My thoughts were always influenced by my roommates

My own life experience is similar to yours, I am also a student, in my sophomore year, college is heaven in the eyes of others, but in the eyes of students, college is not lax than high school, and you have to work hard, but you don't need to put pressure on yourself like that. Although pressure is also motivation, it will also be a burden, you have to combine work and rest, and you can join some clubs in your free time to enrich your extracurricular life and achieve both learning and entertainment. Come on, trust you to take care of everything yourself!

It may be bad, please forgive me).

Isn't that a good promotion......It is a happy thing to have a roommate who studies well, although it will make you stressed, but it will also have a positive impact on you, after all, university study is still very important. You don't have to want to surpass others, how tiring it is, do your best, absorb their advantages (there must be something worth learning from such good grades), and you can also drive them to enjoy life occasionally

To be honest, I don't agree with your roommate's college life, and I think social skills play an important role in your college life. In addition to studying, it is to sleep, to a certain extent, it is really a waste of my youth, because no matter how good you study in college, it does not mean that you will perform well in your future career, I can only say that in college, studying well can only be conducive to getting scholarships and the like. The key is to learn how to deal with interpersonal relationships.

Everyone lives in the same dormitory, naturally will be influenced by each other, the key is to always recognize yourself, find your own style and direction, go your own way, I think you need to build self-confidence, your ideas reveal your lack of self-confidence in yourself, if you do this, I believe you will be a very good person!

Summary. You only have two options:1

You continue to live in the dorm and slowly adjust to your roommate, or you in turn disturb your roommate, so that they can also experience what it is like to be disturbed by others, and then come back to talk calmly. 2.Be a little more atmospheric, move out and live, so that you can do it once and for all, and you don't have to put up with everything from your roommates anymore.

My roommate made me feel upset and affected my daily life.

You only have two options:1You continue to live in the dorm and slowly adjust to your roommate, or you in turn disturb your roommate, so that they can also experience what it is like to be disturbed by others, and then come back to talk calmly.

2.Be a little more atmospheric, move out and live, so that you can do it once and for all, and you don't have to put up with everything from your roommates anymore.

But it doesn't feel very practical, and I usually feel very tired of intrigue in the dormitory.

It's normal for you to have this kind of thought, because they affect your life and rest, so you will be upset, and if you don't go to a quiet place to stay for a while, you will eventually tear your face with them one day. Instead of making it ugly, it's better to go out and walk around more, and only maintain the superficial relationship of roommates.

Get out and about more.

Divert attention.

Focus on studying and earning money.

Learn to adapt.

If you can't change others, you have to learn to change yourself.

Before, they had left one roommate in isolation, and I felt like I was next.

Just be yourself, don't think about it so much, how happy you are.

Don't be influenced by them.

If you dare to bully you, you will scold her.

Don't be afraid. Okay, thank you, I feel a little better to say it.

Get out and relax.

It's not good to stay there all the time.

Intrigues.

The quality of your roommate's relationship with you determines how much influence he has on you.

In fact, if your roommate and you only meet each other, and there are not many opportunities to enter and exit together, he will not have much influence on you.

The people who have a greater influence on you are usually the ones who have a better relationship with you, who go in and out together, and will influence each other as the days go by.

For example, you can't help but say your roommate's mantra, completely unconsciously. You read the books that your roommate recommends to you, and you wonder what he likes. Your cognitive patterns and ways of thinking will gradually move closer to those of your roommates.

So roommates will affect you for sure.

But we must consciously manage this influence, not be affected by some bad influences, and take the initiative to accept some positive influences.

For example, if your roommate wakes up early, you might consider getting up with him when he gets up.

If your roommate smokes and drinks, not only should you not be affected, but you should also take the initiative to influence him to get rid of these bad habits.

The influence of people is mutual, and don't underestimate your influence on your roommate, you must influence him positively, and at the same time let him influence himself positively, so that you will form an energy between each other and promote the two of you to grow together.

Whether it is a good influence or a bad influence, the effect between the two is always 1+1 greater than 2, so that the good influence is greater than 2, and the bad influence is reduced as much as possible.

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But it is not easy to get along with classmates, after all, we are all individuals, and everyone has their own judgment standardsMaybe you don't know what to do without knowing it, and it will cause another person's disgustThese are all inevitable, so all we can do is to get along with each other on the surface, and get along peacefully during this period of time at school, and that's enough.

However, living in a dormitory, try to avoid quarrels as much as possible, after all, two people don't see each other when they look down all day longWhile

As for saying that your roommate has a habit of waking up early and moving a lot,You can put forward some opinions with him appropriately, and you can tactfully express your attitude to him, but your attitude should never be too tough, just remind her a little, after all, there are not only two of you in the dormitory, if no one else has expressed any opinions, it is recommended that you don't say too much, which is not conducive to the relationship between you.

Buy a bunch of food, take it back to the dorm, eat and drink happily together, and then say that in order to make our friendship go to the next level, we make a suggestion to each other, suggesting that she get up and be quiet.

You can try to get up earlier than her, wake her up and apologize to her, see if she can understand, and if not, just tell him.

This kind of thing is not easy to say directly, and you can remind him in some other ways. You can tell him that he doesn't have the habit of waking up early, and that his sleep is very light and easy to be woken up.

Just say it to your roommate, saying that the movement is too big, everyone hasn't woken up yet, it affects our sleep, I hope you can pay attention to it, so that the other party will be more careful.

You can find a time to talk to Sheyou, and I hope that when he gets up early, he won't make a big noise and affect everyone's rest, so it's okay to say it.