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The cooling-off period for divorce is really here.

From January 1, 2021, couples who go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce by agreement need to go through five steps: application, acceptance, cooling-off period, review, and registration (issuance of certificate).

After the issuance of the certificate, the husband and wife need to jointly obtain the divorce certificate from the marriage registration authority within 30 days after the expiration of the divorce cooling-off period.

In addition, the marriage registration authority will no longer accept requests for annulment due to coerced marriages.

Women who have no opinions in life will not be happy, and many times their lives will be particularly bitter, mainly because they can't decide their own affairs, and then women who value material things very seriously, especially those who are particularly snobbish, will not be happy, because people now hate this type of woman.

has a good temper, but has no own opinions, and will suffer for various reasons after marriage, most of them are the kind of women who are good wives and mothers, or the kind of women who have no opinions, or who can only swallow their anger.

A woman who is too cowardly is likely to die in marriage. Because everyone will have the psychology of bullying the weak and afraid of the hard, it may be nothing at first, but over time they will be bullied by their in-laws and husbands.

1. Special hard work, doing everything in housework, such a woman will become very tired, 2, never willing to spend money to dress up for herself, often buy clothes for her children and husbands, these kinds of women are basically very miserable after marriage.

1. Inside the kitchen. She has her own ideas, and she will take the initiative to assign tasks to men to do, which is a good fate. 2. On the dress. If she has a high self-image, it means that she is very confident and thoughtful, and such a person is a good person.

I think that in marriage, if a woman is at the dinner table, when she is doing housework, in the kitchen, in terms of dressing and grooming, and then in terms of attitude, the woman with a bad temper has a very good life, because they have gained more development through their own behavior and the degree to which the other person cares about themselves.

He often complains about everything, speaks ill of others, has no own opinions, does not have a broad heart, and is good at jealousy.

The heart is very soft, all the problems are carried by himself, he listens to his husband's words, he has no opinions, he always feels that his husband is not as good as others, a woman full of negative energy, always suspicious of the gains and losses of the ghosts, and thinks too much.

The personality is relatively weak.,No opinions.,Not financially independent.,Obedient.,Always like to complain.,The mentality is not particularly good.。

Proper tantrums are venting and decompressing, which can relieve tension and anxiety, for example, a person has been hit by some kind of blow, and the mood is very bad, getting worse, and maybe he will also suffer from depression. Admittedly, everything should be done in moderation. Temper is not something that can be sent casually, and when the temper comes, the temper cannot be controlled, and the evil consequences caused by the temper tantrum are indiscriminate.

This not only harms oneself and others, but also affects relatives and friends. Let's ask, can there be happiness in such a tantrum? Friends, when you want to lose your temper, please bear with it and take a step back, so that you can "sail the ship of ten thousand years" and "the sea and the sky are wide".

People with temper tend to be easily angry, irritable, depressed, and pessimistic! To put it simply, it's not optimistic! When the temper comes, it's not that the blessing is gone, it's that you have lost the ability to judge, and the development of society is like a torrent.

Temper is inherited from innate genes, but most of it comes from the influence of acquired life environment, education level and correctness. It is the character element that everyone hides in the shadows. The cultivation of Buddhism is reflected in such a person, and the Buddha said that blessings come from cultivation, and this is the case.

On the contrary, if a person complains every day, does everything passively and does nothing, and passes the time every day, he will lose confidence in a better life, which is reflected in his temper, disharmony with others, and he seems to be unable to get along with himself in everything, and his blessings will gradually drift away from him. Therefore, even if there is a moment of unhappiness, you must learn to cultivate yourself, let yourself accept and harmonize with your surroundings. Slowly, the temper will be hidden deeper and deeper, and the blessing will be closer and closer.

To be a good wife, the more docile the better. The worst thing should be that there is no temper and everything is obedient. You may contradict me, many heroines in the movie who stay until the end have good personalities, and men also say that they want to have a gentle and virtuous wife.

This is because men are duplicitous animals, and what we want is that you are gentle when you need it, assertive when you need to be assertive, and independent when you need to be independent. Think about it, if you marry someone who is very obedient and docile, who doesn't quarrel and doesn't talk back, do you think that's enough? In terms of consumption and education, do you want someone to discuss with you and solve it together?

When you come home from work pressure, do you wish someone could listen to you and even give advice? Do you want someone to be able to take care of the elderly when they are sick, their children's education, and their family business to be well organized inside and out? Can only a docile character do these things?

It's true, because the better the temper of women after marriage, the happier their marriage is, and the more their husbands treat them very well.

It's true. And it can also show that this woman is very happy after marriage, so it will lead to a more and more docile temper.

It's true. The better the temper, the more harmonious the family will be. Then it will be happier to get along.

This is indeed true, if your temper becomes more and more docile, the other party will also recognize you, and the relationship between two people can also develop in a more stable direction.

One of the characteristics of a woman is that she does not have a mind of her own. When she encounters various problems, she always likes to listen to other people's opinions habitually, and she has nothing in her brain. At a certain age, this kind of woman will have a more prominent characteristic, that is, her own point of view, because she has long been accustomed to obeying her husband's assignment and doing what her husband says, and it is not easy for him to make decisions.

If such a woman loses her husband, or if her husband no longer loves him, the rest of her life will undoubtedly be dark.

Every woman will be a mother. When she was younger, she probably said that she didn't know how to be a mother, that she didn't know how to educate her children. But we don't understand that we can learn, and there is no shame in learning and training, and we don't know anything, which is the most shameful thing.

A "hard-working" woman doesn't know how to educate her children culturally, because he thinks that the education of her children is not so important, but such a woman will understand what "hard-working" is in middle age. When a child is young, she lacks cultural education for the child. When the child grows up, it is too late to regret it.

A "hard-working" woman has no focus in her life. She only knows how to surround her husband and children all day long, because in the eyes of such a woman, she only has a husband and children, and no one else, this kind of woman is very "miserable". Because he only has a husband and children.

In middle age, this kind of trait will also be more significant, because his daily life is only a husband and children, and he has no good friends and no circle of friends.

After getting married, a woman with a "hard life" will have some three characteristics, which will be more prominent at a certain age! Life is only a few decades long, and everyone should not be a woman with a "hard life", therefore, this characteristic of women must be corrected in time to live a happy and happy life.

They always like to complain about others when they encounter things, they don't know how to reflect on themselves, they have an inferiority complex and sensitive personality, they like to be calculating, and they don't know how to think about problems from the perspective of others.

Life is particularly egoless, especially dependent on others, only giving all day long, without her own principles and bottom line, such a woman will be particularly miserable.

Men don't understand themselves, they don't have ego, they are not independent at all, and women with a hard life will have these characteristics.

<> "Most women with these 4 manifestations in marriage have a hard life.

A woman must be kind to herself in order to have a happy marriage.

1. A woman with no temper.

A woman feels that she is accommodating in everything, and that if she follows her husband's temper, the family will be happy.

Many times, it is precisely because you are so good that you have no temper that you are used to the other party repeatedly invading your bottom line.

If you play a petty temper one day, he will accuse you of having a big temper, so in marriage, women must not feel that they have a good temper, let it go, and show their thoughts and temper moderately.

2. A woman who is too worried.

Tu Lei once said that in love life, the person who bears everything alone is the stupidest person.

Because you have simply questioned your significant other, he cannot share those responsibilities with you, and you deprive him of the right to share those responsibilities with you.

Therefore, in a family, we must let both parties share affairs and responsibilities, some things are obviously what the other party can do, don't carry a family by yourself, only by sharing each other, can we understand each other's difficulties.

3. A woman who saves too much money.

Although in our traditional culture, women uphold the virtue of thrift and thrift, if they are too frugal, they will neglect to invest in themselves.

For women, taking care of the beauty of their faces and dressing up well can be said to be a lifelong career, after all, no man would like a woman with a sallow complexion and sloppy all day long?

The biggest mistake is to change yourself according to a man's preferences, no matter how good you have been, but as long as you lose yourself in a person, married life will naturally be wronged and painful.

Women must learn to be kind to themselves and reward themselves in order to have true marital happiness.

4. A woman with a soft heart.

A friend called ** in the early morning and cried and said that my husband's problem had been committed again, and I really wanted to divorce, he was so good to me.

But all this slowly disappeared after the other party got involved in gambling, from the small fight at the beginning to the huge amount of money in the back.

Every time her friend warned her husband in a loud voice, but her husband pinched on her soft-heartedness, tried everything to ask for forgiveness, and then found various reasons to take the money and continue gambling, and so on.

Many times you think that soft-heartedness can be exchanged for the other party's return to the shore, but often most people will become more serious because of your soft-heartedness, at this time women should learn to make themselves hard, and use a broken attitude to make a decision, rather than blindly being soft-hearted and forgiving.

When you can often see women who have long been married, you can find that they often say such a sentence, "Why is my life so miserable", which is also a sentence that most married ladies often say. But at that time, she was willing to get married, why did she feel this way after marriage? In fact, it's just that the marriage is not good, this kind of woman usually has a more difficult life, and these four main manifestations often appear in marriage.

If you look closely, the faces of the complaining women are always unhappy, as if everyone owes her money, and these women never know how to enjoy life. She regards the things she needs to do in daily life as God's punishment for her every day, and feels that there are too many troubles about food and clothing, so she complains all day long, so that the people around her listen to it and think that this woman is indeed not a happy person, because she brings negative emotions to others.

If the water is clear, there are no fish, and the same is true for marriage. There are some women who are born with extreme intelligence, have their own opinions on everything, and calculate everything thoroughly, which things in the family can't escape her eyes, and even the smell of her husband She also needs to guess whether she is really loyal. This kind of woman treats marriage as an arena, and everyone is like fighting, how can a boy endure it, and in turn they prefer "stupid women!"

>You are always too soft-hearted" is still fresh in my memory, but women really can't be too soft-hearted, otherwise it is not easy for the men in the family to take you to heart, thinking that you are weak and incompetent. Therefore, a married woman can't be too soft-hearted, otherwise she won't be able to defend her marriage strongly, why not learn Ying Caier!

The male protagonist is outside, and the female protagonist is inside. The family's large and small expenses are all set by the woman, so the woman must determine the monthly expenses according to the family's economic situation, but she can't feel stingy is simple and thrifty. It is true that a woman should be diligent and thrifty in running a house, but sometimes "consumption" is necessary, such as traveling with her own home in moderation and going to a restaurant.

If you are too picky, not only will you gain a bad reputation, but sometimes you will lose your husband's affection, their faces will not be tight, and you will be cold.

No matter what is missing, you have to do it yourself, and you have to take care of the big and small things in the dry hall, too much to enhance the competitiveness, too defeated Zheng too has his own ideas, and he is not willing to spend money for himself very thrifty.