Why do some people settle for mediocrity? Why do most people nowadays remain mediocre?

Because mediocrity makes it easier. There is no need to think about it, no need to endure hardship. Mediocrity is always easier than effort.

A hard-working person may have to get up early, to study and learn his own skills, to maintain a state of mind, while mediocrity can lie lazily on the sofa, let the time pass, indifferent. Mediocre is addictive, like boiling a frog in warm water.

In the same way, you forget all the dangers in your comfort, and you are no longer willing to work hard and change. Once a person is afraid of changing the status quo, a person is considered to have fallen into a state of depravity. Laziness and addiction will only put you in a desperate situation.

Effort is different, in addition to your own expectations, your efforts are also surprising others and making life full of vitality. So, don't be mediocre, try to work hard.

Because he was tired, maybe he had tried, very hard, but it often backfired. Please don't judge someone lightly, because you haven't experienced their life. In today's society, competition is fierce.

Survival of the fittest abounds. Some people can't stand the blow and don't want to face reality, and some people see through everything and don't want to be resigned to it. I'm the latter.

So I'm willing to be ordinary, and ordinary life has made me feel heartfelt joy. So I don't pursue strong winds and waves, I just want a peaceful life.

Because everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, you like wonderful, I'm content with mediocrity. It's like a person who writes mediocrity as poverty, and it can't be so wonderful. Personally, I am one of those people who always have the worst-case scenario for a problem.

So before it happens, I am willing to wait and deal with it coldly, but if it succeeds, I will be content, and if it doesn't work, I will accept it. That's normal life. I think it's good that my life is so ordinary.

So for me, sometimes being willing to be mediocre is the best attitude in ordinary life.

I don't know what modern young people will think when they hear "contentment and happiness". At least every time I hear it, I always have a dismissive attitude, because contentment is like an irony to me, and of course I know that I may not be able to have many things, at least I don't want to let this quest for stability creep in me. When we grow up and experience too many hardships, we will miss the past more and more, miss the carefree self when we were young, and miss the rebellious youth.

The more you grow, the more confused you will become, many people are not satisfied with themselves at this stage, hoping that they can become useful talents, in order to realize their dreams, you will control your desires, in order to succeed, you will restrain your hedonistic thoughts, even if you can't lie down and taste the courage, but you will encourage yourself. And the reality is not as beautiful as we imagined, when we are slapped by reality in the face of a hard work, we will doubt life, and we will begin to fear the future. That's why many people will settle for mediocrity and choose decadence.

It's not that there is no effort, but the future is uncertain. Some of the things that can be seen in the city may not be rich, but they have their happiness, they may not be able to give a better life to the next generation, but they do their best to give their children the best, maybe they don't want to be mediocre for a lifetime, people's abilities are limited.

In fact, most people live in idleness, very few really blockbusters, not necessarily standing at the top to be successful, it is naturally good to have dreams, but to be realistic, success requires persistence, but at the same time, it also needs opportunities. Some people may not have the talent and will not get the essentials in their lifetime; Some people may have talent but no opportunity to display it; There are also people who set the wrong goal from the beginning, and an ordinary life does not mean mediocrity. The most important thing in life is to have dreams and happiness.

Live every day, every day and every year, let yourself grow, learn, change, there is no so-called absolute mediocrity and non-mediocrity, live hard, live hard.

Some people are not willing to be mediocre, but their abilities are limited, and it is good to live their lives within the scope of mediocre ability. Mediocre isn't necessarily a derogatory term, and it can also be a neutral word.

Because they don't pursue it, they just want to live this life ordinarily, and they don't want to live too hard.

Smart people don't necessarily have to use their ingenuity as much as possible. If you have the strength, you don't necessarily have to do the hard work, you can drive, you don't necessarily have to be a driver. Being smart is a talent, and what to do is a personal hobby and choice.

Many successful people will advocate to take the road to success and strive for an extraordinary life. In addition, many parents will also let their children not remain mediocre when educating their children, and do everything best to be the most successful. But in reality, most people will remain mediocre.

So why do most people nowadays remain mediocre? I think there are several main reasons why most people will remain mediocre: first, they like mediocrity; Second, the general environment makes them choose mediocrity; 3. Mediocrity is determined by personal talent and life growth background and experience.

Let's elaborate on this topic in detail.

I think the reason why most people nowadays stay mediocre is because they like to live a mediocre life. Medioccrity is just the outside world's evaluation of different people. Many people who seem to be mediocre or who remain mediocre do not feel that their lives are mediocre, and they feel that such a mediocre life makes people very comfortable and happy.

The reason why many people like to remain mediocre is because the current environment makes them choose mediocrity. For example, a person in a large company feels that he is not suitable for being sharp, so he chooses mediocrity, which is similar to maintaining the golden mean.

Most people choose mediocrity, mainly determined by personal talent and life growth background and experience. A person is born with mediocre qualifications, he can only remain mediocre. If a person's life background and upbringing are mediocre, then he can only choose a mediocre life.

So being mediocre is sometimes a life-changing option.

Because there are many people who have a matching source now, they don't have some special abilities, and they don't have the money to cultivate these abilities, so most of them will remain mediocre, and only a few people will be very good.

Because there are a lot of people, they are ordinary people by nature, so they will always remain mediocre, and they feel that a mediocre life will make them happy.

Because a mediocre attitude to life is better, and being able to make yourself very cheerful, this kind of life can also be very good.

Because in this way, you can lie down and win, there is no special pressure, your daily life is more comfortable, and you can do what you want to do.

Unwilling to be ordinary, but content with the status quo, I think there are two choices in the end, if you are really powerless to change then be content with the status quo, if you work hard, you can do what you like, or work hard to achieve your career or dream, why don't you do your best? That way, you won't regret and be impetuous in your current life, be brave, do what you want to do, and you won't regret your efforts, life is too short, and how much time can be wasted by us like this!

A way of life in plain terms, generally refers to material pursuits. Just don't be too materialistic, keep it simple. Ordinary generally speaks of a person's social value.

A Geng person can not be so rich, and his social status is not particularly high, but if he can do his duty well and make outstanding contributions to society, whether it is material contribution or spiritual contribution, this kind of person is extraordinary.

Because ambition is an easy thing to breed, but the average person doesn't have enough ability to match it. Some people have the ability to match it, but they don't have the courage to pursue it. Ambition is the driving force behind our reluctance to be ordinary, full of vitality.

In our ordinary lives, every now and then a head pops up. For example, a child sees a store full of sweets.

For example, an elementary school student sees a bright red 100 points at the same table. For example, a college student who has just entered the society sees a big boss accompanied by a beautiful woman in a fragrant car. For example, a beautiful woman sees a Gucci Dior in the hands of another beautiful woman.

For example, a poor man with no permanent property sees a small cottage with a single family. Ambition is born at this time, like a little devil, gnawing at our hearts. And then what?

Ability means that the heart is more than enough but the strength is insufficient.

We need to understand the ordinary properly. Lao Tzu said: "Governing a big country is like cooking a small fresh."

We must know that greatness comes from the ordinary. There are no small things in work, and small things are part of big things.

The well-known allusion of "how can you sweep the world if you don't sweep a house" reveals this truth. As long as it is beneficial to the progress of their work and the long-term development of their careers, we should go all out to do a good job in every little thing, and we must uphold the concept of "focusing on the big picture and starting small", and patiently do every ordinary detail to be able to surpass the ordinary and achieve success, because the success of the details seems to be accidental, but in fact it is pregnant with the inevitability of success, and the so-called details determine success or failure.

Because of lack of self-discipline, it's like most people tell themselves to get up early every day, but they stay up late every day and get up at noon every day.

Because of such people, they have no realistic ability to act, they will only retreat when they encounter things, and many things are just thinking about it.

Most people are not willing to be ordinary, and are content with the status quo, that is because most people are not satisfied with the ordinary, everyone wants to make their value play a greater role, have more fame and wealth, be envied by others, but be content with the status quo, that is because there is no way, it is still very difficult to succeed, you need to work hard step by step, you can only be content with the status quo.

Because most people don't have that degree of diligence, sometimes they are only three points of enthusiasm, so even if they are not willing to be ordinary, they can only be satisfied with the status quo.

I think it's because I'm afraid to make changes, I'm afraid that I won't be able to do it, and I'm afraid to leave my comfort zone, so I can only settle for the status quo.

Ordinary is also life, excellent and excellent is also life, as for how a person chooses, it depends on what kind of life he wants more.

There's nothing wrong with being mediocre, and there's nothing wrong with striving for excellence.

If you don't pay, you have to accept mediocre results, and don't envy, jealousy, hatred, and complain when you see the brilliance of others;

You have paid, you have not got the expected results, and don't lose confidence in the future.

The older a person gets, the more he must live out the realm and pattern of life, and take whatever life gives us, whether it is setbacks, tribulations or happiness, as a gift and accept it gladly.

Of course, adults can go to make a waste, but this waste must be harmless to society, otherwise if it is toxic waste, it will be removed. If it is a harmless waste, then as long as he does not harm society, his family, other people, or the lives of others, then what kind of person he wants to become, this is his personal freedom. Sui Xun Some people say that this kind of person is unwilling to be motivated, willing to be mediocre and willing to degenerate.

But what I want to say is that people who are greedy for enjoyment and content with the status quo abound, and no one has the right to be a judge of morality or code of conduct to judge whether others are lying flat or not being a waste? I don't think lying flat is waste. There is also a very lovely place for a person who lies flat, as long as he does not endanger the society, he can be a law-abiding citizen, and he can create very good living conditions for himself.

Then he is not considered a waste, because he also brings happiness to others.

I wonder if you have ever looked back on the past few years and what kind of life you have lived?

Maybe I get up earlier than the chicken every day, and I am drowsy, but I have to run to the subway station and squeeze each other with many people in the subway.

In the crowd, he was even hit and stepped on his feet, and he croaked in pain. In winter, in the subway car.

In the compartment, everyone warms up together; In the summer, in the subway car, I smell the unpleasant smell of sweat from time to time, and I can't move in the crowd, so I can only endure it silently.

The ruler is short and long, but some people can't even find their own strengths in their lives. If Newton was engaged in pinning.

Selling the industry, he could not become a scientist Newton. If Mo Yan is asked to engage in **, he must not be able to get the Nobel.

Mo Yan of the Er Award. In any industry, qualifications are an important way to evaluate a person's ability. Only the long-term ones.

Focus and study can create an irreplaceable position in the industry. Since ancient times, heroes have not been empty sentences.

Oral gossip, adolescent interest preferences and comprehension ability play a decisive role in later development, therefore.

When children who have been loved and nurtured since childhood enter their productive youth, they are naturally more than nothing.

The elder youth showed absolute superiority. Whether it is the talent that makes them look at it, or the careful teaching of their parents, their success.

All seem more reasonable.

Some people say that there are three kinds of luck in life: meeting a good teacher when you go to school, meeting a good teacher when you work, and starting a family.

Meet a good partner. Sometimes a sweet smile and a warm greeting from them can make your life go with it.

The crowd is different and the brilliance shines.

Of course, if you are very good and want to soar in the sky like an eagle, then you have to fly with the eagles, not not.

Be in the company of Yanhuai; If you imagine a wolf galloping across the earth, then you have to run with the wolves, not with them.

Deer and sheep go hand in hand. Sometimes I think, it's not good to be mediocre and tolerant at that time, you can sleep as long as you want, because it's ordinary, you have.

It's time. You can do whatever you want, and you don't have to care if others pay attention to you, and you don't have those.

Celebrity concerns about being noticed.

Actually, mediocrity is a little bad, that is, where you want to go, you may be constrained by money, because I am flat.

Mean, so I don't have any money.

Actually, if I really had to choose, I didn't want to be a mediocre person.