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Eloquence is practiced, don't be shy, you must know that everyone's qualifications are about the same, you have stage fright, others will have the same feeling, you must seize all the opportunities that can be exercised to show yourself, give yourself confidence, believe that you can do it and be able to speak, every exercise will give you great courage to start the next time, plus your own continuous summary and accumulation. In the long run, you will definitely be able to stand out on all occasions in the future, speak yourself, and prove yourself.
Secondly, you must have content to speak, in order to attract others to listen in social situations and some workplaces, you always have to make others have some benefits or resonance in the process of listening to you, then this kind of speech is successful, and others will be willing to listen to you and communicate with you. In the same way, a good speaker must be a person who is particularly good at communicating, and he must also learn to listen to others when he speaks, as the saying goes: go out to see the sky, enter the door to see the face.
Therefore, when speaking, you must learn to see the expressions of others when listening to you, so as to change the content and tone of your speech in a timely manner.
Again, it's important to pay attention to your sense of rhythm when you speak. Some people speak quite quickly when they speak, as if they are bursting beans, and often after she finishes herself, others do not reflect what she says. If you speak slower and louder, you will find that people will listen to you more attentively, and they will feel that everything you say is said from the depths of your heart, after careful consideration, and people will think that you are responsible for what you say.
In fact, words are not necessarily easier than writing articles, and articles can be revised if they are not well written, but it is more difficult to revise them when a sentence is spoken. We often feel that even if you have the same meaning or even the same sentence, someone who can talk can make you flutter, and someone who can't speak can make you dizzy.
Finally, we should learn more from those who can talk, and listen more to what others have to say, there is a proverb in the West: The reason why God gives people one mouth and two ears is that people listen more and talk less. Listen more, is the most rewarding, continue to enrich their own internal knowledge, continue to learn the strengths of others, with a confident and humble heart to face their every social and work occasion, even if they are not good enough, as long as you work hard, as long as there is sincerity, I believe that you will be able to become a master of speaking and communication over time, and bring a lot of happiness to your career and life!
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I think it's a sign of lack of self-confidence, not a psychological barrier, and a lack of communication experience.
I always believe that only self-confidence can change your mentality, so the most important thing for you at the moment is to use your self-confidence and learn to discover your strengths and strengths.
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Interact with strangers more often, and maybe this tension will be relieved, and then you will be able to come to handy.
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Read some sales books, communicate with more people, acquaintances, strangers.
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1. Read the article every day to find out the most emotional passage and contact it repeatedly 2. Spend 15 minutes a day training your breath 3. Record your own reading aloud** Find out the shortcomings to help improve your tone and aura 4. Find opportunities to export what you have learned The process of expressing and describing with others is conducive to improving your language skills.
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1. Read the article every day to find out the most emotional passage and contact it repeatedly 2. Spend 15 minutes a day training your breath 3. Record your own reading aloud** Find out the shortcomings to help improve your tone and aura 4. Find opportunities to export what you have learned The process of expressing and describing with others is conducive to improving your language skills.
I think good eloquence depends on courage and skill.
1. Read the article every day to find out the most emotional passage and contact it repeatedly 2. Spend 15 minutes a day training your breath 3. Record your own reading aloud** Find out the shortcomings to help improve your tone and aura 4. Find opportunities to export what you have learned The process of expressing and describing with others is conducive to improving your language skills.
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If the eloquence is not good, we can all read more**, you can also read the book "Speech and Eloquence", this book is very professional, will bring you a very good experience, but the eloquence is not good, just reading books can not be improved, the most important way is to communicate with other people every day, so that we can exercise our eloquence well.
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