What is it like to work with your child?

Accompany your child to do homework, have a good attitude, and don't get angry at your child and yell at every turn. If the child doesn't know how to teach him patiently, as long as he is studying hard and studying hard. Children should also have self-confidence, don't just start to accompany the child to write homework, just extinguish the child's self-confidence, so that the child can still do homework well?

Is it good for children to learn without self-confidence? If you don't study well, you have to start yelling at him again, and he won't, so a vicious circle is formed. Therefore, accompanying your child to do homework, not helping your child write homework, you must train your child to develop good study habits from the first day, then it will be easy for you to accompany your child to write homework in the future.

Nowadays, children have a lot of homework. Chinese, math, and English all have homework, some on paper and some on mobile phones. I really think it's a lot, there are a lot of people who don't understand at all, watching her do her own will subconsciously follow the learning, it can be said that while supervising and learning by yourself, the common progress is really sighing, and it is not easy for children now.

It's so tiring, the knowledge that children are learning now is not what we were then, and the current education is already very profound for children, and we writers can't do anything about it.

As a small table tutor, it is already a very important part of my life to accompany my children to write homework, and every night I watch the children come back bustlingly, eat first, eat, and start writing homework after a while. Seeing that the children in front of him are no longer what they were at the beginning, in addition to their appearance, there is no more level.

I worked as a tutor in my sophomore year and taught first-year students, and to be honest, today's children are very smart, and the efficiency of learning in a relaxed and pleasant environment is much higher. In tutoring homework, we must pay attention to every small progress of the child, and praise the child more, so that he can also fall in love with learning.

My child is a very naughty person, and he often gets a little homework and can't finish it in half a day. Why can't he finish it in half a day? It's just that he has to sharpen his pen, he has to drink water, he has to go to the toilet for a while, or he has to play with toys when I'm not looking, which gives me a special headache.

Today's children are generally smarter than before, and the teachers teach them better, so tutoring is not as difficult as imagined.

I am a rural woman, I have a lot of time to accompany my children to do homework, I think that only in front of my children's learning, I can meditate, and grow and learn together with my children.

My experience made me stunned again, why are the homework in primary school so difficult now? It's so hard that I can't write after graduating from college, so am I going to a fake school? None of the questions I had in college were that hard.

I don't know why so many people tutor their children to learn so painfully, my children have been tutored by me from kindergarten to the fourth grade, I feel that it is a very happy thing, I have never felt that it is such a painful thing.

Accompanying children to do homework, some people will regard it as a burden, and some parents will regard it as a kind of enjoyment, which is the opposite experience effect obtained by different ways of educating children.

If you treat your child's homework as a game to complete, you will feel happy from accompanying your child to write homework, make progress together in learning together, so that you can review the knowledge you have learned in the past and pick it up again, and be able to interact better with your child, then this experience is happy.

Some parents regard accompanying their children to do their homework as a kind of mental and psychological torture, and blindly urge their children to write homework. Under this kind of psychology, children are under great mental pressure and constraints, and accompanying children to do homework has become a kind of burden.

If you write your homework by yourself, your parents are either nagging or urging you, how can you learn to write homework with peace of mind and give full play to your wisdom and talents.

Therefore, parents must have a correct attitude when accompanying their children to write homework, which is to accompany their children to write homework and bring a safe and warm learning atmosphere, rather than a devastating blow of a storm. Only by providing children with a quiet and serene learning environment can they experience the wonderful enjoyment of accompanying children to do their homework.

Accompanying children to do homework is indeed very hard and tiring, especially when children are disobedient and inattentive, as parents are particularly upset, sometimes feel particularly helpless, sometimes very depressed.

When accompanying their children to write homework, parents should do the following requirements.

First of all, parents should provide their children with a learning environment and atmosphere. While the child is doing homework, parents should sit quietly next to them and do their own things, such as reading the newspaper. Don't disturb your child's homework, let alone let your child drink water and eat fruit all the time.

Second, work with your child to make a study schedule before doing homework. Parents should help their children make a study schedule, let them plan the approximate completion time, and set an alarm clock to create a sense of urgency for the child. Many children have "procrastination" in their homework, and the main reason is that they have not developed a good habit of making a study plan.

Finally, parents don't check homework and let their children check it themselves.

Many parents like to take the initiative to check their children's homework, in fact, this is not correct, the purpose of checking homework is not only to let children know what is wrong, but also to let children realize that they have a complete grasp of what they have learned today, and can draw inferences from one another.

If parents check and correct the child, the child not only does not realize whether he has mastered the knowledge points, but also misleads the teacher to think that the child has learned. Therefore, parents should not take the initiative to check their children's homework, but should let their children check their own homework.

First, do your best and focus on creating a good learning atmosphere. In the name of accompanying their children to do homework, some parents are actually "leisure and entertainment" around their children, they either play with their mobile phones next to them, or eat snacks next to them, which not only can not create a strong learning atmosphere for their children, but also is likely to interfere with their children's learning. This kind of companionship is not real companionship, and the correct way for parents is to take a book they like and read it carefully and quietly next to their children, giving them a psychological hint that parents are studying with him.

Second, don't interrupt your child's learning easily. Some parents sit next to their children, keep an eye on their children doing every question, and once they find that their children have done something wrong, they shout and order their children to correct them immediately. Actually, this is not advisable.

Parents sitting next to them and watching their children do their homework all the time can make them nervous and difficult to concentrate. It is also not necessary for parents to correct mistakes in their children's homework at any time. The correct way is to let the child complete the homework independently and quietly, let the child check the mistakes in the homework by himself, and then let the parents check it again to find out the mistakes in the homework.

For mistakes in homework, parents should first let the child look through the textbook to find out how to solve the problem, and if the child still can't understand it by reading the textbook, the parent will patiently explain it to the child.

Third, it is important to cultivate good study habits in children. When parents accompany their children to do homework, they should focus on observing whether their children have good study habits. If parents find that their children are doing small actions while writing homework, or frequently go to the toilet or ask for snacks after writing homework for a while, this indicates that the child is not attentive to homework and is not focused on learning.

Learning is a complex mental work, and it is impossible to achieve the desired effect by inattention, so once parents find that their children have a bad habit of being absent-minded about homework, they must correct it in time.

Every day, parents cook for their children from the moment they open their eyes, clean up the house, and then they have to accompany their children to do their homework.

The last second is the mother, the next second it becomes the stepmother, reminding the child to sit upright, be careful not to write wrong, hurry up and write don't rub, don't scribble, but after saying that, these children didn't listen to it at all, careless, homework grinding, a toilet session, itchy feet, a moment to drink water and other problems that make parents crazy, but also make me irritable, shouting and scolding, scaring the child enough, so that we parents also experience a kind of pain - called to accompany the child to do homework.

Later, I came up with a way for myself, that is, when the child was writing homework, I also took out the book, looked at the book, told the child that the mother was also going to study, and the mother also had homework, to see which of us could finish the homework faster and better, this method I have been using for two days The effect is still very good, the child will ask you gently when he encounters words that cannot be written, and then we secretly glance at how much the child writes from time to time, whether there are other mistakes, if you tell him, he will also be very happy to erase and correct it, At this time, the child also has a comparison in his heart, and occasionally he will peek at whether you write well and how much you write, because children have a competitive heart, they will speed up their writing, and every word will be written seriously.

In the past two days, I feel that I can calm down when I am learning, and I can treat every question asked by the child gently, and I am very happy in the process of learning, just like a game that we both happily finished and did a good job, when this game is over, I will also find that I have also gained, and then I will copy my own book into a ** to the headline to share with everyone I will also get benefits, as long as we use the right method, it is not terrible at all, because we are a model in the hearts of children, I hope I can share it with every mother who accompanies her child to do homework.

Dear, I think it is a happy experience to accompany my child to do homework.

In fact, thinking from the subjective mind, these are all things that I have experienced, why should I torture them again. But if you dig deeper, the child will think, you adults don't learn, or don't understand, why should I learn.

I think that by accompanying children to do their homework, on the one hand, we can know the child's personality, and on the other hand, we can also know the child's learning status. Recently, I was deeply touched by one thing: a child in the third year of junior high school complained to his parents, why didn't you let me study hard in the first year of junior high school, and now I am completely biased, and I only scored 17 points in mathematics, and I blame you.

In fact, education in the new era is not the same as before, the previous education belonged to barbaric growth, and everyone's level was low. Now the level is starting to be very clear, if you have time to accompany your child to do homework, and if you don't have time, ask for a tutor. This also reflects the gap between the rich and the poor in the adult world.

Therefore, in order for the children to have no such "wealth gap" in the future, they should indeed spend more time with their children.

Accompanying your child to do homework is definitely a bad experience, so how can we control our emotions?

1. We must understand the nature of children, many children are active, like to play, and do not like to study quietly, which requires us to guide children more often, not to wait until children write homework to educate this problem. For example, the problem of concentration, children who are not concentrating will do other things when they write homework, and they will not listen carefully when you give explanations, it is not that the child does not want to do it, but it cannot be done.

It is suggested that parents should practice their children's concentration more often, as concentration plays a very important role in their children's learning career.

2. Parents should think more about their children and empathize. No matter what the reason, if your child makes you angry while doing your homework, what's the use of you losing your temper with him? It will only make children feel frightened and more disgusted with homework and studying.

Learning should be a happy thing, and if children don't feel happy, they will have no motivation to learn independently.

3. Make learning with children a virtuous circle, not a vicious circle.

The more you scold, the worse your child will write, and the next time you will scold, a vicious circle. Always remind yourself not to get angry. Understand the child more and change the way of speaking gently, so that the child can accept it, and let the child feel warm and inclusive.

4. Usually accompany the child more often, and make an appointment with the child.

Usually accompany the child often, the child will not be bad, more understanding and understanding of the child, the child will be better.

You can also make an agreement with your child in learning to make your child more motivated to progress.

5. When you really can't help it, just change someone to accompany the child. You can go to the side and do something else, like listen to a song and relax.

Accept the process of psychological torment, the child's play heart is big, can not completely sink down in the study, there is a feeling of three days of fishing, two days of drying nets, but this is also a process of children's psychological development, I feel that I still need to be tolerant and tolerant of children, although this is difficult.

When my child was young, I accompanied him to do his homework, and I often teased him: I can't ask your mother questions. I remember one time when a child really asked me a question, and I taught it to him, but it turned out to be wrong.

From then on, the child never asked me again. And when I watch my child do his homework, when he is bored, I often tell him: If you can't find your mother, and then add a sentence:

Mom told you again, and I won't either. But the child was afraid that he would not be able to do his homework, and his mother would not be able to teach, so he didn't dare to be a little sloppy in school, and he never asked me questions when he came back.