Will the relationship get noisier and better?

It's easy to like someone, it's hard to love someone.

Actually, love doesn't need a reason

If you find a so-called "reason".

Then you don't really love her, you just love that "reason".

It's painful to want to be alone, but if you can still love her without regrets, it proves that you are sincere, as long as you persist, you will definitely wait!

But I personally think!

1 Loving someone is not about who he or she is, the important thing is to have feelings with him or her.

2 Don't weep because of love, what you have is the most important thing.

3 No man or woman is worthy of your tears, and the one who is worthy will not ask you to weep.

4 Don't weep because it's over, but smile because it happened.

5 Don't spend time with someone who won't spend time with you.

6 Don't weep at the end, but smile at what happened.

That's what I personally think Think about! Good luck too!

Happy every day :)

It feels like it varies from person to person, but I'm not very in favor of it, no matter what, if you quarrel too many times, you'll get tired, and if it's always like this, your heart is tired, and I don't think you can go far.

The reason why two people quarrel with each other is because they care about each other, and if they don't quarrel, it's not normal. As the saying goes, a small noise is pleasant, and a big noise hurts feelings. So, don't go too far, both parties will get tired of it for a long time, and it will only hurt the true feelings.

This is not necessarily, and it may become weaker and weaker. If you don't handle it well after the quarrel, then this relationship is basically difficult to maintain, my boyfriend and I are like this, some time ago we always quarreled because of a little thing, after the quarrel we ignored each other, the last time it really came to the point of breaking up, we broke up He also told his parents, but after my efforts we are together again, and now the relationship is also very good. It mainly depends on the degree of love between the two parties.

Sometimes it doesn't, my boyfriend and I used to be the same as you, hehe, you only know the importance of each other after you break up, so you will get together, so don't quarrel, cherish each other, it's too late to regret it, and be happy.

Yes, people are noisy but also reflect the other party's care and concern for you, if you are not noisy, it does not mean that you have a good relationship.

The initial quarrel can enhance the relationship, because in the quarrel each other understand each other's wishes and hearts better, if you love each other, you can make further changes for the other person. But no matter how long the argument lasts, it will still hurt feelings. So it's better to quarrel or quarrel, but to a certain extent, both sides have to let go again, think about the problem from each other's standpoint, and then communicate more with each other, which is better.

It looks like this.

Some people like to make small noises.

Some people can't afford to joke.

OK. At least there's something to talk about, but sometimes, it's too noisy and there's a problem, if you quarrel today.

It will be good later, then it will be okay, OK, if it is noisy, it will take a few days or months.

Then it's a big problem, think about it yourself.

If you have done something wrong or if he has done something wrong, you have to be forgiving.

And forgive. Be generous.

Something. If you can open one eye, you can open one. After all, the person you love, what can not be forgiven hungry, but if you are with a woman who is better than or lie to you.

That is unforgivable ... Step up your game... Keep your eyes open.

Not really! Sometimes arguing too much can break the relationship!!

Some are, some are not, no opinion, but I say yes!

No, it's the opposite.

Quarrels are also a way of communication between two couples, so there are some couples who quarrel the better their relationship.

I once watched a TV show, about the things between celebrity couples, there is a couple in their 60s, the man has become a celebrity in the literary and artistic circles in his twilight years, the woman is old and decrepit, and her life is gradually becoming dull, from being independent when she was young to gradually relying on the man more. When the husband and wife introduced each other's lives and emotional experiences, they couldn't help but quarrel, but when the quarrel ended, the two looked at each other, smiled, and the quarrel instantly came to naught.

Sogou asked. The man said that we often quarrel, and we quarrel at home and outside, but after the quarrel, the two quickly forget that they will not really get angry with each other, which is a unique way of communication between their husband and wife.

Some old couples have quarreled for a lifetime, but they can still go through each other through their lives. Some young couples, from the initial respect for each other, to a few years later, parted ways.

Why? Because when the two do not communicate, even in a way that hurts others and themselves, after a long time, the relationship will fade, and the distance will become farther and farther away, and the two will no longer have a bridge to communicate with, and it will naturally be a breakup.

Sogou asked. The reason why couples quarrel with each other is that some deepest desires or needs in their hearts are not satisfied. For example, boys throw away socks, don't wash dishes after eating, etc., and many of the behaviors that boys do are unbearable because they live in a clean and tidy room, not a grocery stall.

More often than not, the two quarrel, especially the woman, because of the desire for love and care from the depths of their hearts, hoping that the boy is a gentle and considerate warm man who will never quarrel with him. When we recognize these desires, we do not satisfy them from others. Live your life well.

Close love between two people requires real communication between two people, and some skills need to be mastered in the interaction, such as highlighting the positive, weakening the negative, and minimizing criticism, contempt, defense, withdrawal and rejection.

"Couples get to know each other better with each quarrel; When they know each other well enough, they stop arguing and they choose to break up. ”

In the process of getting along, lovers will inevitably have conflicts and quarrels.

In the unpleasant communication again and again, they have no time to understand the real thoughts under each other's anger, but focus on the current dissatisfaction, hurt each other, blame each other, and lead to the final breakup.

In this case, what is "understood" is the "negative" of each other, and the more noisy the relationship, the worse the relationship.

So how can it be improved?

Here are the things couples need to pay attention to in their quarrels to avoid letting them become the culprits of ruining their love.

Change your mind

Many people have some inappropriate understandings when they are in love.

For example, you always want to change your significant other in your own way, and then you always find it difficult, and finally you give up, thinking that this person is dead and can't change.

In fact, if you can let go of your desire to change the other person and accept the other person, you will also find that he is slowly changing.

Feelings are two-sided, and when one party changes, the other party will also change.

Listen to the other person's words

What you both have to learn is not to start with an argument when something happens that makes you quarrel.

Allow the other person to have a chance to express themselves, be patient and listen to the other person's words before further solving the problem.

If you don't even listen, but just take care of your feelings and thoughts, how can you solve the problem?

Try to avoid accusations

You can express your emotions, your feelings, and you can state specific things that affect and feel you, but don't always blame the other person.

Accusations will only keep you from talking about it.

When you accuse, the other party must be very uncomfortable in their hearts, don't hurt the person you love because of your emotions.

Empathy

You have emotions, the other person must have emotions too, communication and communication, each other needs to express their feelings and thoughts.

You have emotions, and you should also understand that the other person also really feels emotions, and these emotions are real.

Don't think that if you're the only one who is uncomfortable, the other person won't be uncomfortable at all.

Find the positive points in the quarrels

Arguments can sometimes bring two people closer together, and of course you need to deal with them in a proper way.

Quarrels are a way to communicate, and if you can use this opportunity to communicate well, figure out each other's inner needs, and then make adjustments, I believe you will get better and better.

Couples need to understand each other

Respect each other, understand each other, look at each other's good points, and reflect on some of your own problems.

In the process of communicating and getting along, we strive to be better. The efforts of both sides, both sides treat them attentively, in order to go on better.

"Quarrel" is a way of communication, but also an art in interpersonal relationships, the real "quarrel" couples have high emotional intelligence, not to people, will get to know each other's true heart more and more through quarrels, the more noisy the more love, the more noisy the more tacit understanding.

Because some people talk about misunderstandings, contradictions, and incomprehension between two people when they quarrel, they will pay attention to and avoid the same thing in the future, so the more noisy the feelings, the better.

The reason why some people quarrel more and have a better relationship is because such people themselves are more open-minded to each other, even if they quarrel, they will not hate each other from the bottom of their hearts, in addition, on the other hand, such people are more conducive to resolving the contradictions in their hearts through quarrels, and each other can understand what each other cares about and can pay attention, so it is not surprising that such an effect will occur.

Quarrels are equivalent to venting negative emotions, such as various dissatisfaction or grievances.

The two sides communicated frankly during the quarrel and understood each other, so naturally the more quarrels the better.

This is also a way of running-in, as long as it is well controlled, it is still beneficial to enhance the relationship, remember not to go overboard.

Some people quarrel more about feelings, the better, because the more noisy they are, the more they understand each other, there is a saying that beating is kissing and scolding is love, sometimes quarreling can grow old, so quarreling is also a way to enhance feelings, but don't hold grudges, don't be too intense Just like constipation, let your feelings be released, which is a way to enhance feelings.

The more people quarrel in the relationship, the better the relationship, because they are all knife-mouthed tofu heart type people, although they are more bitter and mean-mouthed, but their hearts are more gentle, reasonable, quarrels are only a temporary problem, when the quarrel is over, they will be like the beginning, understand each other and take care of each other, so the more they quarrel, the better.

The better the relationship between two people after a quarrel, it is because in the process of quarreling. Be able to get to know each other better, and further know each other's preferences. After the quarrel. will be able to strengthen the relationship between each other.

Quarrels occur between lovers or friends to a greater or lesser extent. Some people quarrel and their feelings become weaker and weaker, and finally they disappear into the sea of people. Some people are more quarrelful, the better their feelings.

It mainly depends on the person's character. Some people talk about things when they quarrel, stay calm in the quarrel, and solve the problem in the quarrel, instead of saying things indiscriminately. In this way, after they solve the problem, the relationship will naturally get better and better.

It is impossible to say that the more quarrelsome people are, the better their feelings. Every argument hurts feelings. Therefore, it is necessary to avoid quarrels as much as possible, and there is no problem of principle between the husband and wife, and both parties need to make concessions to each other.

It can effectively avoid quarrels and increase the feelings of both husband and wife.

The more some people quarrel about their feelings, the better, this is because because there are contradictions and quarrels, whether they want to change each other or have love in it, if they don't speak, they don't care about what others do, it means that the relationship is really bad, so if you don't fight, you don't know each other, and the more noisy you are, the better your feelings.

Quarrels are also a way of communication, making the other party realize that they care about it very much, and it has reached the point where it is unbearable.

Therefore, if the quarrel is for communication, the relationship will often get better and better, and if the quarrel is just for pure venting, for winning or losing, and for hurting the other party, the relationship will definitely become weaker and weaker.

And the purpose of your quarrel is easily perceived by the other party. So, you might as well be aware of what you are expressing behind your back when you are arguing!

The more quarrels the feelings, the better, this is because everyone will have their own emotions, when the mood is bad, through quarrels, you can vent your emotions, which is conducive to the warming of feelings, but this can not affect the feelings too often, it is best to encounter problems, calm down and talk about it together to solve it.

Some people argue about their feelings the better, that's because they don't quarrel for the sake of arguing, they just use quarreling as a way to communicate feelings, and it doesn't affect their feelings.

The more two people quarrel, the better, the quarrel must be reconciled, the quarrel is because there are some things in the heart that can't be thought of, especially entangled, the contradiction is better when the relationship is resolved, if you don't say it, the two people will have an estrangement, many times two people need better communication, so that the relationship between the two people is getting better and better.