My child is only careless in his studies. What to do?

This is an old topic Every parent has your desire But there are very few children who can win glory for themselves I'm telling the truth In this world, most of them are mortals The biggest difference between mortals and great people is that their willpower is very different Some of them are born Some of them are nurtured If you really want to train your children to become excellent learners, then you can listen to my advice First of all, don't blindly tell your child those big truths, not only will he not be interested, but he will even lose more interest in learning because of your wordiness Everyone has a thirst for knowledge, it depends on how you guide it, children like different things, but there is one thing in common, that is, many children do not like to write homework in class, at this time, you have to let him be interested in learning independently, there are several ways, one is to cultivate his sense of competition from an early age, let him know that he must do everything from an early age, in order to do well, let him want to surpass his classmates in all aspects, always strive for the first, because learning must rely on subjective initiative, if you don't cultivate his interest No matter how much knowledge is stuffed into him, he doesn't want to accept it, and another way is to try to combine what he likes with the subject, so that he feels that the knowledge he hears in class is the knowledge of something he likes, and he will want to understand, but there is one obstacle, and that is that the teacher, usually, not every teacher can teach very well, and it is very attractive for children to listen, and there are indeed some teachers who not only teach badly, but also stifle the interest of their classmates, and this factor exists in many schools This can't be changed, and we can't do it so that our child can teach every subject well, so if you want to concentrate in class, you have to let him know that listening to the 40 minutes in class is much more effective than reading a book for 4 days, because that's the point, and if he listens to the class, he can save a lot of time to play, let him know that maybe he will seize the class time in order to have more time for leisure activities, and the problem of writing homework should develop his ability to calm down, and many children are playful, and they don't want to sit down and read their homework But if you make him think that the homework is very interesting and as fun as playing, then he will naturally be willing to do it, how to make him feel that writing homework is fun, the best way is to learn interactively, at this time, it is very necessary for adults to interact with him A question and an answer Adults must not use supervision to let children write homework, in this way, he will want to find opportunities to be lazy As for the test results, this is closely related to the usual mastery of knowledge As long as he has an interest in learning and learns well, then the natural exam will be very easy The so-called art masters are bold People who study well are not afraid of exams but want to let the scores of the exams prove their excellence Come on Educate children to take their time Don't worry I hope my advice can help you.

Let him develop the habit of doing a check-in after the question.

Parents are very concerned about their children, because parents also want their children to become talents, and parents also want their children to become smarter. Children are very smart, but they are always careless in learning, what should parents do at this time?

It is actually normal for children to be careless at this age, because many children are actually very careless, because these children themselves have not formed a good habit, so these children usually do things so-so. At this time, parents must help the child to adopt the correct method, if the child has been very careless at this time, then this problem may also occur when the child takes the exam in the future, and then you may find that the child's contribution is not proportional to the grade. At this time, the child will also feel particularly stressed, and it is important to let the child develop a good habit of examination, so that the child will become more careful.

The reason why children are careless may be because children do things very fast, because some children are born with acute children, so there will be many problems with children doing things at this time, so parents must help children change this bad habit, because this bad habit may also affect the life of children. In the future, children may also have these questions when doing things, so there will be such problems when working in the future, at this time, parents can let children do things slowly, and they can slow down a little.

Carelessness is actually a bad habit for children, but in fact many children will have this problem. If the child is particularly careless, then the child will actually be vulnerable to certain setbacks in the future, so the child will also feel that he is an unsuccessful person.

Parents should educate their children ideologically, let them do some things seriously, and let children develop serious habits, which is better for children's growth.

Parents should check their children's homework, and they also need to tell their children to check their answers after completing their homework.

1.Read the questions slowly.

After getting the test paper, read the questions slowly, especially if the questions are long, read them slowly and carefully! Read and think while writing down important information. Remember, you can't jump to conclusions until you finish reading the questions.

After reading it in this way, you only need to read it once, and the useful information will enter your mind correctly, and you will be able to use all the known conditions correctly when you do the questions! Then "accidents" such as reading the wrong topic and missing the conditions will completely say goodbye to yourself!

2.The calculations are neat.

When solving math problems, many calculations are performed on scratch paper. Scratch paper doesn't need to be shown to others, so many students just scribble. I believe that many children have such an experience, if they encounter a complex problem, they need to list a lot of formulas according to the known conditions, and then carefully observe these calculations to find out the hidden key information in order to solve the problem.

At this time, if the calculation process on the scratch paper is neat, clean and eye-catching, it is easier to find the key information implied in the known conditions, and there will be no misuse of numbers, wrong symbols, etc. The problem-solving process was naturally smooth sailing!

3.Go back and check.

After completing a question, judge the reasonableness of the result based on your own experience and the results of this question. For example, the value of the result is ugly, or the time required to solve it is negative.

At this point, you need to go back and double-check the calculation process. Well, clean and tidy scratch paper plays another important role – it's easy to check!

4.Dig deep into the roots.

For some messy questions, the teacher will know the correct way to solve the problem with a little dialing. These seemingly careless mistakes are actually unclear concepts. Then, this time can't be changed.

We should grasp the small problems, dig deep into the root causes, and use analogy, comparison and other methods to go through the relevant knowledge and thoroughly sort it out.

5.Concentrate on the question.

Pay attention to practice questions and homework in your daily work, and treat them as exam questions. Turn off your computer and mobile phone when doing the problem, and then concentrate and complete it quickly. After that, go to listen to ** or rest, so as to slowly develop the habit of concentrating on the problem and focusing on doing things, and carelessness will naturally stay away from the child.

6.Confidence, determination, patience.

Carelessness is a bad habit, and everyone has a chance to change it with hard work. What is needed is confidence and determination, as well as the patience to persevere. Slowly, you can replace this bad problem with careful good habits.

Once the habit of carefulness is formed, carelessness will completely leave the child.

1. Primary school is a critical stage of character and habit formation, some children are affected by the environment, lack of sense of responsibility, only seek speed and do not pay attention to quality, and are unwilling to do it, these bad habits of life are bound to affect learning.

In learning, it is manifested that the question is written without waiting for the question to be read, and the question is swallowed when the question is examined, and ten lines are at a glance, of course, there will be a careless problem.

2. Influenced by the mindset, especially in the process of doing exercises, it is easy to appear this situation, if the first few questions are of the same type, there will be children who feel that these questions are of the same type, especially in calculations, this phenomenon is easy to occur.

3. Distraction is also a cause of carelessness. When children are writing homework or exams, they are distracted, absent-minded, and their focus is not on the topic, so the phenomenon of carelessness will occur.

4. Affected by emotions, the topic is easy, complacent, the topic is a little difficult, and the frustration and irritability will also lead to carelessness.

How to correct these problems.

Getting rid of careless mistakes is not something that can be accomplished overnight, it is a long-term and systematic project. Solve the attitude problem first, and then solve the specific operation problem.

1. Start with habit formation and cultivate children's sense of responsibility.

Without a sense of responsibility, nothing can be done well, parents can start with some small things within their ability, such as cleaning their school bags, tidying up their desks, helping parents do some housework, etc., gradually cultivate children's sense of responsibility, develop their own things to do their own things, and to complete the habit seriously.

Parents should also learn to "let go", change the problem of taking care of everything, let children experience the meaning of labor, so as to find the joy and harvest brought by doing a good job, so that children will not be perfunctory when they encounter problems.

2. In Chaye learning, cultivate children's habit of reading questions seriously, reading questions and reviewing questions is a very critical link, which can not be omitted, "if you want to hurry, you can't reach it".

In the process of reading the question, you need to develop the habit of "finger reading" and "marking key information", that is, while pointing to the reading question with a pen, while marking the key information, do not underestimate this step, this is the quiet sock step of entering the information into the brain, through the extraction of key information, you can quickly retrieve the relevant useful information in the brain, and judge which knowledge point to use for the answer.

The child's carelessness in learning may be due to the lack of physical sleep, vision and hearing can not keep up, or it may be because the child is slower in intelligence and not enough order, so it is more careless, or it may be because the child's learning habits are not very good.

1. Physical factors.

If the child does not get enough sleep the night before, or the food is not nutritious enough, and there is a phenomenon of low blood sugar in the morning, then the child will not be able to concentrate on learning in this case, carelessness is certain, especially for children aged six or seven, because they have not supplemented enough nutrition, they will not be able to study seriously. In addition, if some children's eyesight and hearing level are much weaker than other children of the same age, then this will also lead to him being careless in learning, because his eyesight and hearing development is not good enough, and when he is learning or practicing words or looking at numbers, he will not remember in a blink of an eye and is prone to mistakes. These problems will be resolved as the child's physical development gets better and better.

2. Mental retardation.

In this case, parents should not hit the children, but can only carry out basic training in listening, speaking, reading and writing for the children, and train them repeatedly, until the children can write every word correctly and there is no mistake at all. Companionship is very important in this process, and sometimes the child is not an attitude problem, so don't reinforce the child's carelessness, and be sure to praise more.

3. Study habits.

Some children do not have very good study habits, such as doing homework while watching TV, and it is difficult to ensure that they are not careless in this situation, because their attention is not concentrated at all. To treat such a child, it is necessary to develop better study habits for him, such as writing quietly when writing homework, turning off the TV, and not starting to play until the homework is completed. In addition, give the child the habit of re-checking from the tail to the head after writing the homework, so that although the child is careless, he will soon find that his mistake is in **, and he will not make it again after one time.

Parents should accompany their children to study, and should also teach their children well, so that they can make certain changes, and they should also let their children be careful when they write homework.

The main reason is that children are always careless in learning, because children are not focused, do not have a deep understanding of knowledge, children have poor memory, and they are easily irritable when writing homework.

I think it's caused by the child's lack of seriousness, but in fact, there is nothing that can't be solved seriously, carelessness is due to not taking learning seriously and unwilling to check.