Very entangled, should such a man marry?

If two people love each other deeply, they can think about each other and be considerate of each other... So that two people can get married. Otherwise, forget it. Divide it, long pain is better than short pain, there is no need to continue to entangle. I wish you to find true love soon!

I'm also a girl, and it's really hard to get along with each other

If you are a sane girl, I advise you not to marry

Have you ever thought that there is a reason why he is like this, a man can do without anything, but he can't do without self-motivation and responsibility...

In fact, in the process of living, people are just for themselves. Live for yourself. Whether it is money, power, or even the three feelings in the world, they are all to live in order to enrich themselves more on this road of life.

In fact, in the final analysis, most people live for themselves...

If he can't give you a sense of security and happiness, there is no need to waste your time on him, and you shouldn't marry emotionally.

Besides, married life is not every day, every day before and after the moon, every day is romantic, every day is coffee, and he can't give you romantic coffee.

To sum up, it is not possible to marry.

Of course you can't get married! It's only been two years with him, and you're already so unhappy and insecure, wouldn't it be even worse if you married him?! Although there is such a way back as divorce, who doesn't think about long-term happiness when they get married.

If you have already found that you are an inappropriate person, it is better to break it off.

Do I just want to say you love him? If there isn't that selfless love, then you two break up!! Because marriage is not a trivial matter, it is not a good thing to be endlessly accommodating to him, unless you love him very much, you can be willing to accept everything he has!!

Shouldn't!!! Maybe he feels that there will be an extra burden in the future without you! So don't let such people go!

Be sensible, the reality of living in the future will definitely be greater than the emotional dependence.

All I can say is that he can't cherish you, not that he doesn't love you. But even if you love each other and have been together for two years, why is there any need for him to be together again if he doesn't cherish you. He said that this time he begged you to settle it, but it was his mistake first.

If he can't let go of a man's so-called dignity for you, then you really should stop paying attention to him. On the contrary, as a woman, you must be considerate of his face, and men have good face. But this should not be the time for you to struggle with yourself, let go of these things and make yourself relaxed.

I think he should be made to realize that he should take the initiative to save this two-year relationship.

01. Emotional instability.

For a person, emotions are very important, and a person's emotions determine what kind of state he is, which means what kind of life he will bring you. Those who lose their temper at every turn, and who are easily affected by external things, will not bring you happiness at all.

Because real married life is firewood, rice, oil and salt, it may be chicken feathers in one place. If a man can't control his emotions, then it may bring you harm.

Especially in real life, you often hear the voice of men's domestic violence and cold violence, although it is good for you when it is good, but you don't know what he looks like when it is bad, such a man is the most dangerous.

In fact, the best way to really judge whether a man is worthy of your trust is not to see how good he is to you when he is good, but how bad he is to you when he is not good.

When a woman enters marriage, she can't just want to find someone who is good to her and support each other to live a life. It may not be as romantic, but it will know the cold and the hot, which is good.

But being with an emotionally unstable man is to fall into an endless abyss, and there is no happiness at all. If you are soft-hearted and choose to forgive, you may be hurt in the long run. Therefore, women must stay away from emotionally unstable men.

Men who are particularly selfish, have no sense of responsibility and responsibility, have no ability to support their families, and have no combat effectiveness, etc., are not very good.

This kind of man has no sense of responsibility in the first place, and he is relatively passive in everything he does, and he doesn't love his wife or his woman, so he has a tendency to be violent This kind of man, you have to see that the character is the basis of the fan.

Eating, drinking, prostituting, gambling, smoking, cheating, stealing, lazy, slippery, and black!

1.Men who have a good relationship with a woman and have an ambiguous relationship are not suitable for marriage.

When a man is single, the relationship between the women is good, and that's fine. But when he falls in love, he still has a good relationship with women, and the relationship is so intimate that he doesn't care about the feelings of the object. Such a man will not have any sense of responsibility and will not take care of your emotions and will be more likely to break up.

Because men like the feeling of being noticed by a group of women rather than enjoying the feeling of being loved by women. Such a man is not suitable for marriage.

2.A hot and cold man is not suitable for you to marry.

Being hot and cold to you just means that he doesn't know you in his heart. When the temperature of your relationship periodically rises and falls again and again, it means that the man will only show his own enthusiasm when he needs you, completely ignore your feelings when he doesn't need you, and even feel that your intimacy with him is a nuisance. Then this kind of man is definitely not suitable for marriage.

Marriage doesn't want to be hot and cold, but it needs to be stable and happy!

3.Men who believe that men are superior to women are not suitable for marriage.

Although we were happy in the era of socialism, we all said that men and women were equal. But are they really equal? Many people still believe that men are superior to women.

Men who think this way are not suitable for marriage. Such a person will think that he is higher than you and only want you to give him a son instead of a daughter. Won't be considerate of you, and won't spoil you.

Now such a man is not suitable for a woman.

4.Men who are inconsiderate of women are not suitable for marriage.

If a man does not know how to be considerate of women and always lives in his own world, then such a man is not suitable for marriage. Marriage is a matter of two people, not yours alone. If you have any questions, you should communicate with your partner in a timely manner.

If you don't want to communicate with your partner on everything and don't want to make decisions alone, then this marriage is dispensable for you. 2.A person who bargains for his feelings.

5.A man who bargains for feelings is clearly not suitable for marriage.

Marriage requires the participation of both husband and wife. If you are in a relationship, do not give in to the other person, have problems, and no one wants to take responsibility and just want to avoid problems, then the relationship will not end. A person who bargains for feelings is a person who is not responsible.

Don't be too selfish with men. You should be considerate of a woman's difficulties.

A man who does not seek to be motivated and has a bad temper is the least worthy.

If it is said that when the relationship between the two of them warms up, that is, when they are in love, the girl is willing to marry such a man, but if after they get married, his family situation has always been like this, then the woman is also easily discouraged, that is, she will want to divorce. When you first start falling in love, everything is beautiful, and you will feel that it will change in the future, but when you really get married, you don't think so. That's why a lot of people get divorced.

If you don't want to marry a boy like this and feel that you don't have any responsibility, if you want to find a boy, you still have to find a man who is not willing to marry a boy like this, and you don't feel that you have any responsibility.

I don't want to, such a man has no responsibility at all, even if he can't work well, he should have fun living with a small salary.

If you don't want to, even if you get married, you won't be able to stay for long.

Explain that you already have an answer to your psychology, and if you are not sure about your psychology, don't marry if you have doubts.

A man who cares, a man who loves vanity, a man who is not self-motivated, and a man who does not work hard, such a man cannot marry.

In the first world of filial piety, some men are not allowed to marry each other, first of all, men who are violent to women, men who are not motivated, and men who are cold and violent to women.

has no sense of responsibility, no self-motivation, no responsibility, and a very bad temper, a man like Ma Baonan must not marry.

When a girl gets married, she must think carefully. If you marry the right person, you will be happy for a lifetime, and if you marry the wrong person, you may be bleak for the rest of your life. How do you think a man is worth entrusting for life? Whether a man is worth marrying depends on three points, and you can also look at a man who is not worth marrying from these four points.

1. Whether a man is worth marrying depends on three points

1.Planning for the future.

To see whether a man is worth marrying, you can look at his character. A man with good character has a good plan for his life and will move forward in a down-to-earth manner. A man with a bad character will only be opportunistic and have no plans for the future.

2.Husband and wife affection.

Whether a man is worth marrying or not, the most important thing is to see the relationship between you. If he is very good to you and will discuss everything with you, then it is worth entrusting. If he doesn't communicate with you much and is often cold and violent, then be cautious.

3.Family environment.

When choosing a marriage partner, you should not only look at the man, but also look at the man's family. The influence of the family of origin is very large, if you can live in harmony with the other party's family members, then you will be happy after marriage.

Two or four o'clock to see a man who is not worth marrying

1.What to do after a quarrel.

When the two live together, it is inevitable that there will be quarrels. Then when you quarrel, if he yells at you, or even does something, it is not worth marrying. If he takes the initiative to bow his head and coax you, it is worth entrusting.

2.Attitude towards your parents.

Filial piety comes first, and when girls choose a man, they must find a person who is filial to their parents. If he is not willing to take care of your parents and has a bad attitude in front of your parents, it will not be very good for you, then it is not worth marrying.

3.Values in life.

After the two get married, they will be a new family, and maybe they will start raising a baby. Then the other party's values should be positive and conducive to the healthy growth of the child. If it is a negative man, it is not worth marrying.

4.Whether it's your back.

Women need to be cared for, especially when they are sick. If you need to care, the other party can be by your side, and when you are a strong backing, then it is worth entrusting. If the other party always doesn't accompany you, it's not worth marrying.

Don't choose a random marriage partner just because everyone around you is married. If you are not a person worth marrying, it is better to live on your own than to get married.

In the past, parents generally liked to arrange marriages. Generations of women have become the meat shield of their offspring, so a woman's life mainly depends on her husband's family. I'm sure you've all heard the saying:

Life is so short, how can there be time to consume time", these words are deeply said to the hearts of all women. In reality, however, the perception of women has changed. A woman can also choose the qualifications of her other half, but she will still suffer from marriage for various reasons.

When choosing a husband, either stand behind happiness or fall into the bottomless abyss of marriage. Therefore, when choosing a husband before getting married, you must enlarge your eyes. Although you can't see through a man's character before getting married.

But we can often judge whether a man is good or bad based on key points, so as to prevent him from suffering the pain of marriage later!

Don't choose the following three types of men after marriage, otherwise you will really regret your life, take a good look with your eyes open! Don't choose a power man, give an example of what a power man is? A man dins with his wife and his friends, and they are all friends in the company, and the man's wife is worried about ordering some home-cooked stir-fry.

But when I came to the restaurant and was seen by my husband, I immediately changed to high-end steak and red wine. After that, the man's wife realized from that moment that she was just an ornament for her husband, and his existence was always a compliment to the man. So you have to meet his requirements at all times, or your presence will become worthless.

You don't have the right to make irresponsible comments about other people's values, but when choosing a husband, you must choose one that matches your three views.

Even if she is a good-looking and affectionate woman, after meeting a powerful man, she will also be depressed and mentally stated. Perhaps what attracts you to him is his meticulous dedication to the good life, and he thought that this kind of man would be able to enhance his aesthetic and his love of life. Teacher Chen Shu, an artist, once said a sentence:

The material addition and subtraction that needs to be done in daily life, the addition and subtraction of mental ingenuity", while the power man is diametrically opposed. Don't choose mom boys.

It's not wrong to be "Ma Bao Nan", commonly known as "Ma Bao Nan", after deep contact with him, you will find that you hear a sentence more often: "My mother." How", as if the world can't live without his mother, she doesn't seem to be kind to herself, but also for the sake of her mother at home.

Therefore, if you really marry this kind of man, your marriage will be full of bitterness, obviously, a man without assertiveness is so terrible for marriage!

A typical mom treasure man, he will obey his mother in everything, even if the two potato collapse have differences after marriage. He will also stand in his mother's perspective to reprimand and complain to his wife who enters the door, so you can only pretend to make up nonsense, if a woman really lives with such a weak and incompetent man, it is better to be comfortable and chic alone. Marriage is your own, how can you still let your mother plug in?

Married to Ma Bao Nan, grievances must be indispensable, and divorce is also a common occurrence.