Is it true that the better you are to a person, the more the other person will not take you seriousl

Updated on psychology 2024-03-02
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's okay to respect each other, and sometimes that's the case, the better you treat him, the less he cares.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on whether the other party attaches importance to it. If you value you, the better you treat him, the better he will be to you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, it's all mutual. We care about each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think so, but it also depends on who it is, and the words of the family are naturally needless to say, and the others are like that.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It may be so, he will take it for granted to accept your goodness, and not feel that there is anything special.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    My friend is the kind of person the better you treat her, the more feedback he will give you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are such people, but there are also people who are not like this, depending on what kind of person the other person is.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Not necessarily, it's still divided, I think this kind of person has no sense of responsibility, and most people are still good.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No, it's just that some people will be like this, and most people will still be good to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I also feel this way, and I always feel that the better I treat her, the less the other person cares about you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I remember reading a story, there is a beggar on the street, begging here every day, there is a rich man, every day to go to work has to pass here, this parent is a very caring person, every time I see this beggar give her 100 yuan, but after a few years, this businessman lost a lot of money in business, and made a lot of money, when she met the beggar, she could only take out only 50 yuan and give it to him, but the beggar was not happy, and said you give me 100 yuan every day, Why do you give me $50 now? Does this story bear any resemblance to the situation you described? If you are too good to a person, he will slowly form a habit and take it for granted, of course, he will not pay attention to you, if you do something wrong, even if it is a small thing, she will feel that you are sorry for him, so it is necessary to have reservations about being good to a person.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The more you care about someone, the less people will take you seriously.

    The better you are to a person, the less the other person will take you seriously! Why do you say that, because the other person can't see your own worth from you. Everyone has value, so they will be respected and valued by others.

    When you always want to be nice to someone, or too good to someone, such goodness becomes flattering and stammering. What you have lost is your own personality and thoughts, so do you think you would value someone who does not have their own central idea and soul? Even if that person is very good to you, you will still dislike it!

    If you want to get the attention of others, you can only get the recognition and appreciation of others. It's like a woman, because she loves and feels sorry for a man too much, and she is reluctant to let him do a little housework, but he never does it, how can she appreciate your hard work? And in the face of principled mistakes, your easy forgiveness.

    If you can't even keep your own bottom line, how can you get the respect of others. Not only will they not be moved by your forgiveness, but they will feel that they have eaten you and have absolutely controlled you, so they are becoming more and more excessive. Don't be too nice to a person, unless you can always be good to a person, otherwise because one is bad, it will negate all the good you have before.

    Also, when a person gets used to your goodness, he will forget what he was touched.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is a very common emotional experience, but the reasons for this can vary from person to person. Here are some possible explanations:

    Excessive stress: When we care so much about someone, we may behave more nervously, anxiously, or even a little unnaturally in front of them than usual. This will make the other person feel your stress and nervousness, and may be reserved about your feelings.

    Excessive pursuit: When we care too much about someone, we may show intense pursuit and dependence, and this manifestation may make the other person feel stressed and uncomfortable, causing the other person to avoid you.

    Mutual independence: Sometimes we think it's better to rely on each other in a relationship, but in reality this dependence limits your personal independence. The other person may feel that you are dependent on them and feel that you need them to support your emotional needs, and this pressure may make the other person want to avoid you.

    The other person doesn't care enough about you: Even if you care a lot about someone, they may not see you as an equally important person. This could be because the other person doesn't feel deep enough about you, or they have lost interest in you.

    Inappropriate timing: Sometimes, even if you care a lot about someone, they may not be able to give you the same attention and response due to some external factors (such as work, family pressures, etc.).

    In general, everyone's situation is different, so it is best to calmly analyze the problem and seek a solution after understanding your own situation and the other person's situation.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Not everyone who passes by will know each other, and not everyone who knows will be worried.

    At least we didn't miss the ...... in this life, in that place, when we turned around

    Even if you said I was in the wrong time......

    Maybe we have all forgotten ourselves and experienced that sincere love.

    It's just that there is a relationship that can no longer continue, there is a person who can no longer snuggle up to each other, there is a voice that can no longer ring in the ears, and there is a pair of hands that can no longer hold the temperature and comfort of the palms.

    Not every love has beautiful memories, and not every memory is so unforgettable.

    Since we can't grow old together, let me bless you here.

    Because you are a concern that I will never be able to part with in this life. It's just that no amount of thoughts and worries can be exchanged for the days when I had you.

    It turns out that it is not easy to love you as it is to give up on you.

    Although you are vague about the questions I have asked, I still give the most sincere heart.

    If you really love me, then I am happy. Even if I can't go to the end of the world with you, my heart is still worried about you.

    I will pray and bless you forever, may you be happy --- safe forever.

    When you're unhappy, I want to shed tears with you. When you're unhappy, I want to be your pistachio.

    When you're lonely, I want to talk to you. When you're sad, I'm just as depressed as you are.

    When you dream of me, that's when I miss you again.

    I don't want you to give me too much, I don't want any promises from you, and I don't want any worries from you.

    I don't want you to remember me deeply, I don't want you to remember everything we used to do.

    I just want you to think of me occasionally, occasionally think of the person who once loved you so deeply, the person who once gave you tenderness with a smile--- gave you a complete heart.

    Remember! Your world, I once really came to ......

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because what you can't get is always fragrant, no matter whether it's a man or a woman, you must hang your appetite, if you follow his worries about everything, she will only raise her more and more, only see herself, not you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Get used to it, know that you won't leave, and have no fear.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This illustrates one.

    situation because of him.

    I don't care about you at all.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Maybe it's because he secretly likes you silently, but he doesn't dare to say it, you should take the initiative to talk to him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Summary. Kiss, hello, I understand your mood very well, the better a person, the more he doesn't take you seriously, this is very hurtful, after all, when you are good to the other party, you are really good to him, and the other party is not appreciative, feel that it is what he deserves, others should be good to him, this kind of person is only willing to take, unwilling to pay, if with such a friend, it is really too tired, so if you feel that your pay has been the other party does not appreciate, you can also choose to stay away or just don't care about him so much, Let him also experience how uncomfortable it is to be left out in the cold.

    The better you are for a person, the less he takes you seriously.

    Dear, hello Tong call disturbance, I understand your mood very well, the better a person, the less he takes you seriously, this is very hurtful, after all, when you are good to the other party, you are really good to him, and the other party is not appreciative, feel that it is what he deserves, others should be good to him, this kind of person is only willing to take, unwilling to pay willingly, if you are with such a friend, it is really too tired, so if you feel that your pay has been the other party does not appreciate, You can also choose to stay away or just don't care so much about him, so that he can also experience how uncomfortable it is to be left out.

    In fact, people are like this, the more you touch a person, the more this person doesn't care about you, the more he doesn't take you seriously, when you feel tired and want to give up, he regrets it, and knows how to cherish it, so sometimes it's not a good thing to try to put a few hands in a row.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Summary. Dear, hello, the more you are good to others, the less others take you seriously, which means that you are sincere and have paid a lot, but you can't get the other party's understanding and support, which is very uncomfortable.

    Dear, hello, the more you are good to others, the more others don't take you seriously, which means that you are sincere and have paid a lot, but you can't get the other party's understanding Tuxiang to support, it's hard to weigh the numbers.

    Hello, dear, the more you are good to others, the less people take you seriously, which means that you express an unfair feeling, and you have paid sincerely for others, but you can't get the due respect and positive feedback, which is very uncomfortable.

    Hello, the more you are good to others, the less people will take you seriously, which means that you are persuaded not to be too sincere to others, and not to make meaningless contributions, because your efforts are so sincere that they cannot be recognized by others, which is a very unfair thing.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Nowadays, many young people like to make a lot of friends, and even as long as they look at the right eye, they can add a WeChat as a friend. But I think that such a friend is actually worthless, because there is no friendship between two people at all, and when anything happens to you, you don't think that he can help you, and he doesn't think about helping you. I feel that only people who really know each other can be called friends.

    So what kind of friends should we talk about? The first choice is, of course, people who are righteous and responsible, these people must be good friends, if your friends are this kind of people, you must cherish them.

    First of all, a righteous person will give friends a strong sense of belonging. As far as I feel about being friends with righteous people, I think they will always think about me and call me for whatever is good. It doesn't matter if it's a fun place to play or if there's a class reunion, they'll call me, which gives me a strong sense of belonging.

    I would think that I was one of his side and that I had a strong connection with him. This is a state of friendship that I prefer, I think friends should be close, be able to share good food and fun, and go on entertainment and outings together. That's why I like to be friends with righteous people.

    Secondly, a righteous friend will stand firmly behind you when you are in trouble. In my opinion, the time when a person encounters suffering is the time when the person is most helpless. But often no one will help him at this time, after all, even if it is a husband and wife, they will fly separately when disaster comes.

    But if he had a righteous friend, then he would not be defeated by difficulties, because there was someone with him. Even if this difficulty cannot be overcome, I can feel the sincere friendship, and I believe that this person who encounters difficulties is not without nothing. Besides, how can brothers work together to break off the gold, how can they have a hurdle that they can't overcome?

    In the end, friends who have the courage to speak of responsibility will never back down. I met a kind of friend who would be the first to be a fugitive soldier when he was in trouble, even if he usually talked about how good he was. This is the kind of person I hate the most, just talking and not doing it, like a traitor in the War of Resistance Against Japan.

    And if a person is responsible, he will not let his friends rush to the front, they will shelter their friends from the wind and rain, even if they usually don't say anything. Be friends with this kind of person, and never be afraid of setbacks, because no matter what, they will walk hand in hand with you. In my opinion, there is nothing that friends can't solve together.

    People who are righteous and responsible are good friends, and everyone should cherish them.

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