If you don t drink, you don t give face, how do you think you should deal with it?

On many occasions, if you don't drink, you will really be said to be disgraceful. In such a situation, it can be said that you are not feeling well, you can't drink, and if you drink too much, you will easily go to the hospital, and when you encounter such a topic, even if the other party wants you to drink again, they will not joke about your health.

Generally speaking, old classmates, old colleagues, and good friends know each other's alcohol consumption, and I often help my boss drink on their behalf. People who say that they don't drink are not giving face, they should not be classmates, colleagues and friends, they should be those who meet for the first time, meet in business or at the wine table, have a low level of education, or are contractors who have a windfall. If he touches me, he dares to say that if he doesn't drink, he won't give face, I will say, I don't know you, why do you give face?

If he doesn't give up, those two cups will knock him down. I can take a cup of beer, four taels of the village, and drink two glasses in a row. In this case, I advise to ignore him, this kind of person is not worth befriending.

You take the tea, or pour a little less wine, and say to him, I really can't drink, but I respect you very much, your face is not in this glass of wine, I wish you a smooth career, good health. In short, don't turn your face on the spot, but don't hurt your body for the so-called face of a person like him.

When you encounter an unreasonable person with an impure purpose, forcing you to drink, it is not to save face, but to make you lose face, it is nothing more than to see you submit to softness, beg him, and be wronged by his posture. Just want to use power to suppress people, not to save face at all, but to let him trample on your dignity. When you meet such a person, don't think that if you drink that glass of wine, he will give you face.

Meet a customer who forces you to drink. For example, if you drink this glass of wine, I will sign this list. It's all a market economy, and cooperation is based on profits.

It's not that era, giving you a stamp is a huge benefit, that's why there is a story of a glass of wine and a ton of steel. You can't drink alcohol, or replace it with tea. I really can't drink, I use tea instead of wine, because I do a good job of your list, so that both parties can achieve a win-win situation, is the biggest face.

There are old classmates who haven't seen me for a long time, and they want to salute me with a glass and say in front of a table of classmates that if they don't drink, they won't give him face, no way, drink it. With the first one, there is a second, all the same words, face has to be given, a circle is basically a little dizzy, the general environment at the wine table at that time is to see who has the ability to put down whom, I am also honest, drinking is real, fortunately, the amount of alcohol at that time can withstand it. The friends I met in the society, who were younger than me, felt strange and comfortable when I was called a brother, and then I was given a glass to save face.

A brother who is older than me says that I have more ability than him to give me a face, but I can't help it, drink it.

If I don't want to drink when I'm drinking, you say: If you don't drink, you won't save face. So, I'm determined not to drink, and if I don't give face, I won't give face.

You didn't give me face in the first place, so you should respect me if I don't drink it. There is a difference between toasting and forcing a drink.

Directly say that you don't know how to drink, if you still persuade you, just say that you are allergic as soon as you drink, and it is good to replace wine with tea. Now there are very few people who go out to dinner to persuade them to drink, and everyone knows the roots, so it's good to be casual.

Someone at the wine table: "If you don't drink, you won't give me face", how to reply elegantly?

At the wine table, especially in the business wine field, it is often difficult for someone to make it difficult to talk about things with face, and the common phrase is "if you don't drink it, you just don't give me face". Everyone thinks that their face is so big, and they can crush others to death with their own palm-sized face. In reality, there are indeed some people with good faces, who give face to others, don't give themselves the lining, "bang" a mouthful, and their stomachs bleed.

I drank something wrong, but I couldn't find the person who "wanted to save face" to pay for the medical expenses. It's silly inside and out.

The leader toasts, and he doesn't need him to give him face, do you dare not drink it? I remember that I was transferred to the higher department to help for half a year, and it was time to go back to the original unit, and the leader of the higher department said that everyone would have a farewell banquet for you tonight. I drank a lot at the wine table, and the leader finally raised the wine glass to salute me, I really can't drink it, and the leader said this sentence, if you don't drink it, you won't give me face!

What else to say, drink! I was so drunk that I heard the leader say that it was a good job, and I would have the opportunity to transfer you up in the future.

Drinking and not driving, driving without drinking, today is really helpless.

You just said that your face is only worth a glass of wine, so I won't drink it!.

If you don't drink, you don't give face. So if I drink it, will I lose face? There is something wrong with this statement.

Saying such things, I think they are people who are not worthy of deep friendship. There is really no need to force others to come to this thing, if you can drink it, others will naturally drink it, and if you don't want to drink it, why force others?

If you don't drink, you don't give face, and I personally think that's not the case, and face can't be measured by wine.

Now at the parties of good friends, most of them advise me to drink, so every time I go, I drive, and when they persuade me to drink, I say that it is not safe for me to drink by car.

No wine, no feasts, no cigarettes, no topics. "In today's society, a lot of business and friendship are based on eating. As long as it's a meal, you have to drink it, because wine is the standard for socializing.

Socializing is inseparable from wine, and even some business and friendships are established at the wine table. So, in the entertainment venues.

Drinking alcohol has become a default custom in the minds of many people. However, not everyone at a real dinner party is a huge crowd. There are always people who don't drink alcohol and even hate it.

But when the leader or customer toasts, the other party wants to force others to drink with "don't drink, don't give face". If you don't handle it well at this time, it may make the other party unhappy and even affect your business or future. So what should you do when you encounter this situation?

1. Let the leader know at the beginning that you never drink.

If you don't plan to drink at a party from the beginning, then from the first day you meet someone, you have to tell them in a public way that you can't drink, but the main thing is that you can't just say that you can't drink, but that you have some kind of physical problem and are not suitable for drinking. That way, you don't drink alcohol in the entertainment venue, and no one will embarrass you. Even if a customer is toasted, the company will explain to them why they can't drink.

At the wine table, many young people who don't drink directly refuse to toast the leader, but they offend the leader, because they don't know that they drank many times at the wine table and dinner table before, and now the leader toasts them, they think you have no face. So you can let the leader know in the first place that you never drink.

2. Explain your attitude to the leader first.

Before drinking, you can say to the leader, such as "Mr. Liu, I am a newcomer, I don't know how to drink, how much I drink."

Limited. However, as a new employee, I do need to make a statement, but my alcohol consumption is really average. If I get drunk for a while, don't mind.

First of all, I will pave the way for the leader and lower my psychological expectations, so that even if the leader comes back to persuade me to drink, there will be a reason to shirk it. That's all that goes for the general leader.

Led me to drink and get red rashes, I really can't drink it. I salute you with tea instead of wine. As long as you say that you will get sick if you drink, no one will force you to drink.

You tell the leader that you are allergic to alcohol and that you will go to the hospital after taking a sip of wine, and then the leader will not persuade you.

At this time, you can say that you are allergic to alcohol, and you can say that you can't make a fuss for a glass of wine, and you should stick to your bottom line.

You tell the leader that you are allergic to alcohol, and you have to go to the hospital immediately after taking a sip, which will endanger your life.

First of all, you can tell your leader that you really can't drink, and you may behave out of control after drinking, so you can use tea instead of wine to show respect for the leader.

Point 1, if this is the case, you can drink a little bit appropriately, point 2 but you must emphasize that you should not drink too much, and point 3 is the best way to deal with it, that is, you should use salt to prevaricate.

For such a situation, we should first accept the requirements of the leader, and pay attention to giving the leader enough face when making a transition.

After being persuaded to drink by the leader, you can tell the leader that you are not feeling well and that you are currently taking medication. At this time, the leader will no longer persuade everyone to drink, because once you drink alcohol, it may also affect everyone's body. At this time, it will affect everyone's work, and it will also affect the development of the company.

I believe that in the process of work, you will inevitably encounter a dinner party. At this time, there are some leaders who like to persuade employees to drink very much, and after encountering this situation, everyone does not know how to refuse the leader. Because many people can't drink alcohol, they may develop allergies once they finish drinking.

If the allergy is very serious, it can even lead to life-threatening conditions. So at this time, you can tell the leader that you can't drink. Because everyone is allergic to alcohol, after drinking, you may have to go to the hospital for infusion or go directly to the hospital**.

At this time, the leader will no longer persuade everyone to drink, because this will also affect the next day's work. <>

After encountering such a situation, you can also tell the leader that you are not feeling well and are currently taking medication**. This will not make the leader feel embarrassed, and at the same time, the leader will stop persuading him to drink. Because everyone knows that drinking alcohol after taking drugs can have a particularly big impact on the body, and even cause many people to lose their lives.

As a result, many people will no longer try to drink in this way, because it will also have a particularly serious effect. And after drinking, it may also affect the next work. <>

Many people are reluctant to drink alcohol during dinner parties, because everyone knows that drinking too much alcohol will also have a great impact on the body. But after being persuaded by the leader to drink, everyone couldn't bear to refuse, because everyone was afraid that their behavior would make the leader feel very faceless. But in the process, you can try to say no in a different way.

If it's a girl, you can also make it clear that it's inconvenient for you to drink. If it is a boy, you can also tell the leader that he is currently preparing for pregnancy.

You can tell the other party that you do have allergies if you drink alcohol in your life, and if the other party is not afraid of your allergies, you can drink it yourself.

You can tell the other person that you are allergic to alcohol and can't drink a sip of alcohol, as long as you take a sip, you will go to the hospital immediately.

You can say that you are allergic to alcohol, or you can say that your wife at home is pregnant and needs to go back to take care of her, etc.

First, if you have an expectation of the wine game in advance, tell your colleagues in advance that there is something to do, and find an opportunity to "smear oil on the soles of your feet". And when it's most likely to find you, turn off your phone. It is not surprising that those who do not know this.

The leader asked, explained the reason, and said that the mobile phone was out of battery, so it could naturally be covered. This is called "Thirty-six Strategies for the Top".

The second is that the leader has specially instructed you to give notice in advance, and if you are looking for a reason to leave temporarily, it will make the leader feel that you do not care about the overall situation. Maybe it will annoy the leader. At this time, you can readily agree first.

Behind the scenes, call ** to your family or playmates, and ask them to call a ** before the banquet starts, saying that there is something urgent at home, so that in front of the leaders and guests, let the leaders figure out what is going on. Then, 100,000 anxiously asked to leave. This is called "intimacy".

Third, if you can't escape, then simply sit down, pretending to be uncomfortable, but don't look like you're leaving. When you start drinking, take a big sip and then spit it out in a gulp as if you were very uncomfortable. soiled the table and chairs, and said that he was extremely unwell recently.

When the leader sees the table and chairs dirty, he naturally feels disappointed, but he can't blame you. You are now asking to see a doctor or to rest. Naturally, the leader will not keep you anymore.

This is called "golden cicada shelling".

Fourth, he usually expresses in front of the leader that he hates eating and drinking the most, and expresses disdain for eating and drinking in other units, so that when the leader thinks of your attitude and appearance, he is not willing to call you to accompany him. This is called "preemptive strike".

Fifth, prepare a physical examination certificate on a regular basis, no matter who it is, you can roughly change it to your own name. As long as it is about this "inflammation" and that "disease", this "high" and that "low", solemnly take it out in front of the leader and explain the reason why you can't get drunk. If the leader says that you don't have to drink, the key is to make up the atmosphere, you just need to be resolute and say that you should let a colleague who is in better physical condition go.

Naturally, the leader was speechless. This is called "making something out of nothing".

"Your face is not only reflected in this glass of wine, but don't be so presumptuous. ”

Now, with the development of society, in fact, the behavior of persuading alcohol is no longer common, but it is still not completely eradicated. Therefore, there are still many people who will encounter the situation of being persuaded to drink. Party A to Party B, customers to sales, friends to friends, and bosses to subordinates will all use this sentence to "hold" you.

Walking in the workplace, the wine is sad. When others say this, they can be stubborn, it's just a big deal to lose a business or a friend, but if the superior says this to you, it's a matter of losing your job.

If you can't drink alcohol, you can prepare in advance, such as bringing medicines, such as cephalosporin. As we all know, you can't drink alcohol while taking medicine, so the other party can't say anything more. The second is a hippie smile, high praise and low down, that is, to lift the leader to the sky and benefit himself.

It can be said that your face is bigger than the Pacific Ocean, and my glass of wine is just a drop of seawater, and your face is not worse than this one. He smiled, and it passed. The third is to be hard-headed, and there are people who don't give me face, and there are not many people who don't give face, and this glass of wine is counted once.

I can't really drink, I do my best at work, I can't do anything about drinking.

In fact, this kind of thing can't be beaten to death with a stick, and the necessary entertainment should still be participated, whether it is to enhance the relationship or to get closer to the business relationship. Because they are afraid of drinking, they will give up eating because they choke, and they cannot be afraid of drinking, so they will refuse necessary entertainment. Many successful people are also not drunk at all, and they are still good at dancing with long sleeves at the wine table.

If you can't drink, it depends on the nature of the drink, and if everyone is casual, you can drink a little in moderation. If the wine game may be a "vicious battle", remember not to serve a glass from the moment it is served, and you can understand that you do not drink from beginning to end. Don't start without drinking, if you drink as soon as the leader persuades you later, you just drink and vomit, and you don't deserve sympathy.

The most important thing in the wine game is to keep your bottom lineYou can't give up on your actual situation just because of what the leader says. You drink it on the spot, and everyone is having a good time, but you're going to have a hard time for a few days. If you don't drink it, it's over, and the next day the leader forgets everything, and you can do what you want.

Some leaders may "apologize" to you the next day, cough, you drank yesterday, are you okay? It is rare to encounter a leader who "remembers the overnight feud", and the relationship between superiors and subordinates will not be broken with a glass of wine, otherwise it means that the relationship itself is very fragile.