How to guide children who lie in bed, and how to get rid of the baby s habit of lying in bed?

What to do if your child is in bed in the morning.

1. Create a biological clock for your child.

As a parent, you must get up earlier than your child every day, and you should take the initiative to wake up your child after you get up, and call at a fixed time every day, rain or shine. Give your child the idea of a biological clock. I don't think it will take long, as little as a month, as much as 3 months.

It is sure to establish a biological clock that wakes up early and does not stay in bed.

2. Make breakfast for your child on time every day.

If the child likes to lie in bed, and the parents can't find a reasonable reason to get the child up early. Then as a parent, you should wake up on time every day and make breakfast for your child. After that, I asked the child to get up and eat, I think the child has no reason to refuse.

The secret of this method is that parents should make the right time to call their children for breakfast every day.

3. Give educational guidance to children in the morning.

If the child can't get up, as a parent, you can come to the child's bed, and then guide the child to get up, such as playing small games with dad and mom, saying "baby is up, baby is good" and other similar words to praise the child. Let the child have a sense of pride. There will be a period of adaptation in doing so, and parents should be prepared.

4. Encourage children to get up early and have rewards.

Before the child goes to bed, coax the child, and then give the reward of getting up early every day, whether it is a toy, or take him to play. If the child still does not wake up early in the morning and is still lying in bed, parents can go up and explain the reward so that the child can remember. I think it won't take long for the habit of waking up early to develop.

This requires parents to think more about their children's hobbies and prepare accordingly.

5. Compare other people's children and praise your own children.

Children also have a little "vanity", I remember when we were children, our parents often compared us with other children, always complimenting me. Then I would try very hard to do what my parents praised me. This method is very effective, but parents need to find the entry point and method, here is, of course, "compared to other people's children do not get up early, and our baby is particularly diligent every day, get up early".

In the face of such children, we should be patient with the children and do not force the children to get up. You can set some alarms for your child, or you can let your child develop habits in life, so that you can correct your child's behavior.

Parents must wake up their children when they are lying in bed, and they must cultivate their children's good sense of time, so that they can correct their children's behavior.

You can set an alarm clock for your child so that your child can get rid of this bad problem in your life, or you can let your child fall asleep before 9 o'clock every night.

We can buy a child like alarm clock and put it on top of the child's bedside. Go to an alarm every day to wake up the child, and we can also wake the child up on time every day. And it is also possible to stipulate a time for the child to sleep.

You can make corresponding rules for your child, you can also punish your child, you can also set up a reward and punishment system for your child, you can also set rewards for your child, and you can also cook some delicious food for your child.

The morning of a school-going child is often accompanied by the busyness and chaos of the whole family. Parents not only need to wake up the child who was greedy to play and sleep late yesterday, but also urge the child to wash up and let him eat peacefully after the child gets up slowly.

When everything is done, you look at the children who have stepped on the dots and walk into the school gate, and you finally breathe a sigh of relief.

This disaster-like morning is a common occurrence for many parents. In fact, the core of this question is that because the child lacks a good sense of time, he always procrastinates time again and again, resulting in a tight time every day. So, as a parent, how to cultivate children's concept of time and let children have good work and rest habits?

1.Make a schedule for your schedule.

The premise of letting children have a sense of time is to develop a concept of time for children and develop a reasonable schedule according to their personality traits.

When making a plan, you can involve your child as well, and you need to let your child understand what the plan does and what it is used for. In this way, children can have a sense of participation and realize that this is something that needs to be taken seriously and strictly enforced.

2.Let your child own their own time.

Parents need to give their children such space to handle their own time. Parents do too much for their children, which is not conducive to shaping children's character habits.

Parents give their children time to complete the learning tasks they need to complete, and then give the child free time. It doesn't need to be particularly long, 1-2 hours a day will do.

3.Prepare an alarm clock.

An alarm clock is the nemesis of bed-sleepers, and if you don't have one at home, you need to prepare an alarm clock. When buying an alarm clock, you can bring your child (in fact, let your child participate in things, which is very important for the shaping of thinking ability), in the process of choosing an alarm clock with your child, you can talk more about the structure and function of the clock, the language is as simple and easy to understand as possible, and then let the child choose the style he needs. First, the child has a sense of participation and will not be too repulsive.

Second, the alarm clock does play an obvious role in bed-lying behavior.

1. Don't rush blindly. If parents are used to being urged every day, then children are also used to being urged every day. If the child is not urged many times, he still won't get up, and this has become a habit.

Therefore, the elders of the family should change their habits, do not blindly urge, and stop in moderation.

2. Let the child bear the consequences. If the parent calls and the child has not gotten up yet, so he is late, let the child bear the consequences. After being late, you will be criticized by the teacher, and I believe that the child will not dare to lie in bed next time, and the parents just want the child to understand that they are not joking with him.

3. Give praise. When the child can get up on time without how to urge, parents may wish to praise it, the child's heart is naturally beautiful, praise it a few times, and the child should be able to get up on time.

4. Impose punishment. It is agreed in advance that if the child does not wake up on time, the parent can punish him, such as doing some housework or assigning related learning tasks, and he must do what he says. When a child wants to lie in bed, he or she will not be in bed when he thinks of the punishment he is about to receive.

5. Usually develop good habits. In daily life, we should pay attention to cultivating good living habits for children, and try to let children do what they can do by themselves. For example, set your own alarm clock, then get up, dress, etc., let the child do it by himself, parents do not need to wait for too much, when the child forms a habit, he can naturally manage himself.

6. Let your child go to bed early. Children should go to bed early and not stay up late. Only by going to bed early can the brain get sufficient rest and the spirit will be good. The child is rested, and when the time comes, he generally doesn't want to lie in bed. Lu Ku.

If your child likes to lie in bed, parents can improve the phenomenon of lying in bed by giving your child a hot bath before going to bed at night. At the same time, create a wake-up atmosphere for your child when he gets up, so that he can get out of bed and enter the new day. And when facing children lying in bed, parents must learn to lead by example.

Because when it is time to go to bed, it is not only the children who have to sleep, but also the parents who want to sleep, and the parents and children set a time for themselves to get up. When it comes to a certain point, it is necessary to get up, and parents must not stay in bed to be able to get rid of the bad habit of their children lying in bed.

And many children will have the gas to get up, so parents must learn to calm their children's emotions. Because many children are relatively young, their ability to express themselves is not particularly good, and if they encounter some problems in life, they will reflect it. At the same time, some babies' emotions will be reflected in the child's sleep, so in this case, parents must chat with their children more, and then find the problem.

In this way, you can improve your child's bad habit of lying in bed, and the best way to get your child out of bed is to set an alarm clock for your child. If your child has a cute alarm clock and asks him to pick his or her favorite name, he or she will be able to hear the alarm clock go off in the morning. At this time, it can also reduce the displeasure of parents to wake themselves up, in fact, if you want to improve your child's habit of lying in bed, you must give your child a buffer time and let your child adapt first.

Don't be too impatient while adapting, and solve the matter gently, so as to give the child a good impression. At the same time, we must pay attention to the way when teaching children to get up, but when many children get up, it is actually because they can't do without the bed. It is important to make a good transition for your child during this time so that the situation can be improved.

When the child is in bed, we leave him alone, and if he can't afford it many times, let him bear the consequences after that, don't ask him to eat, don't ask him to go to school, etc.

The child's mind should be calm, and some delicious food should be prepared for the child. Children should also be allowed to go to bed earlier, and an alarm clock should also be set for the child. You should also go and wake up your child yourself.

Make a plan for your child's time and tell him that he should go to bed early and wake up early every morning to make the day very beautiful. Children can be encouraged, children can be educated, and children can be guided in the right way.

You need to wake up the child, put the clothes next to him, let him get dressed, and set an alarm clock for him, so that the child will not lie in bed.

Some children go to bed too late at night, play games or other exciting activities very late before going to bed, and naturally lie in bed, can't get up, and children also need enough sleep time. Some children have difficulty falling asleep because there are more negative emotions, there are children's own emotional problems, there are also family relationships, the influence of husband and wife relationship problems, often quarrels at home, children sleep at night is more difficult, in this case, the problem of the relationship between husband and wife is the key point, and the child is just a problem manifestation.

The problem of lying in bed, first of all, tests the parents' attention and understanding of the child, generally can understand the real reason, and then consider how to solve the problem is easier, the most worrying thing is that the child has a problem, the parents are at a loss, ignorant state, that is the biggest problem, parents need to learn to exercise their own observation and listening to the child, more understanding of the child is the key.

Secondly, from the time of sleep and the state of falling asleep at night, you can generally patiently accompany the child to sleep, or read picture books to fall asleep, etc., it is also a test of parents' emotions and patience, if you can accompany the child to develop good sleep habits, the problem of lying in bed does not exist, sleep well, and the mood is good, the child will not lie in bed.

Then there is the way to get up, this time is also a test of parents' sleep habits, children in bed, parents often get up late, only half an hour left from work, in a hurry, at this time will urge the child to get up quickly, immediately can go, the child does not react so fast when the child is anxious to blame the child for lying in bed. In fact, the general parents have more time to get up first, to wake up the child first, but also to give the child a chance to sleep for a while, wake up from sleep, need a waking process, some people are faster, some people are slower, first gently and happily wake up the child, and then wash and then wake up the child, it is much easier. You can also learn to set an alarm clock with your child, a wake-up alarm clock, a wake-up alarm clock, be patient and happy, prepare in advance, and also prevent your child's wake-up gas, encourage and affirm your child's good sleep and wake-up habits, and slowly your child can self-manage your sleep and wake-up time.

Anxious parents will have children who rely on bed, and children's problems often have the influence of parents, which is the most important place to pay attention to and reflect, otherwise just blame the child for lying on the bed, then there will be more and more problems.

If you want to solve your child's habit of lying in bed, you must first set an example as a parent. Whether you go to work or not, you must develop the habit of going to bed early and getting up early.

In the early stage, try to set an alarm clock first, and then get up according to the time of the alarm clock, if the child can't get up from bed, and the alarm clock goes off and doesn't get up, then you choose the things that the child is more interested in to guide him. Slowly, you can change the habit of lying in bed.

When my child doesn't get out of bed, I will learn to crow the rooster, or I will make an agreement with him on the first day, or there is a situation where I tell him that it is Friday, and that the holiday will be soon, and so on.

In the morning, the child is easy to get hungry, and when it is almost time for the child to get up, put the child's favorite food in the child's room, the farthest position from the bed, and the child will get up in order to eat delicious food. When the child is up, urge him to wash.