How to like a schoolgirl who is alone 30

No matter how self-reliant this girl is, first of all, you have to know if she likes it, it looks like someone who has a good impression of him, and you should get along with her for a long time, so how much do you think she communicates with her male friends around her? If she often doesn't come into contact with boys, then senior brother, you can save your worries. You also said that she doesn't want to fall in love for the time being, feelings can be there at any time, chasing, only chasing or not catching up, I don't think you have considered whether it is worth these points.

In other words, it's almost, and if people really don't feel for you, it won't be okay. (Of course, what I'm saying is pure nonsense, I feel like my brother is too eager to find a girlfriend).

It's quieter. Because they don't like to be exposed, they are not good at publicity, and they don't want to bother to please others.

Unless it is a particularly good girlfriend, or someone who loves her very much, can see their crazy or playful side, and others, can only see their demure and gentle.

The personality trait of a girl who likes to be alone is probably that her inner world is very rich, and she can enjoy herself without some irrelevant pleasure in the outside world.

In fact, I have a lot of friends, most of whom have been with us for more than ten years and know each other well. Sometimes I am polite and reserved because I haven't seen him for a long time, but most of the time I don't have to worry too much, I like this simple and direct way of getting along. There will also be new friends who have just left the company after four months, and many colleagues have expressed their reluctance.

So I knew that I was becoming more and more adept at disguise and controlling my emotions.

But, no matter what, I was still walking alone. Just now, after watching Tim Burton's new film recommendation, I plan to watch it tomorrow morning while there are fewer people, if you can charter a venue or a few people, it is best to enjoy your solitude!

I'm used to watching movies alone, even if my closest family and friends are around, I rarely have the idea of meeting others to watch movies together, and occasionally someone invites me, and I will be irritable and painful because of accommodating other people's viewing hobbies, seats, time, etc., and even this irritability is far greater than the warmth of others' company. As a result, a person's lonely city went farther and farther.

I eat alone, go shopping alone, drink tea and read books alone, and want to go on a long trip alone, even before I meet my boyfriend, I firmly believe that it is a good choice to die alone. When I was in college, I shuttled alone from the library to the classroom with a book, against the ideal of the fantasy years, imaginatively, and without any obstacles. No one listens to your heart, suppresses your inspiration, and comes and goes like the wind.

When I read books, I was very different from most of my friends in life, so I became more and more silent. I closed my circle of friends, not wanting others to prying on my life, and I was ridiculed as weird, and I often laughed at it. I like solitude more than social contact, and fantasize about planting trees and peaches to live in seclusion in the depths of Zhongnan.

I've always believed that people are born lonely and learning to be alone is the first step to maturity. So while trying to maintain inner independence, I learned to be gentle with the world.

It seems that cold people must also have some cold blood in their bones, and their hearts are relatively strong, and they pay attention to spiritual cultivation. Everyone has their own thoughts and worldview, and perhaps there are many innate parts of the human personality.

Girls who like to be alone will be more shy, because she is not good at communicating with others, so they are all alone, and they also want to socialize with others, but they can't say it.

There are two kinds of girls who like to be alone, one is particularly powerful, and the other is particularly homely.

Independent, has his own ideas, is a bit lazy, and quiet.

The personality of girls who like to be alone is: inner abundance; Social phobia, feeling uncomfortable with people; Thinking that low-quality social interaction is a waste of life.

1. Inner abundance

Most people who like to be quiet don't like to be lively, because most of them are introverted personalities, and they are not good at talking to people, but they are willing to talk to themselves and calm down to precipitate themselves.

Their hearts are rich enough, their lives are rich enough that they are willing to give up some of their social interactions and make themselves seem lonely, but in reality, they just avoid letting useless social interactions detract from their quality of life.

2. Social phobia, feeling uncomfortable with others

The world of adults is very complicated, and the relationship between people is no longer so pure. Some people choose to be alone because they are afraid of socializing and don't know how to communicate with people. Some people choose to be alone, not because they like to be alone, but because they have social phobia and are uncomfortable with others, so they close their hearts.

3. Thinking that low-quality social interaction is a waste of life

Thoreau once said in Walden, "I love solitude, and I have never found a better companion than to be alone." In most cases, we are more lonely when we go out, among people, than in our own houses. ”

Time is precious, instead of wasting it and talking with the people around you, it is better to do everything in the moment with your feet on the ground. And some girls who like to be alone just understand that low-quality socialization is just a waste of life.