Why do you think the better a person is, the more dissatisfied she is?

Human nature is like this, greedy and not content. In the world of love, the person who pays the most is always the one who cares the most, and the more humble the love, the most easily hurt. Because of love, I always feel that I am not good enough, and when I see her, I can't wait to pluck the stars in the sky and give them to her.

But the other party never understands the attitude of contentment, you take out the whole heart to her, maybe people are too hot, do not accept your love, you take out 100 points of love today, tomorrow take out 100 points will be too little, sometimes, once you love others more than yourself, it is time for you to lose love.

Love is fair, it is necessary for both parties to work together to be happy, meet the right person, will respect your feelings, understand your pay, give you a response, let you know that your pay is worth it, so that love will be happy and long-lasting. On the contrary, if it is just one party who endlessly pays, the other party does not know how to cherish, blindly take, and insatiable, then you will never be happy, I hope you can find the lover who understands you and cherishes you, and walks together towards a beautiful and happy life!

The root of people's inferiority, easy to get, forget how to cherish. Water is essential in human life, but because there is a lot of water, water is cheap. It's a truth! The better he treats, the more secure he is, and the more secure he becomes, the less he cares.

To put it mildly, people are cheap, the better you are to a person, the more he thinks that you should be good to him, just like his parents, he naturally doesn't take you seriously. And when you ignore him and look at him, after a long time, he feels that there are not too many people around him who are good to him, and he will naturally stick to you.

To put it mildly, in any case you don't have to be like her and he proves that you are better than her and he is better. Being kind to others is not an obligation, it is the affection of others. What I want to say is to look at people and things, don't blindly jump to conclusions, see the facts clearly, and don't let yourself be good looking at others, being yourself is a necessary behavior for her.

The pendulum will swing.

To put it bluntly, you won't cherish what is easy to get, and you should be good to others, and don't do meaningless paying.

Everyone lives in their own past, knowing someone in one minute, liking someone in an hour, falling in love with someone in one day, and forgetting this person for the rest of their lives. The better the person, the less will be cherished by others.

Be sure to believe that there is nothing wrong with kindness in itself.

But goodness has to have a foundation:

1.There can't be kindness without a bottom line, otherwise it will stimulate the evil in the other party's human nature. At the critical moment, people will be grateful, but over time, it will make the other party insatiable, and they will be resentful of you if they stop helping as soon as they stop helping.

2.Have the ability to solve problems, otherwise others will dislike your kindness and cause trouble. When giving for others, you should consider what the other person really wants, and don't give in a self-motivated way.

For example, your lover is anxious about work, and you ask for warmth at this time, whether you are hungry or not, thirsty or not, whether you are cold or not will not solve his problem, it will only make him feel very annoying. If you don't have the ability to help him solve the problem at this time, then please give him a search space.

3.Be wise to do the direction, otherwise you think you are giving kindness, but you become evil in the eyes of others. This situation is more common between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

The mother-in-law thinks that she cares about her daughter-in-law, meddles in the affairs of her son's family, points fingers at her daughter-in-law, and says that it is all for your good, she ignores that she is not the hostess after her son gets married, and she loses her sense of boundary and scale, in her daughter-in-law's heart, this is not good, it is control, and it is evil.

Kindness should be the creed of our scattered life, but please also be sure to grasp the ways and means.

People are different People who can understand you will naturally be able to appreciate your kindness to them.