What do you think about students giving gifts to teachers?

I am a teacher myself, and if a student wants to give me a gift, first I am very happy, and then I see what kind of gift, if it is a bouquet of flowers, I will accept it, and if it is a possibility, I will definitely decline. As a mother, I am also preparing gifts for kindergarten teachers, buying some handmade materials, and planning to let my children make handmade flowers with me to give to the teachers to express my gratitude.

Although the Ministry of Education has severely criticized and cracked down on the phenomenon of teachers receiving gifts, there are still many teachers who accept gifts. When students give gifts, they are grateful, but if the teacher asks the students for gifts, it will damage the teacher's image.

As a teacher, I think it's okay to stop in moderation, but it's not okay to compare. Courtesy is light and affectionate. Exchanges can promote affection. If you care about it, you can understand it with your heart, good friends are like-minded, and friends you like take the initiative to make friends.

Encourage unhealthy trends, children sent to school, should be normally educated and helped by teachers, gifts to teachers, nothing more than want teachers to take care of more, do not suffer, in fact, you do not send, teachers should also be treated normally, a lot of bad atmosphere is made in this way, I do not advocate, do not let children for this atmosphere and affect the growth.

It depends on what kind of gift, such as a carnation or a handmade card. If it's something else, there's no need. I don't think the teacher will be okay because you didn't express it. If only the teacher understood the student's mind!

People are more angry than people, and preparing gifts is a troublesome matter. What to send, how much to send, how to send, and what to do if you don't receive it, are all very difficult to deal with.

Send it away. In fact, it doesn't matter if you send it or not, but what, you're so tossed, tossed until the teacher agrees, you suddenly don't send it, do you want to make people happy?

Show your preferences, care and care, and impress each other with a sincere heart. Regardless of men and women, students and teachers, who have a common language, can communicate and communicate more in work and study, and have help, it is naturally easy to become good friends and partners.

I used to be a student, but now I am a teacher. I guess I know it best!

When I was a student, to be precise, a graduate student, I didn't know how to give gifts to my tutor at the beginning, even if I brought some hometown specialties or something, I didn't know what to say, and when I saw the students around me giving the teacher something during the New Year's holidays, I gave some special products (in fact, it was only a few hundred dollars, compared to others' thousands, it was not a problem). In fact, I didn't think much about it at the time, but I didn't expect that there were many things that needed to trouble the tutor later, such as the reimbursement of scientific research funds, the problem of publishing expenses, and a series of times when the tutor needed to sign or the tutor needed strong support. Finally, the graduate level is considered to be a successful graduation.

Now after graduation, there are many people who need troublesome mentors, and mentors are also very helpful. So when I feel appropriate, I still need to give some gifts or something.

Now that I am a university teacher, I often face the situation of parents giving gifts. To be honest, for new teachers who have just entered the teaching profession, they were very reluctant at first in the face of parents' gifts, but later after seeing other people around them and seeing the nature of China's humane society. The heart gradually began to accept, and the gifts received were also some local specialties of the students or the parents of the students invited the teachers to have a meal or something, all of which were about a few hundred yuan.

But there is a rule that you should never take money. After receiving the gift from the parents, the students will indeed take extra care of the students' life and learning, such as the evaluation of excellence, under the same conditions, these students who have given gifts to the teacher will undoubtedly be given priority, as well as a series of things such as students asking for leave, being late or sick, etc., the teacher will be extra attentive. Of course, these students who have given me gifts are generally more obedient students in the class, and they are motivated students.

As for those students who are naughty and mischievous, disobedient, and even against you, even if it is a mountain of gold and silver, I don't think I will give it away, let alone accept it.

This is human nature, which can make teachers feel comforted, and can also maintain a good friendship between teachers and students, so it is normal to give gifts.

I don't think it's a big deal, the parents of the children give gifts to the teacher, just hoping that the teacher can treat their children better, this is actually human nature, and whether the teacher will accept it, whether it should be accepted is another question.

I think a lot of people think this way is very wrong, because it will cause teachers to have a bad disagreement, and it will also have a certain impact on their own children.

Students give gifts to teachers, and the gifts are not valuable, and the teachers do not violate the rules when they receive them.

The places to pay attention to when giving gifts to teachers are:

1. Don't give too expensive gifts, it will seem too utilitarian, most of them will be rejected by the teacher, and it will be a burden to yourself. The ** of the gift is not the main determining factor, and some of the gifts made by themselves are particularly touching to the teacher.

2. Remember to remove the price card and the store's bag, no matter how inexpensive the gift itself is, it is best to wrap it in wrapping paper, and sometimes the subtle places can show the heart of the giver.

3. Don't ask other parents what gifts they give, let alone compare, the gift only represents some thoughts, and does not mean that the teacher who accepts the gift will take special care of your baby.

4. Don't give some unrealistic gifts to the teacher, such as dresses or high-end jewelry, etc., and consider whether the teacher can use the gifts you give in daily life.

How to celebrate Teacher's Day:

1. In terms of schools, there is a Teacher's Day celebration and commendation meeting to award bonuses and certificates to teachers; Organize school students, song and dance troupes, etc., to present song and dance performances for teachers; There are visits, condolences to teacher representatives, and the organization of new teachers to take a collective oath and other activities.

2. In terms of students, there are spontaneous participation through original participation, and the blessings are written on board newspapers, greeting cards, and paintings; Some posted group photos and event testimonials to their personal space and Weibo to express their sincere wishes and heartfelt greetings to teachers.

In my opinion, giving gifts is love, not giving is duty. The gift giving itself is neutral, there is no good or bad, the key is to look at the purpose of the giver and the mentality of the recipient. There are many ways to express gratitude, and I personally think that gift-giving is the way that most people will choose, because it is a more convenient way to express it, and this is not to question the friendship of the giver to the teacher, but to look at the gift from a more objective perspective.

Some people will suggest that gift-giving is also a university question, and gifts should be given well and skillfully. Indeed, in the matter of gift-giving, the choice of when to give and what to give are worldly and exquisite. However, experience tells us that it is right to send expensive.

Therefore, when people trouble others or have a request for others, they generally feel that if they buy a valuable item and give it away, the favor will be over. I think everyone is sincere in repaying the teacher's kindness, so we should analyze the specific situation in this matter, and the most inexplicable thing in the human society is feelings. Gift-giving can only be one of the ways you can repay your teacher, not the only way you have to do it.

If you want to give it yourself, you don't need to care about other people's eyes, are you expressing kindness for others to see?

At the same time, not giving gifts to teachers can not be said to be disrespectful or unkind to teachers, according to reason, teachers are teaching and educating people's profession, work ethics require them to preach and teach to solve doubts, and educating moral education and wisdom is a good job requirement for teachers.

In terms of attitudes towards teachers, there is a difference between China and the West, teachers and students can talk on an equal footing, while China emphasized respect for teachers in ancient times, and if you want to respect teachers as much as you want to honor your parents, this view of teachers and students has merits and dross. Therefore, from the perspective of social role division, it is not necessary to give a gift to a teacher, this is the obligation of the profession as a teacher, from the perspective of personal personal relations, whether you give it or not, you don't need others to look at it, this is your personal right.

In fact, this matter is understandable, after all, every parent wants to make their children learn better and become better, so they will give gifts to teachers, hoping that teachers can. Focus on cultivating your own children, but it's not better for teachers to receive gifts. If the teacher is responsible, it should be injected into every child, rather than because parents give gifts, resulting in a preference for one child.

This depends on what kind of gift you give, such as sending a greeting card on Teacher's Day and sending a bouquet of flowers. I think it's okay, the teachers work so hard, and we take this holiday to thank them. But if it is the kind of comparative gift giving of parents, it is very bad, which will not only bring pressure to some families with ordinary conditions, but also bring bad social atmosphere.

If it is a gift to a teacher on a day like Teacher's Day, I think this is a psychology of gratitude, because the teacher teaches us knowledge, and we return a little heart to the teacher. But if it's a gift on a regular basis, I don't think it's normal.

Parents in modern society want their children to receive more attention and care, which is why this phenomenon occurs. But the profession of a teacher is meant to treat every student fairly and justly, and if gift-giving can be changed, then the saying that teachers are engineers of the human soul should be understood.

First of all, as a teacher, you should not pick up gifts from children, even if you can treat them fairly, but parents don't think so, although it is a piece of the child's heart. But the child should focus on his studies. It is not advisable to give gifts to teachers, unless the money for the gifts you are giving now after graduation is earned by your parents, if you want to thank teachers for their education, please use the money you earned.

In ancient China, there was the habit of respecting teachers and teaching, giving gifts to teachers to express their gratitude to teachers, and now parents give gifts to teachers generally mean that teachers take care of children's learning situation, in that is, adjusting the seats or something, and there are other parents who have given gifts themselves to give gifts for fear that teachers will ignore their children, and now the meaning of gift-giving is completely contrary to the original intention of gift-giving.

Giving gifts to teachers is an incorrect behavior, but you can also experience the mood of parents, my colleague gave moon cakes to the child's teacher during the Mid-Autumn Festival, he was worried that the teacher was not good for the child, and he was afraid that others would give gifts and he would not give a difference, but I do not approve of this behavior.

I don't think it really should be like that, after all, being a teacher is a relatively sacred profession, and we don't need to give him gifts.

It's better to give him more care and respect. This will not be too abrupt, and it will make him less stressed.

Teaching is a sacred profession, and in daily learning, the teacher plays not only a gardener, but also a parent who takes care of our food and clothing. So teachers are very hard, I think on Teacher's Day, students to give teachers a little gift is still acceptable, this is a piece of the students' heart to the teacher! However, if you give a more expensive gift to a teacher as a parent of a classmate, then this kind of behavior is a kind of contempt for the teaching profession!

Personally, I still haven't given a gift to a teacher. But I've seen it before. Now the education industry, whether it is kindergarten, middle and high school or even college, may have this phenomenon. But just because we don't do it doesn't mean that others don't do it.

I am a teacher, I am especially against parents giving gifts to teachers, which has a very bad impact on the teacher's own image, do not accept it, parents will worry that you are not good for his child, accept it, and greatly reduce the teacher's character. On the other hand, it is also very detrimental to the growth of children, who have believed that money is omnipotent since childhood. The child also has the psychology of comparison, comparing with each other, my mother sent 500 yuan, your father bought a gold necklace, and his grandfather sent the teacher and the whole family on a few days trip.

Wait a minute. A teacher's profession is to teach students, we will treat them equally, and the parents' money is also hard work, it is better to buy more materials and supplements for the children, don't give gifts to the teacher, make the teacher embarrassed.

There will be this situation because of the teaching of the teacher's day, thinking that this is a festival for the teacher, thinking that the teacher will teach us for the profession, and will more or less give some small gifts to the teacher.

Teachers have a festival every year, and the previous teachers are teaching and educating people, and their ideas are very simple, and they will teach their students well, learn well, and have a better future in the future, which will make teachers feel very proud and proud.

One. However, with the changes of the times and the growth of material conditions, many teachers' thinking has also undergone many subtle changes. They don't just give for free, but they also feel that there should be a greater reward, so just a simple compliment doesn't mean much to them.

Two. Some teachers will feel that if you thank me with practical actions, I will be happier to recognize my efforts. Therefore, some teachers not only become a teacher in school, but even open some tutoring classes outside of school, requiring students to attend their tutoring classes to learn.

Therefore, this kind of teacher status has evolved into a kind of remuneration and unconditional implementation that must be paid.

The red line needs to be constantly reiterated and reminded so that parents and teachers realize that receiving gifts and gifts are illegal, respecting teachers and teaching, not in gifts, how much there is no speech, but in the understanding and support of teachers' work, in guiding children to grow and become talents, teachers' contributions, and more importantly, the relevant systems on the Internet make receiving gifts impossible. Touching the high-voltage line.

This incident has been noted by the local education bureau, and an open letter has also been issued, calling on the parent committee to resist this unhealthy trend and reject all kinds of disguised bribery violations. Parents give gifts to teachers, such things are still relatively common in daily life, but most of them are ordinary daily necessities, or vegetables and fruits. Although the Jiaokuan Pickpocket Festival is of great significance to teachers, there will also be students, including some students' parents, who take the initiative to prepare gifts for teachers, but it is not mandatory, but a voluntary behavior.

This parent may be regarded as an outlier in the entire parent committee, because everyone else agrees with an attitude, so it has been attacked by all the parent committees. You must know that the teacher is the representative of teaching and educating people, so he will not approve of such gift-giving.