stronger in the future.

    We all know that to deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    Truth be told, it's an obvious reality that the people who can betray you don't love you anymore; If you are also suffering the shame and unwillingness of being betrayed, then the following ladder of words may be able to cross you out of the abyss of bad luck.

    Therefore, you have to accept the fact that you have been betrayed, that the other party's infidelity has already occurred, that your weeping, pestering, and tearing the other party will not be pitied at all, and what you have to do is to choose between forgiving or leaving completely; Stop having illusions, he really doesn't love you anymore, otherwise he wouldn't have hurt you with betrayal, so why should you remember him? You have to understand a little bit, and you can slowly forget it without dwelling on it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you don't love each other anymore, then the betrayal of the other party will not hurt you.

    But time is the best master and the best antidote ......

    After a long time, I was relieved.

    There is also the possibility that you meet a new love that you love more, and the new love is much more than the old hobby. The new love used his love to ** you, and you naturally forgot about the hurt and betrayal.

    It's been long enough, the new love is good enough, and nothing can't be forgotten.

    If you can't forget, it can only mean that the time is not long enough, and the new love is not good enough.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't try and force yourself to forgive someone who betrayed you.

    Betrayal is already an established fact, and it is also a tragic result, if you force yourself to forgive, isn't it unprincipled, and there is no distinction between right and wrong?

    Betrayal can never be truly forgotten, let alone truly let go. The only thing we can do is to make ourselves more and more peaceful and less concerned.

    Trying to heal the pain with the emotion of "forgiveness" is obviously not the best way, but it will make you fall into deep self-blame and remorse, why should you be so cruel to yourself who has been betrayed?

    Perhaps many people think that "forgiveness" is the highest state of forgetting, but I would like to say that in the face of betrayal, it is impossible to use "forgiveness" to forget. No one can really forget the fact of being hurt.

    But those who want to forgive betrayal are not relieved, but reluctant.

    Instead of being a "seemingly saint" who is "fake detached", it is better to face your emotions truthfully and accept the current situation: don't try to forgive, don't try to get rid of it, time has the most wonderful effect on any pain, what about slowing down?

    Respecting the principle of emotional dissipation and emotional dilution, and bravely going through these processes at what stage should be experienced is the greatest release for yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    A person who betrays you, you only hate him, and you will definitely forget him easily.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1. Find someone to replace him.

    2. Find a brick to shoot yourself in a vegetative state.

    3. Go and touch the electric door and travel to the front of your acquaintance.

    4. In fact, the more you want to forget, the harder it is to forget, do what you should do, and go with the flow 5. The antonym of love is not hate, but forgetting. It seems that you really don't love anymore, so don't push yourself, it won't take long to forget.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you can, you don't have to deliberately forget, just let it go, don't hate her, after all, you once loved it, at the beginning you also wanted her to be happy, she betrayed you, that was her choice, since you can't control it, why let yourself be entangled in the pain, and affect your life, let yourself calm down, do the most important thing at the moment, and devote your attention to the things you should grasp, so as to distract yourself from the pain of memories, It also makes you grow up quickly, others negate you, don't be blinded, all of us can only make some people around us satisfied, but not all people are satisfied, take your own way, be the best yourself, believe in love, believe that one day in a happy corner, meet your mrsRight, come on, don't be entangled in the vague present, work hard for a better future, and wish you to get out of the shadow of feelings as soon as possible.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Time can be forgotten in no way!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Find someone who you love and she loves you, and love each other well!!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you want to open up, it will be better to fall in love with another woman.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When I was in the third year of junior high school, I was very good to a girl, and I basically treated her as a goddess, but one day I heard others say that she laughed at me for being stupid, at first I didn't believe it, but when many people said so, I wavered, until one day I went to ask a friend who had a very strong relationship, and after she gave me a positive answer, I had a feeling of sadness and anger, and then I never paid attention to her again. After high school, I didn't see her in the same school, I haven't seen her again for three years in high school, and after the college entrance examination, I heard others mention her, and I felt like a world away, without the sadness and sadness I had at the beginning, and some were just plain, just like the most ordinary classmates.

    In fact, the more you want to forget, the harder it is to forget, don't think about it, stay away from each other, after a long time, you will slowly forget, time is the best medicine.

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