How to survive alone in a strange city

At all times, you have to be sure that since you have chosen to come to this city, you have to be true to your choice. No matter how difficult it is, not allowing yourself to regret it is the medicine to face all difficulties. We have to overcome ourselves first, then others, and then the environment.

In order to save one trip, human beings can take down a lot of things that seem to be impossible to take, remember this scene that we often encounter in daily life.

He is telling us that human endurance is much more than we think, and that the key lies in whether we are willing to do it.

There is no method that can be taught, everyone has different methods and different environments, I can't tell you how to meet new people, I can only tell you to be more wary of others in a strange city, we must be kind to others, but we must recognize others. You must not go to the trouble for this person in an unfamiliar situation and pay money to restore your life.

It's much easier to get acquainted with the environment. On weekends, take a car to the bustling city and visit the city's famous parks. You'll have to learn to get acquainted with the city before you can fall in love with it and not feel alone.

Belief is the most important thing. We need to be kind and wise together.

The most basic is of course the Fellow Townspeople's Association.

And then there are colleagues, living classmates.

That is to use the strength you have to find someone for help. Finding a way to make others feel like not helping you is a big mistake in his life.

If you're rich, that's pretty fine.

If you don't have the money, it's basically all a problem.

For example, if you don't know the road well, it will waste a lot of your time and energy.

It's okay in the big cities, but if you go to some small cities in the dialect area, where everyone speaks the dialect, you will have a big communication problem.

You also have to consider the local culture and customs, and it may also cause you trouble to buy things or ask passers-by, and you may not be able to say it at once, and if you are stolen by someone in the field, then you will be in great trouble, and you are afraid that when there are many problems, your mobile phone will suddenly run out of battery or be stolen and lose contact with the outside world, then you can cry.

Even if you get over all these problems, in the first few days without anyone you know locally, you'll be lonely and have a feeling of abandonment.

Anyway, you have to do your homework before you go, and you have to be more careful after you go, and that's all I can think of, I hope it will help you.

When I was growing up, I was accompanied by classmates and good friends at school, and I was accompanied by relatives when I returned home. I have never left a familiar place, and suddenly I have to go to an unfamiliar city alone, I will feel flustered and uneasy. I think about what the city will look like in my heart, and I will have to rely on myself for the rest of my life.

Leaving home, and leaving everything you know. However, the things in front of you, the environment, and the people in the city are very unfamiliar. Thinking about it from now on, I will be alone in **, and whenever the night comes, I will cry silently.

I miss my distant home, and I was reluctant to communicate with others at first, but I slowly got used to it. I found new friends to chat with and had fun together.

A person went to a strange city alone, from the countryside of his hometown to live in a small city, but there are still times in life that he is a little helpless, all kinds of sourness are only clear to himself, some people are studying outside, some people are working outside, the world is so big that no matter how comfortable the bed is not home, but we always have to experience a time far away from our hometown for the sake of our current life and distant fields, most adults live like this, hide tired eyes and sad feelings, do not want their parents to worry about and do not want passers-by to watch, So even if it's not so good, I still say that I live well, those friends who are full of stories, but they have lived out the chic self of the circle of friends, loneliness, helplessness, pessimism is synonymous with a strange life, and tenacity, maturity, and self-confidence are the harvest after going through difficulties, I hope we can all meet very good friends in a strange city, make a like-minded other half, achieve satisfactory achievements, and get rid of strangeness as soon as possible!

Longing, confusion, old dreams, new life. For the first time, I embarked on a journey alone from my hometown, uprooted from my hometown, and was full of expectations for the outside world. With naivety.

With dreams and expectations, I came to Harbin to complete my university life. Imaginary Harbin, some beautiful winter, snowflakes drifting, a big world of ice and snow, attracting countless tourists. Thereupon.

With a dream. With a vision, I came to Harbin. The freshman year was unconsciously squandered by himself, watching other people's lives full of fulfillment.

I can't help but feel a little confused in my heart, as if I have forgotten my original intention, I don't know anything about my future, what am I for? What do you want to do after that? How do you choose your own path in life?

Some are not the belief to move forward. It's all kinds of excuses to avoid problems, as if I'm dreaming, but. The protagonist of the dream is no longer me, but I have become that familiar stranger.

Occasionally, I suddenly found that I was getting farther and farther away from the right track, and I saw my roommate's early and greedy for darkness, and I was rational and saved myself. That time, another dream, this time. I dreamed of the self who left home at the beginning, my eyes were full of light, I remembered the vow I made, and suddenly found that my former self had walked to the edge of the whirlpool, just a little bit, and fell into the abyss.

Finally, I found the self that likes to be more honest and like to explore. On the way to pursue our dreams, we will always encounter all kinds of pitfalls, which may make us lose our way and forget ourselves, and your choices at the crossroads will change our lives. Every time you can't hold on and want to give up, think about why you insist on what you are doing and what you want!

Strange city, unknown confusion. Actually, we are lucky because we at least have a chance to pursue our dreams. Isn't it?

Strange city, familiar corner. Loneliness, loneliness is inevitable. Stay away from your familiar surroundings and familiar people. Everything is so strange, in a strange place, fear arises spontaneously. But you still have to face it bravely, this is the helplessness of life.

In fact, everyone's psychological feelings are different, some people feel that they can create a new world, and some people dare not face the future life, but as far as I am concerned, talk about my thoughts; I'm a person who prefers to be quiet in my heart and doesn't like tossing, and if I go to a strange city, I will definitely feel unaccompanied, and the loneliness will double, which is an inevitable event, because I also need comfort. You need to be more taken care of your work, but there are hidden mysteries in the workplace, not everything is as expected, and you are walking on thin ice every day. Develop dead friends and diplomacy as soon as possible, let yourself get rid of this strangeness as soon as possible, and face it bravely, because any fear has to be solved, crying can't solve the problem, each of us needs to deal with different strangers, so as to increase their communication skills, adaptability, language skills, and social skills.

In a word: fear, loneliness, helplessness, but you must be strong, brave, decisive, and agile.

I once went to Qingdao alone because of business! It is undeniable that Qingdao is a beautiful coastal city, and it takes only a few minutes to walk to the seaside after getting off the train! Since I grew up in the inland and never seen the sea, the first feeling I felt when I saw the sea for the first time was shocking!

Boundless, vast! The beautiful trestle bridge, the soft sand, the deep water, the churning sea, and the European-style buildings on the coast all gave me an unprecedented shock as a foreigner! No matter how good the scenery is, it is ordinary, and I have to face the reality when I have just started the excitement period!

In order to achieve the performance task, I have no intention of scenery, running between customers and the station every day, the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and the strangeness of the environment, I gradually feel tired, and the biggest feeling is loneliness and hesitation. No one to talk to you, no one cares about everything about you, you have to face everything alone! But after a long time, I gradually got to know more people, and I slowly walked out of loneliness and loneliness!

It also gave me time to re-appreciate the beauty of the city! Later, every time I went to Qingdao on a business trip, I always felt like I was back in my hometown, because I already had people and things I was familiar with! And, of course, the beautiful sea that once shocked me!

Since I started high school, I have lived away from home, and I have been very uncomfortable from the countryside to the city, and then I have gone to the city in college, and I feel very lonely many times. There are very few friends, and there are only one or two who can talk. For a long time, dealing with people outside has been bland, and even taking care of this and that, everyone basically starts from their own interests when they talk and do, and they can't talk about any feelings.

There is also little communication with the family, after all, the parents do not understand their own situation, and they do not understand when they say it. It is best to make a few close friends. Those who can tell the truth and help each other will not be so lonely and powerless in life.

However, it is difficult to meet such a person with such a good character and personality after working.

When you first arrive in a strange place, you must have figured out the most basic aspects of clothing, food, housing and transportation.

You get to **, the city is different.