What should you do when you suddenly find out that the person you like turns out to be disgusted wit

If I were you, I would leave ta

Instead of making him even more disgusted with himself, it's better to give up as soon as possible...Although it will be painful to give up....As long as you like them and be happy...You can silently pay attention to ta....Ta disgusted with you does not mean that others are hypocritical to you, you have to make friends with others, and you must trust your friends.

You please his family.

Whether it's a girl or a boy, they are eager to be loved in their relationship, and it's something to be happy about someone who likes them, even if such a like will make you feel burdened, but it shouldn't be enough to hate people who like you. But in reality, there is a kind of person who will be very disgusted with the other person once he likes him. Why do you hate people like you?

Many people have such distress.

In the eyes of ordinary people, it is a very happy thing for someone to like themselves, whether you like each other or not, someone likes you at least means that you are an attractive person. However, many people will find it a very disgusting and annoying thing to be liked. If there is someone around him who pursues him, he will inexplicably hate the other party, and even feel that the other party is disgusting, what is going on?

This kind of person who hates others like him has an exclusive name in psychology, called avoidant attachment personality, and people with this kind of personality basically have this reaction when they are liked.

As soon as this feeling is spoken, many people will feel the same and resonate. Originally, you don't hate this person, and even like him a little, but when the other party likes you, when he starts to approach you intentionally or unintentionally, you will be disgusted, and you will not want to deal with the other party anymore, and you will no longer want to treat the other party as a friend.

People with this kind of psychology and personality will think they are scum in the eyes of people who don't understand them, but in fact, they have an unknown lack of confidence and inferiority complex in their hearts. Such a person may subconsciously feel that he is not worthy of love, and will feel that how can someone like him be liked?

Avoidant attachment personality can also be called sexual unrequited, even if such a person has a crush, even if the object of their crush happens to like him, they may not be able to successfully fall in love. Because once he learns that his crush also likes him, they stop liking each other and even want to run away from the relationship. I like you can, but you can't like me, people with avoidant attachment personalities probably do.

Guidance, hello, generally need to carry out detailed examination, repair and conditioning, need to pay attention to the rationality of the diet, need to adjust their mentality, and need to strictly follow the doctor's instructions to wish good health.

Doctor asked: 201-10-082:01

Condition analysis: Hello, according to your description, consider that you are caused by psychological reasons, and you can also consider the possibility of kidney deficiency, guidance: Hello, according to your description, it is recommended that you go to see a Chinese medicine first, and take some Chinese medicine to regulate your body, in addition to usually pay attention to strengthening exercise, pay attention to regular work and rest, and do not stay up late.

Guidance: Hello. On the one hand, it is necessary to rule out congenital factors, and if there are no other abnormalities, it can be dispensed with.

If there are abnormalities in urination and other abnormalities at the same time, you can go to the hospital for a urine test and a B-ultrasound of the urinary system to confirm the diagnosis. After being diagnosed, you can take some traditional Chinese medicine to recuperate, you can take some tonifying and nourishing qi pills to try, pay attention to keeping warm, prevent cold, and don't eat spicy food.

Think that this is an emotional disorder, which may be related to your family environment, maybe it is that your parents cared too little about you when you were young, which is a social disorder and a sign of your lack of self-confidence. This is the case when you have a family of origin or your experiences as a child, which take a toll on your psyche. If you like him first, and then he likes you too, and then you don't like him, then there is another possibility that you are scum, it may be that you haven't met true love, you haven't met someone you really like, and when you meet someone you really like, it won't be like this.

In fact, in this case, many people on the Internet say that it is an avoidant attachment personality, that is, when you have a crush on someone else or an unrequited love for someone else, you will enjoy that feeling very much, but once someone responds, you will feel how he can like you, and then start to hate him, you will infinitely magnify his shortcomings, and see that he is not pleasing to the eye, but when you are unrequited in love with him, you will infinitely magnify his advantages and think he is very good. This is known as the avoidant attachment personality. It is actually a happy thing to be appreciated and liked, for many people, the person they like also likes themselves, it is really a very happy and worthy of celebration, but there will also be some people who will feel unhappy and even disgusted when they are liked by others, which is the avoidant attachment personality.

This kind of sexual unrequited love is caused by the lack of love, and it is generally difficult for them to have a good relationship, they are afraid of being confessed, afraid that others will like them, so they have always been alone, and their hearts are also very tangled and painful. It may be that they are very eager for the love of their parents when they are young, and they will be restless when they lack love, but when their parents come to comfort them, they will adopt an evasive attitude, because this mode of getting along when they were children leads them to use this mode to get along with others when they are adults, and use avoidance to relieve their inner anxiety.

In short, people with this kind of personality need more care from others, it is difficult for them to come out, and only enough warmth can relieve his inner uneasiness.

I think you're a very typical avoidant love symptom. You need to take your time to adjust to yourself, or when you meet someone you really like, that feeling will no longer exist.

It's because you don't really like each other, that's why you hate each other, and if you like someone, you won't hate them.

Maybe it's because you don't want to fall in love, maybe you don't like each other, so you hate each other very much, which is also a mental illness.

It may be because you don't like these people, and you don't cherish them when you get them.

There is a mental illness called lithromantic, or an emotional disorder. This kind of person just enjoys the feeling of chasing someone alone, once the other party responds to you, the heart will be very happy, but if the other party starts to pay the same emotion as you, they will start to feel very bored and leave.

If I'm not mistaken, you don't like these people who like you, you don't want to have too much intersection with the person who likes you, and it's even far-fetched to be friends.

When you know that someone else likes you, this other person may surprise you, as if you have not intersected, he may secretly pay attention to you when you are not paying attention, his like slowly sprouts, grows, and suddenly confesses to you when this relationship matures, or attracts your attention with various behaviors, or slowly approaches you.

You are embarrassed to stop him, maybe you are afraid of hurting him, or maybe he is the person you hate in the first place, and you don't want to say a word to him.

It is a disease of low self-esteem.

It always feels like people like you, but you don't have that kind of strength yourself.

Hello. I'm having a problem with this.

Hating others like oneself is a kind of emotional disorder. This kind of person just enjoys the feeling of chasing someone alone, once the other party responds to you, the heart will be very happy, but if the other party starts to pay the same emotion as you, you will start to feel very bored, and you will withdraw from it.

I hate that people like you because you simply don't look down on people who like you.

In fact, this is a kind of selfish psychology, that is, selfish behavior will hate others and like yourself. In fact, this kind of person always looks at others unpleasantly in his heart.

is simply to want to be liked by someone, this kind of heart belongs to the kind of performance of not being confident enough in yourself.

Normally. To be noticed and sought after, no matter who you are, you should be happy. Not to mention complacent, at least you should be full of joy, your situation should come from the heart, you can try to contact others more, after a long time, maybe the idea will change, the problem is not big.

Maybe it's a little depressed, go out and walk more.

This is a very sick psychology, it is good for others to like you, are you not confident, and you feel very weak?

It's certainly just in the heart. This kind of person is generally very selfish. This kind of person also has a relatively cold personality and is difficult to contact. It's also easy to underestimate people with this kind of person.

It's a personal personality problem, it has nothing to do with the horoscope, it may have something to do with your life experience, but I think there is something wrong with your outlook on life......

If others like you, they hate it.

Among the people who like you, there is no one you like.

Of course, the mentality is very important, and I hope that both parties will communicate more about each other's feelings.

Men and women get along, and people who truly love you will definitely not feel that what you do is what you should do. You have to know that those men who can't do without you will not just treat you as a wife in their mouths, but in their hearts they will treat you as a nanny.

I don't know why, when a brother of the opposite sex confesses to me, I will inexplicably pay attention to the way he looks at me and the frequency with which I look, and then I hate him more and more and want to stay away from him.

I believe that many people have encountered a problem, that is, for people who like themselves, they are very disgusted, and even very afraid to see, so my own temper is also like this, when others are pursuing me, if I don't like him, I will be very disgusted, and in daily life, I will try to avoid him as much as possible, then in fact, this kind of psychology is very normal, and the same is true for my friends around me.

In fact, there is a point, is afraid that the other party will see the bad side of themselves, because sometimes because we don't like him, so we don't want our problems to be too much in front of him, and we don't want him to come into his own life, so at this time I will feel very afraid of his meeting, or I feel more disgusted by his behavior, because he sometimes gets as close to us as possible, but at this time, we don't want to have too much contact with him, so at this time, one person chases and one person hides, That's definitely going to be disgusting.

This kind of behavior is also very normal in daily life, not only we are like this, in fact, we can observe that the friends around us, they are actually the same for people who like themselves, if we happen to like him, then of course we are, very welcome him into our lives, want to meet him, and even we ourselves will create a chance encounter, but if we don't like this person, we will definitely avoid, do not want to meet, Disconnect this part as much as possible.

In fact, this kind of psychology has a premise, that is, when he likes us, we don't like him, so at this time, we will go to avoid, afraid to see or even more disgusted, I myself have been like this many times before, because in the process of his pursuit of us, I don't like him, but he has always wanted to get closer, really want to enter my heart. When he really tried his best to reach out to me, I just felt very irritable, and I didn't want him to know so much.

It's normal to be disgusted by people who like you, and you're afraid to see them. The other party likes themselves, but they don't like each other, and then the other party will feel very disgusted and even a little disgusted by their own hospitality. The main reason for being afraid of seeing is that I am afraid of embarrassment, and I am also afraid that my resistance to the other party's emotions will have a bad impact on the other party.

It's normal. Because I am afraid of being misunderstood by others, I am afraid of causing some trouble to the other party, and when I am with the other party, I feel very embarrassed, so I will do this.

Not normal, of course. Because you have a special low self-esteem, and you are very sensitive, very concerned about the feelings of others, and very unconfident.

It's normal, because you don't like him very much, and you don't want to give the other person some hope, avoid him and avoid some embarrassing things.

Because you don't like them, you think they're annoying, you are around you all day long, and you're in a bad mood, so try to keep your emotions in check.