In marriage, no matter how rich you are, what kind of man can t you marry?

I think that no matter how rich I am, I can't marry a man who is not self-motivated and enterprising, I can't marry a man who is scheming, I can't marry a man who is lazy, and I can't marry a man who is addicted to gambling.

You can't marry those particularly lazy men, marry such a man, even if your conditions are particularly good, the other party does not work hard to forge ahead, the other party does not seek to improve, and after a long time, it will definitely be easy to squander your wealth.

You can't marry a man who is short-tempered and beats people, because everyone has principles and bottom lines, and good material things only bring about an improvement in living standards, and mental pleasure can maintain physical and mental health.

Even if your economic conditions are very good, you can't marry an unmotivated man, such a man is unreliable, and will only consume your enthusiasm and love and hurt yourself.

You can't marry a man who is selfish. Because this kind of man often only sees himself, he will not put his wife, children and family first, and will only resent others when he encounters things. So this kind of man can't be married.

Unmotivated and self-righteous men. Because an unmotivated man, he will not work hard to fight for it, and he will not plan his own future.

In fact, you can't marry a phoenix man, because it is easy to make your life unhappy.

The old man always said that women are afraid of marrying the wrong man! That's right, whether it was before or now, what women are most afraid of is marrying the wrong person. Marriage is the biggest thing in a person's life, and it is true that you should be cautious, especially women, if you choose the right man, you can be happy for a lifetime, and if you choose the wrong one, then your life will be full of hardships.

If you marry one of the following three types of men, you should be prepared to live a poor life, especially the last one that you cannot marry.

In this society where "the strong win, the weak lose", if a man does not have a skill, how can he gain a foothold in society! A man has a skill in order to get a good job and earn money to support his family. What will happen to a man who has nothing but limbs and does the lowest level of work?

Women must keep their eyes open to find a man, such a man who has nothing to do, don't marry, marry you can be poor for a lifetime, a lifetime of hardship.

I remember when I was in elementary school, my teacher asked us to write down what we wanted to do when we grew up, which was "what my dream is". It is very ethereal to talk about ideals when we were children, but the key is not to ask everyone to talk about ideals, but to let us learn to shape our own life goals. A man cannot be without ideals, ambitions, and life plans.

Even if you can't finish it, at least you will work hard and work hard. If you choose a man who doesn't have ideals, then you will definitely be poor for the rest of your life.

If a man who is lazy and lazy, will anyone want to marry? Could it be the rich second generation? The rich second generation will also eat the poor in the family.

When choosing a man, you must see clearly, what kind of person he is, a man who is lazy must not want, whether he is a rich second generation or a poor second generation, marrying such a person will also make you poor for a lifetime. A man who is lazy and lazy, wants the life of a teenager, opens his mouth for food, and stretches out his hand for clothes! His limbs are sound and he is not willing to struggle, and he has done nothing all his life, and he has spent a chaotic time.

Summary: Women must see clearly whether you have the ability or not, and the above three types of men cannot be married, especially the final one. Marrying this kind of man will make you poor for a lifetime, work hard for a lifetime, and regret it for a lifetime.

In the relationship, if you marry a Park Shin man, or marry a phoenix man, Ma Bao Nan and these men will not be happy, they may be poor for a lifetime, and they will think that it is the woman's fault.

Men who have no sense of responsibility, no self-motivation, no responsibility, are particularly lazy, and have a bad temper should never marry.

The first type: complaining about his wife, the man who likes to complain the most! The second type: love to lie, and the lies that come out of his mouth are endless. The third type: the self-righteous person. Fourth: The one who hurts women the most is Ma Bao Nan!

When a woman gets married, she should consider whether a man has money or not. Yes, no matter how much love is supreme, without the minimum material foundation, it is still not good after all.

It's just about money, but it's definitely not just about money. Marriages without money, as well as marriages with money, can only be unfortunate.

Dear woman, the following five types of men, no matter how rich he is, you better not marry.

Disrespecting you, or disrespecting your family.

If a man, he usually doesn't know how to respect your ideas, your opinions, or he is only okay, completely disrespects your family, and looks disgusted with them, then this man, even if he has money, you had better not marry him. Because in his heart, your status is not equal, and you will not be happy in such a marriage.

The desire for control is so strong that it can even limit your personal freedom.

Some men, he can't see you at all with other people of the opposite sex, and you have any dealings, even if it's normal communication, it's not at all. He is very controlling, he doesn't let you go out to work at all, doesn't let you have your own space, doesn't let you have any contact with other members of the opposite sex, he just wants to raise you like a canary. Marry this kind of man, of course you won't be happy.

Giving you money doesn't give you love, often fooling around outside at night.

Although many rich men are still very serious about love, there are really many rich men, he will tell you very clearly that he can marry you and give you money to spend, but he will not give up other women around him. He would often not come home at night, leaving you alone. This kind of man, you'd better not marry, you can't stand it if you have money and no love.

Extremely irritable, even violent.

Women, you must understand that marriage is not destined, but a choice, choose a man with a good temper, and choose a man with a bad temper, you live a completely different life. Therefore, when choosing a marriage partner, you must avoid the man who is irritable, often has extreme behavior, and even wants to do something to you, he can't give you a smooth marriage.

There is no bottom line in life and work, and unscrupulous means are used to make money.

Compared with whether a man has money or not, his character and style of doing things are often more important. If a man has his own principles and bottom line in dealing with the world, then you can marry this man with confidence. But if a man is unscrupulous for the sake of profit and is not offline at all, you had better stay away from him, and you can't say when he will sacrifice you.

As a woman, you have no choice but to live with money.

The man who doesn't respect you or your family, controls you in all ways, can't be dedicated to you, has a violent personality, and will do anything for the sake of profit, even if he has money, you'd better not marry.

Marrying such a man, not only will you not be able to live the wealthy life of your dreams, but you will always be depressed and uncomfortable.

Women should not marry men who are slamming, unable to control their temper, and have a discordant family atmosphere. Otherwise, it will be very unhappy in the future.

Selfish men, unmotivated men, particularly lazy men, men without strength, especially cautious men.

Particularly machismo, always self-centered, men without a family education, men who don't know how to be filial to their parents, and men who are particularly selfish.

Married life is not the grave of love, but feelings can choose the fate of a woman's life, or happy or sad. It is precisely like this, there are outstanding people who say: "In this life, you must find someone who understands you", indeed, a right lover is better than all external conditions.

He can fight with you, even though you have nothing now; He can give you warmth, although sometimes you can be unreasonable; He can give you the best love, although the two of them are not quite together. Therefore, when a woman chooses a married life, she must think twice, if she wants to be happy in marriage, she cannot marry these three types of men.

1. Boys who don't want to be motivated, no matter how much you say, they don't want to invest

A boy who doesn't seek to be motivated, no matter how much you say, he won't have any development, maybe he promises you to work hard today, and tomorrow he will be able to quit the job you worked hard to find for him. With him, you have always been like a worried mother, you have to think about everything in advance, but if you think about it, he doesn't want to do it.

He thinks that all his main behaviors are normal, but it is often abnormal for you to be so diligent, and she does not understand your good intentions, but will blame you for holding too much of his rules. In fact, some men do not understand what responsibilities they have, but they do not want to take on this obligation at all, and having a happy event with such a person is not easy to live happily after marriage. On the premise that women meet the right person, they must take a look at whether the man is motivated, and if he wants to be happy in marriage, he can't marry a boy who is so chaotic and unwilling to pay.

2. A man who listens too much to his parents and has been suffocating you

There is still a big difference between being filial to your parents, asking for your parents' advice, and listening to your parents. Men listen too much to their parents, and in the end they can only constantly suffocate you and make you regress again and again. And such a person can hardly give you happiness after marriage, because you are with him, not only with him, but also with his family.

His parents will be involved in many things between you, and once there is a conflict, the first thing he thinks of is to humiliate you, and then ask his parents for advice. Even if this choice hurts you, he won't think about it for you, and can only say to you: "It's not easy for my parents to raise me, they are all older, let you take care of them a little."

Boys can listen to their parents, but they can't use this as an excuse to constantly humiliate women, otherwise, whether you love him or not, I suggest you don't marry him.

3. Too self-righteous, feeling that everything should be taken for granted

It is difficult for a boy who can't give you consideration to give you happiness, even if he says I love you again and again, in daily life, he doesn't care much about you.

Love and marriage are all two people's affairs, and choosing the right lover can make you stable and happy. In fact, feelings and dedication can change a person, but some people can't be changed no matter how much you invest, and he has not been able to give you the happiness you want!

Very lazy men, very selfish men, self-righteous men, men who have no sense of responsibility and responsibility, these kinds of men and women must not marry.

Don't marry a man who has no sense of responsibility, no self-motivation, no responsibility, a very bad temper, and no ability to earn money.

Selfish people, vanity lovers, unmotivated people, lazy people, people who often complain about life.

No self-motivation, no sense of responsibility, particularly poor character, and a particularly big temper, these kinds of men must not marry.

Xie Hongzu in the TV series "The Golden Years" is a mother man whose economic development is not independent, Xie Hongzu is a well-deserved rich second generation, his mother is the boss of the company, and the money in the card is spent casually. But there are requirements for obtaining this kind of privileged life, and his mother hopes that he can marry Zhao Malin, a young lady from a rich family, so that they can join forces.

But Xie Hongzu was unwilling, after seeing Zhu Suosuo, he was deeply attracted by Suosuo's appearance, shopping, buying a house, pleasing his sister Jiang Nansun's grandmother, and using all methods to pursue the perfect Zhu Suosuo, and then finally Zhu Suosuo agreed to marry him, but this marriage was not what Xie's mother expected, so he couldn't get his wish after all.

After that, Xie's mother cut off his life in order to let Xie Hongzu go home**, and slowly Xie Hongzu gradually did not go home, and what was even more excessive was that Zhu Suo broke the amniotic fluid to Xie Hongzu**, but at that time, Xie Hongzu and Zhao Malin were fooling around outside. Even after giving birth to the baby, Zhao Malin had to go to the hospital to humiliate the lock. Men like Xie Hongzu, who are not independent in economic development, are always only subject to their parents and others, and can never have their own choice, nor can they maintain the people they love, just like locks, they are easily oppressed by Xie Mu and Zhao Malin.

Tu Lei said; "A man's economic development is not independent, and his personality traits can never be independent", just like Xie Hongzu can only always be under the wings of Xie's mother, and do things with the permission of Xie's mother, he can't have a certain transcendence, he can't have a satisfactory lover, and he can't do what he wants to do. Marrying a man who is not independent in economic development is equivalent to finding a man with non-independent personality traits, and this kind of man cannot satisfy a woman's happiness, because she will never be responsible for your future.

When watching "The Golden Years", everyone didn't like Zhang Anren, but it felt very realistic, and he always had to think about himself first and take profit as the foundation. Originally, Zhang Anren had a girlfriend Yuan Yuan, but later he went to Shanghai to study and met Jiang Nansun, an authentic lady from a famous family in Shanghai, so he resolutely separated from Yuan Yuan and was with Jiang Nansun. After the Jiang family was poor, the house was gone, and there were many debts, Zhang Anren's mentality gradually changed, and the original marriage became more and more hesitant, and he even didn't want Jiang Nansun's parents to live in your house.

In order to be able to return to school, when it was found that Wang Yongzheng did not follow the rules, but there was no inappropriate behavior, he resolutely exposed it, and finally got a place to return to school. As the old saying goes: "Husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes", which is about the married life composed of people like Zhang Anren, who can only share wealth and prosperity, not weal and woe.

When the Jiang family was still strong, Zhang Anren was ready to get married, but then he was down, and there was no follow-up, giving up the person he loved, love is not so important to him, value maximization is the most important thing, everything is worth it or not, everything will be measured by use value. If a woman marries a man who only looks at interests, then this marriage will not last long after all, because of the many hardships in life, it is difficult for you to guarantee that everything will go well in this life, and it is difficult for you to guarantee that the next person he meets will bring him greater rights than you.